Food This Week – 4 to 10 October 2014

I don’t think there is ever a week when I keep exactly to a menu plan and last week was no different. There was no brisket, there were no black bean burgers. There was lots more soup that originally planned. Why? Poor planning, I didn’t shop on Saturday and a day (Tuesday) destroyed by a migraine.

Saturday

BreakfastSmoothie

Lunch – no plan. I’ll be at a pub for the afternoon for Max and Danielle’s farewell to London party.

Dinner – I have no idea, I’m at Christelle and Mike’s for dinner, so whatever they feed me!

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Sunday

Breakfast -I’ll still be at Christelle and Mike’s, so probably coffee and bread and jam!

Lunch – no plan.

Dinner – Taco Chilli from Back to Her Roots because it sounds (and looks) good although I have to be true to myself and will make it with something other than kidney beans. I’m not fond of kidney beans..

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Monday

Breakfast – Egg cups. I haven’t had these for a while and they are a perfect take into work breakfast. I’ve done away with the cheese though. I eat them with some vegatables (carrots, peppers, celery)

Lunch – Leftovers from Sunday dinner

Dinner – Lentil Bolognese, with rice and vegetables.

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Tuesday

Breakfast – Egg cups

Lunch – Leftovers from Monday night

Dinner Quinoa hash or something like it

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Wednesday

Breakfast – Egg cups

Lunch – No plan. I have a half day on Wed to go and see the first of the James plays. James I: The Key Will Keep the Lock

Dinner – Farro

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Thursday

BreakfastEgg cups

Lunch – Leftovers from Wednesday

Dinner – No plan.

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Friday

Breakfast – Pain au Raisin. It’s why Fridays were invented

Lunch – Make it up from leftovers or one of my trusty standbys of soup or hummus and vegetables.

Dinner – FNP?. Ma and I are doing 2 hours at Sipsmith 100 Martini, so we may eat somewhere, who knows

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Snacks

  • Dried Mango 
  • Yogurt
  • Fruit
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Friday Links

1) This is just fascinating from the point of view of how to motivate your staff. Precation perks

2) This is just around the corner from me. Ealing has been covered in yellow ribbons and Ma and I were talking this weekend about how not knowing what happened to her would be the ‘worst worse’ option but knowing is also really awful.

3) Rio Ferdinand. I’ve never rated him as a footballer and I think he’s a muppet but to attack Kick It Out and to lie about it. Really Rio, less time feeling aggrieved and more time trying to stop QPR going down this season would be good.

4) On becoming a post Londoner. Funny but sad too!

5) Climate change is happening people, and it’s possible that the greenhouse effect is caused by something other than humans profligate use of fossil fuels but that isn’t really the point, the planet will be here until the sun supernovas but if this carries on mammals probably won’t be. More pictures of the walruses.

6) Rise of the super dairies. I don’t know enough about farming or cows to comment on indoor diaries but it seems to me that the cost of food is the issue and most people drink milk. If other costs, housing for example, weren’t so high maybe we could afford higher priced food…

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What I’ve Read – August and September 2014

August and September were the month of things that were easy to read.  Nothing that required too much brain space, nothing that I couldn’t put down.

Catching Jordan – Miranda Kenneally

I read this with H, it was a quick read. I liked that Jordan worked out what and who was best for herself, I liked that she played football (even though what Americans call football, isn’t).

Isla and the Happily Ever After – Stephanie Perkins

Last of the three books that started with Anna and the French Kiss. Again I read this with H. H was in Paris at the time and we are talking about whether H and L would like to do their post 16 education in Paris so it kicked off that discussion. My issue with these books is the idea that you find someone when you are 17/18 and that’s it. Look, I know that some people do and I’m pretty much assuming that Stephanie Perkins did but H and I ended up having a really long conversation about how sometimes books give us unrealistic expectations of how relationships work and there’s nothing wrong with not finding your soulmate when you’re still in school. Both H and I picked up on the fact that being in a country where the Olympics are is not as exciting as maybe it’s made out to be, I did suggest that maybe being in the country would be fun if you weren’t in the city! H pointed out that in her experience Parisians are never too excited about anything that isn’t right in front of them. All of that said, they are a lovely escapist set of books and I do love them.

Attachments – Rainbow Rowell

I didn’t love Eleanor and Park, but I did love Fangirl. I liked this a lot. I liked that Lincoln found his way by himself and then got the girl.

A Brief History of Montmaray – Michelle Cooper

I really enjoyed this and really annoyed Ma by reading bits of it to her while we were on holiday. I liked that it felt like it was written in the ’30’s but also managed to explain what was going on without info dumping. It’s subtle but you can see Sophie’s understanding of what’s happening around her growing and you can see her growing up. Good stuff.

Days of Blood and Starlight – Laini Taylor

Dreams of Gods and Monsters – Laini Taylor

I read Daughter of Smoke and Bone earlier in the year and it’s not what I expected at all but I did enjoy it and I finally got around to reading the next two. and enjoyed them more. I liked that the ‘magic’ in the books got really used and that it wasn’t a perfect ending. The the epic romance was epic but also quite normal in that all they got to do was be together, the whole universe is not perfect but it’s hopeful. She’s sort of left it open for a sequel but I also hope she never writes it because I like the idea that we’ve left all of them with work to do and adventures to have.

The Year We Fell Down – Sarina Bowen

Smart Bitches recommendation, I’m still not entirely sure now I feel about ‘New Adult’ novels, they all seem a bit OTT. Lets pile on the issues and add sex and wish fulfilment. This could so have gone that way but just skated the edge, again I always like it when a character learns to have a life instead of pining and gets a life and the boy! I also thought that the pining and the hook up in book was pretty realistic for 19/20 year olds. I didn’t make the ‘good book’ noise but I was close and I liked it enough to go right to the next one.

The Year We Hid Away – Sarina Bowen

This is more drama driven with both characters having major hassles to deal with, I enjoyed it enough to blow through it in a day!

Magisterium: The Iron Trial – Holly Black and Cassandra Clare

This has been compared to Harry Potter and I can sort of see why. Kid goes to a magical school, there was a big war his parent told him nothing about this world but there is some kind of secret about him, he gets paired with two other kids a boy and a girl. However, it’s not Harry Potter, it feels more serious and it feels like there is less going on.  I enjoyed it but I don’t know if I’ll pick up the next one.

Unmade – Sarah Rees Brennan

Gave me all the feelings. Gave H all the feelings, so many feelings that she called me at 7am on a Saturday morning.

 I loved it, I’m both happy and sad it ended and I love that in Sarah’s world characters are diverse without it being more of an issue than it needs to be and also that parents can be human and made mistakes without all of them being absent and awful.

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October

I can’t believe we’re into October already and there’s only 3 months left of this year.  It’s unseasonably warm around these parts, today on the 1st October, I’m wearing a summer dress and flip flops.

This morning while waiting at the opticians, I did a quick review of what is happening this month, what needs to happen this month,  what’s happening at work this month and what I’d like to do this month.

What’s happening

Social

  • Max and Danielle are leaving the UK and going back to the US. They’re having a party this weekend.
  • I’m off to Christelle and Mike’s for dinner at the beginning of the month
  • Ben has a birthday this month so we’re all going out for family lunch mid month

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Culture

  • Ma and I are going to see the James plays at the National Theatre. We’re not going to see them all on the same day but we are seeing them over two weeks. So that’s a chunk of October at the theatre and probably because I know so little about Scottish history, I know that there were lots of James, that Mary Stuart was an airhead and had her head chopped off by Elizabeth I and that James I is their James VI, I didn’t think much of him either!
  • Ma and I are going to see Old Crow Medicine Show at the end of the month. I’ve been excited about this since I booked the tickets
  • October is also London Cocktail Week.  I’m not doing much for it but Ma and I are going to the Sipsmith 100 Martini at Kettners. So that’s fun!

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What needs to happen

Not a lot actually has to happen this month. At work, my boss is off for most of the month so I’ll be training our new starter and working on prep for the new year and the new process for meetings. I’ve booked the  department Christmas lunch and there are no major projects this month and nothing major to deliver. It’s more business as useI need to think about birthdays in November and December and who gets what presents (and maybe start to think about Christmas – although we know where we’re going so that’s one easy thing!) but that doesn’t require a lot of action

  • I need an eye test (actually I did that this morning so one down!)
  • Get the winter clothes out of storage and sort out a ‘what I need plan’. I know that I need to buy some new shoes and work clothes. (2014 has been the year that most of my clothes turned to rags and I had a purge of shoes I didn’t wear any more which doesn’t change my shoe situation at all, it just emphasises that I have no decent ‘inbetween’ shoes, I have flip flops and boots!)
  • Helping Ma with getting rid of her old clothes. Ma is moving in November and since she retired has a ton of work clothes (good work clothes in really good condition that she wants to sell). I need to take some photos of them and it would be really good if we could get that all done before she has to move so we don’t have to move them. Also if you are a petite size 10-12 and have a thing for Hobbs dresses, let me know!
  • Get the packing boxes over to Ma’s house
  • Get the warm duvet to the laundry before I need to start using it again
  • Wash rugs in bedroom and living room
  • Autumn clean (exactly the same as a spring clean, just a different time of year)

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Things I’d like to do

In October, I would like to do the following stuff

  • Yoga every day
  • 30 minute outside walk every day
  • Make mincemeat for mince pies
  • Decant cherry brandy into bottles
  • Sort out presents for Christelle’s birthday, she’s 40 this year, it needs thinking about!
  • Also on the birthday plan, Oli is going to be 5 in November, so I need to think about cakes and books (children always get books!)
  • Christmas CD’s. We have an approved playlist, we need to get them burnt and ready to go. Last year between me, H and L we sent out/gave away over 40 CD’s. I’m going to set the brats to doing it this year and if we can get it done by the end of this month it’s one less thing to be rushing about doing in time for international post.
  • I’d also like to think about stuff for this year’s handmade Christmas presents.

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It’s not a lot but I’m also going to be dealing with darker days so my energy and enthusiasm levels are likely to be low so I think this is plenty to be getting on with.

What are you guys doing/planning in October?

 

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Last week

Well last week was a surprisingly social week. I generally don’t plan social events for school nights but it turned out that this week was all about catching up with some of my oldest friends. I met Christelle and Mike for an after work coffee and catch up on Monday, went to dinner with Sarah on Tuesday and had lunch with Jo on Wednesday. These three women are the friends that I’ve had longest and trust most. However, with Jo being in Africa for the last couple of years, Sarah qualifying as a therapist and Christelle and I being completely unable to organise our diaries, it’s been a while since I’ve seen any of them. The nice thing is that we’ve known each other so long, we just slip back into the groove of our relationships like it’s not been months since we’ve seen each other. Our circumstances change but our friendship doesn’t.

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Friday was a morning in the office and then team building in the afternoon. Team building was lunch followed by an increasing bizzare ‘treasure hunt’.

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The weekend was quiet. After my rude awakening at 7am

I did very little…

Ma came over for dinner Saturday evening and on Sunday was another very quite day involving lounging around and knitting. Although I did have a nice long chat with my brother.

And we’re back to Monday and work. Man, that comes around quickly.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Sunday Music

In four weeks time, Ma and I will be seeing OCMS live and Ma is threatening pain if they don’t play this.

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Food This Week – 27 September to 4 October 2014

Last week did not really go according to my menu plan at all. I didn’t eat dinner on Saturday and I ended up in Pizza Express with Ma on Sunday afternoon I didn’t have any dinner on Sunday night. Tuesday, I went out for dinner, and was out for lunch on Wednesday. All this really means is that I have lots of vegetables to eat this week.

Saturday

Breakfast – Poached eggs on toast

Lunch – no plan. At the weekends I often don’t eat lunch.  Breakfast happens later (around 10am and then I just don’t get around to it.

Dinner – Brisket, mash some form of vegetable. As I’ve said many times, there’s nothing wrong with routine in cooking but I do try to cook new things and plan one really ‘meaty’ meal during the week. This hits both and as Ma is coming round on Saturday, this is a good ‘autumn is here’ company meal.

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Sunday

Breakfast – Ma is staying on Saturday night so breakfast at Papillon – hello coffee and pain au raisin.

Lunch – no plan.

Dinner – Pasta something. Pasta is often my default Sunday night meal. Easy and simple.

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Monday

Breakfast – Breakfast pot.

Lunch – Work lunch to welcome our new member of staff and plan for my bosses leave to have his knee operated on!

Dinner – Roasted vegetables with lentils and flatbread

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Tuesday

Breakfast – Breakfast pot.

Lunch – Roasted vegetables with lentils and flatbread, leftovers from Monday

Dinner – Black bean burgers with vegetables. I probably will serve them naked instead of in a bun depending on whether I get around to baking bread this week.

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Wednesday

Breakfast – Breakfast pot.

Lunch – Lentil Soup probably with some added vegetables

Dinner – Dahl, flatbread and vegetables.

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Thursday

Breakfast – Breakfast pot.

Lunch – Black bean burger with added raw vegetables to snack on.

Dinner – No plan. By this point in the week, there are generally leftovers and veg in the fridge so I just make something up. If there aren’t leftovers, then there will be something in the freezer or I’ll make some soup.

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Friday

Breakfast – Pain au Raisin. It’s why Fridays were invented

Lunch – Lentil Soup probably with some added vegetables

Dinner – Friday Night Pizza. Every Friday I’m home because tradition is good!

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Snacks

I don’t really snack at home but I do at work, so in addition to breakfast and lunch this is what I’m packing in my lunch bag.

  • Yogurt and pear honey
  • Apple custard pot – When making custard (from a packet – don’t judge me!) instead of sugar I add a apple puree to it trust me, it works
  • Dried mango – I have to portion this out into 35g bags, because I could happily eat all the dried mango all the time!
  • Carrots, peppers and a small pot of hummus

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s been a week and I’m always glad to get to the end of it!  Here’s some reading for the weekend…

1) What Europe would look like if all the places that wanted to be independent were.

2) Constitutional reform and what we need to avoid.

Instead, we are back to top-down control. This is not about doing things differently but about Westminster designing change to head off at the pass something deeper and more democratic. In the bars at party conferences they will be asking themselves: how can we control this and get the outcome we want?

I chaired Charter 88 and the Power inquiry into the workings of democracy. Each process was a response to public loss of trust in our political system. The refrain from people all round the country was the same: we aren’t listened to. The problems will not go away until we address our democratic deficit.

3) The new housing crisis is apparently the Employed with No Disposable Income or Savings. That’s me!

4) Why aren’t the middle classes staging a revolution? Not something I ever expected to read in the Torygraph…

If there’s a buck to made jacking up your mortgage, or asset-stripping the company you work for, privatising some local service you rely on or selling a publicly-owned amenity you enjoy, they won’t think twice. In fact, they won’t even think once. If they could figure out a way to sell your body from under you, they would. Then they’d get some business school shill to write an op-ed in the Wall Street Journal about how this was inevitable – and how, really, you should be grateful

5) The Catholic Church and infertility. It’s seems to me that if abortion is murder then it follows that IVF is at the very least a grey area and the Church’s logic seems about right. Although I am pro-choice, I’m anti IVF, it seems to me that if you can’t have children naturally then maybe it’s best not to, because God has a different plan for you. However, it’s hard to accept when society judges women so harshly for being childless. Somehow we are viewed as less, as not complete women and it’s terrible that the Church perpetuates those views and chooses not to walk with people who are suffering or have made different choices. The Church needs to love a bit more and condemn a little less.

6) The 25 Stages of Drinking. It’s been a while since I’ve done this, but I remember it well and usually it involved a night bus but it hasn’t been on a school night since I was in my 20’s…

 

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Damson Syrup

After I made up the damson gin last week, I had about 300g of damsons left and I needed something to do with them.

It’s difficult to talk about alcohol intake without sounding like I have a problem, I don’t but my dad had issues with drinking and so I’m extra alert about making sure I have a handle on my drinking and after my holiday, where we did drink every day, I’m trying to cut way down on alcohol, which means I’m back to imposing the rule of twos (no more than 2 days in a row, no more than 2 drinks).

I have noticed that a glass of wine or a gin and tonic when I get home, marks the transition from work mode to home quite nicely and because I drink a lot of water and herbal tea at work, the difference in taste is important. I don’t want to start a diet coke habit so I really need to find a decent non alcoholic alternative to help that change. I was going to make some bissap but decided instead to use those damsons for a syrup. Which with fizzy water makes the perfect non alcoholic ‘transition drink’

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The recipe is from the Telegraph.

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What I Did Last Week

Last week was really back to reality and work time. I like my job just find but I’m not sure I’ll ever really truly love anything that I have to do and I’m not into the idea of do what you love. Honestly, no one is going to pay me to do what I love and I’m ok with that, if I had to do it, I probably wouldn’t love it. I know that we are supposed to find fulfilment in a career but I do it for the money, if I didn’t need the money, I wouldn’t work much at all!

So I went to work. I also went to the physio to torture my back into not hurting. It doesn’t hurt now but in my experience it has to hurt a little bit more before it stops hurting again. I may have shouted, just a little bit*, as he got the muscles in my legs and bum to release. In order to build on the good work of the physio there has been quite a bit of yoga this week.

I made Damson gin and syrup from the damsons that we brought back from Northumberland and I am not making any more infusions, because 4 is totally enough for one year.

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On Friday, Scotland decided to stay in the Union and more importantly to my mental health, it was the return of the Friday pain au raisin and the beginning of the end when I realised that I couldn’t finish my sushi at lunch (seriously, I don’t know who I am anymore!)

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There was also some culture in the form of theatre, Great Britain, which was hilarious, Ma and I have been quoting it all weekend. Also my new favourite sign in a bathroom

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and cinema, we saw Pride, which I really enjoyed, on Sunday afternoon and then went for pizza.

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There was a birthday cake for a small child (and I’m thinking about a business card that says “Baker of the Baxter Birthday Cakes”) and I didn’t get a photo of complete cake but it was carrot cake and I’m getting better at frosting!

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There was also the usual housework, shopping and general living. It was a good week.

*physio hears me shouting “ow, fucking. ow” quite a bit.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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