Life Happened: Full of Cold (again)

As noted last week, I have no immune system to speak of and I caught another bug, as you can imagine that made me really happy, especially as it was the only week where I really need to be at work for the monthly meeting I’m semi-responsible for.

But there was good news, on Monday morning, Ryan and Claire’s baby arrived, welcome to the world little Noah and I’ll meet you just as soon as I don’t have any nasty germs you could catch..

On Tuesday, I couldn’t pretend that I was getting better and I took the day off, I had to be at work on Wed and Thursday and was hoping that I could rest up enough to get better for the rest of the week. Which sort of worked. I was in on Wednesday and Thursday and I worked from home on Friday but I was still sick and starting to get whiny about it. How much rest is too much rest? Who knows?

I did need to achieve something though and on Friday, it was that I cleaned the oven. That was great but left me too tired even to cook pizza! On Saturday, I managed a load of laundry, to change the bed and do some food shopping and admire the blue sky.img_4046That left me ready for bed and I bailed on Adam’s birthday party, which I was looking forward too but I was in bed at about 9pm and asleep shortly after.

Which meant that I was awake about 5am and still full of snot. So I went to the cinema at 10am on a Sunday morning, it was quite empty.img_4049The film was Eye in the Sky and it was very good, if quite harrowing. Then home, food prep, bed.

I’m still full of mucus, not all that happy and tired but it’s a four day week and then Amble…

 

se days..

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Sunday Music: Go to Get You off of my Mind

Sunday Music has been a little bit quiet recently, but I heard this on the radio yesterday night and I need to play it lots…

  

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! I’m working from home today, because I’m still full of germs and I just don’t have a conversation in me but became aware I’m tired when I engage in convesation I’m like a manic five year old before bedtime. Anyway, here are this week’s links….

Motivational advice. Unless it’s drinking gin, sleeping or reading a book, I apply this to everything that I don’t want to do!

Off-shore companies explained via piggy banks. Now explain tax and why it’s important to all civilised nations.

Francis has style but no substance. The Pope is the definition of overhyped…

One man’s trash. I have no idea why, but I found those photos compelling…

The Real Whittingdale Scandal. This is the article that prompted John Whittingdale’s admission that he dated a prostitute that he met on a dating site.

I didn’t see working class identity in books when I was growing up. I was sort of with her until I got to this:

The community spirit and tight-knit ethos that meant every door open and the smell of coal fires burning and the laughter and the tears and the music, there was always music! We didn’t have money for entertainment but we had imagination, a huge band of kids we did everything together every day was a forest or farm adventure because we pushed ourselves to invent and make do with what we had. We lived for the moment

This is a fantasy of working class life, so I’m trying hard to remember that the general point is good but the example is rubbish.

This is Victorian. Full time workers having benefit docked under new rules. Also having ‘experienced’ the professionalism of job centre employees, most of them couldn’t mentor anyone out of a paper bag, let alone into a new job..

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My immune system is basically worthless

I have another cold. I thought I was doing fine, I would work through it, sleep, take the drugs, and it’d be over in a couple of days. You know what that was folks? Hubris.

I spent yesterday in bed, throat swollen and feeling miserable.IMG_2807I have to be at work today and tomorrow so I am but it’s not fun and I’m fed up.

 

 

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Food and Budget Update: 02/04 to 08/04/2016

This was a pretty normal week, except that I had Monday off and came down with a cold mid week, it’s been going around the office, so not unexpected

SHOPPING 

This is what I bought. It was a grand total of £13.84

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COOKING AND EATING

I didn’t eat at home this week until Sunday and then only a bit because I was feeling very lazy. Breakfasts were a combination of toast and eggs, breakfast wraps and pineapple and yoghurt.

Lunches were shallot tart and salad

I skipped dinner on Monday because it was too late when I got back from Ryan and Claire’s.

On Tuesday, I cooked an aubergine with onions, mushrooms, celery and capers and added an egg.

On Wednesday, I roasted chicken thighs and frozen broccoli in a smoked paprika and garlic marinade. This hit the magic low faff, high reward cooking spot and resulted in minimum washing up, the magic unicorn of my cooking life.

On Thursday, I did the aubergine thing that I did on Tuesday and ate it with tortillas – I was tired and this was easy.

 Friday is normally pizza night but I was tired and full of cold so I had cheese on toast with veg, sort of pizza

 LESSONS LEARNED

I didn’t really get my act together for breakfasts this week, which was frustrating in some ways but useful in others. Having to give some brain space to the what am I going to have for breakfast every night was annoying but it also taught me to think outside of the box a bit, on Tuesday morning I had a slice of bread and a boiled egg with celery and carrots and I enjoyed it! I also used up the pineapple and yoghurt that hadn’t been used up and cut down on potential waste.

Things I really need to get a grip on are snacks, I get snacky mid morning and afternoon and it can lead to bad choices so I need to plan for that.

 

 

 

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Life Happened: Sniffly..

The joy of waking up on a Monday morning when I don’t have to go to work never gets old. Especially as I had plans. I met Kathy for coffee and catching up. Made bread, went to the library and took the very pregnant, very bored Clare bread and marmalade. All Mondays should be like this!

Then it was Tuesday and back to work and the work week passed as usual but with slightly more work than normal thanks to the 4 day week and it being the busy part of the month. Half way through the week, I caught something cold like, it wasn’t bad, I just felt tired and got the usual sore throat, under chin rash and bunged up nose. Everyone at work has had some kind of cold/flu something over the past couple of weeks so it’s not that much of a surprise, it’s just really bloody annoying.

By Friday, I was ready for the weekend and some rest.

Saturday morning was spent at Kathy and Adam’s, watching the boy so Adam could do some DIY. We had fun with bubbles. Then I walked into Ealing, took some books back to the library and after the food shop, went home and cooked an amazing (even if I do say so myself) dinner!  Saturday night is when the cold really took hold and by Sunday I was feeling pretty miserable and lethargic. I walked Ma to the station, bought some cold medicine and sorted out food prep for next week and went to bed early.

This week is a busy work week and I’m not feeling my shiny best but in two weeks time I’ll be on holiday and my brother sent me this photo to cheer me up…img_4032Aren’t they cute?

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Little Goals – April 2016

April has lots of good things in it. At the end of the month, I’m going on holiday, we’re going up to Northumberland again and I get to visit castles and go to Barter books, we will almost certainly go into Newcastle for the day and I’m really looking forward to it. Assuming that April goes as planned, I’ll only work for 13 of its 21 days, which isn’t too terrible at all! Also due in April, Ryan and Claire’s baby, it’s weird but I’m really looking forward to meeting the little chap and seeing Sarah as a Grandma (I’m sure she’ll take to it!!)20140914-204723-74843564.jpg

In addition to keeping on top of my 2016 goals and I really need to try and focus ’cause as I said last week, I feel that danger is that I’m getting cocky! I want to do the following:

FINANCE

Have one week this month were I only spend £5 on groceries. This will probably be the week before I go away. The last couple of weeks, it feels like I have masses of food in the house and it’s good practice for me to think about using what I have before I shop for the things I always eat!OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

HOME

Focus on de-cluttering. Because Ma will have the car at the end of the month, there is a trip to dump planned! But it’s not just rubbish, I need to look, really look at what I have and whether I use it (it may finally be time to get rid of the pasta maker!)

Deep clean. It’s that time anyway but I’d like to do this before I go on holiday so I come back to a clean house and don’t any chores other than unpacking.IMG_3150

BODY AND MIND

Three times a week walk from the station to the office. I confess, I’ve stalled a bit on the walking because I am really scared of pushing it with my foot but the better weather should be just around the corner, although with England ‘better’ is subjective, and three times a week feels doable.

Get to bed before 10pm on schoolnights. This just needs a re-focus to make sure that I’m getting my z’sIMG_2825

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! As ever I’m happy to get to the end of the work week and ready for the weekend. Only two more weeks and I’ll be on holiday…

This week’s links..

The resurrection isn’t an argument, it’s the Christian word for defiance. This…

My friend Jonny wrote some thoughts about the Panama Papers leak. 

I asked one of the men protesting outside Marie Stopes last week, how he was helping women with his protest. I pointed out that there are children without parents, children living in poverty, children who are the victims of abuse and neglect and asked him to help them and then come and talk to women having abortions about the possibility of not having them. He didn’t get it.

I understand people may think abortion is wrong but standing outside a clinic isn’t helping, it’s trying to shame people for their choices when you don’t understand their circumstances. All protesters do is make the choice harder. In this I speak from personal experience, so when I think about the situation in Northern Ireland, I’m angry, women in the UK should all have the same rights over their bodies and the same choices about whether they wish to continue with a pregnancy.

The problem for poor, white children is that a part of their story has been killed. Preach…

I really hate to link to the Daily Mail but that this appeared in the Daily Mail is something huge. Privatisation! Free Trade! Shares for all! The great con that ruined Britain

Becoming Amish

A Grand Sophy film. Fantasy casting begins now…

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Shallot Tart

Ages ago I used to make an onion tart. It was a pretty good tart, simple to make (because I don’t do faff) and tasty. Where I got the recipe, I have no idea but I did write it down and I used it a lot in my early 20’s. Somewhere along the line, I stopped making that tart, I didn’t forget about it, I just didn’t cook it, there were other things to cook and this didn’t get to the top of the ‘must cook’ list.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

This weekend, I found myself with some cream and shallots that needed using up (and unlike last time I made a tart no leftover smoked salmon or potatoes) and I remembered that tart and thought it would be perfect for my lunches this week. img_4007

I made some pastry (take 8oz flour, 4oz butter and pinch of salt, I blend in the processor and add water as needed until it comes together) and lined an 8 inch tart pan with it and baked it blind. The recipe specifies 12oz of shallots, which once I’ll skinned them is what I had. I cooked them in 2oz of butter until they were soft and left them to cool. I added 5fl oz of cream, 2oz of flour, three eggs and lots of salt and pepper and beat them together, then I added the cooked onions and poured the mixture into the pastry case. I baked all of that at 180C for about 20 to 25 minutes until the mixture was set and golden brown.

 

 

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What I’ve Read – March 2016

Leviathan Wakes – James S. A. Corey (library book)

I surprised myself with how much I enjoyed it. The world building is great and it’s not hard sci-fi so not too technical, I found myself feeling sorry for Miller and hoping that he’d have a better ending but it wasn’t to be. I’ve already ordered the next one from the library, I have a feeling that this could be a Game of Thrones problem there are 9 books planned and 5 I think published so I’ll be hanging around waiting the next book to find out what is going to happen.

Rivers of London – Ben Aaronovitch (library book)

This was recommended to me at Christmas by Fred. He was right this was right up my alley. Funny, does London well and I ordered the next one from the library as soon as I finished it!

A review of a later book in this series noted Aaronovitch has a “tendency to support the narrator’s male gaze” and that exactly sums up the thing that made me uncomfortable in places. Grant shares a bed with a female colleague in a non sexual way and has an erection which she is ‘kind enough not to mention’ (no just no, most women of that age that I know, particularly a bright policewoman would say something!) and there are other descriptions of women that make me uncomfortable and didn’t ring true to the age that Grant is supposed to be, it’s like Aaronovitch is writing about someone his age (late 40’s, early 50’s) with the attitudes towards women that go with it and applying them to a 20 something. I noticed and I wasn’t keen. That aside, I really liked the book and it made me laugh and I annoyed people by quoting bits of it to them…

The Quarry – Iain Banks (library book)

Iain Banks last book and I really wanted to like it. I didn’t much. I liked Kit well enough but I have no tolerance for the kind of fuckwittery practiced by the other characters. Behaviour that is acceptable in twentysomethings is not acceptable in fortysomethings. I just wanted them to grow the hell up and think about Kit. The whole bunch of them were charmless, selfish idiots with no redeeming features, I know that people aren’t perfect and that they fuck up but I need to see contrition, an understanding of how your actions impact on others and I just didn’t. I deliberately don’t have people that selfish and thoughtless in my life so it’s not nice to find them in my fiction..

Moon over Soho – Ben Aaronovitch (library book)

Still good, still have the same ‘male gaze’ issues but the story is moving along nicely, I have my doubts about Lesley and I just want that down now before I read the next ones. Which are on order at the library…

Whispers Underground – Ben Aaronvitch (library book)

I really liked this. We’re finding out more about the world. It has lots of London and its history in it which is always going to make me happy and I like the addition of Zach and that we still get to see more of the Rivers.

Big Sky Country – Linda Lael Miller (kindle TBR list)

Big Sky Mountain- Linda Lael Miller (kindle TBR list)

Big Sky River – Linda Lael Miller (kindle TBR list)

Big Sky Summer – Linda Lael Miller (kindle TBR list)

Big Sky Wedding – Linda Lael Miller (kindle TBR list)

Big Sky Secrets – Linda Lael Miller (kindle TBR list)

I bought these 6 on sale about 3 years ago (this is why I have yearly limit on book buying, I can’t be trusted!) and they have been on the TBR list ever since because just after I bought them I read a review that wasn’t complimentary. Anyway, I was struggling a bit with finding something I wanted to read and came across these and away I went. I’m going to lump them all in together because I pretty much read them one after another. So the first thing to know is that they are pretty traditional category romance, which means they absolutely have a formula, love starts with dislike (or passion as the author would have it) sex happens once and then not really again until feelings have been declared (while we’re on that the descriptions of sex are hilarious!) and feelings are declared quickly within about 2 weeks and always end with a wedding. But there’s other stuff going on here too, there’s a theme through the books about parenthood with step children and adopted children and half sibling involved and cherished, all of the woman have careers, a couple of them are richer than their eventual husbands. Ok, I did find that everything works out a little bit too easily and there is a lot of money swilling about this fictional small town in Montana but as I didn’t want to think too hard, I could handwave that so I’m giving it a pass and pointing out that in a week were I was struggling because I wasn’t sleeping and work was tough, these were just what the doctor ordered.

Broken Homes – Ben Aaronovitch (library book)

God bless the library reservations system, hello book 4 in the Rivers of London series. I was right, Lesley not to be trusted but at the same time you can absolutely understand why she did it, even if you don’t like it because Peter while trying not to be a completely insensitive ass does mind what happened to her face but not for him but for her because she minds. I like that Peter is bringing all these people to Nightingale and you can see how the relationships are developing through the conversations. There’s still a lot to unpick, I’m waiting for book five from the library and book six is out in June..

 

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