Food and Budget Update: 26/03 to 01/04/2016

This was Easter weekend which budget wise feels a bit wonky.

SHOPPING 

I shopped on Good Friday because that seemed like it might be easier, I had a feeling that on Saturday everyone was going to remember that the shops were closed all day on Easter Sunday and it might get a bit mad. I didn’t have a proper list on my phone because honestly, I hadn’t really planned and anyway I felt like there was too much food in the house. So handwritten list

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I love Lidl and it’s veg offers, this week, new potatoes, shallots and carrots for 25p each which is ridiculously good. Ma and I share the cost of Christmas and Easter lunches so I don’t take them out of my food budget but we did bought a bottle of wine that was recommended in the Guardian, it was £6.49, so later in Sainsburys Ma paid for my eggs and mushrooms (£2.85). So excluding the wine but including the eggs and mushrooms, I spent £10.20 on Friday and later I bought spinach and butter and mini eggs but I can’t find the receipt for those but the total spent this week was £13.84

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COOKING AND EATING

Food this week was all about Easter. On Easter Sunday, I ate my Easter Egg for breakfast (thanks Christelle!). It wasn’t a massive egg but it was just the right size for my needs!IMG_3965-0I am my mother’s daughter so when I say lunch I mean sometime between 2 and 5pm! We started with anchovy and shallot flatbread, followed (about an hour and a half later) by roast lamb (this recipe which we never get bored with) with roast potatoes, leeks and spinach.IMG_3977-0Pudding was mini eggs and jelly bunniesIMG_3976There was also whiskeyIMG_3979On Monday, we had cross h’s for breakfast. (Cross h’s are just hot cross buns but apparently I couldn’t say that when I was little so they are cross h’s or cross h buns.), I ate roast dinner leftovers late Monday afternoon.

Tuesday was another leftover day for lunch and dinner. I was completely wiped out by the time change on Tuesday.

Wednesday also featured leftovers for lunch and dinner was pasta with leftover shallot/anchovy goo and added mushrooms. Thursday lunch was leftover pasta and dinner was the last of the leftover potatoes and vegetables. On Friday night I ate curry at Sarah’s birthday bash.

LESSONS LEARNED

I drank too much. Everyone knows how much I like a drink but I decided after the mother of all hangovers and in light of revised consumption advice, to make sure that I stuck to the guidelines. Over the Easter weekend, I drank more than that and it wasn’t good. However, that’s a lesson about moderation not budgeting. But it’s also a lesson about budgeting, I felt that there was a bit too much food in the house this week and over the next month I’m going to work a bit on underestimating what I need and seeing how I do.

 

 

 

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Life Happened: Three Day Week

The week after a long weekend is never the best but this week kicked me in the head. It’s the clocks going forward, I was fine on Sunday and Monday because I woke up when the sun rose. On Tuesday though I had to get up in the dark, it wasn’t very dark but it was dark enough that I spent most of week feeling jet-lagged. It was pretty pathetic.

Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday passed pretty much without comment. There was work, there was home, there was wanting to cry like a baby because it was 6am and I had to get out of bed. My mantra was ‘it’s three days, just three days’.

On Thursday night I went home happy in the knowledge that I would not have to get up at dark o’clock on Friday morning. On Friday, I got up and did some washing, I took books back to the library and found myself buying 5 flat sheets, 150 nightlights and a barbeque lighter for Sarah, not her present but for her party! Friday night, was party time, although I needed to bail at 11-ish because I was so tired and needed to be up early on Saturday   
Saturday was birthday celebration number twoIMG_3997Ma and I headed to Watford for Laura’s birthday lunch. Lunch was great and I learnt all about how anacondas attack their prey. This was a practical demonstration with Oli as the anaconda and me as the prey. Oli and Joe are both lovely. Joe is cheerful, active baby who looks a lot like his Daddy but unlike Daddy is rarely grumpy, even when he’s tired! Oli is just a delight, he’s so much fun to be around and is sucking up knowledge like a sponge and his reading is brilliant (he read me one of his school books).

However, I was already tired and by the time I got home was just done. I fell asleep at 8pm and slept for 7 hours, the last time I slept that much was when I had the osteotomy!

Sunday was a lazy day, I did the shopping and that was about it.

An easy week!

 

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2016 Goal Recap – March

How are we a quarter of the way through the year already? Time seems to speed up as we get older, certainly I seem to have more grey hairs!

So March. I was pretty low key about March goals, stick to the big ones and set simple and easy goals for the Little Goals. I did pretty well, I feel good about them.

I’m not walking to or from work every day but I did walk into work from the station twice this month, it was harder than I expected. I’m keeping an eye on the money and on track with those goals, if anything though I think I might be feeling a bit cocky about this so I need to slow it down a bit and focus.IMG_3979Overall, there’s not much to talk about I’m grinding it out. One of the interesting things that has happened this year is that I’m consistently early for work. As soon as my reduced hours stopped in January, I’ve been hitting the office at 8am more or less every morning. It started because the earlier trains are emptier and I wanted to be able to grab a seat and then I guess it became a habit and it helped me at work. I have an hour to work on stuff and set myself up for the work day before everyone else comes in. I wouldn’t say that I liked it, we are still talking about being up too early for my liking but the benefits of it to the rest of my day are clear and it’s getting much easier now the mornings are lighter.IMG_3913Thinking about that got me thinking about how 2016 goals are as helping me focus overall, because I don’t think that early mornings would have been easy to make a habit if other goals weren’t also in play. Keeping an eye on money means that I food prep better which makes it easier to get out of the house in morning because I grab breakfast and lunch and go. The same for having a work uniform, it’s just one less decision to make each day.

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! and Happy Birthday to two of my favourite people, Laura and Sarah. I’ll see Sarah today to celebrate her big birthday and Laura tomorrow for family lunch.

Here are this week’s links…

Religion has no place in politics.

This is why faith has no place in politics, and a prime minister has no place to tell us whether our country is or isn’t Christian. It is not because religion is civically irrelevant – it isn’t. Nor is it because politics has some superior rational grounding to religion – it often doesn’t. It is not even because atheists get a distinctly raw deal from such a political culture, even though we do. Rather, it is because, when politicians perceive us by creed or ethnicity, we become a different kind of entity for them. We are no longer their equals, who can think for ourselves but are open to persuasion, whose interests must be represented to the state. We are a congregation who, tickled the right way, will listen to our leader, since he is the state’s representative on Earth.

This on Aung San Suu Kyi and her comments about Mishal Husain in 2013, and about the general issue of the Rohingya in Myanmar was interesting. She was still totally out of order.

I like BrewDog but I can see why some people don’t.

A poorly thought through policy may have horrible impacts. Teachers may have to leave the UK because they don’t earn enough. It’s like they don’t sense test these things before they announce them..

Anorexia and the brain. Interesting and horrifying. There’s been some stuff about it being attention seeking I don’t think that it is but often anxious children seem to be attention seeking especially to older people (hello boomers) who are more robust or insensitive (delete the term you think suits best)

Anyone really believe that the government will really help the Port Talbot steelworks? We bailed out bankers, we should do the same for steel. They could have worked with the EU to do something about the Chinese imports but haven’t…I really don’t hold out much hope..

Why conservatives are talking about struggling white people the way they usually talk about black people. There’s been a lot of talk about Trump and Hitler’s rise to power in Germany, I wonder if this is what it felt like for my grandparents, feeling that things were sliding somewhere wrong. It doesn’t feel like the end of the world but it doesn’t feel safe either.

From a link in the above piece. How Lincoln won the soldier vote. Who knew? I was fascinated by the Lincoln Memorial in DC, it probably provoked the opposite reaction in me than it was intended. I grew up in a country that loves victorious commemorations, so I know a statement when I see it but there’s something about the scale of this one that is obscene. Also, I don’t know enough about the American Civil War but then I’m not sure I know enough about the English Civil War…

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Anchovy and shallot flatbread

I like anchovies. There I’ve said it, I like them on pizza, I like them in tarts, I like the salty slap in the tastebuds they can give you. I come by it honestly, Ma is also fairly obsessed with anchovies and I try to include them in any celebration meal for Ma.

Which is how this flatbread came about because I have dough obsessed nephew, I often start family dinner with some kind of garlic bread (the one time in Oli’s lifetime I didn’t, he asked where the bread was!) because the dough recipe I use makes two, for Mother’s day I decided to get a bit creative and make a flatbread that was heavy on the anchovies and Ma liked it so I made it again this weekend for Easter.

 Like a lot of my cooking, this was done without a recipe and I wasn’t weighing and measuring as I went along so this is really more of a suggestion of how to cook something because the key here is to cook the shallots and anchovies with what feels like too much butter and really let them caramelise down and that takes some time. I’ve never successfully caramelised onions (or shallots) in less than 30 minutes, it’s not hands on time, it’s a gentle heat and a stir every five minutes or so but it does take time, you shouldn’t skip it.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERASo I took a chunk of butter (about 25g), a can of anchovies (30g) in olive oil and a load of sliced shallots (about 15-20 shallots). I put it all in a pan and let them cook gently over a low-ish heat until they were soft and browned and just perfect.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThen I put them on some stretched out pizza dough, added some mozzarella and baked in an extremely hot oven for about 15 to 20 minutes.

I add shallot…I’m not sure what to call it…mush left over and I’m thinking it would be perfect run through some pasta as a quick and dirty dinner.

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Food and Budget Update: 19/03 to 25/03/2016

SHOPPING 

Here are the lists:

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Here are the receipts:

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The eagle eyed amongst you will notice that there are two bags of sweeties (jelly bunnies and mini eggs) in the shopping. I had told Ma I would bring water and snacks to the cinema that day so that’s what I bought

COOKING AND EATING 

Saturday night I had a burger and chips. I wanted a burger and I needed to use up the potatoes or throw them away (which is really becoming a theme!)IMG_3948Sunday was a less successful eating day, I did alright until at about 8:30pm I realised that I’d forgotten to cook dinner, I was reading and involved in my book.

I had a mango yoghurt and granola pot for breakfasts and on Monday, was in a meeting for lunch which was catered.

Tuesday through Thursday, I had leftover dahl and flatbread for lunch.

Dinners were:

Monday was dahl, flatbread and vegetables. (no picture sorry!)

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I was out for dinner on Thursday night

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Life Happened: Easter

Most of last week was pretty normal, work, home, sleep and repeat but it was only a four day week because of Easter and on Thursday I met Christelle for dinner and proving that yet again, she is an all round nice person and friend, she bought me an Easter egg.IMG_3965On Friday and Saturday, I did weekend things and shopping. I did not sleep in.

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The clocks went forward an hour on Saturday and that didn’t really phase me until this morning when I had to get up in the dark! I cannot tell you how much that sucks, I don’t really care about lighter evenings, I struggle with dark mornings though, so I’m feeling slightly discombobulated and tired.

The good news is that I have another long weekend coming up so I only have three work days but I also have the feeling that they are going to be long days!

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! Well it’s Good Friday which is not such a happy day in the Christian calendar but also a Bank Holiday so swings and roundabouts…

Where is Ankara’s ‘Je suis’ moment? You might as well ask where Cote d’Ivoire’s is or after this week, Brussels…

Simon Jenkins on the reaction to the Brussels bombings.

The difference between the Democrat and Republican Parties. Yep..

The power of one: how single women are reshaping the political landscape. Interesting…

Adam Johnson, underage sex and nuance. I’ve been having some conversations about this too and I basically come down to, she is a child in law and I am aware there is nuance when 15 year olds have sex but he he was the adult, in fact if she had been 16, he’d still have been the adult and while it wouldn’t have got him a criminal conviction, I still would have thought it was wrong. I have another question though, where in the name of all that’s holy where her parents while she was obsessively following a 28 year old footballer on social media and arranging to meet him in car parks? Seriously. I got up to a lot of stuff that my parents didn’t know about at 15 but my parents (both of them) were very clear about making sure that I understood consent, safety and why it’s a bad idea to meet men in car parks. H is 15 and she knows that we can find her on social media and that we are aware of what she’s posting, we talk about this stuff. It’s embarrassing for all of us but an uncomfortable conversation is better than a trip to a police station to report rape or sexting or any of the thousands of other things that can happen.

Which leads me straight to this article and this quote from it

I had a very honest conversation with my mum about some of my early sexual experiences, and her response was one of sadness, but not surprise. With only my lousy SRE lessons to help me, I was unable to understand my feelings of discomfort and shame after feeling obliged to have sex. More importantly, I wasn’t equipped with the confidence to say no.

Because you can guess what I’m going to say, can’t you? It was her mother’s job to talk to her about that, it was the job of her parents to equip her with the confidence to say no. Should schools play a role in sex education, yes but I didn’t learn anything about sex in school that my parents hadn’t already discussed with me.

Class war within the Tory Party.

How to parent your adult child. I really need to ask Ma if she’s read this because I’m not sure that I agree with this

We have all met the parent who vocally disapproves of a child’s partner because they are of the wrong sex, class or ethnic background, or the mother or father who has a fixed idea of what success looks like and is disdainful or judgmental of different paths or periods of experimental uncertainty. Almost all parents have struggled with similar feelings, but the important thing is to learn to keep them contained

Parents are allowed to have opinions, especially if they are financially supporting the child in question. I more or less always knew what Ma thought about something I was doing, (still do!) but that didn’t mean that I didn’t do what I wanted to. There needs to be a bit more robustness in parent/child relationships, you don’t always have to agree.

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Quick and Dirty Chocolate Mousse

Last week, I came home from the work to find that someone (godchild 2) had left me a pot of chocolate mousse in the fridge.IMG_3954I had heard a lot about this mousse, it had guinness in it but no egg and was really, really simple. H had found it here and decided after making and then tasting it, that it was good but really didn’t need to me make into a cheesecake or have anything else added to it.

After I ate it and I called her to thank her we had a conversation about it, because that’s what we like to do, we like to talk about our cooking and what would make it better. My feeling was that it could do with more cocoa and we both decided that the guinness didn’t add anything, so maybe it could be replaced by coffee to enhance the chocolate flavour.

It’s not elaborate or fancy but it’s a good desert and if you were the sort of person who had people over to dinner and little time to make a pudding, then the 10 minutes it takes to pull it together and then throw it in the fridge, would be time well spent.IMG_3956

What

200g cream cheese

4 tablespoons of cocoa powder

3/4 cup of sugar

1/2 cup of coffee

1 cup double cream

How

  1. Add cream cheese, sugar, cocoa powder and coffee to a bowl and beat until smooth
  2. Add the cream and beat until mixture forms stiff peaks.
  3. Spoon into cups or glasses, you can eat straight away but it’s better if you put it in the fridge for a couple of hours.
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Food and Budget Update: 12/03 to 18/03/2016

Tuesdays really seem to swing around quickly now I have a dedicated thing to write about each week.

SHOPPING 

Here are the lists.

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I couldn’t find any packs of peppers without green ones in them so ended up buying a bag of small ones from Tesco when I went to the library, I also bought a butternut squash and a jar of cinnamon. This drove me over budget for a total spend this week of £16.30. Yes the £1.30 will be coming out of next week, it’s not good but I stand by all my purchases!

COOKING AND EATING 

I properly meal prepped this week, getting the 2 week old pineapple chopped and in pots for work snacks before it died and had to be thrown away (I hate waste!). I chopped up the butternut squash and roasted it with onions and the courgette and parsnips that were in the fridge and needed using up. I used some carrots that had built up over the last weeks to make carrot cake muffins. (Some for me, some for work and some to take to Claire and Ryan later in the week!). I made parsley and garlic butter too and I baked a loaf of bread (half white/half wholemeal because I’m all about balance!)

Breakfasts were breakfast wraps. They had egg, roasted vegetables, black beans and a little cheese in them, I made 5 and froze the remaining 3 as I’ll use them when I have a three day work week after Easter!IMG_3926

Lunches were these with a chopped salad of peppers, carrots and mushrooms.IMG_3934Dinners were more interesting, I made a lemon and mushroom orzo with a chicken leg that was fabulous but needs some refinement and less lemon zest and which I completely didn’t take a photo of..

I ate mushrooms on toast because I could and I was tired and it’s a fabulous meal. In a concession to health I also roasted the baby carrots and peppers to have with it..IMG_3932I finished off the last of the osteotomy bean stew, that I made back in October and needed to be rescued from the freezer and eaten or thrown away! That with rice and some of the roasted vegetables was a good dinner.IMG_3933

On St Patrick’s Day, I had last cottage pie that I made after Christmas with peas. This was also a freezer meal and had potato in it and thus Irish (ish). I also had a Guinness because while I don’t do ‘paddywhackery’ or we’re all Irish (I’m not I have Irish grandparents) an excuse to drink Guinness should not be missed!IMG_3936IMG_3935

Friday was a return to sausage and spinach pizza.IMG_3940-0

LESSONS LEARNED

A relearned lesson about how useful I find food preparation at the weekend. It’s not just that it helps make my work week more simple. It seems that a full fridge, frees up space in my head so I can be creative. I can more effectively see what I have in the house that needs to be used and it’s easier to be creative about menu planning for the next week.

Making the carrot cake muffins was nice too because it’s been a while and I promised Sarah something for her  birthday, which it coming up.

 

 

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