What I’ve Read – January 2020

I started the year with lots of easy reading. I would recommend, Love Lettering, Evvie Drake Starts Over and A Cheesemonger’s Guide to the British Isles.

His Bride for the Taking – Tessa Dare

I enjoy Tessa Dare, I completely have to handwave the ‘historical’ part of it but they are always fun reads. This was no exception and was a lovely easy way into the New Year

The Friend Zone – Abby Jimenez

I still don’t know what to think about this. I guess I’m always a bit meh about a story that starts with infertility and ends up with a miracle baby. However, the happy ending is about more than a baby, it’s about learning to accept being loved and knowing that you’re worthy of being loved.

The Bride Test – Helen Hoang

I liked the take on the heroine not making or having an issue of the hero’s autism. I liked that neither hero or heroine were white and I enjoyed it and the ending.

Love Lettering – Kate Clayborn

This was a delight. I loved that Meg described how she sees words and that she works things out and learns how to be better at all relationships not just the romance and the weight that the entire story gives to friendships and honesty and staying. I also the description of PMT emotions as….

‘the kind of mood that swings wildly between “ten seconds from murdering someone” and “three seconds from crying because you noticed a layer of dust on your windowsill, you absolute filthy pig“‘

Evvie Drake Starts Over – Linda Holmes

Another book that I adored. It’s about how you manage relationships when you are completely broken and how you still need to have relationships and find yourself when everything seems to suck. I can relate. Another delight. Go and read.

A Cheesemonger’s History of the British Isles – Ned Palmer

Back in October, I linked to the review of this. Jo bought it for me as a Christmas present and it’s such a lovely read, it made me want to eat lots of cheese and taught me things, but it’s not preachy, just really enthusiastic. I really enjoyed this.

Moonlighter – Sarina Bowen

Another Brooklyn Bruisers book, I love how all of this is sort of taking place as other books are happening and it was the perfect end of January book

Heartland – Sarina Bowen

I prefer farmers to hockey players and I liked this one more, it’s amazing how quickly in life and in fiction, problems can be solved if you talk to each other and that goes for more than just the romantic relationships.

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Monday Miscellany: Finally it’s February

Happy Monday!

I’m so glad January is over! Ok, February is still not spring but it’s getting closer and the trees in my street are in blossom!

The last week of January was as to be expected, I spent Tuesday fighting off a migraine and Wednesday with another bout of ‘inexplicable fever except no fever’. I’m not sure what it is but the doctor is going to hate me because I’m going to keep booking appointments until we find out what it is!

On Friday, I went to Sue and Richard’s for dinner and we all agreed that we should do it more often, everyone is at that time of life, were there doesn’t seem to be much time! But it was fun. On Saturday, Ma and I worked on the plot, had a lovely dinner and I introduced her to ‘Sex Education‘ which I love and she thought was pretty funny.

Sunday was for shopping and prep for the week and here we are.

This week, is work, David Copperfield, more work and a much needed haircut!

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Recommendations: Jersey Bedding

I love my bed. I mean really love it and changing the bed linen weekly is one of the housework tasks I do every week pretty much without fail. It’s a family thing I think, Ben and I will both talk about how lovely getting into a clean bed in clean pj’s is and when I’m ill, I’ll change the bed because it makes me feel better. So it shouldn’t come as any surprise to know that one of the New Year’s Eve traditions I have is that I change the bed and my first sleep of the year is in clean bedding.This year I used some of my Christmas money to buy myself new bedding, I was wondering around and came across this jersey duvet cover and pillows and they had jersey sheets and there you go, the most cosy bedding ever invented. I can’t wait for summer, but I will miss this bedding…Bedding especially when you have a king size bed can be really expensive, I rely on Primark and Ikea for most of mine. It’s reasonably cheap, washes well, lasts a while and I usually get out of the shop with a full set of sheet, pillowcases and duvet cover for less than £40!

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Friday Links: Last day of January and EU Membership

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Allotment Adventures: Structure

This week we got the plot. You can tell that people are beginning to think about Spring because there are more people on site, it’s also because the committee did unofficial site inspections before Christmas and spoke to the plot holders who might be in the weeds (literally) come spring. That and new tenancies starting in October mean that there are more people on site, working away.Including us. We started off with re-filling the bird feeders. We have four feeders now, two for fat balls and two for seeds. Then we got around to cutting the blue pipe we have variously inherited and been given. We now have three sets for the square beds and two sets for the longer beds. So that done and put away, we went to our jobs.

There was more wood chip this weekend so I took the opportunity to cover the new gooseberry bed with it (I do this with all my fruit and it really seems to help them) and re-up the path that runs from the shed down the plot because it was looking a bit boggy.Ma got on with the epic task of weeding the new bed that we put together the week before last. I had given it a rough dig then and it’s full of grass and really weedy, that end of the plot is overshadowed by a building on the other side of the road and the soil is clay and holds water more than the other end, with all the rain we’ve been having, the soil is difficult to work so weeding was a tough job. However, experience has taught us (with all due respect to Charles Dowding) that weeding before we cover with compost works better than a layer of cardboard. While we were weeding the robins came to visit to see if there were any worms…Back in October, I bunged a load of bulbs in a patch near the herbs, there were four types and I only remember two of them, giant snowdrops and bearded irises. We’ve pretty much just left it but I wanted to use the bricks we found on the plot to define the bed and we’ll add primroses and primulas and hellebores to it as well as other things. So I did.I’ve bunged the two of the lavender pots in the space for the minute and put the path around it in. We’ve had a re-think about this side of the plot. At the other side of the new path, there is already a rose bush and there are another six roses on the plot, the ones at the back on the other side of the work area are not doing great because they don’t get enough sun. Mike and Nina are also moving plot and have offered me some smaller rose bushes from there old plot to. So we are going to move all the roses and have a mini rose garden next to this flower bed and a mini pond. So all of that side of the plot will be flowers and not vegetable beds! This is my very not to scale plan of the top half of the plot.

I also trimmed the oregano of it’s old flower and started with the trimming of the rosemary because it’s out of hand. In other news, things are beginning to bud and the rhubarb is coming back, just in time because I used the last of my rhubarb this week!We also ordered three new beds which should come next week so once they are up and the roses moved that will be a huge area of plot structure done. We’ll order four more square beds in April and then one more that we’ll make next to the squash bed. Then all we have to do is fill them with compost!

The January work list looked like this, if we got to it, it’s crossed out:

  • Dig over and weed the area the second squash bed is going.
  • Build the second squash bed
  • Cut the blue pipe to the right size
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Use the various collected bricks around the plot to mark out the space where my bulbs are next to the herb bed
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Learn about transplanting roses
  • Order and install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Paint the shed

We’ve done quite a bit and I’m feeling good about it. Next week is installing the new beds and moving roses. That will involve some epic weeding. So if that’s all we get done, I’ll be happy with it but if I get time I’d like to split the autumn raspberries and move the boysenberry.

We have a lot to do in February so here’s another list:

  • Install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Transplant the roses
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Set up the cloche
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Sow leeks
  • Buy seed potatoes
  • Paint the shedSplit and trim the verbena bonariensis and move the stuff next to the rhubarb
  • Trim the rosemary and sage
  • Sow the first batch of peas
  • Weed everything!
  • Buy compost and start filling some beds
  • Turn the compost bins

 

 

 

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One thing a month

I didn’t make any resolutions this year, I’m sort of at the stage where I know what’s working, I know what doesn’t and all change last year was incremental.

Two things that I want to do are:

  • reducing the stuff I own, I feel that there are things I’m hanging onto that I don’t need or use and those things can be better used by someone else. I also want to be more aware of what I bring into the flat and on to the allotment and have more sustainable and bio degradable options.  So less cling film and one use items at home, more work on composting on the allotment and I’d eventually like to get to the stage with the plot where we buy one load of compost and have it delivered, instead of hundreds of bags.
  • small improvements to the flat, there are things I never got around to doing that need sorting.

None of this will happen overnight, because sustainable/reusable options are expensive, so this year I’m going to commit to doing/buying at least one thing a month that will improve my life in my home.

This month is was beeswax wraps to replace clingfilm, last month cotton wool pads replacements that are reusuable. At some point it’ll be curtains in the bedroom and sorting out the shelving in the cupboard of doom to make it more user friendly. No major works or purchases, just little changes that make my life a bit better and/or less wasteful.

 

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Monday Miscellany: Stick a fork in me, I’m done

Happy Monday!People I’m done with winter. I seem to always hit this spot after Christmas, the days ARE slowly getting lighter but, and this is the kicker, it’s actually darker in the morning for a bit and while I don’t like the darker days in general, I really hate dark mornings. It generally manifests as a complete inability to get the hell up in the morning which I know right now is not helped by PMT. Several times this week, I have had to remind myself and have my mother remind me that I do actually love my job. It was that kind of week.In other news, we went to see 1917, which was good, beautifully filmed. Some of it didn’t quite work but overall it was difficult to watch and sad but worth the time.

Ma and I finally got to have the much delayed Christmas dinner we had planned to have in December, which was fun and I have not lost my touch in Yorkshire pudding making!Plans for this week are all about work and sleep and being much less grumpy! I’m out to dinner next Friday but other than that it’s all much as usual for January!

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Recommendation: Shay and Blue Black Tulip Eau de Toilette

This scent was in my M&S Advent Beauty Calendar in 2018 and much to my surprise (I’m generally a Chanel No.5 or a 4711 girl) I really liked it, enough to buy another bottle when the sample ran out and then another.

I’m pretty rubbish at describing things beyond, I really like this but this has a depth to it, that I enjoy and although it settles, it does last as a scent through the day.

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Friday Links: SAD is kicking in

Happy Friday! I’ve really struggled this week, it’s still dark in the mornings and my brain seems to have it’s limit! Here are this week’s links

Ignorance about menopause is destroying lives – and it’s not only women who suffer

There’s a reason why the royals are demonised. But you won’t read all about it

Try a novella and ditch your snobbery: five ways to read more books. I would add another, don’t get hung up on how much you read. A slump is a thing just don’t worry about it, once you are hung up on having to read a certain amount of books you destroy your own pleasure and then it’s harder just to enjoy reading.

How to make the most of a glut of rhubarb. I don’t force my rhubarb, one day when I have more plants, maybe I will. And there is no such thing as a glut of rhubarb…

Good wines for around £5. Not doing dry January but feeling poor because it’s January? Here you go!

Food-bank users deserve luxuries as well as lentils – just like everyone else

The Jeff Bezos hacking allegations destroy the myth of a new Saudi Arabia

Out cold: unseasonal temperatures litter south Florida with stunned iguanas

The poo panacea: inside the strange, surprising world of faecal transplants

Anne Brontë is the least famous Brontë sister. But she might have been the most radical. Anne Brontë is the best Brontë, I’ve been banging on about it for ages and I’ve read Villette. Also Wuthering Heights is a terrible, terrible book and nothing, nope not even a Kate Bush song, will change my mind.

Many in the north backed Brexit. They will soon begin to feel the costs. And they still won’t understand that this is what they voted for.

Keir Starmer’s soft-left approach is the unifying force that Labour needs

‘Delegate but the buck stops with you’: how to end the housework wars. Just sometimes, living alone is better…

‘Why haven’t you shut down the border?’: inside Trump’s White House

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First pluck your pheasant

My boss, has someone who supplies him with pheasants and before I started working for him, I mentioned the plot and he suggested we could do a swap of produce for pheasant!

Last week, he brought in a bird. There is something really weird about carrying a dead bird home on the train! So I needed to pluck and draw the bird. I have a vague recollection of trying to pluck a chicken as a kid but I have never plucked a whole bird, YouTube is fantastic, I watched 4 ‘how to videos’ but actually doing it is harder and takes longer than you think.

As a meat eater, I do think it’s really important to acquaint yourself with what eating other animals really is about, we are so used to picking up our meat ready butchered and that leads us to forgetting what that means and expecting cheaper meat. Which means worse conditions for the animals that are that meat. So, I’m more committed to eating less but better meat and not divorcing myself from the reality of what that means.

I did it. Wasn’t the best job but not bad for a first go.The plan was to have it roasted on Saturday night, however that didn’t go to plan, but it’s been used in various dishes this week.

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