Wash your make up brushes

Last week after the gym, I was saying that regular gym going and then having to put make up on myself while I was hot and a bit sweaty was at least making sure that I washed my make up brushes regularly. And so discovered that some people never wash their make up brushes at all.

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This lead to a discussion of why (like cutting your hair every six weeks and taking your make up off your face before you go to bed) washing your make up brushes is an important and sensible thing to do. The argument goes like this:

1) You are putting those things on your face, they accumulate make up, dirt, bits of skin, germs, sweat and are a breeding ground for dirt and then you rub them on your face. It’s like rubbing dirt onto your clean face. Why would you do that? All that money you spend on fancy make up and face cream, wasted because you’re brushing dirt onto your face.

2) Dirty brushes don’t work as well as clean brushes and you’re not getting the best out of your make up if you’re applying it with something that’s all clogged up.

3) You’re rubbing dirt and germs into your face. Got spots? Now you know why.

4) It lengthens the life of the brushes, I’ve had most of mine for nearly five years, you should look after your stuff!

As you can probably tell, this went on for a while, punctuated by me, shuddering when I thought about it and muttering about dirt and disgusting yucky things. This is quite funny because I am as a general rule, not overly concerned about germs. I like things to be tidy and I like things to be clean but I’m not a person to over use anti germ sprays etc. I think that healthy immune systems need germs to function and I can’t be doing with people who anti-septic everything in sight.

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However, I wear make up every day and so I wipe down my make up brushes every day (baby wipes are fabulous things) and I wash my make up brushes at least every other week. If you don’t and you think I’m mad, take a look at the picture below, this is the colour of the water after I’ve washed my brushes.

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You can buy fancy make up brush wash but I use baby shampoo. I wash them all once and then do it again and rinse them under running water. It takes about ten minutes.

Before anyone asks, I wash my hairbrushes once a month too!

So what do you think? Am I a mad and OCD? Do you wash your make up brushes?

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The Weekend

This weekend was very Oli-centric so if small children aren’t your thing, look away now.

On Friday, I left work at 4pm and Ma and I headed up to Watford to pick Oli up. Oli had (according to Kai and his parents) been looking forward to the weekend all day but when confronted with the reality of me and his Grandma, had a screaming tantrum. Sigh.

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He calmed down a bit, was presented with his choices, chose and then went mental again! After some time, in the street no less, I gave him two options, walk or be carried. More wailing and I picked  him up and carried him to the end of the street. It was like a reset. He was fine for the rest of the evening. We walked to the shops, cooked dinner, Oli ‘helped’

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put the boy to bed and then did the crossword and had a glass of wine.

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I didn’t have the easiest of nights. Kurt the cat normally sleeps with Ben and Laura, he’s an old cat and didn’t see why someone else sleeping in ‘his’ bed should make a difference. He was a hairy purring nuisance all night and not being at all acquainted with the habits of cats generally and Kurt in particular, I didn’t realise that glasses of water are in danger of becoming Kurt’s if you leave them on the side and was woken up in the early hours of Friday morning by him drinking it, quite loudly!

Oli slept in on Saturday morning until about 7.30am, yay for lie ins!

There was coffee, improvised with one of Oli’s drinking cups and the remains of the cafetiere (Ben goes through them at a ridiculous rate!)

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Then we all headed off to the Science Museum.

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We had a full morning, there was playing and the bubble show (I liked the bubbles filled with carbon dioxide best), Oli liked playing.

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Lunch and home for tea. Oli insisted on taking his umbrella (his Grandma is a soft touch!) and putting it up to keep warm.

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On Sunday, we did some painting and played.

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Then just after lunch, Ben and Laura came home, much to Oli’s delight! Ma and I went home and I had a very quiet afternoon and an early night!

That was pretty much it. This week, I’m out tonight with the LCS and then next weekend is Mothers Day so the family are here for lunch.

What are your plans for the week? How what your weekend?

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Sunday Music

Last week, on the radio, I heard this song. It’s best known as a Groucho Marx song and I know it from my favourite film, The Philadelphia Story*. Russell Davis recalled that Groucho was a great fan of Gilbert and Sullivan and this is apparently what the writer of the song latched onto, I think it’s glorious..

This is Groucho doing the whole thing…

This is the clip from The Philadelphia Story

 

*and you should go and find the film and watch it, Cary Grant, James Stewart and Katharine Hepburn all at the height of their powers…so good.

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February Goal Recap / March Goals

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Hello, we are now in March and it’s time to recap February and tell everyone what I’m planning for March.

After January’s success, February has been a bit of a disappointment, I failed at exercise and while I was ok with the other stuff, I wasn’t focussed and didn’t feel in control. For next month I need to kick myself into action and just get it done!

Here’s the round up.

Food

1) Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

15 out of 15 for the coffee. 13 out of 15 for the alcohol – Monday night drinking two weeks in a row! I’m still happy with this, it’s a good balance and I’m going to keep it on the list as it’s a good motivator.

2) Take my lunch to work

14 out of 15. Happy with that. One day due to not having any food in the house after being sick. Yay for organisation! It’s embedded now.

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3) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs).

17 out of 19. This is my top tip for getting better sleep.

4) Moisturiser and general maintenance.

28 out of 28. Only area of weakness is my nails, which I will focus on next month.

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5) Paint the living room.

This has been put back a month or two.

6) Dust under the bed, find out what’s underneath it.

Amazingly, this has made me feel more in control of floor cleaning (which I loathe!)

Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. Again this is one of my 2013 goals, so time to be dedicated about it. Tuesday and Thursday lunchtime, no messing about, no being a brat. Also I have a 5km booked in June so will need to start training properly in March, this is a good run up!

1 of 8. Fail, fail, fail.  I’m going to reset this for next month and make it happen.

8) Three times a week I will do the set of exercises below three times. I think that Monday, Wednesday and Saturday might work quite well! I won’t enjoy it but I am going to do it.

20 squats /12 sit ups/12 press ups/1 minute plank

8 of 12. Nope, need to sort my life out

March Goals

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So clearly for March I need to make exercise a priority, I feel better when I do it, I just need to overcome my laziness.

Food

1) Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

Same as last month, because it’s an easy way to keep on track.

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2) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs).

It’s a good goal and I like the motivation of having to tell the blog about it if I muck up!

3) Paint my nails!

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I’ve been taking care of myself in the little ways really well. However, my nails have been breaking like mad, I think this is because I haven’t been painting them. Having them painted seemed to remind me to oil my cuticles and use hand cream more. I haven’t been doing that since Christmas and my nails are very unhappy and short and breakable. So I need to get back into the habit of painting them and because I hate having chipped fingernails, that will mean twice weekly!

4) Book an appointment with a dentist.

I really need to see a dentist. Since my lovely dentist stopped working I’ve basically ignored my need to see one not because I’m scared of them at all but because I don’t trust anyone who isn’t Shiona with my teeth. Then my tooth broke and it’s just got to happen.

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5) Sort out the DVD’s in the living room.

I’ll do a post about this but basically I need to sort them out and use those shelves for the book overflow because in my home the books have priority!

6) Sort out the pictures in the kitchen.

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I’ve been meaning to do this for months, I know what I want to do and I just need to get it done. I’ll do a post about this as well.

Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. 

I’m having  a do over for this one.

8) 2 10k walks in March

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The weather is getting better, Spring is nearly here, I need to get out in the fresh air. It’s also a bit of training for Northumberland in April!

How did you do with your goals in February? What do you have planned for March?

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Friday Night Cocktail

Some time ago I made a negroni and I wasn’t enamoured with it. It was a bit too bitter for  me. It was the Campari, it looks lovely but it is bitter and it was just too much for me.

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I do love Aperol, I’ve mentioned before that Aperol is a great way in for people who find Campari too bitter. Last week, John came to dinner and I offered him an aperol spritz and we stayed on them all night and finished the aperol. John spent a couple of years in Rome for work and as he said drank them “like it was his job” so I was delighted that he liked it!

I’m not the first person to have thought it but it wasn’t long before I wondered about putting aperol in a negroni in place of the campari and then I did a quick google and there was the Boulevardier, which put bourbon in place of the gin in a negroni and I was away. So today is a Boulevardier straight up and an aperol ‘negroni’ on the rocks. By all means try them in any combination, if you already have let me know how you liked them!

I used Noilly Prat for my sweet vermouth because that’s the one I have and until they start making vermouth in smaller bottles I only have one sweet and one dry vermouth at home (oh and the Lillet) because there’s a limit to how much I can keep in the fridge with a vacuum seal (yes I know but some things are important to me!). Tanqueray is one of the three gins that I like to have on hands, the others are Plymouth and Sipsmith, which should tell you a lot about the kind of gin I like to drink! (although I am fond of Martin Miller too).

I liked the Boulevardier with Campari and  ‘Negroni’ with the Aperol. I’m still working with the bitter stuff but the bourbon stood up to the Campari and the bitter notes were just that notes rather than dominating the drink.

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The Boulevardier

What

1 and a half oz bourbon

1oz campari

1oz sweet vermouth

Ice

How

1) Add the bourbon, campari and vermouth to a mixing glass filled with ice.

2) Stir and pour into chilled glass

3) Garnish with orange zest.

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Aperol ‘negroni’

What

1oz Aperol

1oz gin

1oz sweet vermouth

How

1) Put the gin, Aperol and sweet vermouth in a mixing glass filled with ice.

2) Stir and pour into a glass filled with ice.

3) Garnish with orange zest.

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! Something to read while you’re waiting for the weekend…

1) Boris Johnson is a bad mayor. I’ve never been on the ‘the dangleway’, to be honest, I don’t often venture into East London. I thought it was a stupid idea but it’s a stupid idea that’s losing £50,000 a week. I thought the Tories and Boris in particular was against public funding paying for everything.

What is especially telling about the dangleway and its ignominious failure is that southeast London has long been in need of real infrastructure and investment. DLR and Overground extensions have made up some ground, but mostly southeast Londoners rely (like the rest of the country, but unlike those north of the river) on a massively unreliable and slow train network. River crossings are especially tricky. Among the first things cancelled by Johnson on coming to office were the Thames Gateway bridge, a DLR extension to Dagenham and a cross-river tram. Such things were evidently utopian – by now, the big infrastructural idea, depressingly supported by Labour councils, is an extension of the Blackwall Tunnel.

2) Machines that do too much. 

The modern washing machine has a dozen or more cycles that no one has ever used. The “baby cycle”, for example, aimed, presumably, at parents too lazy to wash their babies in the bath. Or, quoting now from a variety of machines, the “duvet”, “sports”, “bed and bath”, “reduced creases”, “allergy” and “freshen up” cycles. As in “I’m just going to hop in the washing machine and freshen up.” (Yes, I realise it freshens up clothes, not people, but still I bet no one has ever used it non-ironically.)

3) Women in the Catholic Church. I don’t think it’s enough anymore to say ‘not in my name’. The attitudes to women and to priesthood with the RC Church need to be fundamentally challenged and changed.

But of this I am certain: if the Catholic church is going to pick itself up it needs to make some very big changes indeed. Trust the laity, share the power, open the pathways, make the mechanics transparent; and that’s just for starters. Oh yes: and read the gospels too. Was this the church Christ wanted? If not, let’s get back to that rock, and see whether we can build something much, much better.

4) Why toddlers having tantrums is to be expected. For the record, I have no problem with the tantrums, I have a problem with the tantrums changing adult behaviour. Kids are learning all the time, if you give in every time they throw a wobbly, what they will learn is that they get what they want every time they throw a wobbly. You stick it out, stay with them and stop them from hurting themselves and when it’s over, it’s done, they still don’t get to play with the shiny knife but you don’t get to go on about it. Small children don’t need to be nagged, save that for when they’re teenagers! It’s not easy but it is simple.

It’s no coincidence that kids start having tantrums around the time that parents start enforcing rules. When you say no, sweetie, you can’t have that butcher knife, your 20-month-old has no idea that you are depriving her of this awesomely shiny contraption for her own safety. “Since it’s the parent, whom they rely on for everything, who is taking it away, it’s perceived as a withdrawal of love, essentially,” says Alicia Lieberman, a professor of Infant Mental Health at the University of California-San Francisco and author of The Emotional Life of the Toddler. “They don’t know your reasoning. They just know that something they were getting great pleasure from, all of a sudden, you are taking away.” The pain that this causes, Lieberman says, is similar to what we might feel if our spouse betrays or cheats on us.

5) John Green on writing and teenagers. The Fault in Our Stars was an amazing book and worth a read, even if you’re not a teenager.

Earlier this month, the Daily Mail took it upon itself to publish a rather scathing critique on the so-called ‘sick-lit’ genre. They claimed that books about teen terminal illness, death and bereavement are becoming a worryingly popular phenomenon, and that youngsters are too undeveloped to deal with issues such as cancer. I asked John what he thought of it and he had this to say:

“The thing that bothered me about it… was that it was a bit condescending to teenagers. I’m tired of adults telling teenagers that they aren’t smart, that they can’t read critically, that they aren’t thoughtful, and I feel like that article made those arguments.”

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Other Peoples Recipes

So yesterday I wrote about how I menu plan, I didn’t write about what’s on it. So today I thought I’d link to the recipes that are on the plan.

Lots of them, in fact most of them are from other people, I love that the internet is full of talented people who invent great recipes, because then I can use them! If I significantly adapt a recipe (either ingredients or method) or it needs translating into English measurements and ingredients, I might post the details here with a link to the original.

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However, copying a recipe in every detail and posting it as your own is bad form (not to mention stealing) and I try not to do that, while, at the same time acknowledging that it’s a difficult line to walk (I do a sausages with red wine thing that originally came from a Nigel Slater recipe when I was 21, I’ve cooked it so often, I haven’t referred to a recipe for years, it’s one of my staple things so if I posted it here would that be a breach of copyright?).

That aside,  today I’m going to link to the recipes that you won’t see on the blog because they aren’t mine, but I use them all the time and love them, so you should go and check them out!

Egg cups (from Back to Her Roots)

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These are fantastic for mornings on the run, I make them on Sunday and take them into work for breakfast.

Quinoa Burgers (from How Sweet It Is)

Ok, so I make them a bit bigger and without the buns but they are really good even if I’ve never taken a photo of them!

Vegan Beer Chilli (from Back to Her Roots)

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I did post an adapted (no chilli, English measurements) version of this. It’s a really good thing to have in the freezer and endlessly adaptable.

Corn and Black Bean Tacos (from Foodie With Family)

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I really can’t get over how much I love this. I eat the leftovers for lunch…yum.

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Menu Planning

A couple of weeks ago I mentioned how much easier life is when I menu plan. It helps keep me on budget, stops mindless eating (mostly), also looking at my diet and diary in as whole each week, helps with healthy choices in what’s going in my mouth and what my social life is (or isn’t) like.

There are lots of different ways of doing it and I would imagine that it’s harder for couples and families to do but this is how I do it. Menu planning and food shopping goes firmly into the ‘housework’ list and I like to do most of the houseworky stuff on the weekend, I know some people like to spread out through the week and not touch it on the weekend but I require most of my energy for the daily drudge that is going to work on the tube each morning and then working. During the week, I like my my evenings to consist of dinner and leisure. I do wash up, make the bed and some basic stuff, but I like to get the bulk of household duties done by Sunday.

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The way that has worked out is that I generally have a day for myself and a day for the house over the weekend and that includes grocery shopping. This is a very long winded way of saying that my menu plan goes from Saturday lunch to Saturday breakfast because in an ideal world I would clean the flat and do the shopping on Saturday mornings. Obviously that doesn’t always happen but it’s the aim.

2013 is also my year of fiscal responsibility, so I have a fairly tight budget after all bills are paid of about £200 a month (it isn’t anything like poverty but it’s tight enough that I have to be aware of what I’m spending or it could all go horribly wrong) so I like the weekly shop to be somewhere between £15 to £25 (and the nearer to under £20 I can get the better!)

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Anyway, back to how I do it. Normally on Thursday or Friday, I’ll have a look at my diary for the next week. The first thing I do is mark when I’m out and therefore don’t need to feed myself. Then I’ll check the fridge and freezer for what’s in there and what needs to be eaten. I also keep a list of the basic things that I need to buy because I’m running low, which last week included yeast, toothpaste, baby wipes and rubber gloves. That way I can factor the cost of those things into my plan. If there’s veg in the fridge that is on the turn, I’ll make soup and normally that’s fills two to three of my ‘soup’ pots, so Saturday lunch and a weeknight will go down as soup with another tub going in the freezer. Friday nights at home are pizza nights. I try and have easy breakfasts for the week and more elaborate ones on the weekend. This is also the point that I’ll have a flick through recipe books or recipes that I’ve printed from a blog for some inspiration.

Then I fill in the blanks decided what to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner. As I fill it in, I make a list of what I’ll need to buy and what I’ll need to do to make it happen through each day in the week, with the bulk of the prep work being done on the weekend (the ever present applesauce, hummus etc).

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Then I review it, cost it out and make any changes to it, so I might have the bean stew on the list and that will do two nights in different forms, if I’m having the black bean and corn tacos, then I’ll eat the leftovers for lunch. I might decide based on what’s happening at work that actually I’m not going to have the energy to cook, so that will be a soup night and so on. I’ll also count up the fruit and veg content in each day and adjust to make sure I’ve had at least my five a day. I try to plan a couple of meals from the freezer so that if plans change,  there isn’t food sitting in the fridge rotting!

I go on the Sainsburys website and cost the shop.  That way I’ll have an idea of what it’ll cost. At that stage if it’s too expensive, I’ll revise it again.

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Then comes the shopping. There’s a Sainsburys, a Lidl, a Waitrose and a small market stall in West Ealing. I normally start at Lidl and see what’s there that’s on my list and looks ok, I don’t like their baby tomatoes and their Greek yogurt is Greek style and has starch in it to make it thicker so I avoid those. I don’t buy much meat anyway but I do buy that from Sainsburys, ’cause I like to buy the Freedom Foods stuff, so mostly it’s fruit, vegetables and chocolate! I then go to Sainsburys and get the rest. I get herbs and spices from one of the local shops because they’re much cheaper there. The only deviation is if Sainsburys’ bags of peppers have green ones in. I don’t like them and I will not buy something I won’t eat, so I’ll head to M&S because their peppers are all yellow and red!

This is what last week’s shop looked like. There was a last minute change of plan because John came for dinner and Sunday I was due out but we changed it to Monday night.

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Do you menu plan? How do you do it?

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The Weekend

Last week was a pretty good week, but I arrived at Friday feeling tired and in need of a rest. I am aware that my default setting is asleep or on a sofa, so it wasn’t really a surprise. I have always maintained that my ambition in life is to sit on a sofa and eat bonbons and people think I’m joking, I’m really not and just as soon as I find a perfect sofa and some really good bonbons, you’ll know where I’ll be.

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So I had a quite Friday, at home with a martini and pizza. This was also the point I looked at my diary and realised that it’s my last Friday night in for a couple of weeks, which may at least make these updates more interesting! The pizza was leek, mushroom and mozzerella.

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On Saturday, I was home, tackling the housework and finally doing some much needed clothes repair. I’d like to be really good at sewing, as it is, I can fix most things but anything that actually requires expertise either goes to my mum or the shop for fixing.

Halfway through the day, I talked to John and arranged that he’d come over for dinner. John hasn’t ever been to the flat and it was really nice to catch up properly. It’s also kind of weird knowing that this week I’ll see stuff in the news and know that John’s been working away in the background!

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I sent John back to his hotel and possibly more work but I did send him back with marmalade. There was a midnight visit from the ginger cat. The ginger cat seems to like my flat! It seems like a well cared for cat but I do wish that cat owners would put collars on their cats, so I could be sure it wasn’t a stray. It’s a lovely cat and seems to be lacking affection…

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Sunday was a deliberately lazy day. I did some cooking for the week ahead, caught up on the washing…finally and just prepared myself for the week ahead with some relaxation.

Next week, I’m going to be busy at work and preparing myself for a weekend with my Ma and Oli. Ben and Lu are having a weekend away so we are having him from Friday to Sunday. Hopefully, I won’t have to spend too much time pretending to be a witch that Oli (being a dragon) is going to eat..he’s read Room on the Broom a lot…

What did you do at the weekend? What does the week hold in store for you?

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