Friday Links

Happy Friday and welcome to September. It’s time for schools to go back and to think about autumn (which is not a fun happy time!) and launch ourselves into the last four months of the year!

Being good at one thing doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be good at another but Jeremy Hunt needs to stop having a go at Stephen Hawkins. He knows about the NHS through personal experience and he’s able to look at a problem objectively. And he’s right. Jeremy Hunt can attack me all he wants – but he is wrong to say the NHS is working

Houston is what climate change looks like in a world that has decided not to take climate change seriously.

Dear Sadiq: pocket-sized homes are the last thing London needs

Living on the breadline makes me cry. I dread to think how it affects my children This just sounds horrific. Ma sometimes talks about hard things were when we were children and if I look back, I can see it. The house wasn’t decorated, Ben and I had carpet and so did the living room (and the bathroom!) but no-where else did. Ma had a strict two packets of biscuits and one bottle of squash a week policy. I thought the biscuit limit was because Ma didn’t want to rot our teeth and as Grandad brought us fruit and the cousins sweets at Ma’s request and we didn’t get sugar generally it seemed to fit the status quo. I had better holidays than the cousins and most of my school friends but we didn’t go on family holidays but then given what a disaster the ones we did go on were, it didn’t seem that that was about money but about Dad. There were a lot of frozen sausages in my childhood and I knew that money was limited and we did know that if one thing was going to be paid for then another couldn’t be butI didn’t ever, ever feel that we were poor.

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Goals Recap, Goals Set – August/September 2017

Tomorrow is the beginning of a new month which means it’s time to look at August and set goals for September. So August……

August goals are in italics, how I did in bold.

Turn over, turn out. I did pretty well with this. Sunblock and moisturise. Tiny failure in the middle of the month when I burned my shoulders – again… Feet. If I don’t look at them, I can pretend that they are ok, but they’re not. Complete failure. Update the spreadsheet every week. Yep. £15 a week on food. Better than done I’ve had two weeks of no shopping. Keep money for food and everything else separate. I did ok on this. Keep to overall goals. Suprisingly, I feel I did that, I had a good month but I kept to my set limits, I’m on track for savings.

More generally, I want to celebrate my birthday month and have some fun. So although the goals below are a pretty focussed set of to do’s, I also want to have fun with the nephews when we have them and chill out a bit. I had a great month, I’m a bit tired but the nights are drawing in and I think that my brain is responding to that, I had a great week off and a lovely birthday. We had the boys over the Bank Holiday and they are a joy and we had fun

House

  • Defrost the freezer – done
  • Clean oven – not done but I bought a cleaning kit!
  • Declutter the cupboard of doom and take stuff to the dump – half done, some things went to the dump, but the cupboard is not sorted
  • Joe proof the flat – done but it did not help, I’m down a destroyed lamp, he stole my garlic bread off my plate AND played football with one of my winter squash. 

Plot

  • Take all the rubbish to the dump – done
  • Tidy the shed and put some shelves up – done
  • Raspberry maintenance – not at all done
    • cut back the old wood
    • shorten them so I have a path from the greenhouse to the bottom of the plot
  • dig up gooseberry bush at end of plot and weed and cover for new bed – not done
  • Extend strawberry bed, this is going to involve moving some containers about and some heavy weeding! – not done
  • frame the bean/chard bed – done
  • sort out the sides of the brassica bed – not done

Now for September. I already have stuff booked in for every weekend in September, except Saturday 30th! This weekend I’m skipping the allotment workday because my plot needs some love but on Sunday I’ll be spending some time on our stall at the Brentford Festival trying to get more signatures and explain why the allotments are so important to Ealing. The next two weekends, I’ll be at Ben and Laura’s, for Joe’s birthday party and the weekend after that to help Ben while Laura is away on a girls weekend (Ben works nights at the weekend so he needs someone to at least be in the house with the boys!) On the 24 September, I’ll be volunteering at the Ealing Half Marathon again and Ma is away that weekend so I’ll be weeding by myself. So although it’s probably not as full on as some people’s September, it’ll be pretty busy for me, when will I find the time to still and read?Overall, I want to prepare myself for the darker days, I need to get more rigid about bedtimes, the golden hour and no screens, I also need to start walking a bit more to compensate for the lack of allotment work that’s coming up and doing bedtime yoga.

House – I want to put some monthly things here because daily and weekly tasks I’m pretty good at but the bigger ones are more tricky to get to and there’s a bit of autumn preparation here too

  • Defrost the freezer
  • Clean oven
  • Deep clean bathroom, bedroom and kitchen
  • Wash rugs in living room
  • Declutter the cupboard of doom
  • Sort out cupboard under the sink
  • Clean living room windows

Plot – all of this comes from the work list I made a couple of weeks ago, the crossed throughs we’ve already done and yes it’s a lot.

  • more pruning of the plum tree
  • plant out and sow some of the things we have planned for autumn
  • sort out the raspberries (shorten the lines, work out the frames)
  • sort out the brassica bed (new sides and netting, pull up the french beans)
  • extend the strawberry bed (weed and plant out new runners)
  • sort out the space for the new long bed at the bottom of the plot
  • plant potatoes in bag for Christmas (late but what can you do)
  • plant spring bulbs at front of plot
  • sort out paths on plot (weed/woodchip/make paths at front of plot)
  • mark out space for gooseberry bushes
  • sow grass seed at front of plot

 

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Allotment Adventures: Tomatoes…

This week we picked the last of the french beans. Said goodbye to some tomato plants and collected about 2 kilos of tomatoes. Some of the broccoli had flowered so we cut the rest and took the netting down. We’ll leave it alone until the flowers die so the bees can have a feed.The summer squash are slowing down production and the leaves on one of the butternut squash are dying back. The smaller butternut squash plant has suddenly started to produce fruit but it needs to hurry as it’s getting colder at night!  We had a very hot weekend, which caused some bolting amongst the pak choi but the chard I planted out seem to be doing ok. 

Winter is coming, while I hope that we will get some produce through autumn, things are really slowing down and hopefully we will have a little more time to do some of the longer term work on plot. There is a list of things to do in the next couple of months and I’ll try to get through them…

August/Sept

  • more pruning of the plum tree
  • plant out and sow some of the things we have planned for autumn
  • sort out the raspberries (shorten the lines, work out the frames)
  • sort out the brassica bed (new sides and netting, pull up the french beans)
  • extend the strawberry bed (weed and plant out new runners)
  • sort out the space for the new long bed at the bottom of the plot
  • plant potatoes in bag for Christmas (late but what can you do)
  • plant spring bulbs at front of plot
  • sort out paths on plot (weed/woodchip/make paths at front of plot
  • mark out space for gooseberry bushes
  • sow grass seed at front of plot

Winter/Autumn work

  • re-site the gooseberry bushes
  • sow broadbeans and garlic
  • clear up/feed/cover summer beds
  • new raised beds
  • clear/clean/secure greenhouse
  • decide what we’re growing next year
  • order what we need in good time
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Best/Worst 21 to 27 August 2017

Happy Monday! It’s a very happy Monday here, because I’m not at work, this morning, I was at my brother’s house and with the nephews until Ben and Laura came back from celebrating their tenth wedding anniversary. 

Best 

A cinema trip to see An Inconvenient Sequel: Truth to Power which was horrifying and inspiring, if you get the chance please go and see it.

Tomatoes. Yes we have lots of them and I preserved some.

Time with the boys. All children are work, but they are also a joy. Obviously I think these two are extra special but taking aside my ‘Aunty prejudice’ they are actually amazing and delightful.
Worst

Donald Trump. I try to keep the best/worse to things that are my life but honestly, this man. I don’t think that the UK is inherently better than the USA because we managed to avoid having someone like him in power (Boris Johnson is Foreign Secretary and therefore we have no moral high ground here) but Trump is a digusting human being, he’s an ignorant, racist, sexist, homophobic, orange moral vacumn of a person and it’s painful to see what he’s doing to the US and to the rest of the world. 

Honourable mentions to a a day working from home, tomato sauce from my plot, Joe calling everyone daddy, hot weather and bank holiday weekends.

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Friday Links

Happy Friday!  This week I am having opinions, you have been warned….

This is also the last Bank Holiday weekend until Christmas, and my brother’s 10th wedding anniversary so I shall be marking the extra day off with babysitting the nephews! Have a good weekend.

The demise of the Childrens Food Trust and why children need to learn to cook.

‘I use food banks’ – workers on the impact of the pay squeeze. What basically comes through here, is that people are struggling where they wouldn’t have been before the recession. These aren’t the ‘lazy people living off benefits’, theyare all working and it’s not enough. Wages are not covering the cost of living and it’s worse if you don’t have a mortgage. Until politicians accept this and do something about it, everything is going to continue to get worse.

I am not a mother, but I am a grown, real woman A lot of this article irritated me but I was having a conversation last week about this. Honestly, I don’t believe in ‘adulting’ and a lot of this is just silly but I do bang up against the idea that I’m not really an adult because I’m not in a couple or with children and it’s very annoying.

Ending a Pregnancy Because of Down Syndrome Is Not a Precursor to Eugenics. Ending a pregnancy because of disability is a choice women and their partners make based on what they are able to cope with and often because of the children they already have. I used to volunteer taking disabled children swimming once a week. Most of those kids had Down’s. The kids were lovely, sometimes slightly more work than ‘normal’ kids but what I remember is their parents and siblings. Because most of those children were the youngest children and the parents slightly older and tired, really tired and worried about what would happen when they couldn’t look after their children and it was going to be on their silblings to look after them. That’s a responsibility that some parents don’t want to place on their children. Having a disabled child might also be a joy, parents as a general rule love their children whatever their issues but it is also work and completely alters the dynamic of a couple and a family. I’ve watched people make tough choices based on the life of the children they have and feel terrible about it. I’ve also seen people with disabled children who regret the burden that it has put on them and their families, maybe if we had a society where disabled people and their families didn’t have to fight so hard to exist, people would make other decisions but we need to stop talking about eugenics and recognise that choices are made for lots of different reasons and we need to be sensitive to that.

The retelling of Diana’s story has revealed the Britain we once were I’m really tired of this. I remember what it was like when she died and it was hysterical and ridiculous. It was also menacing, no one was allowed to express anything other than grief. I was not upset or grieving because I didn’t know her. I was sad for her children but I didn’t think that she was a particularly good parent (confirmed for me by her comments about her children not being effected by the news about their parents marriage and adultery because they were ‘at school’), while I didn’t think that she was treated well by the Royal Family, I didn’t think she behaved well either. I thought everyone was being overwrought then and I think the same now.

What to do with a glut.Not enough recipes for me, at some point I will tackle courgette and ginger jam. Not this year though!

Finally a bunch of Ottolenghi recipes that don’t have a million ingredients.

Christmas albums: 13 ways to spot a festive turkey. It is still August, why are they doing this to me? Having said that, we already know what we are doing for Christmas, because Ben and Lu asked us if we want to go to them!

 

The blue dogs of Mumbai

 

 

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Cooking lately

One of the things about August is that my eating and cooking become unplanned. Last year, I was logging this every week and August is full of weeks that start, “I couldn’t be bothered to cook” or “I was tired” or “no shopping because there are so many courgettes…”This has been even more true this August because there has been an increase in produce overall and a decrease in courgettes! That aside August is just not a time for much innovation in the kitchen, the month more or less starts me having a week off and family lunch for my birthday. The food is usually the same, garlic bread, roast chicken, new potatoes and salad and so it was this year. Although the whole thing seemed more organised this year and Joe stole my garlic bread! The difference is that more of it was homegrown, the garlic butter was made with my own garlic and herbs, I grew the salad.

The week after that I basically lived of leftover roast chicken and salsa verde, I don’t think I cooked all week. Except to make stock from the bones of the chicken. This week, I did make dinner but it’s all been geared around trying to reduce the dent in the produce heap and although delicious not really blog worthy….Other cooking I’ve done, has been about preserving. Garlic butter, more salsa verde, tomato sauce, pickled courgette. The freezer is stuffed and the cupboard stuffed with jars of jam. I also have to remember that my ‘not much cooking’ is more cooking than a lot of people consider normal and my eating is full of fresh, homegrown produce which is good.I’ve come to accept that this is a feature of August and I’ll get my cooking mojo back sometime soon, probably as the allotment slows down, although I will need to find some new ways to use butternut squash….

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Allotment Adventures: Usual work

We had a really good Saturday this week and were on the plot for a good long while but there is still so much work to do.We finally have patty pans! We harvested most of the green beans (1.774kg), there where lots of tomatoes, some carrots, salad and herbs. I also cut almost all the leaves off the tomatoes because the weather is humid and rainy right now.

I planted out pak choi and a spring cabbage and chard. Next week, when all the green beans come up, I’ll plant out the other kale. I still need to sort out the raspberries. Ma weeded and weeded and weeded. Sometimes, it feels like I never get to the bits I want to do but then I look at the plot and the produce and I stop because even though it’s not perfect or going entirely to plan, it looks amazing and I’m feeding myself.

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Shopping Woes

Yes, I was just complaining about how difficult I find clothes shopping, but I’m more annoyed than I thought because my shoping issues have continued through the summer.

I bought a top, I took it home and it just didn’t sit right on my chest (the joys of having a big bust) so I took it back to M&S, and when the nice lady processing the refund asked me, I told her about it. She noted, because she is a good salesperson, that that store had just revamped it’s lingerie dept and I should have a look because they had worked to really cater to all sizes. So I did. There were many pretty bras. It was mid week, I was on holiday, I looked at every single bra on display, there was not one in my size, in the ranges that said they catered for my cup size, there were three bras in that cup size but not the right back size.Now, I know that I’m a big of bust, but the day before, I had walked into Bravissimo and walked out with three new bras in my size, the bra I had asked about they didn’t have in store but could get it sent to the store or my house. We were dealing with a range of bras that I had bought before so it wasn’t neccessary for me to be fitted but they could have arranged that and I could have probably found a lot of new styles in my size. At M&S, when I asked, they didn’t have any of the bras I was interested in, in stock and couldn’t order for me but I could look on their website. But with a new bra, you need to try them on.Generally, I’m just fed up of clothes shops always being out of the sizes I wear, whether it’s clothes or shoes. Is there a special vortex that larger sizes disappear to? because I’m getting really tired of shops only having the clothes I might want to buy in all sizes from 4 to 14 and then nothing until size 22. I also finally bought a dress a wanted (remember the East dress back in July) in the sale but although it said it was the blue dress, they sent me the pink dress because the blue had sold out. Then I tried again with a top and the 18 didn’t fit (in a shop when the 18 is often too big for me).

I think I’m just destined not to have nice clothes for a while but it’s something else, if all the sizes 16 to 20 in a blue dress sell out, what is that telling you who is buying your clothes? My biggest frustration is that I know the kind of clothes I want to buy, but the shops that I usually go to, stopped catering for me and for women like me. The interesting thing is that loads of people I know (and some I don’t) are saying this about the high street right now. So who are they catering for, their sales are going up so why can’t they identify their audience?

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Best/Worst 14 to 20 August 2017

Happy new week people!

Best

Patty pans. The patty pan has started to fruit. I was begining to wonder if it ever would but we have had four this week!

Soda bread. Kathy and the children made me soda bread and delivered it on Friday. It was a lovely thing to do and it’s really good bread. I need to get a hold of the recipe.A day to read. That was yesterday, I did very little and just read books, it’s my favourite thing to do, I have lots of books….

Worst

It’s getting darker. I’ve noticed that the nights are drawing in but more painful from my point of view, it’s getting darker in the mornings and the streetlights (that are light sensitive) have still been on at 7.50am!

Honourable mentions to a day on the plot, dinner out, trying to work out how my new birthday present works, potatoes from my allotment neighbour, a haircut, going back to work after a holiday, working from home on Friday morning, an increased need for coffee, not having to do any food shopping because there is so much food coming off the plot right now, the joy of salsa verde which I have been putting on everything, books (I did mention all the reading I got to do over the weekend, didn’t I?), news of a tax rebate but annoyance at how to actually get the money…

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Friday Links

Happy Friday!  I have back to work exhaustion but the prospect of one more week at work before the last Bank Holiday until Christmas. As ever I’m writing this on Thursday so I can’t be held accountable for any additional madness that Trump might inflict on the world overnight….

Here are this week’s links.

Phillipa Gregory shows that she’s a snob and doesn’t really get her work or that of others. I read The Other Boleyn Girl and it was genre fiction. Just because you get asked on Radio 4 to talk about your books, it doesn’t mean you don’t write genre fiction and there is nothing wrong with genre fiction either…

Let’s hear it for the four hour working day 

Trains are too expensive. But transport’s real problem is subsidies for London. This is bollocks. Ok not all of it. Transport outside of London and the SouthEast is shocking and it’s ridiculous that people in Amble have to pay a £6 return to get to Newcastle on a bus. I argued that HS2 should have been started in the North and should have been focussed on connecting the northern cities together. However, transport in London is important and more importantly struggling to cope with the amount of people in London.   You don’t solve the problem by making transport equally worse. You properly fund transport all over the country and stop letting failing train companies pay their shareholders dividends and you renationalise the railways.

The president of the USA is a neo-nazi.

What’s happened in Charlottesville over the weekend is simple. Racist people marched through a town to try and intimidate and harrass people of colour and everyone else who wanted to change the name of a park and remove a statue. My country’s history on race and slavery is also pretty terrible but it is different so I’m reluctant to wade into this. Then I remember that the prevent strategy (for all it’s many issues) treats white supremacist organisations as it treats ISIS. So I can say this with a knowledge of my country’s failings on this (and its much smaller victories). What happened in Charlottesville is wrong, it was terrorism, there are not two sides to this story. White supremacists caused this, they betray the values of the country they claim to love, they caused a woman to be killed. They are responsible. Trump is a racist, ignorant buffoon, who has empowered, emboldened and generally given comfort to white supremacists and any decent citizen of the USA should be ashamed of their president.

This letter from the great, great grandsons of Stonewall Jackson is how you own your history and it’s good and bad parts.

Through our upbringing and education, we have learned much about Stonewall Jackson. We have learned about his reluctance to fight and his teaching of Sunday School to enslaved peoples in Lexington, Virginia, a potentially criminal activity at the time. We have learned how thoughtful and loving he was toward his family. But we cannot ignore his decision to own slaves, his decision to go to war for the Confederacy, and, ultimately, the fact that he was a white man fighting on the side of white supremacy.

Dishwasher or tumble dryer? I have neither so it makes no difference to me. I have a fridge/freezer and a washing machine and they are essential! The addition white goods item I need is another freezer because of the allotment….

This transcript of the jury selection for the Martin Shkreli trial is a delight…

juror no. 59: Your Honor, totally he is guilty and in no way can I let him slide out of anything because —

the court: Okay. Is that your attitude toward anyone charged with a crime who has not been proven guilty?

juror no. 59: It’s my attitude toward his entire demeanor, what he has done to people.

the court: All right. We are going to excuse you, sir.

juror no. 59: And he disrespected the Wu-Tang Clan

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