Friday Links

No, it’s ok, I know it’s not actually Friday. It is however, the last day of the week if you’re in the UK and the beginning of the long weekend.

For all that I’m not really a churchgoer any more, I am a Christian and this week and the weekend are a pretty big deal. Sunday is also Lu’s birthday so I’ll be spending some of the weekend with the family too.

In case you missed anything this week, my usual round of my posts this week starts as ever with miscellany and my usual allotment update – where there has actually been some progress!!

And here is the other stuff..

The hard truth about back pain. Having recovered from my first severe back pain incident, I did the exercises on the hour and tried to make sure that I moved, but for the first two days, it was almost like my brain had forgotten how to walk or sit or stand up. After the first two days, I was able to walk more and it helped but before that walking just made the pain worse whereas rest helped.

The Grenfell Tower recovery is still being treated as a PR problem

The Hate U Give wins Waterstones children’s book of the year. I also completely agree with James Daunt that this book needs to be read by adults too.

A harassed woman tweeting her story isn’t tantamount to a witch hunt

These gaping holes in male learning and collective action are filled not only by female solidarity, where knowing women look out for one another and swoop in where able, but also by a noisy minority of men whose chief priority in the war against sexual harassment seems to be in reminding everyone that not all men are evil.

How to boost your business? Let workers sleep

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Allotment Adventures: Paint the Shed Grey!

This week’s allotment post will actually feature work done on the allotment! The weather gods were smiling on London and we had a clear, warmish day on Sunday. The rhubarb is finally starting to come up, it’s been on the verge of it for weeks. The rhubarb isn’t the only sign of spring, the grape hyacinths are appearing, there are buds on the plum tree and blueberries and leaves on the raspberries and gooseberries, tiny leaves but leaves nonetheless.Remember I said that I’d solved the mystery of the additional roll of edging, and that the benefactor had been my lovely allotment neighbour, as she was helping clear an abandoned plot. She also found six fixed edging thingies (the type that we’ve been using to surround some beds) and left them on the plot. Ma and I bought two more and lo instead of one big salad bed that everyone walks on, we have two smaller ones!On the bits that aren’t fenced in and aren’t paths, I’ve sown some herbs (coriander) and I’ll sow some flowers. That was my first job, then we planted out some of the potatoes. The anyas. I’m not sure that it isn’t too early but they weren’t so much chitting as becoming trees, also weird cold weather aside, they need planting. We are growing them in bags so I’ve also covered them in fleece, which should protect them from frost. We also sowed two rows of peas (early onwards) and covered them in fleece too. You can see them in this photo.That done, I also split the mint and it went into the green container, two terracotta pots and a bucket.

Then while Ma got on with weeding, I painted the shed with it’s first coat of paint. Finally.It’ll need another couple of coats and then we’ll just do another every autumn.

I also dug over and sort of fenced off the area that I want to plant borlotto beans in this year, you can see it the other side of the broad beans.

It was good to get out and spend the time on the plot. I often feel that I don’t do enough and because I really held back with the sowing, I was worried that I was behind but having spent the day on the plot, we really aren’t, we’re in good shape!

There is a list of things to do though!

  • Plant out the rest of the potatoes
  • Fill the beds that haven’t already been filled with compost
  • work out the space at the top of the plot for winter squash
  • greenhouse
  • build cloche and get the leeks and the sweetpeas out of the house
  • finish prep on the new bean (borlotto) bed
  • sow cucumbers, courgettes, crookneck and cucamelon seeds
  • sow more tomatoes
  • sow beetroot, spinach and salad
  • another coat of paint on the shed
  • sow flowers
  • set up another round flower bed

 

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Monday Miscellany

Happy Monday!

Well folks, it’s a new week! Last week was pretty good, I had a wobble on Saturday but allowed myself a bit of time to be sad and then pulled myself together! Which was good because Ma and I had allotment plans and I wanted to sort myself out for this week. Which I’m happy to report I did.

We’re nearly at the end of Lent and it’s been a really good Lent for me, I’ve spend some time thinking about my life and the thing that has been resonating for me and that I’ve kept coming back to is that ‘God has other work for me to do’. I’ve made no secret that being single and childless and nearly 45 is not how I expected my life to go. It doesn’t mean that I don’t love my life right now, I’m very lucky and although it’s hard sometimes, it’s not awful all the time. It’s been really interesting how over the course of the Grace Lent’s Whatsapp group, so many women have found fertility and carrying and being single and Mother’s Day tricky. The difficulty of not following the conventional marriage and children path even though most of us didn’t chose the paths we found ourselves on. This has kept popping up for me over Lent in other spaces. Friends who can’t have children, or are struggling with parenting. I didn’t get the wish of my heart, which seems odd because I’m really good with children! But my lack of them means that I get to spend more time with other people’s children and this little one, seen trying (I think) to feed a lamb!

Ok serious stuff asides, this week is busy, I have a short work week this week, an appointment with Ma for clothes shopping (I loathe clothes shopping and really try to avoid it but most of my summer clothes and sandals died last summer so it’s time to re-up my wardrobe!), more allotmenting and more family time, we are going up to babysit and to celebrate Laura’s birthday which is over the weekend!

Next week is full of good things, I just need to get over myself so I can enjoy it! Given that my aims for this week are all about getting enough sleep and looking after my space. I also want to spend some time reading and get some bedtime yoga in this week.

What’s everyone else up to?

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday!

 

In case you missed them, this week’s posts miscellany, Cold Cures (well not exactly cures but coping with and getting rid of colds), this week’s allotment update was all about how it’s still winter even though it’s technically spring, and yesterday

Homelessness minister doesn’t know why homelessness is rising but is sure it’s nothing to do with cuts and universal credit. Really, either this woman is very, very stupid or she’s a liar. Neither is good.

If you’re homelessness minister, maybe you should know something about it Neil Coyle says it better.

This doesn’t help. UK surge in housing costs for poorest ‘worst in western Europe’

Let’s move to Spalding. This is were my grandma grew up, I can’t believe that they mentioned pork pies but not haslet!

Julie Washington’s Quest to Get Schools to Respect African-American English This is interesting.

‘Women are having different fantasies’: romantic fiction in the age of Trump. Also interesting…

The rise of the alpha single. I’m not sad and lonely, I’m on the bleeding edge of a trend! But this was good, this in particular

If my thesis on single life is sounding idealistic to you, let me concede that it isn’t a perfect riot of martinis, sex parties and sleeping in starfish position. There are wobbles, even if like me you have no children to worry about. This Valentine’s Day I came back to my desk after lunch to find that a well-meaning publicist had delivered a bunch of heart-shaped helium balloons. I sat there all afternoon with what felt like a bleakly ironic neon sign hanging over my head: “No romance here,” it blinked in my mind’s eye. “Hasn’t received a real Valentine’s gift since 1993.”

When I’m tired, when I’m ill, when I’m not invited to a dinner party because I don’t come in a pair – these are moments when I feel sorry for myself, and miss the safety net of having someone who loves me and will put their arms around me. But listen – it’s still worth it. When I stack the good moments and the bad on the metaphorical weighing scales, I still understand that this is a happier situation overall than a mediocre relationship.

 

 

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Allotment Adventures: Too cold for any adventures

Nothing got done this weekend, because it was snowing. I’m so over winter.

This time last year, I had planted potatoes, the raspberries had leaves on themThe rhubarb also had leaves…

This weekend it was -1C. Global warming doesn’t mean everything is going to be hotter, it means the climate will be unstable.

I also had a cold so stayed indoors. Ma and I  sowed some tomatoes, sweet peas and leeks. I feel so behind but given the weather that might be fine…

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Cold Cures

I feel that I get more than my fair share of colds but apparently the average adult gets two to four a year and it’s been two and half months since I had the last one. Mind you that lasted nearly four weeks but then everyone seemed to have that cold and everyone was one for about a month, so I don’t think I’m special.

Last Thursday, I woke up at 4.30 in the morning and I was slightly bunged up and I had a tickle in the back of my throat and I knew this was going to be a cold. I’ve been really careful and I’ve been taking elderberry syrup and all my vitamins but I spent the weekend before with Ma, who has a cold and the boys, who are germ magnets, I commute on the train every morning, which is not known for it’s germ free environment and I’d been at the doctor’s on Wed afternoon. So somewhere in all that I’d picked something up and I think I must have subconsciously been aware I was incubating something because I’d spent the weekday evenings, sorting my life out. Over the weekend the mystery was solved, it was the nephews, O had ‘manflu’ and Lu and Ben both had colds.

Cassie had just rounded up her ‘how to cope with colds’ series with a list of her favourite cold and flu remedies, which got me thinking about what I do when I have a cold or infection. Because it’s pretty much the same every time and waking up on Thursday morning, I started to go through it.

Ginger, Lemon and Honey Soother and lots of water.

I make a big batch of this for the fridge at home and to take into work with me, I use a lot more ginger in this than I used to, because last time I was ill, ginger seemed to be the only thing that helped the coughing, I also eat the ginger (it is extreme but it helps!). I drink this all through the day and for every cup of it I manage I also drink a glass of water. Fluids are important and I make sure I have lots of them!

Ginger Shots

I continue the ginger theme with ginger shots from Pret but I also can get them from Sainsburys. I find they help and it might just be the juice element adding to my Vitamin C intake but at this point, I don’t care.

Elderberry Syrup

I’m not sure whether this is having any effect but I have it so I increase the amount to tablespoon every two to three hours through the day.

Sleep

When I’m ill, I sleep. Some small children get wired when they are ill, I was never one of them. When I’m sick, my body wants to sleep, that’s easier said than done because I need to work and it’s hard to sleep if you’re coughing and bunged up.  I do get all the rest I can and have been known to come home, take my make up off and go straight to bed. 

Cold and Flu Medicine

I’m happy to try all the ‘natural’ remedies in the world if they help but at the same time God gave us the ability to science the hell out of things and so I’m more than happy to use cold and flu medicine if I need to. Generally, if it’s a mild cold, I don’t need to take anything during the day but I do take Night Nurse to ensure that I get a relatively good nights sleep.

VapoRub, Olbas Oil and Tiger Balm

When I have a cold, I smell like all of the above. I use the Olbas Oil through the day and smother my neck, chest and back in VapoRub before bed time. I also put tiger balm or VapoRub on the soles of my feet and cover with bedsocks before bedtime.

 

Tidy and organised

Ok, so being caught up on household chores and having an empty laundry basket or tidy kitchen don’t make me feel physically better, however, knowing that they are done or only need minimal work from me relives my mental load and allows me to relax and get on with getting well. Also having to wrestle through a mess or a load of laundry post cold doesn’t help with recovery. Added to that, although I would love to go to bed at the first sign of a sniffle and stay there until it was gone that doesn’t pay the rent so I have to do the 9 to 5 and when I’m ill, I need everything to be as easy as possible.

That looks slightly different each time but last week, it looked like doing a food shop on Thursday night and making batch of chilli, a batch of onion soup and a batch of boiled chicken.  They are all freezable and are easy to eat and heat and relatively  good for me. While I had the energy, I changed the bed and the towels (because those things always make me feel better and got the dirty ones washed (once they dry it takes five minutes to put them away).

Food as Medicine

I’m not super strict about it but I limit alcohol, additional sugar and dairy and try to eat healthily. Last week, I tried this smoothie to have for breakfast and it was great on my sore throat and the meals I cooked were easy to eat and relatively good for me.

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Monday Miscellany

Happy Monday!

This weekend there was more snow, winter needs to end soon. I have a cold and didn’t leave the house all weekend.

This morning I am going to attempt to get to work, both my usual train routes have issues, some days would be better spend indoors but I need to work or I don’t get paid!

In other news, my brother called at the weekend to ask how to make Yorkshire puddings and sent me a photo! Proud sister moment right there!

But as they all have a cold, I think I’ve identified the source of mine…

We didn’t make it to the allotment this weekend but instead sowed some seed, although I’m worried that the downturn in temperature may have done for them. Fingers crossed!

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! I seem to have a cold, I’m taking extra elderberry syrup, drinking lots of ginger with lemon and honey and ginger shots, taking extra vitamin C (it’s supposed to help shorten the length of a cold) and as much sleep as I can manage! Hopefully, I can stave of the worst of it.

This week from me, there was miscellany, a post about what the boys and I did for Mother’s Day for mummy and grandma, a brief post about the plot and a snapshot of what I’ve been eating recently.

Here are this week’s links from elsewhere…

Should we avoid Mother’s Day because it’s hard? This is something I was thinking about on Monday and is worth reading.

Childhood misconceptions Funny

Farm Girl Café, Chelsea: ‘We don’t stay for dessert, because we have suffered enough’ – restaurant review

Delusions of stadium grandeur haunt West Ham and club’s owners I’m not all that keen on West Ham, but no fan deserves this!

Austerity really has hit poor people hardest – the figures prove it

If we truly cared about poor people, low-wage Britain wouldn’t exist

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Food Lately

Spring is on it’s way, it’s lighter in the morning and I’m feeling it in an uptick of energy, which means that I’m cooking a bit more than usual. Most of my cooking right now seems to be about using up the freezer, I’m keen to clear it out in preparation for the summer produce glut I’m hoping for.

Chicken and roasted vegetables, (onions, tomatoes, garlic and my last butternut squash from last season)

Leftover vegetables were used in a pasta dish and a puff pastry tart that I didn’t photograph.

Plum cake to use up the plums also in the freezer

Overnight oat breakfast pots with rhubarb compote.

Today I realised that I might be coming down with cold, so I’ll make a batch of boiled chicken as that is easy in the slow cooker and comforting and makes loads. The ultimate food for when you’re under the weather and for the cold snap we’re predicted at the weekend!

What are you eating right now?

 

 

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Allotment Adventures: Signs of Spring

I was away last weekend so there wasn’t a lot of allotmenting happening. On Friday morning, I went up to refill the bird feeders and collect the raspberry canes I’d dug up for my sister in law. I also saw a couple of people and had a chat and found out that my allotment neighbour was responsible for the mystery roll of edging left on my plot!

The plot is in pretty much the same state it was in last week, minus the snow.The broad beans look ok, although there are some gaps! As we haven’t planted anything else out and the cavolo nero and chard aren’t up to much, it’s all pretty much as it was.

The rhubarb is starting to push through and the chives and tarragon I planted last year seemed to have survived the winter and are pushing up.It doesn’t look like much but it makes me happy. I was comparing this time last year to now and everything is further behind this year thanks to the beast from the east. Every year is different, although every year Ma tells me to remember that we might not have a good year this time but every year I feel that, eventually, we do alright!

Also so far this year, I haven’t sowed a seed, witness my restraint! That all changes this weekend. The work list for April looks like this.

  • bonfire
  • paint the shed
  • start sowing seeds indoors (leeks, tomatoes, cucumbers, cucamelons, peppers, kale, chard, cauliflowers)
  • start sowing seeds outdoors (beetroot, carrots, radishes, peas, salad, herbs)
  • plant out potatoes
  • buy compost and fill remaining beds
  • plant out mint

What that actually looks like for this weekend!

Outside

  • Sow wildflowers
  • Sow peas and sweet peas
  • dig over top of plot where the squash are going
  • dig over area were sweet corn is going
  • plant out gypsophila
  • plant out two bags of potatoes
  • set up cloche
  • sort out mint

Inside

  • sow tomatoes
  • sow peppers
  • sow leeks
  • sow some cucumbers and cucamelons

I’m going to wait and sow the summer squash in April along with the basil and more cucumbers, although I love the idea of planting the potatoes on St Patrick’s Day, I’m not sure about the weather, the BBC tells me that the forecast for the weekend is light snow, which means that there will be no sowing of anything and the sweet peas will be sown indoors, assuming the weather is fine, my current working plan is to do 2 this weekend and the rest over Easter weekend.

 

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