Sunday Music: Drew Holcomb – Family

This week I spent some time talking to my brother and yesterday, I spent some time on the allotment with Ma. I also spent some time talking to my aunt and next week I’ll be at my brother’s for the littlest nephew’s birthday.

This is about right…

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Recommendation: English Heritage and National Trust Memberships

Now I’m 46, I am middle aged, I like gardening and old buildings, I have been known to plan holidays around going to see particular old buildings (mostly Middleham which is my favourite castle!). I did all of this as a younger person but now I’m quite relaxed about being the type of person who has a favourite castle and I want to recommend English Heritage and National Trust Memberships.I think I had an English Heritage membership when I was a teenager, because I think they used to manage The Tower of London. I’ve been to the Tower in the summer holidays and got in using the membership but I know you can’t do that now. As an adult, I’ve had the English Heritage membership consistently since I was 40 because castles, especially ruined ones are my thing. The National Trust membership is newer, I bought it last year when Jo and I decided to visit Ham House and I decided to visit because I knew I was going to Northumberland in September and thought it would come in handy and it did!I pay monthly via direct debit and it costs about £11 for both. If I had to choose one it would be the English Heritage because it’s slightly cheaper and you can take up to 6 under 18’s in on one ticket, which Ma and I did when we took the nephews to Wrest Park a couple of years ago. When Ben and I were children, one of the things Ma did for us was take us about London, we did all of the standard things, The Tower and Tower Bridge, St Paul’s (back when you could go right to the top!), Monument, the Science Museum, the Natural History Museum, the V&A, Hampton Court, Greenwich (on the boat down the river), the Imperial War Museum and the HMS Belfast. She wanted us to know about our city and took time off work to show it to us.

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Friday Links: Prorogued

Happy Friday!

So the big news where I am is that Boris Johnson has,  yet again, proved to be a lying, faithless snake who doesn’t believe in the sovereignty of Parliament or the Union. The Queen let him do it, presumably to take the new cycle off Prince Andrew consorting with convicted pedophiles. Ma is now calling the Queen ‘Hindenberg’ the press is making allusions to Ramsey McDonald and I’m wondering if there’s a tennis court near Westminster.

 

 

What Boris Johnson Did to the World’s Most Stable Democracy

Work until 75? Many people won’t even live that long

Boris Johnson is playing politics with Northern Ireland’s ‘delicate balance’

The Man Who Couldn’t Take It Anymore

Trump’s push to hold the G7 at a resort he still owns and profits from, explained

The final thing before we move from politics to other stuff, are Tony Benn’s five questions essential to democracy, because it seems very relevant this week . I know that Benn didn’t like the EU but he wouldn’t have agreed with proroguing Parliament either because his entire argument was that Parliament was sovereign. So apply them to Boris Johnson and decide is the UK government a democracy?

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Skull of humankind’s oldest-known ancestor discovered

The best $190 I ever spent: a fan to ease my perimenopause. There seems to be a lot of stuff about the perimenopause and menopause about this week, I wonder if it’s just because when you start to think something is happening to you, you see the pieces you wouldn’t see before. The lovely thing about these pieces are that they aren’t really about the thing being bought at all. They’re about how sometimes buying and using a thing helps make your life make sense. This is wonderful and this in particular is me:

Most people assume that because I don’t have children, I don’t like children. In fact, I quite like children, though there are a great many children I do not like, as is true of adults, and of dogs, too. I would have liked to have children of my own, but it simply did not happen for me; that is both a disappointment and a gift, in its way. I live a life relatively unencumbered by others, and there is a great deal of freedom in that.

The science of addiction: a personal struggle to kick cocaine gives a neuroscientist unique insights

David Squires on … Bolton, Bury and the threat to our football clubs

Pumpkin spice lattes — and the backlash, and the backlash to the backlash — explained. I’m not a fan of PSL, I’m anti ruining the delicious taste of coffee with spices, but I’m all for people doing what they love so if PSL is your thing, go forth and drink. I’ll judge you far more harshly if you tell me that your favourite book is Wuthering Heights…

 

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Classic White Loaf

This weekend, I made bread. I used to make bread fairly often but haven’t done it much recently. However I had just made some jam and if you have jam then you need bread to properly taste test it.

The recipe is from BBC Good Food and it does exactly what it says it does. I didn’t change the ingredients at all but I did make a slight change to the method, because I don’t like to knead bread (it makes my hands ache) so once I had dough, I kneaded in the bowl and left it to rise until it had doubled then I put it in the loaf tin for the final rise. I did allow that last rise to go on a bit too long and it got a bit messy but it was really good and very simple.

So if you thinking about making some bread, this is a good place to start!

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Allotment Adventures: The corn is as high as an elephant’s eye

The temperatures in London went stupidly hot last week and we had 30C and over for a couple of days so just as allotmenters started to prepare themselves for an early autumn, it was summer again. This is good as I still haven’t had a cucumber this year, although the plants are escaping their bed…So this week given the extreme heat, we got on the plot early, harvested, watered and then drank rosé.We’re in good shape, we got loads of beans, raspberries, two more of the winter squash are ready, there were carrots, the very first kale and very soon there will be tomatoes and hopefully cucumbers, corn and borlotti beansWe also got the promise of an apple tree (my fruit obsession continues!) and we have a rough sketch of the work we need to do going into autumn.

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Monday Miscellany: Bank Holiday Late

Happy Tuesday! For those of us in most of the UK (not Scotland) yesterday was the last Bank Holiday of summer and that’s it until Christmas. It’s the last week of the school holidays (except in Scotland) and it’s been quite warm and that’s going to continue until Wednesday when the temp is due to drop and I’ll be slightly less grumpy.

I had a brilliant weekend and to be honest, I’m not ready to go back to work but needs must. It was so chilled, Ma and I blackberried and went to the Corinthian Casuals on Saturday, which was lots of fun. On Sunday we allotmented and just sat and admired the space. Monday, I shopped and did house stuff (and read a book). Sometimes it’s the unexpected weekends you enjoy.

I expect it’ll be a quiet week, almost everyone is on holiday. I’m out on Wed and Thursday and not up to much on the weekend except the plot and buying a birthday present for a nephew!

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Friday Links: Boris thinks that Ireland is still a colony but he’s not trying to buy Greenland..

Happy Friday! It’s been a week where I’m still embarrassed by Boris, in a way I’ve never been embarrassed by a prime minister before but at least I’m not American. I feel so sorry for the diplomats in the Foreign Office and the State Department because my limited experience tells me that they are dedicated public services who serve their countries faithfully and it must be so hard right now. For the record, I don’t really discuss the ins and outs of it with my friends (both of them) because they wouldn’t because they understand discretion and doing the right thing…

Here are this week’s links….

Council ban on protests outside abortion clinic upheld by appeal court. Yay! I signed that petition and I wrote something that’s was used by Sister Supporter in their submission to the council. I still object to the guys sitting in their designated spot saying the rosary (Matthew 6: 5-15) but that’s a religious objection. During the original consultation, they argued that they had local support and that’s proved untrue so now they’re arguing that they weren’t causing anti-social behaviour to local, also untrue, I have pro-life friends who are glad not to have them there. I wish they would put as much money and effort into actually helping children alive and suffering as they’ve done in having the ban overturned…

‘Self-care’: how a radical feminist idea was stripped of politics for the mass market

Here’s what I learned from my privileged, western failure to go plastic-free for a month

King of the castles: a cabin stay on Northumberland’s mighty coast. I’ve been to every castle listed…

Want to see the future? Take a trip on Wales’ model railway

Greta Thunberg’s attackers are morally bankrupt, but her deification isn’t helpful. I don’t like it when a person is held up as a model or as inspiring. Honestly, I’ll chose my own hero’s and deifying a 16 year old is dangerous for us and for her. This sums up my feelings about the whole situation really brilliantly.

Denying single women IVF is a cruel policy that belongs in the past. I know lots of brilliant single mothers and it seems terribly unfair that people who would love to have children and would be good parents don’t get to be. It seems even worse that having a child seems to come down to whether you have money or not, but life is terribly unfair. I’m too old to get pregnant now but if I had the money I would love to adopt or foster but without a lottery win or a tripling of my salary that won’t happen because I can’t afford a house big enough for a child  If you ask any parent, they will tell you how even if they were ready for parenthood, the actual reality of a real, live child is something you’re never prepared for. Ma used to work with someone who when it alone and she had it all worked out but she couldn’t cope with a full time job and a child and instead went to another part time job and benefits to fill the gap. We live in society, if my taxes go to help parents of all types raise and educate and care for their children I’m all for that, I’m not saying that we shouldn’t. However it’s stupid to pretend that most successful parenting is generally about balancing resources, emotional and financial. Genevieve Roberts is taking this decision very personally, no one is criticising her for her choices or her family, but often single parents struggle with emotional and financial resources. My preference would be that IVF wouldn’t be offered at all on the NHS, but this policy is about a rationing of resources and it could and should been better explained but it’s a reality. A disappointing reality for single people who want to be parents but it’s not really a cruel one.

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Allotment Adventures: Expansion

I think I’ve talked a little bit about my allotment neighbour, Joe and how this year has not been a good one for him. We saw him this weekend and he told us that he’s going to give up the plot this year. Our allotment year runs from 1st October and the chair of the committee has confirmed that I’m top of the waiting list for a whole plot. So we expanding and all of plot 186 becomes ours to tend.We were sort of expecting that this would happen but we’ll be really sorry to see Joe leave, he’s had the plot probably longer than I’ve been alive and he’s been a great source of encouragement and knowledge in the last couple of years and in fact said that he’s sad to be leaving but happy that he can hand it over to us ‘girls’. Fortunately, his daughter has the plot directly opposite, so I’m sure that we’ll get some visits.

Joe’s plot is a bit daunting to take over. He digs over his plot every year and that means weeds, lots and lots of them. There is also a gooseberry bush, a row of loganberries and I think a small apple tree. The plot backs onto the hedge and is more in shadow than my section of the plot, thanks to a building across the road that features in a lot of my photos of the plot!Ma was hoping that we could keep and make use of the shed to store the things she doesn’t like in our shed (mostly chickenwire and cloches) but the back of Joe’s plot is a lot messier than Ma or I would put up with and a lot of the ‘equipment’ and the shed itself is too far into the hedgerow. The rule is a metre between the fence and the plot and that’s not the case right now. So the first thing that will need to happen is that someone will have to come and check the very old shed for asbestos. If it does have asbestos then Pathways organise for it to taken away and disposed of and have a fund for doing so (which tells you a lot about allotments in the 60’s and 70’s!). If it just needs to be cleared away, then we can do that and it’ll go on the bonfire in November!My current plan is to do nothing until October because Joe is still there, the cabbages and courgette corridor are on Joe’s plot and we’ll continue to tend them and weed that area for him. In October, we’ll clear the back and move our compost bins to that area. We really need to work on making compost so I want to create buy some proper large bins so I can turn it and make lots. That will allow us to turn the two square beds either side of one of them. We’ll also look at creating a proper area for sitting down outside our current shed because we still haven’t got to grips with that. In terms of use of the extra space, I do eventually want to plant asparagus and more rhubarb (because there is never enough!) and I have another boysenberry plant so that has to go somewhere part of me is thinking about patio fruit trees, maybe a cherry and/or an apricot (for those of you I currently in various stages of maturity have 6 blueberry bushes, 2 blackcurrant bushes, 3 gooseberry bushes, two boysenberry bushes, loganberries, rhubarb, plums, summer and autumn raspberries – I like fruit!). We’ll have more space to grow things that sit in the ground longer too, brussel sprouts and parsnips are on my list and more of the things that we never get bored of carrots, beetroot and winter squash. I also want to grow some more flowers, a colleague at work has given me some sisyrinchium striatum so I’ll find some space for them and I’ll need to move some of the verbena bonariesis as its swamping a tiny lavender I planted in the same place.As we can’t do any of that for another couple of months, let’s talk about what is going on right now on the plot I do have.We harvested carrots, french beans, raspberries, beetroot, salad and courgettes. There are 4 tiny beetroot in the ground that I’ll leave until they are a bit bigger. The salad is done and was replaced at the weekend with cauliflowers. There are more carrots, french beans, raspberries, courgettes and summer squash to come and we are still waiting on the tomatoes, sweetcorn, borlotti beans, kale, leeks and chard. There cabbages and cauliflowers are for spring. We also sowed some turnips to see how they’ll do. Once we have some free beds, we’ll sow some winter lettuce and in autumn the sweetpeas and broad beans for next year.Right now life on the plot is harvesting, weeding and some watering, then processing everything we pick.

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Monday Miscellany: Back to work

Happy Monday!

Every year I take the week of my birthday off. I often don’t go anywhere but that time is really important to me. This year we went to Newcastle for three days and it was lovely. We’re still in August but it feels as though summer is over, some of that is because of the miserable weather and some of that is because it’s nearly time for schools to go back.

So last week’s re-entry into the normal world of commuting and work and not getting to do what I want when I want was tough and I need some time to read these. Birthdays really are the best.

Over the weekend, we worked at the plot, I got the flat in order (there was hoovering!), Christelle and Gabbie the dog came for a visit. I went to bed yesterday night knowing that I was set up for the week ahead.

This week, is all about calm, as the days get shorter, I need to start my autumn/winter coping strategies so that they are embedded habits come October. So lunchtime walk, doing enough housework in the evening so that mornings aren’t a rush, being much stricter about bedtimes and so on!

And I need to take my library books back…

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Friday Links: A mixed bag

Happy Friday!

You may or may not have noticed my absence from this space, I was having some site issues and was just really busy so it took me a while to sort out! Anyway, here are some links…

Lyme Disease Is Baffling, Even to Experts. One of the things that sticks out about this is the way doctors treat things that they either don’t understand because of science or don’t understand because of experience. I understand that pain is subjective but I also know that I’ve had experiences when I’ve known that something isn’t right and the doctor hasn’t wanted to believe that it’s serious or that I know is not right and it’s exhausting, advocating for yourself without knowing what’s going on.

Dingoes Have Created a Scientific Rift

Don’t Ban Assault Weapons—Tax Them

Nationalism in England is not just a rightwing nostalgia trip

Talk of a public housing renaissance in London is fake news

Hong Kong Shows the Flaws in China’s Zero-Sum Worldview. I haven’t thought much about China beyond thinking that I wouldn’t trust the Chinese government all that much, but this is interesting…

Of course the US supports a no deal – it makes a minnow out of Britain

Saudi Arabia allows women to travel without male guardian’s approval. Almost like adult women are actual people…

People want to travel more sustainably. But we need help to do it. While I agree that flying should be more expensive than going by train. Here’s an idea, maybe people should limit their travel full stop.

Meghan Markle Can’t Be a Royal Radical. It’s interesting what’s missing in this article. That’s money. Some of the stuff that Meghan Markle getting flack for is much less about her and more about her nationality and skin colour (and all of that is absolutely disgusting). However, she had a career and she gave it up and she is living off the State. I believe that if the Royal Family lived on a council estate The Sun would call them benefit scroungers. It’s an enormous privilege to never have to worry about money again, but it’s a gilded cage they all chose either to stay in or to enter. None of them can say they didn’t know what the deal was.

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