Monday Miscellany: Cosy

Happy Monday!

Last week was fun, it felt busy but manageable. On Tuesday, Ma and I went to see David Copperfield which was a lovely, joyous film. On Wednesday, I worked from home, I spent lunch time on the plot and very reluctantly went back to work but left Ma on the plot. I failed to have a haircut because Jane wasn’t well so I have fringe issues….

Yesterday, I spent all day indoors and did nothing useful except reading which is I suppose, useful but not in a directly tangible way. It’s given me a new favourite quote and a motto for the next few months, “Be joyful, though you have considered all the facts”.

Despite the time off at Christmas, I’ve hit a wall, I need time and rest and daylight. Basically, I need a holiday, roll on April!

This week my plan is to see the doctor to talk about my ‘inexplicable fevers’ and to have a smear (I’m not going to be coy about it, I don’t like them but if you have a vagina, make sure you’re up to date with your smear test).

Medical joys aside, I have a busy work week and no other plans.

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Recommendations: Fated Mates podcast

I never really got the hang of podcasts. I listen to the radio all the time, and when I have used podcasts, they tend to be the BBC ones, so basically, I’m using them like radio iplayer (or BBC Sounds as it now prefers to be called) to catch up on the programmes I missed.

However, over on Twitter, I follow Sarah McLean and she has a podcast, Fated Mates, about romance novels and novelists and so I looked it up. As ‘luck’ would have it, the first one I heard was the episode on pegging. Both informative AND hilarious. (It also segued off into a discussion about how we teach our children about this stuff which was even more informative)

So I’ve been using my walk home from the station to listen to the podcasts. The subject matter is niche, if you don’t like romance novels then probably don’t check this out but it’s interesting to hear romance discussed and taken seriously as a valid form of literature. I’m enjoying it though

 

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Friday Links: Unimpeachable

Happy Friday! The first week of February has been busy, so not that many links:

Boris Johnson is about to find out just how weak the UK is after Brexit

Will a US-UK trade deal leave us with a plateful of problems?

HS2’s northern critics: ‘We don’t need it but we’ll be paying for it’

The Help: Gig-economy apps affect more than the economy—they’re changing what it means to be a friend. I am legitimately terrible at asking for help. I’m happy to help others but only really accept help if it’s offered, I’ll ask Ma but that is about it. This is a later life thing for me, after Stef died and all the madness that followed, I decided no more drama, and part of that was not being a stressful friend (because I felt I had been and I had asked for help that wasn’t forthcoming) and part of that was to be very clear about what was and wasn’t acceptable behaviour and to stop asking for help. How it’s ingrained behaviour.

Trump’s Jokes About Defying Election Results Could Create Chaos. Because deep down everyone can see that they are really jokes…

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Allotment Adventures: Everything’s Coming Up Roses

There was lots of moving plants this week. We have a rose garden in embryo stage, a moved boysenberry and a fully weeded squash bed. We also sorted out the chard bed and took out the cauliflowers. All typed out like that it doesn’t look like much but it was epic, I’m still recovering from all the wrestling of the roses (I hope they are too!). It doesn’t look like a lot but I’m hoping that with care it’ll look lovely in a year or two.I also picked up a bronze fennel and another verbena bonariensis. The fennel has gone at the back of the new flower bed and the bonariensis has gone the other side of the roses, a couple more will go there when I move the bed of them by the rhubarb and there will be other spots to find for them when I split the ones in the middle of the plot.I also moved the boysenberry to the back of the plot. It’s very little at the moment but they can get really big so I decided that it should have some space, it can spread out a little there whereas the bed it was in was a bit too small.The cauliflowers did not survive to be eaten. If anyone can tell me what happened, I’d be grateful.What we haven’t done is sort out the new raised beds because they haven’t arrived yet! Hopefully next week.

So here’s the state of the worklist

  • Install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Transplant the roses
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Set up the cloche
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Sow leeks
  • Buy seed potatoes (we couldn’t get nicola’s so went for charlottes)
  • Paint the shed
  • Split and trim the verbena bonariensis and move the stuff next to the rhubarb
  • Trim the rosemary and sage
  • Sow the first batch of peas
  • Weed everything!
  • Buy compost and start filling some beds
  • Turn the compost bins
  • Have another bonfire

4 out of 17, it’s going to be a busy month but we are eight beds and a pond away from having all the major structure done and then we can start growing things

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What I’ve Read – January 2020

I started the year with lots of easy reading. I would recommend, Love Lettering, Evvie Drake Starts Over and A Cheesemonger’s Guide to the British Isles.

His Bride for the Taking – Tessa Dare

I enjoy Tessa Dare, I completely have to handwave the ‘historical’ part of it but they are always fun reads. This was no exception and was a lovely easy way into the New Year

The Friend Zone – Abby Jimenez

I still don’t know what to think about this. I guess I’m always a bit meh about a story that starts with infertility and ends up with a miracle baby. However, the happy ending is about more than a baby, it’s about learning to accept being loved and knowing that you’re worthy of being loved.

The Bride Test – Helen Hoang

I liked the take on the heroine not making or having an issue of the hero’s autism. I liked that neither hero or heroine were white and I enjoyed it and the ending.

Love Lettering – Kate Clayborn

This was a delight. I loved that Meg described how she sees words and that she works things out and learns how to be better at all relationships not just the romance and the weight that the entire story gives to friendships and honesty and staying. I also the description of PMT emotions as….

‘the kind of mood that swings wildly between “ten seconds from murdering someone” and “three seconds from crying because you noticed a layer of dust on your windowsill, you absolute filthy pig“‘

Evvie Drake Starts Over – Linda Holmes

Another book that I adored. It’s about how you manage relationships when you are completely broken and how you still need to have relationships and find yourself when everything seems to suck. I can relate. Another delight. Go and read.

A Cheesemonger’s History of the British Isles – Ned Palmer

Back in October, I linked to the review of this. Jo bought it for me as a Christmas present and it’s such a lovely read, it made me want to eat lots of cheese and taught me things, but it’s not preachy, just really enthusiastic. I really enjoyed this.

Moonlighter – Sarina Bowen

Another Brooklyn Bruisers book, I love how all of this is sort of taking place as other books are happening and it was the perfect end of January book

Heartland – Sarina Bowen

I prefer farmers to hockey players and I liked this one more, it’s amazing how quickly in life and in fiction, problems can be solved if you talk to each other and that goes for more than just the romantic relationships.

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Monday Miscellany: Finally it’s February

Happy Monday!

I’m so glad January is over! Ok, February is still not spring but it’s getting closer and the trees in my street are in blossom!

The last week of January was as to be expected, I spent Tuesday fighting off a migraine and Wednesday with another bout of ‘inexplicable fever except no fever’. I’m not sure what it is but the doctor is going to hate me because I’m going to keep booking appointments until we find out what it is!

On Friday, I went to Sue and Richard’s for dinner and we all agreed that we should do it more often, everyone is at that time of life, were there doesn’t seem to be much time! But it was fun. On Saturday, Ma and I worked on the plot, had a lovely dinner and I introduced her to ‘Sex Education‘ which I love and she thought was pretty funny.

Sunday was for shopping and prep for the week and here we are.

This week, is work, David Copperfield, more work and a much needed haircut!

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Recommendations: Jersey Bedding

I love my bed. I mean really love it and changing the bed linen weekly is one of the housework tasks I do every week pretty much without fail. It’s a family thing I think, Ben and I will both talk about how lovely getting into a clean bed in clean pj’s is and when I’m ill, I’ll change the bed because it makes me feel better. So it shouldn’t come as any surprise to know that one of the New Year’s Eve traditions I have is that I change the bed and my first sleep of the year is in clean bedding.This year I used some of my Christmas money to buy myself new bedding, I was wondering around and came across this jersey duvet cover and pillows and they had jersey sheets and there you go, the most cosy bedding ever invented. I can’t wait for summer, but I will miss this bedding…Bedding especially when you have a king size bed can be really expensive, I rely on Primark and Ikea for most of mine. It’s reasonably cheap, washes well, lasts a while and I usually get out of the shop with a full set of sheet, pillowcases and duvet cover for less than £40!

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Friday Links: Last day of January and EU Membership

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Allotment Adventures: Structure

This week we got the plot. You can tell that people are beginning to think about Spring because there are more people on site, it’s also because the committee did unofficial site inspections before Christmas and spoke to the plot holders who might be in the weeds (literally) come spring. That and new tenancies starting in October mean that there are more people on site, working away.Including us. We started off with re-filling the bird feeders. We have four feeders now, two for fat balls and two for seeds. Then we got around to cutting the blue pipe we have variously inherited and been given. We now have three sets for the square beds and two sets for the longer beds. So that done and put away, we went to our jobs.

There was more wood chip this weekend so I took the opportunity to cover the new gooseberry bed with it (I do this with all my fruit and it really seems to help them) and re-up the path that runs from the shed down the plot because it was looking a bit boggy.Ma got on with the epic task of weeding the new bed that we put together the week before last. I had given it a rough dig then and it’s full of grass and really weedy, that end of the plot is overshadowed by a building on the other side of the road and the soil is clay and holds water more than the other end, with all the rain we’ve been having, the soil is difficult to work so weeding was a tough job. However, experience has taught us (with all due respect to Charles Dowding) that weeding before we cover with compost works better than a layer of cardboard. While we were weeding the robins came to visit to see if there were any worms…Back in October, I bunged a load of bulbs in a patch near the herbs, there were four types and I only remember two of them, giant snowdrops and bearded irises. We’ve pretty much just left it but I wanted to use the bricks we found on the plot to define the bed and we’ll add primroses and primulas and hellebores to it as well as other things. So I did.I’ve bunged the two of the lavender pots in the space for the minute and put the path around it in. We’ve had a re-think about this side of the plot. At the other side of the new path, there is already a rose bush and there are another six roses on the plot, the ones at the back on the other side of the work area are not doing great because they don’t get enough sun. Mike and Nina are also moving plot and have offered me some smaller rose bushes from there old plot to. So we are going to move all the roses and have a mini rose garden next to this flower bed and a mini pond. So all of that side of the plot will be flowers and not vegetable beds! This is my very not to scale plan of the top half of the plot.

I also trimmed the oregano of it’s old flower and started with the trimming of the rosemary because it’s out of hand. In other news, things are beginning to bud and the rhubarb is coming back, just in time because I used the last of my rhubarb this week!We also ordered three new beds which should come next week so once they are up and the roses moved that will be a huge area of plot structure done. We’ll order four more square beds in April and then one more that we’ll make next to the squash bed. Then all we have to do is fill them with compost!

The January work list looked like this, if we got to it, it’s crossed out:

  • Dig over and weed the area the second squash bed is going.
  • Build the second squash bed
  • Cut the blue pipe to the right size
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Use the various collected bricks around the plot to mark out the space where my bulbs are next to the herb bed
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Learn about transplanting roses
  • Order and install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Paint the shed

We’ve done quite a bit and I’m feeling good about it. Next week is installing the new beds and moving roses. That will involve some epic weeding. So if that’s all we get done, I’ll be happy with it but if I get time I’d like to split the autumn raspberries and move the boysenberry.

We have a lot to do in February so here’s another list:

  • Install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Transplant the roses
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Set up the cloche
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Sow leeks
  • Buy seed potatoes
  • Paint the shedSplit and trim the verbena bonariensis and move the stuff next to the rhubarb
  • Trim the rosemary and sage
  • Sow the first batch of peas
  • Weed everything!
  • Buy compost and start filling some beds
  • Turn the compost bins

 

 

 

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One thing a month

I didn’t make any resolutions this year, I’m sort of at the stage where I know what’s working, I know what doesn’t and all change last year was incremental.

Two things that I want to do are:

  • reducing the stuff I own, I feel that there are things I’m hanging onto that I don’t need or use and those things can be better used by someone else. I also want to be more aware of what I bring into the flat and on to the allotment and have more sustainable and bio degradable options.  So less cling film and one use items at home, more work on composting on the allotment and I’d eventually like to get to the stage with the plot where we buy one load of compost and have it delivered, instead of hundreds of bags.
  • small improvements to the flat, there are things I never got around to doing that need sorting.

None of this will happen overnight, because sustainable/reusable options are expensive, so this year I’m going to commit to doing/buying at least one thing a month that will improve my life in my home.

This month is was beeswax wraps to replace clingfilm, last month cotton wool pads replacements that are reusuable. At some point it’ll be curtains in the bedroom and sorting out the shelving in the cupboard of doom to make it more user friendly. No major works or purchases, just little changes that make my life a bit better and/or less wasteful.

 

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