What I’ve Read – April 2013

After the Snow – S. D. Crockett

This was Luc’s holiday book (every holiday, Luc, one of my godchildren, read a book together, this started as a way to get him to read more English books, he and his siblings are being brought up bilingual and go to a French school.) He chose this and neither of us are quite sure about it. Luc thought that Willo the main character was ‘a bit thick’, I did point out that he wasn’t so much stupid as unaware of what was happening anywhere else and that wasn’t all his fault. Having said that, I really objected to the way Willo spoke, I don’t know if it was being used to convey that he did have learning issues but because no-one else in the book spoke like that I found it jarring and unrealistic. Luc also objected to the coincidence at the end and the series of events did seem a bit to neat and tidy. I also thought the ending was rushed but that could be because I read it quickly because I wanted to be done with it. I felt that Crockett threw the kitchen sink at it, so lots of the book just doesn’t mesh.

Forgive My Fins – Tera Childs

Luc’s sister has never needed any encouragement to read in either English or French. However, she announced that she didn’t think it was fair that Luc got to talk to me all through the holidays about books and she didn’t.  I told her to go and pick a book and this was her pick, which we read over the Bank Holiday.

First up, Helene and Luc are 12, the only reading rules they have are:

1) If the book is written in English, that’s the language the book needs to be read in and vice versa for books written in French;

2) They can’t see the film until they’ve read the book (this was the Harry Potter rule – they were too young to see the later films without first having read about it).

Aside from those two. They can choose what they want to read, she and her brother are both reading ahead of their age but I think that’s how you learn. Anything she picks up that we think may have tricky content in or be too difficult, we discuss but we’ve (that’s her mother, step father, foster parents, grandfather and me – it’s complicated!) let them make their own decisions and they both know that they can come and talk to us about anything they find difficult or have questions about. This year, Oliver Twist was not a success but H learnt that we trust her to make decisions and she can trust us not to baby her. I did point blank refuse to read Lace and told her why (content and bad writing) and she decided to take my word for it. What has any of this to do with this book? Well, it wasn’t a dreadful book, but it wasn’t good either. H summed it up as, you’re enjoying it when you’re in it but too much of it doesn’t make sense. It’s the princess diaries with mermaids. I’m not going to read the second one but H reads with the single mindedness of a 12 year old so goes through lots of books.

The Madness Underneath – Maureen Johnson

I loved The Name of the Star, which I really didn’t expect and I really enjoyed this one too. Rory sounds like an American living in the UK. When I realised what the school was on top of about 2 minutes before Rory did, I thought it was a stroke of genius, but I did feel that this was all a bit rushed before it was time to move onto the next thing, which made me sad. This is clearly book 2 and has set things up nicely for the next one. It’s going to be a long wait for that book!

The Graveyard Book – Neil Gaiman

This is a re-read for me, but was my pick for Luc and Helene. It’s been an education to read it again with them chipping in. I think I’m most proud of the text I got from their Grandad “Luc says that Mr Frost is the man Jack”. I’m really pleased that he got it but one of the things that I love about Neil Gaiman is the way that all the clues are in the writing. You just think he has a wonderful turn of phrase but everything is there. H told me very early in (pages 33 and 34) that I “only liked the book because the drawings were like my photo”. It’s an illustrated book and I have the book with the Dave McKean illustrations, so that’s the one that they have. She’s sort of right, the illustration over those two pages is painfully like the Rainbow Arch on Lindisfarne.

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This is why re-reading books with others is so much fun, you find things that you would have missed by yourself. L & H really liked this, they liked that language was challenging. They loved Silas and Luc did ask if this was my way of telling them I was a vampire (I’m one of their guardians!). I’m not but I’m so pleased that that enjoyed it. It’s also reminded me that it’s nearly time to start Oli on the Gaiman books!

Intrusion – Ken MacLeod

This is on the shortlist for the Arthur C. Clarke Award. It’s set in a near future where responsible people have cameras in every room in the house, where the govt has a law that makes the decision ‘you would have made if you had all the information’ for you. It’s a easy to imagine and quite scary. I really liked it but I don’t have a huge amount more to say about it but I keep thinking about it.

Diamond Dove – Adrian Hyland

I bought this last year and it’s been sitting on my Kindle ever since, waiting for me to read. It’s a mystery and as a general rule, I don’t read mysteries, so it’s nice when stepping outside my reading comfort zone is rewarding. I really enjoyed this and although it all finished so quickly, I like that Hyland didn’t clean up the people or the way they lived but clearly loved the place and the people that lived there.

Angelmaker – Nick Harkaway

I’m not even halfway through yet but so far, I’m loving it.

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100 Days

In 100 days time, I turn 40.

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I was toying with a 40 things to do before 40 list. However, then I remembered who I am and what I’m like and that there’s no way in hell I’d get myself motivated for that. So here is a random list of stuff to do before August 6.

Paint the kitchen and bedroom

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Draft-proof the wooden floors

Paint the bathroom floor

Sent Ms T and Oli proper snail mail post

Sort out my ESTA for the Visa Waiver Program, even though the whole concept makes me cross..

Make apricot jam

Spend more time with Tina

Repair my blue necklace

Get the batteries in my watches replaced, because it’s ridiculous to have three non-working watches

Defrost the freezer

Run 5km without stopping

Go for a 12km walk

Knit another ‘fat lamb’

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Anything you think I should add? What would you do if you had 100 before you hit a ‘big’ birthday?

 

 

 

 

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Sunday Music

It was Ella Fitzgerald’s birthday on Thursday (she got her own google thingymajig)

So Black Coffee

 

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Middleham again

It’s still my favourite castle..

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Friday Links

Happy Friday, today I’m heading up north for my much anticipated holiday!  I’ve been so busy sorting things out, I haven’t got many for you this week.

1) Fascinating if a little gruesome, the economics of suicide.

Marcotte’s study found that after people attempt suicide and fail, their incomes increase by an average of 20.6 percent compared to peers who seriously contemplate suicide but never make an attempt. In fact, the more serious the attempt, the larger the boost—”hard-suicide” attempts, in which luck is the only reason the attempts fail, are associated with a 36.3 percent increase in income. (The presence of nonattempters as a control group suggests the suicide effort is the root cause of the boost.)

2) Christians in England are not persecuted. Not even Catholics!

Such shrill claims and silly court cases only serve to shore up any feelings of intolerance that might exist. Undoubtedly, there is some cultural prejudice against Christians; it is seen as uncool to go to church and they are a soft target for second-rate comedians. Yet it is impossible to take seriously claims they are a persecuted minority in an Orwellian state when the Queen is defender of the Church of England’s faith and they have 26 bishops in parliament, even though Christians now comprise considerably less than two-thirds of our population

3) Get your kids vaccinated. I know, it feels odd to be sticking needles in small children but that feeling is nothing compared to how you’ll feel if they get measles or whooping cough. We didn’t have MMR when I was a kid I had all the vaccinations as scheduled except for measles, which I caught before I was due for vaccination.

OK, so we lived in Hackney, with a diverse immigrant population, sometimes arriving from countries where those diseases are still active. In fact, our borough was one of the few places in Europe where tuberculosis was actually making a comeback. But not in my house – I mean, we had a washing machine and a fridge full of organic vegetables and surely, you know, only weak and sickly people could catch it?

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The Perspective Police

Yesterday I had a bad day.

It wasn’t a terrible day, it was just annoying and I had a headache for most of it and I wanted it all to be done.

So I went home and on the way home I called Tina, which is something I had been meaning to do and I do all my best thinking and talking when I’m walking. So I spoke to Tina and I had a drink and I ate my dinner and Ma called and she told me not to be so bloody grumpy and I pointed out that it’s easier to be cheerful when the rest of your work life is 60 bloody days and God willing, I’d be working for another 27 years.

Then I read this blog post and I remembered how blessed I am and sometimes ‘steel-capped boots of The Perspective Police’ are all you need but sometimes, I need to be reminded of how beautiful life is. I’ve been alive nearly 40 years and even that is not something that could have been guaranteed in my grandparents life time. I have a picture of my great-grandmother on my kitchen wall, she died in childbirth I think she was younger than I am now. I can read and write which honestly 150 years ago no one of my class would have been able to do to any degree of competency. That’s just some of the big stuff, I have friends that I love, I was 29 before I lost a parent, which is better than either of my parents managed (Dad was an orphan at 23 and Ma’s mother died when she was 14) and I got to keep the parent that liked me more than beer! I had a big chunk of trauma with Stef dying and people I thought I loved being gits, but I lived through it and wouldn’t go back to the person I was for the world. I can (just) keep a roof over my head and am pretty healthy. Life isn’t always easy and I’m not in any way going to pretend that it always and you shouldn’t be cross when it sucks is but there is always something to be grateful for and life is always pretty amazing..2012_0825mikeandchristellewed0300

 

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Bread Rolls

On Saturday the urge to bake bread took hold, I used to bake bread a lot, but I don’t eat a lot of bread so unless there’s someone around to eat it I don’t.

I tried this recipe by Dan Lepard. Soft white baps, really good, soft white baps.

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They were easy to make, and didn’t require lots of intensive kneading and attention.  I made the sponge in the morning, went and did the shopping, came back and made the dough and did the required three 10 second kneads over 30 minutes as I was doing other stuff.

The taste is amazing and on Sunday when I was dying of the hangover, these were perfect. They would be perfect burger or bacon rolls or sandwich rolls for lunch. The recipe made me 15 rolls, I weighed the dough at about 100g a roll rather than the 150g suggested in the recipe.

Go and try these, everyone deserves decent bread products in their life and these are so much better than anything I’ve ever bought in a shop.

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What I’m thinking..

  • A Union Jack is what you call a Union flag flown on a ship. Your cushion/tabletop/ handbag is not a ‘union jack’ cushion/tabletop/handbag because it’s not being flown from a ship. It’s a union flag.  Get it right people.  I have no problem with Americans not knowing this but if you’re British (yes even you Scotland) get it right..
  • While we’re on words, everything is chemical, you may be trying to eliminate man-made or harmful chemicals from your diet/haircare/beauty routine but it is impossible to eliminate all chemicals from your life. Words and their meanings are important, be precise.
  • I just need to power through until Thursday, then everything will be lovely again.

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  • Sunshine, actual blue skies and the need to put sunglasses on, people smiling. London has never looked more beautiful. Seems like Spring is finally here.

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  • Though on the other hand this is England. Handbag has sunglasses and umbrella in it.
  • Why am I so tired? Seriously, I could sleep for a week..
  • I need to start thinking about packing for next week.
  • I hate packing, I’m so bad at it

As you can see, my mind doesn’t run smoothly or even well most days.

What are you thinking about today?

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The Weekend

Friday night and work night out playing ping pong

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I know it’s amazingly out of focus but it was that kind of a night! I won one game, lost the rest and didn’t really mind. It was night to catch up and talk nonsense with my colleagues.

Saturday was a beautiful sunny day! There was blue sky and the trees are finally beginning to blossom.

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I did some general sorting out and baked a bit (more on that later this week)

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Then off to Christelle and Mike’s for dinner and general fun with the Furmstons..

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I was not very well the next morning. No headache, I was just very, very sick. Several times.

Sunday was spent on the sofa with a Georgette Heyer, feeling quite and not very well!

Other than that, it was a lovely weekend and although today I still feel rocky (which makes me think that it’s more than a hangover!) I’ll live.  This week is all about holiday prep at work and home, on Friday I will be heading up north for a week and I can’t wait!

What are you up to this week?

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! After last week’s ‘all Thatcher, all the time’ Friday Links, we have a slight change of focus this week, the links  aren’t all Thatcher related and the funeral was on Wednesday, so with any luck it will stop soon. It’s been a bad week generally..

1) Jenny made the blue cheese, red onion and walnut focaccia for cafe after Grace on Saturday and it was amazing..

2) Frank Cottrell Boyce on Margaret Thatcher and what she didn’t understand about Britain and state intervention.

The British have many happy memories of state intervention. It was the state that won the war, the state that founded the NHS and gave us free milk when we were little. We have always believed in the possibility of Jerusalem. It’s there in Milton, Blake, GK Chesterton and Oliver Postgate. There’s a thread of purpose that runs through our finest moments – the abolition of the slave trade, the winning of votes for women, the defeat of Hitler – a desire to be not just more prosperous but better, to be more equal, more sharing, more accepting of difference, to have fun. It’s in all the temporary Utopias we build for ourselves – the well-run caravan site, the Notting Hill carnival, the village fete and Glastonbury.

3) Food bans around the world. 300% duty on Roquefort!

4) Boston. Not really an awful lot more to say.

I spent the rest of Monday afternoon explaining to media from England to New Zealand that it’s impossible to make a marathon course totally secure. Kathrine saw the police sniffer dogs at 8am this morning checking the finish area, so the bombs were presumably planted later, by someone who wandered in behind the crowd. How could you stop it?

5) Things the money spent on Mrs Thatcher’s funeral could have bought. I’m pretty cross about this. On Wednesday morning, she was compared to Wellington. There were both Tories but really…

6) My friend Jenny is running a marathon this weekend. This is her talking about running and faith.

I am under no illusion as to how hard it will be, but this Sunday I want to have faith as I run the Palestine Marathon. And in the light of what happened this week in Boston, I also choose to have faith that the people who want to cause that kind of violence are few and far between and that they won’t have the last word. I have faith that the generosity, determination and resilience of the community of runners and the people who support us will overcome fear, and that will be what endures.

7) I don’t think it’s for me to pass judgement on laws in other countries but Gaby Giffords on the failure of the Senate to pass a law for stronger background checks is moving and powerful.

They will try to hide their decision behind grand talk, behind willfully false accounts of what the bill might have done — trust me, I know how politicians talk when they want to distract you — but their decision was based on a misplaced sense of self-interest. I say misplaced, because to preserve their dignity and their legacy, they should have heeded the voices of their constituents. They should have honored the legacy of the thousands of victims of gun violence and their families, who have begged for action, not because it would bring their loved ones back, but so that others might be spared their agony.

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