Friday Links

Happy Friday! Goodness I’ve had a busy week and I’m glad to get to the end of it! Here’s some reading for the weekend.

1) Things that Nelson Mandela did not say.

2) We have a growing economy but no-one that isn’t a millionaire is feeling the benefit.

3) Euan Ferguson writing about his stroke. Some scary stuff there.

4) Pensions and retirement, just so..

5) It might be good for science but yuck…Experience: I discovered a new species up my nose

6) Childlessness and how we view it. Yes, just like that, and she’s right, single and childless, it’s difficult..

7) How planning effects cities and health. I’m so lucky to live in a city where you can walk to things.

8) Cassie at Back to Her Roots has posted a recipe for Christmas ornaments and Cheese Straws that I’m trying desperately not to add to my Christmas To Do list…

9) Finally! People who never drink die younger than people who do!

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Handmade Christmas – Biscuit Tins

One of my more expensive habits is Illy coffee, which comes in lovely tins.

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Tins that mostly end up in the recycling, because I can’t think of anything to do with them. When I was thinking about Christmas and handing out bags full of good things to eat, it occurred to me that the Illy tins would make good containers for these biscuits. Apart from anything else I like the idea of giving people biscuits that are really good with coffee, in tins that used to have coffee in them. With an idea and some spray paint, I was away…

If I was a more organised person I would have taken photos as I did this to show you the process of primer, spray paint and clear top coat. However, I’m not at all organised and I didn’t take pictures but I think they look pretty good. I decided that silver was the way to go as it wasn’t far off the actual colour of the tin. Filled with biscuits, I think they make a pretty good present!

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Boots

I’m very taken with my new boots! So taken with them that I took some photos to show you!

They are actually a Christmas present from last year, it’s just taken me this long to sort them out! What I also notice is that I really need to dust that mirror!

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Any of you have a piece of clothing or footwear that your smitten with? Please tell me about it!

 

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Tired and emotional

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It’s foggy this morning, it’ll probably burn off later in the day but I’m always amused when people talk about ‘London fog’ because it’s not often foggy. There was smog in the days before the Clean Air Act, which Ma remembers but fog is not a standard weather condition in modern London. It’s strange, stepping out of the house into misty darkness, but it was how I started the morning and felt reflection of how I feel today, my brain doesn’t feel like it’s functioning at capacity. I’m tired and busy and I could really do with a holiday. A week when I can sleep lots and only get out of bed when it’s daylight. (This is middle age, people, fantasising about sleep!)

As you can plainly see by my meandering prose, I’m struggling a bit this week. It’s traditionally the time of year, I find hardest to navigate emotionally and I’m trying really hard to keep up with everything that needs to be done at home and work for the run up to Christmas. I had a conversation with a colleague this morning where we talked about being so tired you just burst into tears. I’m at the stage where I need to narrate my way through tasks because I don’t really remember how to do them. I have lots of lists and am drinking more coffee than usual.

Anyway, here’s a bad picture of my fingernails. (Essie – Smoking Hot and Oh My Gold on my little fingers). Nail varnish is such a silly thing to make me happy…

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Weekend tasks – What got done

I forgot to put this up yesterday! I didn’t have a very successful weekend in terms of getting things done as I was quite low energy and lazy on Sunday, when I should have powered through some the stuff on this list. However, the lesson is that, time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time, I needed some do-nothing time and none of the stuff on the list had to be done. Some of it, I’ll do in the evenings this week, other stuff can wait for this weekend.

Kitchen

  • General clean (sort out the recycling and rubbish, mopping the floor and general cleaning)

Cooking

  • Food prep for the week, breakfasts and lunches
  • Carrot cake for Ma’s birthday

Christmas stuff

Bathroom

  • General clean (mop floor, change towels, empty bin, clean bath, sink and toilet)
  • Sort out area behind this plant

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Bedroom

  • General clean (mop floor, change bed, dust, general tidy

Living Room

  • General clean (sweep floor, dust, tidy sofa, put things away etc)

Hall

  • Hoover

General things

  • Washing (clothes wash, white wash, towel wash)
  • Ironing
  • Wash make up brushes
  • Wash hairbrushes
  • Water plants
  • Shopping
  • Back up laptop
  • Charge kindle and camera batteries
  • Send out Christmas CD’s (it’s not too late to shout if you want one, think of it as my gift to you for reading the blog, just drop me an email with your address to nic06dempsey@gmail.com)
  • Write Christmas cards
  • Buy stamps
  • Rescue sourdough starter
  • Tidy the cupboard, it’s a bit crowded in there!

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Handmade Christmas – Wrist warmers

I quite like knitting. What I like about it is it’s simplicity. I know that knitting doesn’t have to to be simple but I’m pretty rubbish at remembering where I am in the pattern and although I knitted a cardigan for Oli when he was born, I mostly I stick to scarves and the occasional hat.

This year I’ve diversified to wrist warmers. (Please excuse the pictures I took at ridiculous o’clock this morning!)

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They are fairly simple, I made it up as I went along, so this isn’t really a pattern.

I used, this wool (Rowan 4 ply cotton merino), on 3.75mm bamboo needles, cast on 40 stitches and after a row or two of knit, I did as many rows of knit one, purl one until I got the length I wanted. Then I just cast off and sewed together remembering to leave a gap for a thumb.

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I think they look pretty good, they are easy to make and in the age of smart phones more useful than mittens!

My plan is to put them together with a matching scarf, a jar of hand-scrub and some other nice hand related things, maybe some hand cream or nail varnish or something.

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Monday Morning

Things in life are certain, death, taxes and Monday mornings! Here we are again, hopefully rested and ready to attack the week. I’m not quite sure if I’m ready for my week but it’s happening so time to strap on my big girls pants and get it done…

My weekend was not stellar, let’s just say that family is sometimes tricky but we work it out eventually because we have to…

Anyway, I’m pleased that I survived the office party in one piece and was up on Saturday morning to make Ma’s birthday cake and shop and cook lunch. I also made mince pies and finished a Christmas present but didn’t write my Christmas cards, there’s still time!

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This week I’m happy for new boots, a new to me handbag (thanks Ma!), advent calendars, seeing Sarah on Thursday, my team Christmas lunch AND only being a week away from a hair cut, my fringe is seriously out of control…

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What are you looking forward to this week?

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Sunday Music

She and Him – Baby It’s Cold Outside

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Sunday Music

This weekend has been emotional…

This about sums it up..

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50 Days – Update

We’re on week five, I’m not perfect but I’m much less grumpy than I normally am this time of year. Well, I think I am, I feel more cheerful…

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I’ve signed up to Thankful in November with Krissie. The plan for December is to read Do Nothing Christmas is Coming.

Week One – The emails have been coming every day and I’ve spent 10 minutes or so thinking about them and so far it has been good for me and helped to get my head in the right place, in fact see the post this morning as an example. 

Week Two – No real change here. I am  practising being thankful and I think it makes me a happier person. The 10 minutes or so that I spend thinking about all the good things in my life are great for grounding me, so that when stuff does go wrong (this week it was mostly public transport related!) I can put it in the place it belongs, rather than get all ‘this is the end of the world and my life is rubbish’. 

Week Three – This is really paying off, not the emails from Krissie so much as me reminding myself about my attitude. I’ve been taking some time before bed to think about the day and also just to spent some time in reflection and prayer and maybe that really what was missing for me before was that focus on God. I’m finding it easier to be cheerful (in fact I’ve been told a couple of times at work that I’m being far too cheerful). I still have my moments but they are fewer and shorter, much shorter.

Week Four – This week has been more of the same. Tomorrow I start the Do Nothing Christmas book. 

Week Five – I’ve completely failed to start the book, however, the stuff I was doing in November has stuck, so it’s not too bad.

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Mind

8.30pm cut of for laptop/ipad/iphone usage on school nights.

Week One – I’ve been doing this with bells on. Last week, I knew I was proper ill because I didn’t want to be anywhere near a screen, so it was accidental rather than deliberate. Yesterday, I found the 8.30pm cut off really useful, it was good to put the laptop down and go and do something else, yesterday that was tidying the kitchen, making today’s lunch and taking my makeup off. I would normally do those things before bed but at 10pm, when I should be in bed!

Week Two – I’m finding it easier to get to sleep on the nights that I enforce the cut off, so that’s a good reminder of why I need to do it but on Thursday night I failed and was watching something while knitting!

Week Three – I set an 8.30pm alarm to remind me that it’s time to switch off and that works. The cut off makes my internet time much more focused and it’s really good for me to be doing something else. Also, the less time I’m plonked on the sofa, the more I’m moving and the less cold I am!

Week Four – This has gone smoothly this week, I seem almost to naturally lose patience with screens around 8pm.

Week Five – I’ve still doing this and it’s still good!

Bed by 10pm on 30 of the 50 days.  Getting up by 6.30am on workdays and 8.30am on weekends.

Week One – So I did this Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and then pretty much didn’t get out of bed until Saturday. So being in bed by 10pm not a problem, I was lights out at about 8.30pm but getting up times, that just didn’t happen at all! Sunday night I started again so I can’t tell you anything about it based on 2 mornings this week. What I have noticed is that I have the to have the wake up light set for 6am and the radio alarm set for 5.45am, to make 6.30am out of bed work. That’s ok, I’m quite keen on Farming Today.

Week Two – Now that I’m not sick, I’m finding that imposing the bedtime is harder than the forcing myself to get out of bed in the morning. I knew that Wednesday would be a late night because I was out. On Thursday, I just lost track of time, I was knitting and watching something and before I knew it, it was 10:30pm and I hadn’t taken my make-up off! However, I got up earlier than 6:30am on Thursday and Friday! We’ll see if that carries on but I’m making no promises…

Week Three – I’ve been going to bed about 9.30pm on schoolnights and I’m getting out of bed at 6am each morning. I don’t much like it, I would naturally prefer to stay up and get up later and I’m never going to be happy about getting out of a warm and cozy bed when it’s cold and dark outside but my sleeping patterns are settling down and I don’t feel so exhausted during the day. Sleep is pretty much my cure for most things (according to my mother it always was!) and I need a lot of it, so as long as I live in a world that requires me to be functional at 9am, I’m going to need to go to bed early to make sure I get enough. 

Week Four – I’ve been sick with cold (yes again and yes I am mightily fed up with it) this week and as ever when I’m sick all I want to do is sleep and other than when I’m at work, funnily enough, they’re not keen on people being asleep at their desks!, I’ve been sleeping. Going to bed on time has been easy and I’ve been getting up by 6.30am every day, even though I don’t want to.

Week Five – This week has been a bit all over the place so I haven’t been as disciplined about it as I need to be. I’ve noticed that on the days I don’t do this I tend to have have a harder time getting anything done. 

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Body

Sit-ups/push-ups/squats 10 a day, adding one each day

Week One – Started fine, didn’t do anything Wed, Thurs, Fri, Sat, Sun or Mon. Started again today with 19 of each. Not pleasant but done. 

Week Two – I’ve swapped my time for doing this, at the weekend it happens in the morning, during the week in the evening. As it takes more time to do as I add to the total, I just don’t have time on weekday mornings. I don’t really feel any stronger for doing it but I’m hoping that it will form a good base to push off from after Christmas!

Week Three – Fail, fail, big fat fail. I did Sunday but that’s all I did! Need to find the wagon that is far off into the distance and get back on it.

Week Four – Sick, let’s just skip this

Week Five – No, I’m rubbish at making this happen, i know it and honestly, I’m not going to fix it before Christmas..

Stretches

Week One – Missed Wed, Thurs, Fri completely but started again on Sat, needed to as 3 days pretty much lying down, does nothing for your mobility!

Week Two – I get one set in everyday, before I go to bed, I really need to work on being consistent with the second set. Not sure how to make that happen right how, may it’s something I’ll start to do after I do the squats etc.

Week Three – I’m still getting the one set in before I go to bed. However, the second set seems to have gone the way of the exercising. I need to work on this next week. 

Week Four – Yes, I’ve started to get two sets in. I know it’s good for my knees and the cold has been a huge motivator because when it’s cold, I start to creak. Literally (in the old fashioned sense of the word!)

Week Five – Yes, as it gets colder, my knees are hurting more so it’s a great reminder!

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