Dark Horse

Friday saw me venturing over to Stratford for drinks. Now I know that lots of people love East London but I’m firmly team West London and rarely get over that side of London. If I had to visualise London, the east of the city, might as well say ‘Here Be Dragons’. I didn’t get over to the Olympic Village during the 2012 Olympics which should give you an idea.Before I get to why I was there, I should explain, back when Ma was working, we used to go to the OXO Tower fairly often and became friendly with the bar manager,  Ian even gave Ma a jar of brandied cherries to celebrate her retirement.

Then Ian left to start his own place, Dark Horse and although social media keeps us in touch, we haven’t made it over to see the new restaurant, which was bad form, a couple of weeks ago I posted a photo of a martini and Ian said we really should go and visit. So we did.I really liked the restaurant, the manhattan was great. We ordered a couple of the small plates. Grilled lamb with Merguez, farro & treviso salad, padron peppers, bread, it was good and I was so busy eating that I didn’t take a photo of it!I decided to have pudding and I’m still thinking about the lime posset!I’m glad it’s doing well, it’s nice when people you like take a risk that works, my only problem with it is that it’s in East London!

 

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Monday Miscellany

Happy Monday! I am determined that I will have a better work week this week, than I did last. It was tough and full of emails and people that think I can magic up extra hours in the day. I really can’t and people need to start prioritising.  Under my glorious rule, they will have to start learning this…Other than that and the usual Piccadilly Line failure issues, last week was fine. I bought raised beds (and blueberry plants) but I’ll tell you all about that on Wednesday. I did culture on Wednesday and went all the way to East London on Friday night (which I’ll tell you about tomorrow!). The weekend was full until Sunday, when I did very little because honestly, I needed the rest.I don’t have major plans for this week it should be easier to get to work because it’s half term and Lent starts this week so there will be pancakes on Tuesday and ashes on Wednesday followed by cinema on Thursday and compost buying on Friday. Really living life on the edge.

Right, time to head into Monday!

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! Today is an exciting day because finally we are heading all the way over to Stratford to Dark Horse

This week the usual miscellany started with whining about commuting, on Tuesday, I went all class warrior on you with a post about Class and Suffrage, (that post also features a picture of my great aunts sporting very fetching hats!) there was the usual update on the state of the allotment, and a post on my afternoon of culture on Wednesday.

Here are this weeks links.

Only a third of rail passengers think they get good value. Is anyone surprised by this? Actually me, a third of them think it’s good value?

Yitro: The Matter is Too Heavy. You Cannot Do It Alone. I love Smart Bitches, Trashy Books and I saw that Sarah was going to publish a ‘drash’ on the site for it’s birthday and I thought it would be interesting as I know nothing about Jewish religious practice. This makes me think that my faith practice could do with this kind of commentary and thought. I would really like to see more of this on SBTB.

The same section she focuses on is the one that struck me as personally significant. In her dvar, Rabbi Barenblat writes:

As a “nation of priests,” we’re obligated to tend to the entire world. As a “holy nation,” we’re obligated to tend to our own selves. The Torah balances these two callings within the same verse. If we only tend to our own selves, we’re falling down on the job of caring for all creation; but if we don’t tend to our own selves, we can’t heal the world.

I’ve always been pretty clear (whether it’s my catholic upbringing or my mother’s protestant roots, that baptism made me part of ‘the royal priesthood’ so that affirmation makes so much sense to me, even in the context of Christianity rather than Judaism..

I (SUE the T. rex) am moving to my own place and all y’all are invited. Best way to announce moving an exhibit ever….

In news that is going to upset the BNP. First modern Britons had ‘dark to black’ skin, Cheddar Man DNA analysis reveals.

Donald Trump orders Pentagon to plan grand military parade. Does he also want a statute too?

Impromptu displays of military might are a sign of deep national weakness and insecurity. Quite…

The dogs of Chernobyl.

The rise of communal living. I know someone who’s doing this, they’ve just bought some land in Wales. I probably couldn’t do it.

Cocktail of the week: 1 Lombard Street’s Northern Star. That looks good, alas I have no cherry brandy or Mandarine Napoleon.

Volk Heroes. A review of a book about the differences between German and US parenting styles. Funny..

 

 

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A bit of culture

I left work early yesterday to go and see the Bridge Theatre’s production of Julius Caesar. It’s a good production, well acted and more urgent than the other productions I’ve seen. That is one of the things I love about Shakespeare, that each time I see it, I get something new from it.This time I was really struck by the urgency of Marc Anthony’s (David Morrissey)  “I’ve come to bury Caesar, not to praise him” speech and the way that the mob and the mood of the mob can turn for things like 75 drachma and a pleasure garden to walk in. And the sense of a group of nobles looking out for their own power and justifying their actions as ‘for the people’.It’s not a perfect production but it’s over 2 hours with no break and held my attention.

This is my second visit to the Bridge and I think the theatre is great but the foyer area is badly designed and gets stupidly crowded. I don’t often get to that side of London and it reminds me I should.

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Allotment Adventures: Fairweather Allotmenting

I had high hopes that this weekend would be the weekend that we really got to grips with the allotment work.

But the rain the day before and the wind on Sunday were not fun. I’d been on a 3 hour walk in the rain the day before and Ma can work when her hands are too cold. So we didn’t get much done at all.We filled up the bird feeders, picked up an order from Wilko, and I planted the rhubarb crown. I removed the side of the brassica bed to show Ma how I’m planning to re-use them at the top of the plot. We also took the broccoli out of that bed and I pulled up a couple of raspberry twigs…

I am worried that there is too much to do and not much time to do it, but I’m panicking about nothing, we have a plan and we know what we want to do and we have time to get it done. It’ll all come together in the next couple of months and then I’ll be worrying about blight and watering.

To keep me on the straight and narrow, here is February’s work list, tasks crossed out are done.

  • plant the rhubarb crown
  • order new raised beds
  • build new raised beds
  • sort out the sides of the current brassica bed
  • clear that bed of broccoli and kale
  • create sections at top and sides of allotment for flowers
  • fill the new raised beds with compost and top up the others
  • trip to the dump
  • dig up raspberries and the gooseberry at the end of the plot
  • sort out the raspberry frames
  • paint the shed
  • cut the grass at the edges of the path
  • prep the buckets and boxes for carrots, radishes and mint
  • put up and secure the cloche
  • bonfire
  • sort out sowing supplies and start sowing leeks etc

As you can see I have a lot to do next week but I’m ordering the new raised beds tomorrow and they’ll be delivered on Friday. So we’ll get them set up next weekend which means the gooseberry bush will come out, I’ll sort out the sides of the other one afterwards. We’ve hired a car for  after that so we can buy compost and go to the dump so that’s seven jobs that will happen in the next two weeks, one more good day on the plot and we’ll be caught up. It’ll be fine.

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A small rant about Class and Suffrage

Today marks 100 years since The Representation of the People Act 1918. Everyone is making a very big deal out of it because it’s 100 years since women were granted the vote.

Except it didn’t.

It gave some women the right to vote, women who owned property and were over 30. Middle class women. The ‘right’ sort of women.

This is a picture of my grandad (in the middle), my great aunts and my great grandfather.

The Representation of the People Act 1918, did not allow any of the women in my family to vote, it did allow my great-grandfather, who was married with 2 children in 1918 and had served a full four years in the army during World War I, to vote. The Home Secretary, George Cave (a Conservative) said this during the debate.

War by all classes of our countrymen has brought us nearer together, has opened men’s eyes, and removed misunderstandings on all sides. It has made it, I think, impossible that ever again, at all events in the lifetime of the present generation, there should be a revival of the old class feeling which was responsible for so much, and, among other things, for the exclusion for a period, of so many of our population from the class of electors. I think I need say no more to justify this extension of the franchise.[6]

The Today Programme devoted much of it’s time today on voting and women, it has mentioned that the franchise was extended for all men over 21 but has given no real time to why or to what that meant.

The 1918 Act was not a victory for all women, it was a victory for property owning women. For the record The Representation of the People (Equal Franchise) Act 1928, granted universal franchise in the UK and it happened 10 years after the Act of Parliament that everyone is celebrating today.

I am really tired of the way that achievement for the privileged is celebrated as achievement for everyone. The notable achievement of the 1918 act was that men who couldn’t vote, the poorest (the cannon fodder) were allowed a role in selecting the governments that were happy to send them to the trenches.

Here endeth the rant

 

 

 

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Monday Miscellany

We are finally in February, thank goodness!

This weekend, Sarah at SBTB posted this, I will link to this again in Friday Links but I feel it should be read more than once and especially as a reflection on the spaces that woman make.

Other things this week….I spend a lot of my life on buses and tubes and I spend a lot of time wondering why they don’t work like they should. This is not a complaint about overcrowding, it’s about why it takes 25 minutes to go 5 stops or if there will be a week this year where all of the tube lines I use won’t have a signal failure. Now I’m going to talk about overcrowding. Dear Transport for London, if I have to spend 20 minutes squashed into a tube, or have to let trains go because I can’t physically fit on them, it’s not a good service, it’s a usual service. On top of your manifest inability to run a transport network, you also mangle English!Other than the daily, tiny trauma of the commute, last week was surprisingly productive and social. I went to the cinema (The Post), went out for drinks on Friday, walked with Sarah and Fred, caught up with Kathy and I also need to take a moment to praise God for the joy and strength and joy that friendship gives me. I also visited the plot with Ma and drank martinis.I’ll also link to this on Friday but I think that it’s also worth linking to twice. Anyone who’s been around me or this space for five minutes will know (0r I hope they will) know how important my faith is to me, but seeing the workings of another person’s faith was interesting and reminded me of how much we have in common. I really hope that Sarah does more than this and it’s something I’m considering for this space too..

It’s been a busy and emotional weekend, somewhere in there, I managed to shop, food prep and tidy the house. I’m ready to go to work for a rest!

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Sunday Music: Say Something

Justin Timberlake feat. Ma’s favourite man with a beard, Chris Stapleton

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s been a week, I’m off out tonight to Dirty Martini (all I can say is that some of the martinis had better be clean!) with the ladies from Elexon, although the ex-Elexon ladies are now in the minority!

The week is more or less done and I have a more or less clear inbox (or will be by 4.59pm this evening – something that is easier to accomplish every other week when two of my four directors don’t work!) and the weekend lies ahead of me with lots to do, Saturday is volunteer day at the allotments and a walk with Sarah and Fred and then actual work that needs to be done on the plot and at some point housework! Being an adult is all about balance!

We’re finally talking about money more openly. Now we have to get brutal about it.

Can you really save for a deposit by ditching coffee and avocado toast? 

Theresa May’s problem is that her failings go far beyond Brexit. The problem with spending years of your life scheming for power for the sake of power. There’s no point having it if you don’t have a plan for what to do with it.

Reading this review for Julius Caesar makes me happy because I’m going to see it next week!

All I Watch Is Trash. Sometimes you just have to switch off your brain.

My seven month migraine. This is interesting about migraines and the kind of medical treatment women get generally

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What I’ve Read – January 2018

Welcome to a new year of ‘What I’ve Read’…

It’s not been a bad start to the year but I need to knuckle down to the 564 page, Citizen Clem (about Clem Attlee) in February. Fun fact that is completely unrelated to reading, I grew up opposite Clem Attlee Court, where eventually my Grandad lived, all the blocks were named after Labour politicians, Grandad lived at Jim Griffiths, I remember when he moved in. Grandad moved from a three bed council flat in Sands End to a one bed, to free up the space and to be nearer to us, it can’t have been long after we moved to North End Road because his flat was painted (by my Dad) with the same paint as our living room was (a nice 1970’s beige!). I do remember that we couldn’t get his wardrobe up the the stairs and it lived in the sitting room! He eventually moved to the sheltered housing on the estate, Michael Stewart House, he loved that and as an adult I loved the planner who thought, that mixed age housing was a good idea.

Anyway on to reading in January…

Magus Chase and the Ship of the Dead – Rick Riordan.

I was trying to get myself out of my December reading slump and I thought this would be fun and easy to read. It was both of those things. I’ve been reading Riordan’s books with the godchildren forever and you can see that he is really thinking about representation in them, he doesn’t make a big deal about it but the fact that there is representation and it just is, is really important. Aside from that, this read like a last book, like Percy Jackson and his other hero’s Magus does better because of his friends, his friends are the people who get him though and winning in this book is pretty peaceful. I liked it.

Heart on Fire – Amanda Bouchet

This is the last of a trilogy and I was really looking forward to it and it was deeply ok. Cat irritated the hell out of me. I loved the world building but it was just the same thing over and over. Cat confronts her mother, discovers her power, fails to beat her mother and realises how perfect Griffin is for her. Again and again. It was boring because she didn’t grow, she just kept doing the same thing. Look being the chosen one is hard but Cat’s refusal to engage her sodding brain when everyone is telling and showing her how fabulous she was, was very irritating. And then it just ended. They won but nothing about anyone else, it was strange.

The Hate U Give – Angie Thomas

All of the praise this book has received is well deserved. I loved Starr, I loved her voice and I loved her strong parents. One of the problems I have with YA, especially as I get older is parents in YA, because they are mostly awful people. Starr’s parents are not. They aren’t at all perfect (and both younger than I am now, which was horrifying…) but they are really doing all they can. They can’t solve the issues that Starr is dealing with but they care, they are involved and they never leave here hanging. Honestly, it was really good to read. All of this makes it an easy book to read, what it’s about is hard. Thomas never sugarcoats it and reading her notes, this book based on her life and experiences. We need to read books like this.

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine – Gail Honeyman

This year at Christmas, I bought everyone a book. This was Ma’s book, which she wanted to read after hearing it as a Book at Bedtime. I borrowed it when she’d finished and I loved it. Eleanor is an odd duck, it’s almost as if she’s on the spectrum, she wears the same clothes everyday, has had the same job for 9 years, and spends every weekend alone and drunk on vodka. She’s fine, a survivor. Eleanor tells us about her life and you know something is not right, the references to Mummy, the flat that she lives in was because she was in care, she’s also really bright and very strange. At the start of the book, she’s been to a concert and developed a crush on a singer because he’s wearing a three piece suit correctly but she’s also getting drawn into other people’s lives and then things start to happen. She’s so damaged and so innocent and so alone. She’s terribly lonely and she doesn’t know what to do about it. I know a couple of people like this, I wonder if this is how I’ll end up. All through the book, I was rooting for her and laughing at her (she gives a 40th birthday present of half a bottle of vodka and a packet of sliced cheese – because men love cheese!). Eventually life gets better but only after it gets much worse. I loved this book and everyone should read it.

Jane and Prudence – Barbara Pym

At some point in this book Prudence asks Jane if the village Jane has just moved to has any of the right sort of people. This encapsulates the issue I had with this book, I am not the right sort of people for it. I don’t understand the people (Philip Larkin, I’m looking at you) who think that she is better than Jane Austen.

Iron Gold – Pierce Brown

This book picks up 10 years after the events of the first three books and things are not going well. At times I didn’t want to read this book because it’s nasty, people are compromised and they know it. Darrow really wants to give up, nothing has gone the way he planned. In fact everyone in this book is compromised. The beginning of the third book gave me nightmares and this one is depressing in a different way. I really hope Brown has a way out of this because I can’t take that much hopelessness right now. On the other hand, the people feel real for all the good and the bad in them. The world building is better, I got a real sense of a future world but there had better be another book with more resolution….

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