Just ’cause..
Just ’cause..
Today is Mother’s Day in our family. Everyone is coming to mine for lunch. Ma will get flowers, but mostly it’ll be eating and talking and Oli running about and we’ll have a nice time, catching up and being with each other.
On Sunday, Oli and his Gaelic Football Club are going to be in the St Patrick’s Day Parade tomorrow and we’re all going to watch that.
I know that lots of women find Mother’s Day difficult because they don’t have children or a living Mum. Or maybe have difficult relationships with children, or even dead children. For all sorts of reasons, Sunday can feel like a hard day.
If it’s hard, I’m sorry, I think it’s really just a day to celebrate the people who’ve mothered us and sometimes that’s not just our Mums. I remember being really chuffed when I got my first ever ‘Happy Mother’s Day, Auntie Nic’ card from Oli because I love that Laura thought of it but really Mother’s Day is just an excuse for my family to spend some time together. We all have family. We may have been born into that family, we may have picked them but the people that we love and support and who love and support us are our family. Go celebrate them…
I will get Ma another card this year, but I think the sentiment of last year’s card is still good!
Happy Friday! It’s been a week and I feel like I have miles to go before I sleep ’cause I have a busy weekend ahead! This week’s links….
1) We use more of the genes we inherit from our fathers than our mothers. That explains the ginger…
2) Victorian opium usage when the opium of the masses was in fact opium. Fascinating..
3) If Richard Coles was King for a Day. This.
But one of the best ways of securing the kind of society that can achieve prosperity is one in which people feel they have a secure place: a home and a hearth in a neighbourhood you would want to live in.
4) How to lose weight in 4 easy steps. (via A Cup of Jo.) Funny
5) How English pronunciation is changing…fascinating
6) How to jazz up a supermarket pizza.I don’t get it, just make your own, it’s easier AND cheaper…
7) That moment when you become your mother. I’ve known for years that it’s inevitable but there are worse people in the world to be like!
I went back to work, it was tiring, I was in bed by 9pm every night but when you are too tired to do much it’s amazing how you pare everything down to the basics. Clothes and lunch ready for the next day, house under control? That’s enough, time for bed.
On Friday, I left work at 4pm and just took a moment to enjoy the sunshine and being done with work for the week.
Then had to run to Jane’s to have my haircut and coloured and catch up with Jane and her news. It’s easier to stay at Mum’s when I leave Jane’s, so that’s what I did, I was in bed before 11pm and though I really wanted to finish my book, the need to sleep was too great…
Ma’s flat was all unpacked within 2 days of her moving in last year but every time I stay, I can see it becoming more like her home, as pictures go on walls and furniture gets re-arranged to suit how she lives in the flat. The pictures that were in the kitchen of the old flat are in the living room now.
On Saturday, I picked up my new glasses, did some housework and caught up with myself and everyone else
It was warm enough for flip flops on Saturday, which made me (and my feet) insanely happy.
It feels like Spring is just around the corner, blossom is coming out and it’s lighter in the morning.
Sunday was a much quieter day, I just chilled out at home, admired my daffodils and had (another) early night.
This week is going to be just as quiet, work and sleep are my priorities and this weekend will be about the family, everyone is coming over for an early Mother’s Day lunch on Saturday and we’ll be going to see Oli who, with the rest of his gaelic football club, is going to be in the St Patrick’s Day Parade.
What are your plans for the week?
My downstairs neighbours spend Saturdays playing bad dance music loudly.
Yesterday, I had to go and ask them to turn it down. Which they did for about 3 hours. At 5-ish in the evening it started again. I tried to talk to them, it didn’t work.
This came on the radio and I turned it up and danced. Downstairs continued to play the dance music, I didn’t care anymore…
It’s the weekend, and I’m tired. I’m still not 100% better post flu so I’m keeping the task list for the weekend simple.
What are you planning on doing this weekend?
Do you remember how in the summer, I made all sorts of infused alcohol and gave it away for Christmas?
Last November, I got hold of some frozen sloes and started a sloe gin and a sloe whisky off as well.
I’ve finally gotten around to decanting the whisky, (the gin needs some more time) and I was really impressed by how well it works.
I used 450g of sloes, 125g of sugar and a litre of Sainsbury blended whisky. I left it for three months and then filtered it.
Now I need to think about how to use it in a cocktail. I’ve seen a recipe based on a perfect manhattan which I’m keen to try.
Anyone got any other suggestions?
Happy Friday! I end this week feeling very tired and fed up with coughing (which I am still doing – no it’s not fair!).
I have also found out that I am considered wise because I know the order of American presidents from Franklin Roosevelt to Obama, and the order of all English monarchs from William the Conqueror to present day (British Prime Ministers, I am much more shaky on). I don’t think I’m wise, I just think I retain information in a certain way, but it does come in handy when the lunchtime quiz team want to know how many English Queens there have been (6 if you include Mathilda & Jane Grey, 4 otherwise – Mary I, Elizabeth I, Mary II and Anne. Victoria and Elizabeth II were/are queens of the United Kingdom!) or the order of Presidents from Nixon to Regan (Nixon, Ford, Carter, Regan).
It’s been a quiet week for me, so only 4 links….
1) via Kate. Jacqueline Wilson is writing a modern version of What Katie Did. I’m horrified. There is no need for a new version, there’s nothing wrong with the original, yes it’s quite preachy (it’s not as bad as the Elsie books!) but it’s of its time and that’s why it’s delightful.
2) ‘By God, believe in something’. The list of reasons to love Michael Sheen, grows. Talented, seems lovely and I agree with his politics, I now have the biggest crush…
3) Boris Johnson has been ‘economical with the truth’ about the funding and maintenance of the garden bridge. Which is unsurprising, I don’t trust that man at all, he’s already broken his promise not to stand for Parliament while he is mayor and the garden bridge is a stupid idea and someone needs to put a stop to it..
4) When to obey ‘best before’ and ‘use-by’ dates. Nice to know that I already do all of this!
There is not a lot to dislike about chips, done right they are perfect potatoey goodness, I don’t actually eat them as much as I’d like to because the best chips are the ones my mum makes (chips my mum makes are always the best chips!). Unfortunately for me, Ma retired from frying chips a long time ago. The fact that I still miss Saturday night dinners of fish and chips and the really strange strawberry pudding thing from Marks and Spencer, that Grandad used to bring on Saturday mornings, is a testament to how good those chips were, especially given that it’s got to be getting on for 25 years since Ma made them….
Deep frying anything is a cooking skill that I have never mastered and given how accident prone I am, I’m not even going to try, I set enough things on fire by accident as it is without adding hot fat to the mix, but sometimes, I want chips and good oven chips are the answer.
Home made oven chips are pretty simple, chip some potatoes, cover in oil, bung in the oven. It’s not rocket science. However, really good oven chips happen when you soak the chips in water first. I guess that this gets rid of the starch and helps them crisp up better. Generally, the longer you soak them the better, I tend to chip the potatoes in the morning and after an initial rinse, leave them in the water all day.
When I’m ready for dinner, I take the chips out of the water, dry them off on a tea towel and coat in oil. (For a bowl of chips this size, I use about a third of a cup of sunflower oil).
That done, they go on oven trays in a single layer and get baked in a hot oven (about 200C, which is where my oven is mostly set!) for anywhere between 20 to 30 minutes and turn them over once during cooking.
It’s pretty simple and really good with salt, vinegar and ketchup!
Roman Holiday – Ruthie Knox (Kindle TBR List)
Apparently, Ruthie Knox can’t write a book (or two books) I don’t enjoy. I liked that both people had stuff to work through. That the hero was black and while it wasn’t an issue for the romance, the issues he had with it and how he was treated were. I just really enjoyed it!
All Work and No Play – Julie Cohen (Kindle TBR List)
This has been sitting on the TBR list for an age. I read it in a day and it was ok. The hero felt too perfect to be true and after all the set up of the heroine not being good at friendship or romantic relationships, it was all tied up too quickly, given how much stuff had been chucked in at the beginning. However, it fulfilled it’s brief which was to give me something I didn’t have to concentrate on too much on a day when I was tired and not feeling my shiny best!
The Boleyn King – Laura Andersen (Library)
The book is based on the premise, what would have happened if Anne Boleyn’s second pregnancy continued and she’d had a boy but Elizabeth still became queen anyway? It’s an interesting idea and I reading enjoyed the book while I was reading it. I did keep getting hung up on the sailing from Le Havre, to Hastings. I can see going to Hastings if you were going to Hever but if you were going to Framlington wouldn’t you stay on the boat and go to Lowestoft? The two invented characters were a bit to good to be true and it’s a trilogy so there are two more books until Elizabeth gets to the throne, I have an idea that the King Henry IX (known as William) will have to turn into a tyrant and get killed but we’ll see. I’ve reserved the next one at the library.
Letters from the Light Brigade – Anthony Dawson (Library)
I know next to nothing about the Crimean War. I know roughly where it was, that Florence Nightingale and Mary Seacole, went out to nurse the troops, that Lord Raglan commanded and died there (Raglan was on Wellington’s staff at Waterloo and had his right arm amputated and then demanded his arm back so he could retrieve the ring that his wife had given him, which is neither here nor there but interesting!) and of course that Tennyson’s poem ‘The Charge of the Light Brigade‘ is about the Battle of Balaclava (which is where the name of the headgear comes from!). The sum total of my knowledge is not very much! Now I know a bit more!
Talk Sweetly to Me – Courtney Milan (Kindle TBR List)
Courtney Milan is a bit like Ruthie Knox for me, I haven’t come across a book or novella of hers that I haven’t really liked. This is linked to the Brothers Sinister series (remember how I raved over The Suffragette Scandal?). This has lots of interesting things, a black heroine, an Irish hero, maths, and the struggle to be taken seriously when you’re a minority. It’s a novella, so I read it in one sitting, it was lovely and fun.
Lionheart – Sharon Penman (Kindle TBR List)
I’ve had this to read for ages and I think I’ve been resisting it because Richard I, is not one of my favourite kings. Anyhow, as always with Sharon Penman’s books, I got carried away with the story and grabbed the next (A King’s Ransom) from the library and I want to know more about the subject but I really have to get my TBR list down before I look for more books on the time period!
Say Yes to the Marquess – Tessa Dare (Library e-book)
This was a recovery book over the weekend. I was so sick that I didn’t even want to read (I can’t remember a time when that’s happened!) This was complete froth and a fun read to get me back into the idea of reading. Tessa Dare’s books are always funny and entertaining and this was no different.