Life Happened: Paris

Last week was another 4 day work week, I’m not sure that I’ve worked an entire 5 day week this month, June is going to be a shock to the system.

Work had one focus, ridiculously complex minutes and getting enough of everything else done that I could take a 4 day weekend and not worry about leaving my colleagues in the lurch. So Monday to Thursday was get up, go to work, go home, eat, tidy, sleep, repeat. There was also some quality whining about First Great Western’s inability to run a train service. Late trains to the left of me, late trains to the right of me but on and on I went to work!

On Thursday night Ma came over and we ate pizza and I packed. I still loathe packing. Some people think it’s fun and exciting but I just get anxious about what I need to take, what I don’t need to take and the difference between the two. It’s usually ok but I am really bad for overpacking and although it was only two nights, it was Paris so cameras had to to charged.

Friday started earlier than usual and I was up at 5am and left the house by 6am. I’m a little bit paranoid about check in times even on the Eurostar. I figured that being there about an hour before departure would allow me to get coffee etc!

It was a ridiculously busy train, going to Paris never gets old but it’s not as glamorous as the adverts make out

Jo and Tabitha met me at the station and we headed off to our home for the weekend which was behind the big gateThis was not where we were sleeping, we were in the servants quarters or the transit flat as it’s better known to FCO staff and I was listed as the babysitter, which was technically the case.img_4276Jo had an exam in the afternoon, while she was doing thatTabitha and I amused ourselves at the Jardin de Luxembourg. Jo joined us and Tabitha got a ride on the carousel, with added quintain game (although no small children got knocked off the horses by the target if they missed!)We went to dinner with some of Jo’s friends at Chartier which is very French bistro and then home to put the overtired Ms T in bed!Saturday dawned when we got our act together we went off on the hunt for breakfast and then to find a supermarket. After that we were tourists we went on the big wheel at the Place de la Concorde. There were some obligatory Parisian photos taken.And some mooching around the Tuileries, we had a rest stop at a playground and I admired the flowers. Jo and I also spend lots of time being weirded out but the people not sitting on the grass. No instead they all sat on metal chairs on the gravel paths. The Tuileries is more manicured than Hyde Park but to our English eyes it was very odd!We crossed the river at the Passerelle Léopold-Sédar-Senghor and decided to try the Musée d’Orsay on Sunday instead because it was a brilliant sunny day, we wondered up the Rive Gauche to the Pont Alexandre III, had an ice cream and admired the many brides  (four) having their wedding photos taken on the bridge.Then we came home. Jo got ready for her ball, Ms T and I stayed home!

On Sunday morning, I ate my favourite French food for breakfast…Then we all ventured out into the rain.img_4311We didn’t manage the Musée d’Orsay again and Jo was not keen on my suggestion of the Musée de l’Orangerie (one of my favourite museums in Paris) so we ended up in Le musée de la Légion d’honneur et des ordres de chevalerie which while not as easy as the others was much more interesting about French culture (although it had entirely too many portraits of Napoleon!)

Then it was time to walk back through the rain to our temporary home and write postcards and then head back to catch our respective trains.

It’s not going to be as easy to see Jo and Tabitha after August (at least France is on the same continent!) so I’m glad I got to see them (and Paris) this weekend.

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Sunday Music: Sympathique

There has not been a lot of listening to music this week but I am in Paris. So something that feels French without necessarily being French..

Pink Martini – Sympathique

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Housework: Homemade Cleaning Products

Do you remember how ages ago I said that I would use Saturday posts for goal updates and discussions about housework? The goal posts have been going up (but we’re only in May, so miles to go there!) but I haven’t really talked about the housework. Why? Well mostly because there is nothing to talk about. I’m more or less on top of my domestic duties. I know the things that need to be done and I do them. There are four things that trip me up are:

  • cleaning the oven
  • defrosting the fridge
  • hoovering and all other types of cleaning the floor
  • ironing

But in the last two weeks, I’ve got on top of all of them, the oven doesn’t smoke, I can close the freezer door and my carrots and mushrooms don’t get frozen anymore.

I don’t expect it to last but it’s nice at the moment.

The recent oven cleaning got me thinking about how my cleaning products have changed this year. I’ve started to ‘make’ them. I never thought this would be me, for a start I didn’t clean enough. I’m a huge advocate of tidy but not so much of cleaning and dusting, so I would buy some flash or the method multi surface cleaner  and clean as and when things were dirty. I did wipe down the kitchen counters every day but with fairy liquid!DSCF5190

Then I discovered the mice. I’ve written about how awful it was and that I was cleaning every day, mostly twice a day (in the hope that mice were repelled by the smell of bleach!) and the cleaning became a habit (which has been reinforced if I was thinking of slacking off by the dead mouse incident last week). So now, after I wash up and put everything away (another habit I’ve developed), I use a bleach spray and clean the counters. I was running through cleaner enough that I started to make my own bleach spray. It works pretty well so when I ran out of bathroom cleaner, I started to use it there too, with the addition of peppermint oil.

I also bought some distilled vinegar with and made a half vinegar/half water spray also with essential oil, orange this time for use on windows, the hob and the sink.

Every money saving blog in the world talks about bicarbonate of soda as an oven cleaner and because it is so much cheaper than oven cleaner I thought I’d try it. If it was rubbish I could go back to oven cleaner. OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAIt worked pretty well, didn’t smell disgusting when I switched the oven on again and didn’t give me chemical burns. Ok, the oven was a bit white and dusty after I first used it again but that was easily cleaned up with a wet cloth and didn’t take any more effort than using an oven cleaner did.

I’m not ever ruling it out but I don’t think I’m going to start making my own laundry detergent or fabric conditioner and I’ll never abandon Fairy Liquid but my cleaning things are a lot more homemade than they used to be!

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Friday Links

Happy Friday!

I got up at ridiculous o’clock this morning to catch a train to Paris, which as a reason for getting up early is a pretty good one. I love that on a train I can read and chill. Here are this week’s links

A teacher on the education dept

Mayor conditionally backs the Garden Bridge. Well that’s disappointing. Also we don’t have money for housing or the NHS but the Treasury for £30m for the bridge. All in it together indeed!

Pope Francis is a master at playing to the crowd but there won’t be female deacons. Which was pretty much my reaction to hearing about this. Francis doesn’t think that refusing to ordain women is an injustice, so there will be no change…

Francis is the master of being all things to all people, using “off the cuff” remarks to sound progressive but changing nothing when it comes to actual church rules.

Remember Francis’ comment in 2013 about homosexual people: “who am I to judge?” Francis’ teaching on the family released last month did not remove the church’s judgement that homosexual people are disordered.

Poor people spend more time with family, rich people spend more time with friends. Interesting.

The case of the $629 plaster. This is what privatised health care looks like. I think it’s nuts that the leader of the free world doesn’t have an NHS but this is where the UK is going people!

Middle class accents. Sometimes I can’t read a Lynsey Hanley article without rolling my eyes. Because, I like my parents, have a nice middle class accent. My parents grew up on council estates, my dad was a plumber, neither of my parents have A levels or degrees. I’ve always sounded like this, my brother who grew up in the same house with the same family sounds more ‘London working class’. I was once punched in the face at school for talking ‘posh’, I was teased a lot about it. I understand the importance of sounding like you fit in because I didn’t when I was a child and I do now. There are some horrible sounding accents, Birmingham and Liverpool, I’m looking right at you but my issue is often not with accent but with pronunciation as my mother used to say ‘there are two t’s in butter’ and if I hear you on the radio and you drop letters then I will judge you!

If you are a woman, you must vote. Although I agree, universal suffrage in the UK is less than 100 years old (1929) basically younger than my grandparents! But I don’t think that this just applies to women. It’s an argument that has been raging more or less since the Civil War and yes people died so women could vote, but people also died so Catholics and working class men could vote in this country. Everyone must vote because democracy doesn’t work unless we do.

The BBC is axing recipes from its websites as part of the changes in the govt white paper. Who benefits?

On having too many condiments. Mmm in my fridge right now, orange marmalade, pink grapefruit marmalade, djion mustard, wholegrain mustard, tomato ketchup, mayonnaise, barbecue sauce. I need all of them!

We should be setting bedtimes for adults. I love to sleep but I am cursed with bad sleep. My fitbit records an average of 4 to 5 hours a night. I would love that to be more, I go to bed at 10pm and get up about 6am and 4 to 5 hours a night. The thing is that everybody says that being underslept is bad for you and I know that but I can’t change it.

Money can buy you happiness. Well it can buy you things that make you happy and prevent you having to do things that make you unhappy for money..

Tampons that tell you when they need to be changed. Call me a luddite if you want but no, no and hell no are my reactions to this!

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Rhubarb Crumble Muffins

I love rhubarb and the allotment has two large rhubarb plants, so I’m getting my fix. Someone mentioned rhubarb muffins and I found this recipe. Which I changed to accommodate my needs and foodie desires.img_4258-1They are moist but sturdy muffins that freeze well and give a good ginger kick. I love ginger but if you don’t I would suggest either halving the amount that I use or using cinnamon instead.

What

175g caster sugar

320g rhubarb

2 tbsp sunflower oil

1 egg

1 tsp vanilla extract

125ml plain yoghurt

200g plain flour

1 tsp baking powder

1 tsp bicarbonate of soda

For the crumble topping

50g light brown sugar

50g plain flour

25g porridge oats

2 tsp ground ginger

50g butter

How

  1. Heat oven to 220C/200C fan/gas 7. Line a 12-hole muffin tin with paper muffin cases. Stir the sugar and rhubarb together in a large bowl and leave for a bit.
  2. Make the crumble topping. Rub or process the flour and butter together until it’s crumbly, then add the sugar, oats and ginger.
  3. Add the oil, egg, vanilla and yoghurt to the rhubarb (don’t eat all the sugar covered rhubarb yes it is delicious but it’s for the muffins!) and mix together.
  4. Add the flour, baking powder and bicarbonate of soda and mix well.
  5. Spoon into the cases, then add each one with a thick layer of the crumble mixture, remember the muffins will get bigger so use all of the crumble mix. Bake for 15-18 mins until golden and the centre of a muffin comes out clean when poked.
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The Allotment Adventure: Seedlings and Digging

I have to confess to feeling when I talk about the allotment, that I am moaning about my diamond shoes being too tight, because I am at a tiny bit of a loss when it comes to my space at Ealing Dean Allotments. Why? Because I have an allotment that I don’t have to significantly weed.

Having said that, all I have done so far is weed and buy things to help me with the weeding. img_4250See that? That’s three bags and an entire box, full of weeds and couch grass that I have cleared off the plot in the last two weeks. And this is a good plot so God help the poor guys who inherited an over grown plot.

Because I have weeds that are not 3 feet high, once it’s forked over, I’m pretty much good to go but that means I need to put something in it. I planted up a load of dwarf french beans, some courgettes, basil and marigolds.img_4269My plan is to buy tomato and other plants (squash, aubergine) over the bank holiday and I’m accepting any plant donations that come my way! Jonny has offered me some strong courgettes (yes I do know that I’m setting myself up for too many courgettes but then again, only four of my 10 sprouted up and who knows what will happen when I plant them out!)

The weekend weeding was epic about 6 hours over two days. We’ve had warm weekends and rainy weeks and the weeds grew like….well weeds. The top of the plot to the raspberries is looking much better. For now I’m leaving in the poppies, once they’ve flowered, I’ll collect the seed and dig up the rest of grass. My ultimate plan for that section is to extend the rhubarb because rhubarb is amazing and the rest of that section will be flowers. In autumn I’ll do a ‘massive’ amount of bulb planting, daffodils, lilies, irises, tulips, english bluebells and snowdrops. I’m also considering proper grass too, we’ll see.img_4233I also bought and planted some french lavender in that section as well.img_4246

There is still a lot to do and a lot to learn and a lot to spend money on.

Because of time frames, some things, runner beans and pea, will have to be planted straight into the ground, which may give me a problem because of slugs and mice, I’m chopping the tops and bottoms off plastic bottles to assist with that, but I’ll need to buy stuff for them to grow up and other assorted garden equipment. I can’t afford a shed just yet and I’ll need permission to put one up but I need some kind of storage solution on the plot because it’s getting a bit silly at the moment. img_4238I’m away this weekend but I have Monday off work so planning to weed and tie up the raspberries and measure out and dig over some ‘beds’ in preparation for the Bank Holiday weekend when things need to get in the ground!

Meanwhile there are things growing besides weeds and I’m really enjoying my time there.StrawberriesRhubarbCalifornian PoppiesGooseberries

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Food and Budget Update: 07/05 to 13/05/2016

I have to confess that food wasn’t much on my mind last week. I was tired and had a migraine and I just wasn’t feeling that enthused.

SHOPPING

img_4207-1I went to Lidl on Sunday afternoon and stuck to the list. I still had vegetables left over from last week so it’s light produce, but that balanced because I was short on cheese! Total spent was £13.25.

FOOD

On Saturday night I ate chana masala and rice after the cinema, where I didn’t have sweeties!

Sunday was toast and eggs for breakfast and a chana masala, rice and the last of the spring greens.I didn’t eat dinner on Monday because I wasn’t feeling up to it and post migraine on Tuesday, I ate a chana masala toastie, which was as amazing as I’d been told it would be!Wednesday was roasted vegetables with lentils and flatbread.Thursday was the remaining roasted vegetables with additional mushrooms on toast!Breakfasts when I ate them were roasted rhubarb and yogurt. Lunches were leftovers and salad. Except for Thursday when work provided lunch!

LESSONS LEARNED.

When you are feeling tired and sick, knowing that you got your act together on Saturday morning to make chana masala and a loaf of bread is the best feeling ever!

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Life Happened: Weeding

This week was fairly average. I went to work except on Tuesday when I had the mother of all migraines and Friday when I worked from home.

I didn’t do much except work and sleep and a bit of reading.

The weekend was busy. I got up and shopped, Christelle came over and helped with the wrestling the plot back to productivity. Ma came over on Sunday and did the same for this, I fed them and talked at them incessantly.

It’s looking better. So that was my week. Sleep, eat, work, allotment, feeling very grateful to my support systems!img_4236Oh and I broke my first small fork and Ma lost my hat.img_4232I also made rhubarb crumble muffins. They are probably going to be the cake of the summer!img_4258This week, I have another 4 day week and then Paris…

 

 

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Sunday Music: I Saw the Light

One of the things I do over a weekend is listen to the Mayo and Kermode podcast, which you should be listening to if you’re not already.

When you have a presenter who plays double bass and an actor promoting a film about Hank Williams, this is what you get.

There’s also a version of Move It On Over knocking about as well.

The film is apparently not all that good which is a shame because he sounds good.

 

 

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s feels like this has been a busy week but I think that’s more down to a migraine on Tuesday putting me out of action, so I compressed all the stuff into less time. Here are this week’s links…

In praise of the auntie. Actually aunts as well as adopted ones. I am one of those women and it makes my heart sing to have someone recognise it for what it is, not mothering but a different and important relationship for children and parents to have.

In defence of absurdly early bedtimes. I don’t think that 7pm is really early, 6pm ok but 7pm seems totally reasonable to me. Mind you, I have an absurdly early adult bedtime of 10pm on weekdays!

10 things that Americans should know about Eurovision before it’s broadcast in the US for the first time on Saturday. If you have to watch it, it’s best to be drunk and/or have a party to watch it.

Does a smear test hurt? In my experience, yes but only for a little while and it’s better than cancer…

Stop trying to find yourself. Apparently, Confucius and I have a similar life philosophy

 

 

 

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