Life Happened: Weeding

This week was fairly average. I went to work except on Tuesday when I had the mother of all migraines and Friday when I worked from home.

I didn’t do much except work and sleep and a bit of reading.

The weekend was busy. I got up and shopped, Christelle came over and helped with the wrestling the plot back to productivity. Ma came over on Sunday and did the same for this, I fed them and talked at them incessantly.

It’s looking better. So that was my week. Sleep, eat, work, allotment, feeling very grateful to my support systems!img_4236Oh and I broke my first small fork and Ma lost my hat.img_4232I also made rhubarb crumble muffins. They are probably going to be the cake of the summer!img_4258This week, I have another 4 day week and then Paris…

 

 

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Sunday Music: I Saw the Light

One of the things I do over a weekend is listen to the Mayo and Kermode podcast, which you should be listening to if you’re not already.

When you have a presenter who plays double bass and an actor promoting a film about Hank Williams, this is what you get.

There’s also a version of Move It On Over knocking about as well.

The film is apparently not all that good which is a shame because he sounds good.

 

 

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s feels like this has been a busy week but I think that’s more down to a migraine on Tuesday putting me out of action, so I compressed all the stuff into less time. Here are this week’s links…

In praise of the auntie. Actually aunts as well as adopted ones. I am one of those women and it makes my heart sing to have someone recognise it for what it is, not mothering but a different and important relationship for children and parents to have.

In defence of absurdly early bedtimes. I don’t think that 7pm is really early, 6pm ok but 7pm seems totally reasonable to me. Mind you, I have an absurdly early adult bedtime of 10pm on weekdays!

10 things that Americans should know about Eurovision before it’s broadcast in the US for the first time on Saturday. If you have to watch it, it’s best to be drunk and/or have a party to watch it.

Does a smear test hurt? In my experience, yes but only for a little while and it’s better than cancer…

Stop trying to find yourself. Apparently, Confucius and I have a similar life philosophy

 

 

 

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Chocolate Oat Bars

Last week, I showed you a ‘healthier’ flapjack. This week we are going in completely the opposite direction.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

These are not healthy but they are delicious. One of things that really, really bug me about America is its inability to use weight instead of cups to measure ingredients.  It’s a little thing but it means that often and this recipe is a really good example, I end up mixing and matching using cups for the dry ingredients and weight for the butter (because butter in the UK doesn’t come in cups or sticks, it comes in 250g blocks)  and sometimes the chocolate if I can’t get dark chocolate chips. Let’s not even get started on the difference in cup sizes in the UK from the US or my habit of using metric and imperial measures in the same recipe!

All that to say that I used 170g of butter and chocolate and UK cups for everything else and it worked out fine!

These are a really great snack and I love eating them straight out of the fridge.

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The Allotment Adventure: So it begins

The day after I came back from holiday I went to look at an allotment.img_4148Last Saturday, it became mine.

It’s all been a bit of a shock because I was expecting to be on the waiting list at least another year and that it would be completely overgrown. I lucked out with this one though. It’s a half plot and the chap that had it before had the whole of it, he’s been struggling with it and so decided to give up half. Which means it’s it pretty good shape. There is a victoria plum tree, raspberries (that are nearly as old as me!), a rhubarb plant and some gooseberry bushes already there. There is also borage and poppies and a lot of couch grass. It was dug over last autumn so it shouldn’t take much TLC to get it back to a state I can grow things in. Having said that, weeds grow so I need to get my act together and think about what to grow and how to organise it pretty quickly before they take over.

Does it sound like I’m moaning about it? I’m not it’s a good problem to have but I thought I’d have another year to save some money for tools and things and more time doing weed control and getting a feel for the place before I needed to make decisions.

Although I’ve had an allotment before (for a year), I’m not a natural gardener, I grew up in the city without a garden but I like to grow food and this is something that even though I’m not very good at, I’ve always wanted to do. It might just be genetics coming through, my great grandad was a gardener (which is why my Grandma was called Iris, they were flowering when she was born – well that’s what I was told!) and my uncle loves his garden. Whatever it is, I’m at that stage of life where something that encourages me to be active and outside can only be a good thing.

I’m basically terrified. My challenge for this month, is to clear and plan and think about what I can grow, while spending as little money as I can because it’s a really tight month money-wise. The allotment is probably going to be like my flat, it’ll be mine and I’ll do the bulk of the work but I’ll have help to make it my space. I asked Kathy and Adam if they could lend me a fork and spade this month and they went one extra and bought them for me!img_4201They also bought me a watering can and a hand fork because I couldn’t get them on Saturday! Sue volunteered her mum’s old tools as they are clearing her house (although as yet I have no idea what she has).

The first thing to do is turn over the earth and weed. Then work out where to put things, what to leave, what needs clearing and the difference between what jobs can be done now, what needs to wait and what other equipment I’m going to need. Fruit cages for the gooseberry bushes will probably have to be very heath robinson this year because cages are expensive!!

We started on Sunday. Ma is good at weeding! I didn’t take a photo of this patch before I attacked it with a fork, this is the after. img_4214-1It looked like this before. img_4213There are some stray potatoes, leeks and onions knocking around.

This year, I’d like to grow tomatoes, basil, sweetcorn, courgettes, salad leaves, beans and peas. I’ve started some dwarf french beans, courgettes, marigolds and basil off over the weekend. The runner beans and peas and sweetcorn will go straight into the ground and I’m planning on buying tomato and maybe cucumber and squash plants. I’d like to set up a permanent herb garden and plant lavender. I’m also going to throw some wildflower seeds up near where the poppies and borage are.

I’m not absolutely convinced that I’ll have a completely organic garden and I do want to encourage bees and butterflies and there are a lot of people coming and going with children and dogs so the less poisonous any interventions, the better, so nematodes and slug bait rather than slug pellets and companion planting is my goal. IMG_3297

Longer term, (much longer term like by the time I retire!)  I’ll like raised beds, a strawberry bed, some blueberry bushes and maybe some other soft fruit. More than one rhubarb plant, an apple tree and eventually maybe asparagus. I’d also like a shed, a greenhouse of some description and to learn how to compost.

The worst it can be is a disaster but if anyone has any advice about the cheap gardening (an oxymoron if ever there was one!) I’m all ears!

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Food and Budget Update: 30/04 to 06/05/2016

SHOPPING 
Straight away, I should confess to some ‘cheating’, I used some of my holiday money to buy a couple of pies and some sausages from The Amble Butcher. The rest of my shopping was done in Lidl and Morrisons in Morpeth on the Friday before we came home. The grand total was £16.62, which is an overspend caused by quinoa (which is possibly the most middle class  but I was out and I’ll make it up later so it’s not terrible.

This was the list. I couldn’t get seeds but got everything else.

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COOKING AND EATING 

We got home on Saturday evening and I didn’t have the energy after unpacking to cook. Instead I ate a pork pie from Amble and I have no regrets about that!

Sunday was a busy day. I made brunch using the vegetables that came back from Amble in the coolbox and sauteed potatoes, onion, mushroom and chorizo with an egg.

Then I went out to do all the things and by the time I got back from meeting baby Noah, it was 8.30pm and too late so I ate a chocolate oat bar and that was it. 

Monday was also pretty busy. I did the weekly food prep and had berry crisp and yogurt for breakfastimg_4161We went to see the family and Laura made spag bol. Which was amazing, poor Joe had to eat a banana flavoured rice cake while we chowed down. Then I was at Kathy and Adam’s for dinner, I didn’t eat loads but that was really good too! I love it when other people cook for me!After Monday’s carb overload, it was time to get back on the straight and narrow. Work breakfasts were more of the berry crisp with yogurt and lunches were roasted vegetable and chickpea spinach salad.

On Tuesday night, for mice related reasons (and that put the tin lid on a not very good day), dinner was a pie from Amble and a gin and tonic. It was a good pie.

Wednesday night was more positive, I ate another pie but this time with spring greens. Thursday night I was out. John was visiting and wanted to eat fish and chips, we went to the Golden Hind in Marylebone Lane. It was good, not as good as Amble but pretty good.
Friday night came and I was eating pizza.
LESSONS LEARNED 

I felt that this week was shorter on vegetables than I’d have liked and was more meat heavy than usual for a week at home, having said that I enjoyed that it was an easy week and it eased me back into a work week routine. The best thing I ate all week was Laura’s spag bol. Seriously good!

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Life Happened: Nephews and Elections

My post holiday come down was somewhat alleviated by Monday being a bank holiday. Ma still had the hire car so we headed up to Watford to see the family (and give the nephews holiday presents!). The nephews are a delight, Oli was lovely and Joe is just very, very cute!img_4169

Laura cooked lunch and we had a lovely time. We also drew teams for the Euros, I don’t have confidence that I’m going to win this one!
Tuesday was a difficult day for having to go back to work reasons. The absolute tin lid on the day was coming home to this.img_4178At least the traps work, this is the first evidence (there have been no droppings) I’ve seen of mice since I first realised the buggers were invading in January. It’s the first time that the traps have gone off. The kitchen needed to be decontaminated and gin applied to my shattered nerves. I’m now back to an OCD level of cleaning and on full alert for the little pests.

On Thursday, I started the day right by casting my vote in the Mayoral and GLA elections. If you could vote, I hope you did. I was also happy about the new mayor, thank you London for not letting me down again after 8 years of Boris, who basically used the city to support his attempt to become the leader of the Tory party.

After work in Thursday, I met John for drinks. It’s always good to see him and there was load to catch up on. John is loving New York (it’s his happy place!) and the job is less manic than before but still pretty busy.On Friday, I realised that I’d left my sunglasses at Ben and Laura’s because someone had found them.Saturday was busy. I volunteered at the allotments in the morning so was up at 7pm to start baking and housework. Then allotments and signing and paying for my allotment. I made my 10,000 steps at about 12 noon! A trip to buy some allotment things and then to the cinema with Ma. Captain America, which I loved! Kathy came round for a catch up on Saturday evening and because she and Adam are amazing I got garden tools and wine!I fell into bed at 1am on Sunday morning absolutely shattered but feeling productive.

Sunday morning I was looking after the Baxter babies, who were lovely. Then shopped. Then Ma and I went to the allotment.

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Became this.And there was rhubarb…A good weekend. Back to work tomorrow and if you want me outside of work hours, chances are I’ll be weeding…

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Little Goals – May 2016

May is another busy month. I have an allotment, I’m going to Paris. Busy, busy…20140914-204723-74843564.jpg

Here are the little goals for May:

FINANCE

Have one week this month were I only spend £10 on groceries. I think a week of ‘less’ is good for making sure that I don’t have too much food in the house.

Stay on track. I’ll have to pay for the allotment this month and the temptation to buy all the gardening things is immense! So I need not to. This is for financial as well as mental health reasons. Progress on the allotment needs to be slow and steady so I stick at it. So I have to practice patience as well as fiscal prudence!OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

HOME

Defrost the freezer. I did this last week but it was on the list as a May task and is done.IMG_3150

Re-grout the bathroom tiles. I did this a couple of years ago and it’s just beginning to mold and look tired. Time to re-do them.

BODY AND MIND

Three times a week walk from the station to the office. Need to redo this one for this month..

7,000 steps a day every day and 10,000 steps 4 days a week. I don’t think that I’m up for 10,000 steps every day but I need to push this a bit and see how much I can do!

Daily exercise. 20 squats, 2x 30 second planks, 10 sit ups, 10 press ups

A dry (ish) month. I had a lovely holiday and although we were more restrained with food and alcohol, we had daily gin and daily wine. I feel that my liver needs a rest, so I will limit my drinking!  img_4065-1

What are you

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! My first week back at work has been interesting, I think the universe thought that I came back from holiday too relaxed and happy and so tried to put a stop to it! Here are this week’s links….

What playing the woman card really means.

My friend Jenny wrote about running in Palestine.

Phil Green, BHS corporate raiding and politicians who do nothing about it.

A weasel shut down the Large Hadron Collider until the middle of May. This is just perfect…

The Puerto Rico debt crisis explained. I didn’t even know Puerto Rico had a debt crisis.

A map of Great Britain according to google autocomplete. Funny

Eight ways to tackle the life crisis you think you’re having. I love this, especially the bit about cleaning the house. Mother has been trying to teach me this for years and it’s finally sunk in!

Self-care is one of the most wonderful things you can learn and it’s nearly impossible to have a crisis when your house is clean and tidy, you’re stomping around on eight hours sleep and your body is crammed with fresh air and poached eggs on toast.

Is expensive workout gear necessary? To which I answer that the Swetty Betty workout trousers are, decent sports bra aside, the best money I have ever spent because they are the best trousers I ever bought and I can do body balance in them. Seriously, they are ace.

Donald Trump is a baby boomer. This is a bit wordy and it’s American but it hits a nerve.

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What I’ve Read – April 2016

April was not a reading month, I guess I’ve just been in a bit of slump, I didn’t even read much while I was away. Anyway this is what I’ve read this month..

Terra’s World – Mitch Benn (library book)

I loved this, it took me a little while to get back into the style of writing but I just really like the way it all comes together and hopefully there’ll be another story.

Losing It – Cora Cormack (library book)

I’ve seen this around and it was at the library so I decided to pick it up. I was unconvinced.  The conflict didn’t feel like a conflict, the attraction wasn’t quite right and my usual prejudice about Americans writing English characters kicked in. Dear Americans, most British people define themselves by country English, Welsh, Scottish, the only people who generally don’t do this are Northern Irish protestants who call themselves British (the catholics from NI who generally tell you they’re Irish). Saying someone is British and then giving them both Northern and Southern English verbal tics is wrong and I can’t unsee it and Garrick, I want to believe he was named after the theatre  and it’s a pun but I’m more inclined to believe it’s an American writing what she’d like to believe is a British person. Rant over…

Keane’s Company – Iain Gale (library book)

Iain Gale wrote one of my favourite fictional books about Waterloo (Four Days in June) and he gave a talk at the National Army Museum about Wellington’s intelligence officers in the Peninsular Wars, so I knew about these books and there they were in the library so I grabbed them. It’s alright, Gale knows his stuff although I’m not too sure that you could detect that from this. Keane is a bit of a wonderboy despite being a card sharp. Fun, easy reading.

Morning Star – Pierce Brown (library book)

I loved Red Rising and Golden Son and I loved this and I read it twice. I liked that winning was a compromise. That there’s actual character growth, that Darrow finally realises his strength is his people, the ones he loves, the ones that love him. That there was space for redemption. I’m sad about one of the compromises and even though I want more of the world, this was a good place to end. I hated the first chapter, that is possibly my idea of hell, being trapped in a box. I loved it. I only own the first of these books but at some point I’m going to have to own all of them to re-read at my leisure.

Dirty – Kylie Scott (borrowed)

I liked the Stage Dive books enough to read this one. So first the things I liked. I liked the setting, I liked that the hero was short of cash, seems to me that there are too many rich boys in NA romance, this wasn’t entirely realistic but more than they have been. I liked (mostly) Lydia. Mal from the Stage Dive books makes an appearance and he’s my favourite so that was nice. What I struggled with, instalove, Lydia’s habit of putting her body down didn’t ring true to me. She constantly describes herself as plus size and talks a lot about ‘her big butt’, look I’m all for plus size heroines and I totally get that being bigger can lead you to less self confidence but it’s all tell and no show. It just didn’t work as it didn’t seem to have any impact on her except that she seemed to tell us it did, I didn’t feel it.

Worth Lord of Reckoning – Grace Burrowes (bought)

I bought this as part of an eight book deal My Favourite Rogue. It was Burrowes, not at all believable but good anyway.

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