Monday Miscellany

Last week was as predicted, interesting. I don’t like not being competent and I spent Thursday and Friday reminding myself that I’m not expected to know everything on my first two days. The commute has been fine but I need to be up earlier so I can get a desk, this is the first time in 25 plus years of working that I’ve worked in a hot desk environment. I also had a migraine on Sunday morning, which was not fun, I’m blaming heat, stress and not being good about my diet this weekend. Plus side, it was on a weekend and short. When you have migraines, this is a good thing. So it was horrible but it was a good migraine as migraines go.

Of course after the migraine I had to shop and go to the plot and thankfully, Ma had a car this weekend so it was pretty easy but the plot part had to be cut short because it was too hot. Watering got done and there hasn’t been too much slug damage, so all good, but it appears that this year is going to be a year that I am tasty to bitey things, it goes in cycles, some years I get bitten a lot and sometimes not at all.My basic plan for this week is work, rest and prep for Junipalooza next Saturday. What are you guys doing this week?

 

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Sunday Music: Abraham, Martin and John

On Friday nights at 8.45pm, Radio Four has a slot called ‘Point of View’ which by turns can be enlightening or infuriating, but last Friday it replayed Alistair Cooke’s Letter from America on the death of Bobby Kennedy.

The 5th of June marks 50 years since he was slot. I wasn’t even a twinkle in my parents eyes in 1968 but I know that it was a hell of a year…we already commemorated Martin Luther King’s murder earlier this year, and I’m not very well read about the time but on Friday night, I listened to the broadcast and I knew that it was Alistair Cooke because I grew up with Letter from America and I knew that it was about Bobby Kennedy. I have probably heard this broadcast before, it is powerful. But as I was listening to it, in the back of my head I heard this song and I heard Sam Cooke

I wasn’t alive in 1968, but this song, I grew up hearing. I knew what it was about, I knew it was a sad song, but listening to Alistair Cooke (of all people) I felt that I finally understood it and maybe it felt more relevant to me now because of the times we are living in.

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Friday Links

Happy Friday!

It’s been quite a week, my head is quite full of new work things.

This week on the blog, there was a miscellany post a day later than usual, the usual allotment update and the usual goal recap and setting post.

This week’s links…

I thought this was quite interesting. Chelsea Clinton: ‘I’ve had vitriol flung at me for as long as I can remember’ and while we’re on the subject of children of presidents, Ivanka Trump embodies her father’s family values. Quite.

I really enjoyed Katharine Whitehorn’s columns, I didn’t know her at all, although once at the National Theatre, during the interval, she sat on me. Apparently, in the crush of half time, I looked like a seat! This is really, terribly sad. The writer Katharine Whitehorn would rather die than live like this

There’s probably going to be a lot more on Northern Ireland over the next couple of weeks. The only Northern Irish woman with a choice is Arlene Foster. and Could Theresa May’s pact with the DUP lead to a united Ireland? Theresa May is a tactician, not a strategist. She can only see what is in front of her and has no understanding of the big picture and that applies to everything she does. She dealt with her lack of votes but tied her hands on anything to do with NI.

A recipe for focaccia

Antony Beevor: the greatest war movie ever and the ones I can’t stand. This is such a lovely rant…

68 questions you’ve always wanted to ask about decorating your home I don’t agree with all of these but I’m going to look at carpet binding!

 

 

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Monthly Goals: May/June 2018

How are we nearly halfway through the year?  May was a pretty good month. I finally got a permanent job which starts today. The allotment is doing well. I got a good mix of alone time and sociability and I got to go to a football match. It was all pretty good.

I did pretty well with my goals, here’s the recap…

Mind and Body

  • 10,000 steps a day.
  • Vitamins every day.
  • Feet and Hands.
  • Golden hour

These are all happening consistently

Budget & Spending

  • Stick to the spending budgets for food and household. All good

House Beautiful

This is pretty much all repeats of March because I didn’t get it done last month

  • Hoover once a week
  • Clean oven
  • Defrost fridge

Bank holidays for the win!

Allotment  (still the longest list!)

  • bonfire
  • sowing seeds indoors (sweetcorn, kale, more tomatoes, chard)
  • sowing seeds outdoors (french beans)
  • plant out tomatoes, cucumbers etc
  • frame in the bed at the top of the plot
  • compost (more compost)
  • seating area (we have a plan but it’s probably not going to happen this summer)

I didn’t get to the seating area because I need to source pallets, but we got everything else done!

Year so far

Reading – The TBR list on the Kindle stands at a 100 and the physical pile of books is at 32.

Household budget – I started with £83.75 and ended with £43.75. So I have £83.75 for May, and I’ll really need spend that because I’ve run out of everything…

Food Budget – I had pennies left, they went into the jar.

Saving – The jar now contains £120.32

June Goals

Ok so June is going to be interesting, I have a new commute and a new job to work out. The only social thing currently on the slate is Junipalooza and my weekly walk with Sarah and Fred, while I still can!

Mind and Body

There are some additions to this list this month. I don’t think that it’s good to overload yourself when there is big transition happening but I am aware that June will be an awkward month because I find change and transition difficult. So I decided to be a grown up about it and prepare and work with it so I get through it all gracefully.

I’ve been doing occasional therapy in the last couple of months to check in but with change and adaption seeming to be a 2018 theme, I’m back at least until my birthday.

The other thing that I’ve picked up on is that I’m always waiting for the other shoe to drop and disaster to occur. I’ve noticed it and it’s bringing me down, so goodness knows what it’s doing for the people that have to be around me! I understand what’s going on but at this stage it’s behaviour I can and need to unlearn. I’m not denying that bad things can happen and I need to be prepared for that but I shouldn’t expect them to happen. So I’m going to make a habit of writing them all down. Not here but on paper, I figure that I’ll do it for a month and see if it helps.

  • 10,000 steps a day.
  • Vitamins every day.
  • Feet and Hands.
  • Golden hour
  • Therapy
  • Good things journal everyday

Budget & Spending

Time to be real, this month is going to be tough in terms of money. I have a week and two days of temping pay and then I won’t get paid until the end of the month and it may not be for a whole month.

  • Get through the month without financial explosion.

House Beautiful

  • Stick to the housework rota.

Allotment  (still the longest list!)

  • plant out remaining squash
  • sow more carrots and radishes and spring onions
  • sow chard, kale, pak choi and cauliflower
  • sow more salad
  • keep on top of the watering and weeding
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Allotment Adventures: Cucumber disaster

I planted 11 cucumbers plants last week, and at this point maybe one will survive, the others are dead, look at the bed of shrivelled, dead plants. The cucamelons are looking sick too!

The tomato plants are doing a little better, I planted out 35 and lost 6, but I did have spares to replace them, so we planted the others out and we’ll see how they do. This weekend I sowed some more cucumber seeds and potted on the basil.  On the plus side, the french beans are doing well, we picked our first broad beans, the salad bed is in overdrive, as is the beetroot bed which I thinned this week. The various summer and winter squash plants are ok and we’ve worked out where all the winter squash are going to go.

And the peas are flowering, which is very exciting.

Fruit is developing. Plums

Strawberries

Blueberries

Broad BeansSo now we wait and water. And sow some kale and chard and cauliflower for winter and more buckets for radishes and cauliflower and salad.Everything is behind this year but this week we still had chard, spinach, salad, rhubarb and broad beans, we also had cabbage from my plot neighbour! This is what I sent Ma home with this week.

 

 

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Monday Miscellany (on Tuesday)

I feel I should congratulate Ireland, well done on the referendum result! This is a vote for compassion and for allowing women to make the choices that are right for them. Now for Northern Ireland.

The week after a bank holiday is always a bit strange because you’re trying to cram five days work into four. My week this week is going to be even stranger, I’m going to spend two days trying someone in my current role and then two days in an altogether new job being trained. The move from competence to incompetence will be very stark for me this week.

One day every weekend, looks like this. Fred the dog refusing to give the ball back. Usually because he’s stubborn and very attached to his ball but the last couple of weekends because he’s been to hot to chase the ball. He is very good dog. When I get to Sarah’s he gets very excited because it means a long walk for him but he also knows I don’t like him jumping on me. So he starts to jump, remembers and turns while in mid air. I find it very amusing!

It’s also been really good to have a time every week to exercise and see Sarah, it’s been lovely to spend concentrated time with her, I don’t think we’ve seen each other this often since we lived together! This works…

The other day of my weekend generally looks like working on the plot, followed by drinks..

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday!

This week I resigned from my temp job because I have a new, permanent job that starts on 31st May. Which is just perfect timing, as I’m running out of money to supplement temping wages and I don’t like temping, you can’t really start anything worthwhile. So a new job, a new commute on a different tube line and new things to learn starting next week, I’m terrible with change so it’s going to be an interesting couple of months!

Since last Friday, I’ve posted Sunday Music, Monday Miscellany, and an update on the allotment

Other people’s blogs:

Valonia wrote about how plans on the allotment change.  And who doesn’t want a mini fruit orchard?

Sharon’s alliums are flowering. I aspire to be as good at growing things as Sharon is!

Here are this week’s links…

My parents and ‘middle Ireland’ could decide Ireland’s abortion vote. There’s some huge change happening in Ireland right now..

It’s okay to enjoy the royal wedding. Constitutional monarchies are great. Seriously? Prince Charles IS politically engaged, he interferes all the sodding time and he’s not even king, this is a justification to make Americans feel better. I can’t write a better reply to it it than this, It’s not Harry and Meghan. It’s the monarchy I oppose

A monarchy establishes inherited privilege at the heart of government and embeds patronage at the centre of power. The royals are a class act. And that’s the problem. I’m not a very passionate republican – many things bother me more than the monarchy. But as principles go it is unwavering. We have a class problem in Britain and the monarchy exemplifies it……

I am a republican and a humanist. Indeed, I am a republican because I am a humanist. I wish the individuals well and the institution ill.

What do migraines really feel like? They aren’t headaches, this week I had a headache for the whole of Monday and a considerable chunk of Tuesday but I went to work and had a normal day, I didn’t really enjoy it but I could do it. But I have some of these symptoms and it’s not fun.

Caring for a child when their parents can’t? The state takes you for a mug. I’m really not sure about this. I have a problem with the idea that I would need paying to look after the children in my family. I pray daily for the safety of my family but if anything was to happen to my brother or sister-in-law, I would move to Bedfordshire and look after my nephews. It wouldn’t be my first choice, not least because of what would have had to have happened for that to be necessary, but it also wouldn’t be a question and it might mean that money was tight but that’s what you do.  It wouldn’t be a favour I was doing for Social Services, it would be my duty. It’s not unreasonable to ask relatives to care for the children of the family and I don’t think that it’s something that they should expect pay for. I’m also really tired of Louise Tickle’s bias against Social Services. Social workers are not demons, they are for the most part dedicated people doing a job no one wants to do, under huge pressure with limited resources and it’s time for some balance.

Why is M&S in such trouble? Because they stopped doing what they do well. M&S linen trousers cost £25 and last one summer, their linen shirts cost £25 and even when they are 3 sizes larger than I actually need, gape at the chest. I wear a lot of long drapey cardigans, the ones in M&S cost £20 to £30 and the ones in Primark cost £8, the important part of this is that the ones in Primark wear and wash better. The sizing in M&S is all over the place and the quality has diminished but the prices have not. This year every bloody thing has a high round neck, a statement bloody sleeve or is a terrible colour. I’m 45, I grew up with M&S I’m inclined to start there but it’s really hard to find stuff that I want wear that fits/suits me in M&S. They’ve forgotten their audience AND downgraded their quality, that why their in trouble. It’s not the internet, its the stuff they’re selling…

The Curse of Summer 2018….ripped jeans tanlines

Thanks! Any other advice? Yes. You could also try wearing jeans that don’t have any holes in them.

But holes are cool. No, they’re not. They’re cool on teenagers and pop stars. You’re an adult with three children and a comfortable job in middle management. Whenever you wear ripped jeans, you look like someone who has recently been cut out of the wreckage of a car accident.

The Lesson of Eric Greitens, and the Navy SEALs Who Tried to Warn Us. Stuff like this helps me understand the US more, but it’s a worry.

How Americans got ‘the sesh’ completely wrong. Mmm…I think millennials have it wrong too. Isn’t it when you go for one and it goes a bit bigger and the next thing you know it’s 3am and you’ve probably eaten a kebab (on the night bus home no less) and you get home for 2 hours sleep, a shower and a change of clothes and into the office you go.

Patrick Melrose captures heroin addiction perfectly – it brought my memories flooding back. This is worth reading…

You May Never Have Things Under Control, But You Can Have a Pajama Set So true, this is why I have an extensive pyjama collection. And Americans, what have you done with the y in pyjamas?

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Allotment Adventures: Planting out

This week we planted out all the things.The jury is out on how many will survive, the tomatoes and cucumbers look to be in a bad way right now. I have some spare plum tomatoes that can replace the dead tomatoes and I have resown some cucumbers, cherry tomatoes and a crookneck.I should be a better plant parent and harden them off and so on but  I don’t. Apparently, being a seedling in my care is the plant equivalent of being raised by Spartans. You live or you die!

However, we did good work at the weekend, not enough weeding for Ma but it’s all coming together. We filled the new bed at the top of the plot with compost, we used coir and our favourite Wilko’s value compost to get about 100 litres. There was no reason for using it, it was the stuff we could carry. Although looking at the health of the three uchiki kuri plants in that bed, I’m going to consider adding it in future to the beds for the thirstier plants for it’s water retaining properties.We planted the four other uchiki kuri plants in the containers, to hopefully grow up the arch! The ‘soil’ in these containers is amazing. When I first got the plot, I moved both containers to this position and it’s where we put all the weeds we were digging up, which we covered and left, the rotted down and last year I filled both containers with a bunch of wood chip and then more Wilko value compost and I planted squash in them last year. In the autumn, I added manure and the spent compost from the buckets and covered. It’s rotted down really well and I’m hopeful that it’ll grow some amazing squash this year!We also planted out courgettes and cucumbers and sowed sweetcorn. I had three spare cucumbers that went in with the sweetcorn. When (if) the sweetcorn is about 9-10 inches high, I’ll sow borlotti beans next to them to climb up. Hopefully the cucumbers will survive and provide ground cover. The worse that can happen is that it doesn’t work!

We did a little rearranging and I have four beds of tomatoes (if they live!) and instead of my planned two courgettes and two crooknecks, we have four courgettes and one crookneck. The lack of crooknecks is because two didn’t survive transportation to the plot and we had two spare courgettes and I have trouble not planting them out. I did this last year too!

Do you remember that I repotted the mint a couple of months ago? You all know how hard it is to kill mint? Reader, I killed the mint. Which meant I had two lovely terracotta pots, into which I planted the cucamelons. I’ll buy another mint at some point to go into the green box.I know that I’m going to end up with more stuff in buckets, I want to do another bucket of radishes and carrots and you know that there will be spare tomatoes. At some point I need to move that cloche and plant something there..

That’s nearly it for planting out. I have three butternut and three boston squash that need homes and I need to pot on and then plant out the basil. The next thing for me to do it think about later summer and autumn crops (pak choi, cauliflowers, kale, chard and more salad crops) most of the rest of my summer is going to be about watering, weeding, and with any luck, harvesting.

Some longer term things are planting bulbs in autumn, wood chip at the top of the plot, patio, support for the raspberries, autumn raspberries in another spot and expanding my blueberry empire.

 

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Monday Miscellany

Last week seemed ridiculously busy, I don’t think it actually was but Monday night was a transport nightmare and then something I had to get done ate up an hour and a half of my life! I was out on Thursday, Friday and Saturday night. All things I wanted to do but I feel that another day at home just pottering about would be a good thing!
I went to a football match on Friday night, it was old Chelsea players vs old Inter Milan players. We lost 4-1 and I have to say it the old Inter players looked much fitter than our guys! The next day the actual Chelsea team, won the FA Cup, which was the important news of the day!

When I’m in the vicinity of a TV and there’s football on I watch it but I much prefer watching it live. It’s just better, I think it’s because I grew up with limited football on TV but with a lot of actual football matches in my life and still not as many as B did. If I won the lottery I’d want a season ticket!We did all the planting on the plot on Saturday and this morning when I went to water, some of the plants where not doing too well, I’m a bad plant parent.

My plans for the week involve leaving the house at 7:30am every morning this week. I also have a doctors appointment, I’m babysitting on Tuesday night and there is allotment watering to attend to!  So not too busy, not too relaxed. What are your plans for this week.

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Sunday Music: SOB

Sometimes you need something, foot stomping and hand clapping and Nathaniel Rateliff has you covered…

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