Monday Miscellany: Heavy

Happy Monday!

During the various lockdowns, over the last two years, I learned to live with the disconnect of personally being ok (missing people, learning to WFH and all the other strains) but knowing that others were suffering more than me.

It’s something that as a person from the First World, I should be pretty used to. There’s an endless list of places in the world where there is actual suffering that doesn’t compare to any issues I have, Iran, Iraq, Afganistan, Syria, Palestine, Mali, Rwanda, Burrundi, India, Nepal. The list is long and the issues are painful, none of it interferes with my day to day life. And so it is with Russia’s invasion of Ukraine, feeling terrible and worried because Putin is escalating and threatening nuclear war, but also knowing that this is not anything like the suffering of the Ukrainians being asked to make molotov cocktails, or the Russians arrested for protesting the actions of their government this week. I’m not sure I would be up to the bravery that either of those actions requires.

I have written to my MP, (but I know she agrees with me already!), prayers and donations to the people on the ground trying to help is the best I can do. Lent starts on Wednesday, to remind me that the world is broken but I also know that it doesn’t have to be.

So other than a reaction to the terrible state of the world, life has been as normal, I’ve gone to work, I’ve had friends come for dinner, I’ve spoken to my brother, everyone in my little world is ok, except that Chelsea lost a football match yesterday, which I can live with.

This week is more of the same with extra sleep added in (I’m feeling slow and tired!)

Have a good week!

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Friday Links: War

Happy Friday!

It’s not very happy for the Ukrainians, I don’t have answers to how we stop Putin without a world war, but one thing we should do is bring the hammer down on Russia, which is also going to hurt us. No buying oil or gas, no visas for Russians, revoke visas for people with links to the Russian state (which means Putin). If we don’t Russian takes Ukraine, we’ll be going to war to defend the NATO countries that border Ukraine, he won’t stop.

Oh and for all the people who wanted the UK out of the EU, this is why the EU is important, it’s why it was formed…

It’s Not ‘The’ Ukraine. This is worth reading for lots of reasons.

These pathetic sanctions won’t hurt Putin. He’ll be laughing all the way to his dacha

Forget the obsession with sanctions against oligarchs. I have a better way to hurt Putin

As Putin’s tanks roll into Ukraine, he knows exactly who to feel sorry for: himself

Fighting the threat from Putin will take teamwork. But who trusts Johnson’s Britain?

Dictators Aren’t Pretending Anymore

Anti-war Protests in Russia. I’m not sure I would be this brave

It’s worth if you haven’t listening to Martin Kimani’s (the Kenyan ambassador to the UN) response on Russian justifications.

To Tory MPs seeking to derail the green agenda, I say watch out – we’re coming for you. What I find really strange about all of Steve Baker’s views is that he’s a professed Christian and yet most of the views he espouses seem profoundly unchristian.

The innocent have paid a high price for the Post Office scandal. The guilty have not

COVID Won’t End Up Like the Flu. It Will Be Like Smoking.

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Book Squee: Guns in the North – P.F. Chisholm

Last year, when I was in Newcastle, I bought a book. This is no surprise to anyone who knows me, I actually bought a lot of books on that holiday, we did a morning in Barter Books and a day in Newcastle, where I had a book token to spend! Anyway, for the purposes of this story, the book that I picked up was ‘Guns in the North’ which is the first three of the nine Carey mysteries by P. F. Chisholm. I’m not mad keen on mysteries but the main character in these ones was Robert Carey and they were sent on Borders in 1592. I’m keen on Elizabethan history and I was near the Borders, so there was another book added to my unruly TBR pile (I don’t have a book problem, I just don’t have enough time to read!)

I finally got around to starting this one in November, and I was captivated. For those of you that don’t know, Sir Robert Carey was a courtier and son of Lord Hunson, who may have been Henry VIII’s illegitimate son by Mary Boleyn but the book takes this as fact. Carey is the man, who without the permission of the Privy Council, took the news of Elizabeth I’s death up to Scotland to tell James VI of Scotland that he was now King of England. He’s interesting because in 1592, he abandoned being a courtier and went to Carlisle to be the Deputy Warden of the West March, under his brother in law. But enough of the actual person, let’s talk about the books.

They are so good, Chisholm does that great thing, of putting you right in the time and place, so while I adore her fictionalised Carey and love the totally made up character, Henry Dodd, they are Elizabethans, not modern people in the 1500’s. They frequently discount woman as having brains (despite being ruled by one!), they drink all the time, they aren’t very clean (although Carey has been a courtier and is cleaner than most), they are cavalier about death (and murder and because it’s the Borders), theft and have a flexible attitude to morality in general.

Without being boring or preachy, Chisholm manages to convey a completely different way of viewing the world that’s really easy to understand. One of the ways she does that is with language, so it’s not just that characters speak with accents but that they use words that we wouldn’t and just think differently, Carey is in love with a married woman and it’s not until book eight we discover that he has no idea what colour her hair is as it’s always been under a married woman’s cap and that doesn’t stop him having dalliances either.

They also run on from one another delightfully, in nine books we only cover about seven months, I loved the first three books so much that I immediately bought all the others and bought the first three for Jo as a Christmas present, I’m hopeful that there will be a 10 book because I want to know what happens next.

Seriously, I can’t recommend them enough…

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Monday Miscellany: Let’s Catch Up

Happy Monday!

I don’t much like February as a month, if November is the worst month of the year, then for me February comes in as a close contender. I think it’s because I’m over winter and want it to be spring and it just isn’t yet. It’s not light enough, it’s not warm enough and I’ve endured January so I want a reward for all my endurance and February is not a reward it’s just ever so slightly less of the same. Which means that doing anything in February is difficult for me, because all I want to do is sleep and not leave the house. I’m also trying to use the heating less, so there have been days wearing my cozy blanket.

This photo was taken before the haircut!

So over the last two weeks, I feel I’ve been busy and done loads. The week before last was miserable because February and a period, followed by a Friday night migraine. That’s pretty unusual because usually they happen before the period, we’re going to chalk it up to peri menopause. The only two remotely useful things I did were got a grip on my workload (namely the four diaries I manage) AND got rid of all the mould in the shower in the bathroom. I looks so clean, and makes me happy. Other than that the week was a bit of a wash and I didn’t get to Grace because of migraine recovery. On the Sunday, Ma and I finally got to the Elizabeth and Mary exhibit at the British Library, I enjoyed it but as is often the case with displays like this there wasn’t enough room and there were too many people who don’t understand the concept of sharing. So many people just standing right in front of things, so no one else could read the displays, let alone look at the objects and taking photos of everything. I did take one photo to prove I’d been there. I’m still Team Elizabeth I (Mary wasn’t very bright!).

This is the one photo that I took

I stayed at Ma’s on Sunday night, I feel like we could have set the record for the longest journey from Kings Cross to Surbiton, the trains and buses were not co-operating and on Monday we saw Jane for haircuts, we both look so much better, got to catch up on the gossip and stroke the dog (she just comes and sits next to you, until you pet her!).

I was in the office on Tuesday, it’s half term so the trains were reasonable and the office was quiet and I got sushi for lunch because yes, I do have to bribe myself to do things I don’t want to do. The weather had other ideas, it was really wet and the bag containing my sushi disintegrated, and my sushi hit the pavement. Sigh. It also destroyed my umbrella and my fringe. I also had another nose bleed which I’m pretty sure was a direct result of the LFT I did on Tuesday morning.  So overall, not a great day for me. I did at one point need to apply the first of my three rules ‘if no one died it’s not a disaster’ to calm myself down!

Wednesday’s highlight was a walk with Sue, which I didn’t get the week before because she was away and I missed it so it was good to see her. I know Sue finds the same walk pretty boring but I like that for a year now, we’ve see the parks (and the kitchen garden in Walpole Park) change with the seasons.

Blossom

On Thursday, the lady from Wickes came to talk about and measure for a new kitchen plan. I’m trying really hard not to get too excited because it’ll be a faff while it’s being fitted and I may not get everything I want. I’m not too fussy about how it looks – I don’t crave expensive marble countertops or integrated appliances but I do need it to be more functional, so a bigger sink, an oven preferably higher up, a bigger fridge and freezer (which I’m willing to help pay for), lino on the floor and more cupboards would be delightful. I’ve seen the plan and got the quote, so now it’s a case of this against what the landlord wants to spend so I don’t want to get my hopes up. We’ll see.

The cupboard stays but maybe with less on it!

On Friday, Ma was supposed to come over so that we could do the Hayman’s Gin Virtual Tasting but it was a bit windy so she stayed home, we saw the tasting and we’ll catch up on the gin at a later point. The flat survived Storm Eunice and Ma came over early on Saturday so we could check the plot, ours was all good, however on other plots we’re so lucky!

My plans for this week are less exciting, (in fact I have almost no plans!) I’m in the office two days this week, and Sue and Richard are coming for dinner on Friday night. I’m also starting to get my head around sowing for the Spring, I need to buy some grow lights and then I need to start making lists. Also as Ma isn’t coming to me next weekend, I’m going to hers.

Have a good week.

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Sunday Music: The Who – Pinball Wizard

Last week, I had a conversation with one of the grown up godchildren and they told me that when they listen to ‘I Saw Her Standing There’ by the Beatles, it makes them think about their grandad, their dad and me. There’s a very good reason it might remind them of their father and me but it’s weird that it reminds them of their grandad because he doesn’t much like that one!

Which got me to thinking about the music that we know because our parents listened too it, but that it might not necessarily be the songs our parents love. The Beatles is a really good example for me. My favourite Beatles songs ‘You Really Got a Hold on Me’ (originally a Smokey Robinson song and Motown – which makes so much sense) and ‘I Saw Her Standing There’. My mother is arguably the reason I know so many Beatles songs, her favourite song ‘If I Fell’, that is not my favourite song, despite how many times I have to listen to it.

Today’s song is not a Beatles song, but The Who is one of the bands that I know because of Ma. She took me to see them too, for the 20th anniversary tour (I was 16).

This is my favourite of The Who’s songs (it’s not my mother’s!)


							
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Friday Links: A Bit Windy

Happy Friday!

It’s going to be a bit windy around these parts today, overnight London and the South East got a red warning, I don’t remember a time when London had a red warning, predictably, the news is going a bit mad.

Blossom

Here are this week’s links

Clearly Britain loses more than it gains from the monarchy. Let us be brave and end it

MPs’ groups are taking millions from private interests – that can’t go unchecked

Britain’s long consumer binge is ending – and the political fallout will be huge

London’s smallest microflat up for sale at £50,000 for 7 square metres. Everything that’s wrong with the world…

The Canadian trucker convoy is an unpopular uprising

What if Friendship, not Marriage, was at the Center of Life? . It’s a thought…

The Dark Side of Saying Work Is ‘Like a Family’

Pick a wealthy area and carry measuring tape: lessons in furnishing your house for free

Lighting up time: a gardener’s guide to the new grow lamps. This is my next step in conquering growing everything from seed for the plot, in my dark house.

Air fryers: miraculous kitchen must-have, or just a load of hot air?. This is also on my kitchen list

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Friday Links: Angry

Happy Friday!

I didn’t post last week because I was too angry with the state of the nation. I’m still really angry but here we are.

Prime suspect turns pale as latest party photo snaps him bang to rights

We don’t need Sue Gray’s report to tell us that Britain is run by a liar

Lying didn’t work for Boris Johnson, so now he’s turned to bribery

Never mind wine fridges, the Tory party is drunk on Kool-Aid

A new Tory faction is ‘scrutinising’ net zero – with tactics learned from Brexit

I am a doctor, and having hypnotherapy for IBS has changed my belief about pain

From vaginal laser treatment to spa breaks – it’s the great menopause gold rush

Fuck Noom

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Monday Miscellany: February

Happy Monday!

Yesterday a friend asked me how I was and replied that I was February-ish. We are nearly out of winter but it’s still dark in the morning. I’m trying really hard not to wish the time away but it’s difficult, I just want to get to Spring, when I start to like things again!

I spent last week trying not to be furious. The state of the government at the moment, I’m so angry about it. This pretty much sums it up.

So there’s that and then there is the flat. On Monday afternoon, I went for a walk, when I got home, I couldn’t get in because the lock had jammed. Fortunately, my friend Richard (the same one who put up the polytunnel) cycled around with WD40 and got me into the house.

I was also pursued down the road by this cat on Thursday, I think it was just feeling companionable but wish that owners would put collars on cats, so we could know who to get in touch with. This isn’t the cat that comes to my bedroom window and meows for attention in summer, or the ginger cat that used to visit, or the white cat that has been hanging out by my house AND on my allotment. I am haunted by strange cats…

My landlord realising that the curtain pod in the living room still hadn’t been fixed, finally sent someone over to fix it on Sunday. Sunday is my day of rest. I mooch around the house, I read, I do housework and food prep, I don’t get properly dressed or clean until nearly bedtime. You know what puts an absolute stop to that? Knowing that someone is coming over to fix something. I’m glad it’s fixed but I did not appreciate finding out my Sunday was going to be different from planned at 11:30am. However, the living room now has curtains and I have privacy and a warmer room again, which is good.

Morning

Plans for next week are more of the same, it’s February, I can’t be ambitious, I just need to survive it! I’m in the office one day this week, at the weekend, Ma and I are going to attempt the Elizabeth and Mary exhibit at the British Museum again (I’ll save you the ‘Mary was an airhead’ lecture this week, but it may happen next!). I’m missing my walk with Sue because she’s away so I need to make sure I leave the house for a walk on my WFH days.

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Allotment Adventures: 2022

There was no allotmenting last weekend so instead of writing about what I did, I thought it might be useful to talk about the coming season, what we want to grow etc.

We are going into this season with more raised beds than ever and a polytunnel, while I could do some re-arranging of space at the front of the plot, that would lose us the flowers and the slightly wilder spaces. As Ma says I’m not allowed another plot, this is it for my growing space (unless and until I win a vast amount of money and set up a homestead because I would really like a cow!).

Last Summer

There is some work to do at the back of the plot with the boysenberry which I talked about last week and I will get another blueberry to replace the stolen one but unless I decide to give up some space for an asparagus bed, there isn’t really any other space for fruit or perennial plants now. There is some infrastructure I need to buy (arches for the squash beds) and some other supports but aside from that, I’m hoping to be able to do more maintenance and less building in the coming season.

So let’s talk about some growing goals this year and to do that we have to talk about last year. Last year, wasn’t a terrible year, it just didn’t feel very good. The cold spring was followed by a miserable summer and so we had a pretty good year for cabbages, cauliflowers, onions and more traditional crops, we didn’t have great summer crops. The tomatoes got blight, the squash were late and the winter squash harvest was small compared to the year before. So this year, I’m hoping we’ll do better much of that depends on the weather but I’m hoping that with the polytunnel, I’ll be able to get seedlings out of my dark flat and into it sooner so that they will be stronger and able to grow on more quickly when they are planted out.

Tomatoes

We still have seeds of all the summer crops we grew last year so rather than buy new seeds , we are just going to grow the same varieties again so we can see what they are actually like when they grow and also to use up what we have before we embark on new stuff. It feels like restraint but it’s not really. So for cherry tomatoes, we’re going for Millefleur Yellow Vine and Gardeners Sweetheart. We don’t have many seeds so I may also pick up a cheap packet from Wilko, something like Gardeners Delight or Red Cherry, to fill my gaps and as seedlings for Sue. For big tomatoes, Peche Vilmorin Andrieux, Amish Paste, Ethel Watkins Best, Feo De Rio Gordo, Orange Banana, Black Russian, Marmande and Cour di Bue. As I said I’m going to grow some plants for Sue (and probably people at work!) as Sue’s garden is challenging, she has requested something less difficult so I’ll use the Craigella and Amateur seeds I already have. I know, it’s a lot, I was thinking about trying tomatillos again but I don’t think I’ll have the room!

We’ll have the two big beds by the polytunnel for winter squash and are pretty much re-using the seeds we bought last year so Waltham Butternut, Sibley Winter Storage, Anna Swartz, Hokkaido, Galeuse D’Eysines. We also have two little squash Honey Bear F1 and Casperita F1 – they are going in the big boxes by the herbs, to grow up an arch. I also have some standard Jack O’ Latern and I may pop a couple of those in to give away.

Winter Squash 2021

We’re going to put arches to span those squash beds and grow, beans up them, my current plan is three arches, one for drying beans, the Giantes we didn’t get to last year, and two for french beans, green and purple, which are from saved seeds. While I’m on beans, in another bed we’ll have bush beans, the Aida Gold we had last year and the Purple Queen. We also have the Jacobs Cattle Gold Bush Drying Bean to try too, which I bought because they are so pretty.

Jacobs Cattle Gold

I will also try to grow sweetcorn in those beds but we’ll see how we get on with time and space.

The other major summer crops for us are summer squash and cucumber. For the summer squash, we’ll going to aim for 6 plants in total. We’ll definitely grow the Summer Crookneck and the Early Prolific Straightneck again because we love them and one plant each will be enough for the two of us. Although we weren’t overly impressed with the round courgettes last year we do have them to use up so we may sow them to give away and keep one, we have Zucchini and Firenze and we’ll put two of those in. Lastly we’ll grow a patty pan, either Benning’s Green Tint or Patisson Gagat.

For cucumbers, we’re growing Early Fortune and Boothby’s Blonde as we did last year.

Other basic crops for use are carrots, beetroots and potatoes. I did two rounds of carrots last year and that worked so I want get on top of repeat sowing for them and for the beetroot. I also want to do the same for potatoes, we are growing a first early (Red Duke of York) and a second early (Nicola), in July I’ll start another pot each so that we hopefully have Christmas potatoes. In fact, I would really like to have all the vegetables for our Christmas dinner to be homegrown, we’ll see how it goes. We’re going to attempt sweet potatoes again this year but I’m going to grow some of them in the polytunnel, last year the weather and the magpies stunted them a bit but they do better in the ground so the poly seems the obvious place. We are buying those plants, five of them from DT Brown and we’ll see how we go.

We’ll grow salad leaves, radishes and spring onions outside too, we’ll set aside a bed and sow whatever packets we have, we’re toying with growing peppers and aubergine in the polytunnel but they take a while and need heat to germinate so it may not happen!

Harvest

We do pretty well at having something to harvest every month of the year already, last year the turnips and parsnips were new to us and we liked them, so we’ll grow them again, our autumn/winter standards are cavolo nero, cauliflower and cabbages and we’ll grow all of them. New this year will be celeriac, Giant Prague (Ma’s pick), swede Champion (my pick) and brussels sprouts (a joint favourite), we have all of these as free seeds so whichever variety we have will do. Because the other thing we want to do is try to do is grow our autumn/winter crops from seed. I also want to get around to growing fennel and growing black radish again. We’ll see how it goes and I reserve the right to quit and buy seedlings if it all gets too much!

Rhubarb

Our fruit production should be pretty good, we should have an abundance of rhubarb. All six of the crowns are pickable this year, which may be more rhubarb than we can handle! In fact, I’m hopeful that we’ll have a good year for fruit, the raspberries and plums are pretty consistent, we have alpine strawberries this year, and a strawberry bed that should give us a couple, we are one blueberry bush down but they should all be coming into production so fingers crossed, we won’t notice the lack. This year I’m going to net the blackcurrants and gooseberries early in the hope of some fruit.

New to us this year because of the polytunnel, will be melons, we have two types, the Minnesota Midget Cantaloupe and the Five Desserts Large Early Melon, both from Real Seeds. I have no idea if they will work for me but it’s worth a go!

I’m not planning on adding to the vast array of herbs and flowers already have, I will sow the usual annual herbs, basil, coriander, dill and flat leaved parsley with the tomatoes, cukes and other vegetables. I hope that jasmine survives the winter and all the thymes, mints and lavenders grow well. Last year I scattered some of the calendula that had gone to seed in the bulb bed at the front of the plot and I let almost everything go to seed, so who knows where it will come up in the summer? I’m expecting borage, amaranth, calendula, orache, white cornflowers, mallow in pink and white to come up. I also let a stock go to seed so we’ll see if that comes back. So with that and the perennials (verbena, knautia, rudbeckia, roses and so on) and bulbs, daffodils, grape hyacinth, tulips, snake’s head fritillaries, bluebells, irises and some alliums), there should be enough flowers on the plot.

If I can keep it all growing and get it to be tidy and productive, then it’ll be a great year!

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Monday Miscellany: And yet, Lord, I am fed up

Happy Monday!

Last week I went back to the office for a day. I’m going to be going in 1-2 days a week. I understand both sides of the argument, after a weekend of cold and nosebleeds, I don’t like sticking things up my nose and swabbing the back of my throat makes me gag (I am a sympathetic vomiter too!). That and the amount of people on the Tube who don’t wear a mask gives me the rage…

Actually being in the office was fine, leaving the house in the dark…not so much. I haven’t done it in January since 2019 and it’s not got any better.

I’m an introvert with SAD, honestly working from home in December, January and February should be something I can get on prescription..

So the rest of the week was as usual. Walk with Sue, work from home and so on. A while ago I talked about English Pastoral and I follow both James Rebanks and his wife on social media. I had one of those moments of bizarre social media synchronicity when she posted about taking her kids to the local museum which had an exhibition about reivers on the borders of England and Scotland and then about Paddington Bear. I’m currently deep into P. F. Chisholm’s Carey novels about Sir Robert Carey. I’m so deep into them that I bought the the first three books for Josephine as a birthday present because we’ve done all the Heyer’s and something set in 1592 is so completely about our friendship and how we met! Anyway, it’s fascinating and so worth reading, there will be a ‘book squee’ about it soon!

The other exhibition they went too was about Paddington Bear. I love Paddington Bear but I’m struck by how location is so much more important that we think it is. I’m, as I’ve said so many times, at least a fifth generation Londoner, so Paddington, the station and the area is it hits me differently (and with a bit more dirt). Both my parents were born in Paddington General, my great Grandfather enlisted into the Army Reserves in 1912 at Paddington, my great Aunt got told off by the local prostitutes for trying to steal a patch while waiting for her sister to meet her during when she came down from Lincolnshire during the war, my Grandad’s Salvation Army Corp was in Paddington for years and they used to collect money during Self Denial from the ladies of the night in Paddington. (Self Denial is like Lent for Salvationists). It strikes me that in 1958, you wouldn’t want to leave a small defenceless bear by himself at Paddington!

There are a lot of things that I take for granted as a Londoner, that people from other parts of country wouldn’t be aware of (and vice versa of course). I think we could all do with trying to find out about them.

Ok cultural differences of different parts of England aside. The rest of the week was pretty dull.

This week will not be much different, it’s going to be February tomorrow, so at least we’re over January! I’ll go to the office for a day, and then nothing bar making it through the week on the schedule.

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