Sunday Music

Let’s talk about Sting.

He wrote a musical, called The Last Ship and released the album of the songs. It’s about the world he grew up in and it’s worth pointing out that he’s 2 years younger than my parents who were both born in the same year.

The world that Sting sings about on The Last Ship a city that relied on industry and ship building and the people that build the ships, is gone. I’ve talked a lot here about my parents and where they are from and how that has shaped me, I’m a proud Londoner. I’ve also written about how that world is gone. It’s the world where a working class boy could grow up in a Northern city and become a teacher and then a rockstar.

The Last Ship seem to be a lament for and a celebration of that world, as Sting knew it, it’s not exactly the same as the world my parents grew up in, the geography is vastly different! It feels familiar to me, because I feel that I know the people in it. That’s not to say that those people where perfect, I remember on one of the rare occasions, I went to see my Great Aunt Ellen and she talked about the neighbour who was given money on a Friday to go and get drunk so she’d be ‘ready’ for her husband when he came back from the pub. This weekend, my Mum told me the story of Ellen coming to visit my Grandma, being told, as she waited for Iris (in Paddington, known for it’s prostitutes then), to move along because that wasn’t her spot!

Anyway, The Last Ship is great and I can see it’s gonna be a musical in this song and I love that he uses the actual North East accent that he grew up with and that Jimmy Nail also sings on this. I can’t recommend this more!

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Saturday – Eating this week

One of the disadvantages of living alone and on a budget is that my eating isn’t exactly exciting. I like how I eat but it’s very rarely spontaneous, I have a menu plan, I stick to the menu plan, which is great for my health and budget but sometimes it’s not very exciting.

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I don’t think that food needs to be spontaneous though, if you’ve read this blog for any amount of time, you’ll be aware of how much I love a routine and how that helps me eat well. It’s more than that though, there is something very re-assuring about knowing what you are going to eat on a given day. I grew up like that, I remember the Tuesday night dinners when Grandad came over, the ham and coleslaw sandwiches on Sunday night, it was always ham that Grandad brought and Ma boiled on Saturday. On Saturday nights, there was fish and chips, and I will go to my grave swearing that my mum made the best chips and there’s no way that your mum’s could be as good! Sunday lunch that was generally served in the late afternoon and was never a roast because Ma couldn’t be doing with the faff.

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When you are on a budget and you need to plan what you eat, you can find yourself falling into those rituals. For me, that means, that Friday breakfast can be a pain au raisin, but only if I’ve done 5 days at work (bribing yourself is a perfectly valid way of making sure you act like a grown up!), Friday Night Pizza is another. At some point over the weekend, I try to have a treat breakfast, pancakes or sausage, bacon and eggs. Making soup on the weekend. Making bread. These rituals are good for my soul and I love them. They don’t make for great food posts and I’m clear that all the food I write about here should be a part of my menu plan, it’s about the food I’ve eaten or how I cook regularly and that’s why some weeks, you see lots of food posts and sometimes no food posts at all, those are the weeks, I didn’t take photos or my eating was all based on my old and already featured favourites!

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Cassie has an occasional series called ‘This Week’s Eats‘ and I love the idea of documenting the high points of a week’s worth of eating. So in the best tradition of bloging, I’m going to steal it!

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1) Beer with the team on Friday afternoon

2) Sourdough

3) Morning Coffee

4) Cod in tomato sauce, cooked by Ma who seems to be cooking a lot more now she doesn’t have to go to work.

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5) Wednesday night was cheese for dinner

6) Breakfast this week was boiled eggs and carrots (I eat a lot of eggs, not sure that I could ever be a vegan

7) Gin and Tonic on Thursday night,

7) Thursday night’s dinner was the first dinner I’d cooked all week, pork with mushrooms in a mustard and wine sauce, with sautéed leeks.

What was the most memorable thing you ate this week?

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Builder woes or why I am more than usually grumpy..

Remember how last Sunday, I moved out of the house so the builder could fix my bedroom window and re-plaster that wall?

Originally, I was planning on being back on Thursday but that didn’t happen because the work wasn’t finished and it’s been cold and drying out plaster takes time. So I adjusted and I was really looking forward to being back home this weekend, to sleeping in my own bed, cooking my own meals and even doing my own washing.

Today I discover that the builder has only pulled the old plaster off the wall today. He had a personal crisis and didn’t do any work for 3 days last week.

So most of my bedroom furniture is in my living room, I’ve spent the week sleeping on a air mattress in my mum’s living room and paying to travel to work from Surbiton which is an extra £25 a week and the fucking builder still isn’t done and probably won’t be until next Thursday.

Really, I don’t think I could be more pissed off with this builder right now. In the past two weeks, I’ve already had to point out that he needs to double lock my front door, not smoke in the house and not leave towels on the floor when he’s finished drying his hands. My landlord and I have had a long conversation this morning about me needing to be able to live in the flat for which I am paying rent. To be fair, my landlord is one of the good ones, most other landlords wouldn’t be spending so much money fixing the flat or replacing the roof and I am grateful, but I want to be at home.

I know that there are worse things in the world than having to stay at your mother’s because your landlord is fixing your flat but I’m so fed up right now, so very, very fed up and tired and grumpy about it. I feel like I’ve been camping all week and now I’m going to be camping for most of next week.

The bright side? Well on Monday and Tuesday, Ma is going to stay with some old friends so I’ll get to sleep in an actual bed on those days. If the building work isn’t finished by the end of next week, that will be the end of the blog because I’ll have snapped and committed an act of violence upon the builder!

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Friday Links

Happy Friday. Today was my last night at Ma’s. Tonight we are in Watford and tomorrow, I will finally be at home although apparently the builder is having personal issues and the work may not be finished. I’m not at all happy about that, but I’m going home this afternoon to assess the damage and pick up a DVD for the nephew!

This was sunrise this morning.

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1)  Regulation and Stalinism are not the same.

2) Do we judge people by what they eat?

3) America needs to see itself as the world sees it

4) I’ve never thought about make-up in this context. Interesting

5) 10 things children should know how to cook. Adults too!

6) The Government is in denial about food banks.

Have a good day and a great weekend!

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Living with mother

I was at hoping to be at home today, but I’m still at Ma’s and will be until Friday. On Friday night we are staying in Watford and I will finally be back in my house on Saturday!

Living with your parents as a grown up is weird. Staying at Ma’s house is never a problem and neither is having her stay at mine, but it normally happens on the weekend or at Christmas. Having to do it and go to work and do normal things is odd.

It’s fantastic, it’s easier to get up in morning, somehow knowing that someone is getting up too, makes it easier or maybe its a learned response from knowing that if I don’t there will be trouble! It’s lovely to get out of the shower and find coffee made and breakfast ready. I have told Ma that she doesn’t have to get up with me, she’s not going to work so I wouldn’t mind if she didn’t get up, though I suspect she does it to make sure that things are done her way and not the ‘wrong way’, rather than a desire to wait on me hand and foot.

She also did my washing and the cooking. Which is lovely and I’ve decided that the secret to happiness might be having a maid, however, that isn’t likely to happen and I’d probably struggle to share living space, having the builder around was driving me so demented I had to move out for the week!

It’s strange it is to live with someone again, even briefly. It’s been 4 years, since I shared living space with someone and it requires a set of mental muscles that you don’t exercise when you live alone. What you eat, where you put things, whether you wash up straight after dinner or leave it until later. For the record, we both wash up after dinner but Ma likes to dry and put away and I like to air dry and put away before bed or the next morning. I maintain it’s more hygienic, Ma that her way is the best and most tidy way (I once bought Ma a card that said ‘My opinions may change but not the fact that I am right’, which about sums it up!). Generally, we do it her way at her house and at mine when she stays! There’s just a whole set of tiny adjustments you need to make. I’ve found it easier than I thought but I suspect that’s because it’s only for 4 days and it’s my mum, I’m used to doing what she tells me to do!

Other things that have been different. The commute from Surbiton to Waterloo each morning. It’s just as crowded and I still don’t get a seat but there are no tourists coming in from the airport so everyone knows how to commute which helps a lot. It’s a slightly longer walk to and from the station and it’s involves this hill. Which is much steeper than it looks in this photo and I go down it in the morning and up on the way home, if there was any justice in life, it would be the other way round!

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I know that both Ma and I am looking forward to next week being back to normal!

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An old cup and the importance and unimportance of things

Can you remember what you used to eat for breakfast when you were a child? I was thinking about this on Monday and I remember, boiled egg and soldiers, cheese on toast and toast a lot (I didn’t like milk so cereal was out though I remember the occasional Weetabix).

Sometimes as a treat we got tea and biscuits. Except I didn’t drink tea when I was at primary school (it had milk in it and I don’t like milk!) so I got hot orange squash, (which was also the favoured way of aspirin into me when I wasn’t well) it always came in the same mug.

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When I am at Ma’s, it’s the one I use, only now it has coffee or herbal tea in it.

There is something very reassuring about familiar objects. In and of themselves, objects are just that, they perform a purpose and if we are lucky they are nice to look at, to use and touch. This mug is, I think, handmade, it doesn’t have any marks on it, it’s not vauable but it’s nice to drink from and hold.  It’s also a little more than that too, I’m not sure I’m explaining this well, but using this mug reminds me of being 9 and hot orange and my childhood. It reminds me of growing up and it’s ordinariness, is part of what makes it special because of all the ordinary things that, over the course of my life I used and were broken or thrown away.

If you think of all the things that you will use that will come into your life and be thrown away or broken, it’s a bit of a miracle when you see one that has survived for a good long time. When something has lasted long enough that your grandparents or parents had used it and passed it on, that’s more special. The reason I love old things, is because of that, the way that they connect us with people long dead. The idea that I have things that were part of the everyday of my grandparents lives. Lives that were very different to mine but that I use something in much the same way as they did (actually I own a pyrex bowl that was my Grandad’s and a jumper of his), is special to me.

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As a general rule, we are not a sentimental family and I know that attaching importance to things is the way to madness. I know that if those things break, they break, using things means that they will get worn and maybe smash, I wouldn’t want them in a cupboard!

All that just to explain why I love that I still get to use that 30 year old mug and why it’s still ‘my’ mug.

Please tell me I’m not alone in this! Do you have something that’s special because it’s ‘yours’ or it’s an ‘heirloom’?

 

 

 

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Weekend Baking – Breads

This weekend I made all the bread!

Fair enough it wasn’t quite all the bread but it was a couple of weeks worth! There is something very comforting about baking bread, it’s comforting to know that there’s enough, if you have bread you’re never very far from something good to eat!

First up was Dan Lepard’s baps, oh that sounds suggestive but there is no way for an English child of my generation to use the word baps without feeling like they’ve landed in a ‘Carry On’ film or an episode of Open All Hours! Anyway, these are great, I make a batch and then freeze them and although they take a bit of time, they are really easy and tasty and you will forego eating bread rather than subject yourself to the stuff you buy in the supermarket.

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Next or rather concurrently was a sourdough loaf. I’ve recently taken to adding a couple of handfuls of sultanas to my usual recipe. It’s really good for toast and cheese but not so great for poached eggs on toast, so I wanted some plain.

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It’s not the most beautiful thing in the world but it tastes amazing and I still get a thrill from knowing that I made it and it still feels like magic. I’m getting more of a handle on what works and how best to treat it and I almost do it without thinking about it.

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The Weekend

My weekend started on Friday afternoon with work team lunch and beers.

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We then went on to a bar to play table football.

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I watched and left the guys to it about 8pm, I was tired. I got home and pretty much went straight to bed!

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I had a lot of stuff to do at home on Saturday! Some of it got done but a lot of it didn’t because the builder wanted to come and start work on replacing the bedroom window on Sunday. Erm, no that was not going to happen. I spent Saturday sorting out the bedroom to get the furniture out of it, making sure that all the food in the fridge was made into food that could be frozen, so mostly soup!

I also made sourdough because that was started before I knew I was spending the week at Ma’s! Most of that is in the freezer too although so of it came with me to Ma’s.

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On Sunday, I finished packing, Ma came and picked me up, which I was very thankful for because it rained and rained and the bus with a side of carrying a suitcase and getting wet would have just sent me round the bend!

Ma and I did some shopping, I bought my brother a birthday present and a card and we had lunch. So pretty quiet, which is good.

This week is busy at work, I’m covering for someone at work and doing a different commute, should be interesting and hopefully Ma and I won’t kill each other because we’re going to be spending a lot of time together this week! I think I’ll be ok because I arrived with 2 weeks worth of Evening Standard’s and Ma is currently doing the crosswords and word puzzles, it’s like dealing with a toddler, just give her a crossword and she’s happy!

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Sunday Music

Kacey Musgraves – Blowin’ Smoke

 

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Weekend Task List

This is this weekend’s to-do list. Most of this needs to be done on Saturday, so I’m gonna be busy if I want to get it done before Grace on Saturday night.

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Kitchen

  • Clean the oven
  • General clean (this means sorting out the recycling and rubbish, mopping the floor and general cleaning)

Cooking

  • Make soup
  • Make bread
  • Cook and freeze black beans and chickpeas

Bathroom

  •  General clean (mop floor, change towels, empty bin, clean bath, sink and toilet)

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Bedroom

  • General clean (sweep floor, change bed, dust, general tidy)

Living Room

  • General clean (sweep floor, dust, tidy sofa, put things away etc)

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General House things

  • Washing
  • Ironing
  • Wash make up brushes
  • Water plants
  • Wash hair brushes
  • Shopping

What’s on your to-do list this weekend?

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