Life Happened – Toothless Hag, Martinis and Grace

Last Tuesday, I had that tooth removed. It was not pleasant, not at all pleasant but the dentist was pretty happy with how well I coped with the actual extraction, she did warn me that I would fill much worse the next day and yep Wednesday was pretty awful.

Thursday was a work from home day due to issues with the tube. On Friday I was back in the office and pretty much back to normal. On Friday night Ma and I went for drinks at Christophers with Maggie and Jem.

Martinis were drunk

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Saturday started with coffee in bed and reading. I eventually got myself out of bed, into the shower and then I got to work, I finally swapped from winter to summer wardrobe, tidied up and did the ironing.

Lis and Dwayne came around with the last of my camping kit and the delightful Lincoln and we caught up and had nibbles. Then we all headed off to Grace.

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All church should be this good!

I was primed for a busy Sunday, I knew I had to be up to meet Kathy and Adam to hand over their small boy’s birthday present, but I managed coffee, some reading, two loads of washing and changing the bed before I met them. I can’t believe how much both of them (the children not K&A have grown). They headed into church and I headed home to start the work of the day. Getting the packing boxes out of the loft and the camping stuff into the loft!

Ma arrived when I was halfway through and we loaded a car with the boxes, paint and some painting things that I thought would come in handy. We then headed off to some shopping, Ma and I bought the Christmas wine and we bought even more paint.

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We actually have a more paint than is pictured but Ma’s new flat is going to need a lot of paint before the carpets go in!

Then a trip to scope out new cookers and fridge freezers and then back to my house. It was a good days work but there are miles to go before Ma is ready to move and time is short!

I had dinner and shower and an early night

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This week is a short week at work but that doesn’t mean a long relaxing weekend as I’ll be spending Friday and Saturday painting the new flat. I’m catching up with Kathy on Tuesday and Christelle on Wednesday so it’s a busy time!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Food This Week – 8 to 14 November 2014

Last week’s shop was the beginning of the month and  I stocked up on meat for the freezer and did a bigger shop, in total I spend £39.87. Which is a big shop for me. Unfortunately, the trip to the dentist on Tuesday lead to me eating far less than usual (no bad thing) so I didn’t stick quite to plan. This week will be much less spendy, partly because I have full cupboards and there’s nothing to plan from Thursday to Friday because I’ll be at Ma’s.

Saturday

Breakfast – Yoghurt and granola (I like this one from London Bakes)

Lunch – no plan

Dinner – I’m at Grace on Saturday night and that service is a meal for which I’m making Cous Cous Salad. Dwayne, Lis and Lincoln are coming around before the service for drinks and nibbles so I won’t starve!

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Sunday

Breakfast – Toast

Lunch – No plan, I’ll be hauling boxes out of the loft for Ma so she can start packing

Dinner – Sausage pasta

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Monday

Breakfast – Yoghurt and granola

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – Greek turkey burgers and roasted vegetables

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Tuesday

Breakfast – Yoghurt and granola

Lunch – leftovers

Dinner – Aubergine Stew

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Wednesday

Breakfast – Yoghurt and granola

Lunch – leftovers

Dinner – Halloumi and lentil stir fry

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Thursday

Breakfast – Yoghurt and granola

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – No plan because I’m at Ma’s on Thursday night for most of the weekend. We are going to paint her new flat!

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Friday

Breakfast – no plan

Lunch – no plan

Dinner – Friday Night Pizza – well I’m going to take pizza dough to Ma’s anyway, we’ll see how knackered we are after all the painting!

Snacks

  • Yoghurt
  • Vegetables and dip
  • Fruit

Shopping and cost

This is the list and I reckon it’ll cost about £13.50

oats

mixed seeds

onions

aubergine

passata

carrots

peppers

mushrooms

flour (which I forgot to pick up last week)

yogurt

 

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Friday Night Cocktail

This is from My Daily Cocktail, and apparently made to ‘celebrate’ American Football coming to London. Apparently, the Atlanta Falcons played the Detroit Lions last weekend and there’s another game on Sunday at Wembley, home of actual football. I’m still not convinced (although Friday Night Lights makes a good case) that American Football isn’t just the bastard son of rugby but this cocktail is pretty good.

I found that it worked better with a peatier whisky than a lighter one. It’s a boozy cocktail so one is definitely enough but it may work for cocktail drinkers who like strong drinks but aren’t sure about whiskey (they do exist – they just are me!)

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Blimey 
1 1/2 oz bourbon
1/2 oz scotch
1/4 oz amaretto
1/4 oz creme de cassis

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How

Pour all ingredients into a cocktail shaker filled with ice cubes. Shake. Strain into a chilled cocktail glass. Garnish with an orange twist.

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Friday Links

One link this week, because tooth extraction knocked me on my backside, I’ve spend most of this week asleep, so there’s been very little time for reading…

1) My friend Jenny writing about grief a year after her dad died. Jenny wrote about her dad last year and because Tina was dying and because of a lot of things, it prompted me to think about death and how because every death (like every life is different) we experiece each death differently. Grieving is the same and Jen is right ‘there is no path’ but it will get softer and I wrote about that last year too..

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Plum Crumble

I decanted the plum gin on the weekend and was left with the question of what to do with the plums. I did think about jam, but I made jam with the leftover raspberries and I have 2 jars of plum jam at the moment (made by Charles from the last batch of plums they got off the tree at St Leonards Road!).

It was the second day of November so I decided on crumble.  Crumble is the perfect autumn food and one of the best puddings ever, because it’s so simple and you can change it up by changing the fruit.

These were the plums after I’d de-stoned them. Like the raspberries, they’d also lost weight and weighed in at just under 800g.

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I put them on a low heat and added about 1/4 cup of sugar and a teaspoon of cinnamon and half a teaspoon of ginger. I let the plums heat up until they had released some juice and the sugar had dissolved and put them in a dish. I used my Falcon Enamelware pie dishes, one 20cm and one 30cm).

My crumble topping was 5oz plain flour, 3oz butter, 3oz rolled oats and 3oz brown sugar. Rub the butter into the flour, add the oats and sugar.

Put the crumble topping on the plums

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The crumble in a oven at 200C for about 30 minutes.

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I ate mine with custard, it’s not pretty but it’s what my Sunday needed..

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Remember, Remember the 5th of November…

Obviously I don’t actually remember it because the one referred to in the poem was in 1605 and I’m in no way advocating a return to any anti Catholic sentiment but I’m all over the pretty pictures of the fireworks and this year we’re not going with Lu and Oli….

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What I’ve Read – October 2014

Trial By Fire – Josephine Angelini

More Josephine Angelini. Easy to read, fantastic world building and easy to read book crack.

 What a Wallflower Wants – Maya Rodale

Historical romance, that starts with a heroine who’s been raped and doesn’t say anything because if believed she have to marry her rapist. That part of the story was good, it all goes a bit unrealistic towards the end but it’s a romance, they’re not big on social realism. I enjoyed it and it’s good to see a genre book address the issues that the genre has (women and the working class and the bottom of the rungness of their existence)

The Apple Tart of Hope – Sarah Moore Fitzgerald

One of Helene’s picks. I liked some of it but it didn’t ring true to me, I really wanted to like it more but I couldn’t, it all felt a bit shallow and everything was resolved too easily.

Stately Pursuits – Katie Fforde

I picked this up at Barter Books the last time I was in Northumberland and although I quite enjoy early Katie Fforde, I didn’t really enjoy this. It was all a bit too much and certainly too easy.

The Blood of Olympus – Rick Riordan

Another of Luc’s picks. We were always going to finish the series, they are enjoyable. Rick Riordan has got some flack for being too accessible, an opinion that I totally disagree with, I lean firmly to the view that all reading is good reading. People read for all sorts of reasons and I really loathe the idea that reading that children do has to be educational.  Children are fires to be lit not pots to be filled and some children will read the Percy Jackson books and be entertained and some children will be entertained and inspired to go and learn more about the Greek myths, both are fine. I like these books for other reasons too, although girls read them, they are very much boys books  (as much as I wish it wasn’t so, my experience tells me it’s harder to get boys to read books they think are ‘for girls’ than it is to get girls to read these books – but maybe that’s just my godchildren!) but during the series things happen to both the male and the female characters that are human and real but the books aren’t issue books and the story doesn’t suffer while everyone sorts out their emotions. One of the characters comes out, another character learns to come to terms with not being the ‘chosen one’ but to value the things that they can do and have, all of them learn about being a team and giving and accepting love and friendship and help. It’s important and if it does all of that whilst being funny and entertaining, that’s a good thing.

Truly – Ruthie Knox

Fluff but interesting for me in that these characters didn’t have their act together. He wasn’t wildly successful, she wasn’t sure what her work life was going to be, they made a decision to work on all of that together. I like romances where there is no rescuing…

We Are All Completely Besides Ourselves – Karen Joy Fowler

I really enjoyed this, I wasn’t sure if I would. It’s about family and loss and experiments that go wrong.

 The City’s Son – Tom Pollock

Luc’s pick for half term. We both really enjoyed it and yes some of the metaphor was a little heavy handed and some of the writing felt older than YA but it’s nice to see London in a YA and bonus points for calling the police ‘the filth’ and other slang. I thought we were going for romance but it turned out to be more about friendship and the next book, which Luc is already reading (it’s a YA fantasy of course it’s a trilogy!) is about that friend. I enjoyed it and didn’t want to let it go so I imagine that I’ll be reading the next book pretty soon!

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Thankful

I hate November. Not as much as I used to but it’s not my favourite month, it’s dark and cold (although the weather is not at all cold yet!) and generally I don’t enjoy it.

Krissie doesn’t have my issues with November not being a happy, fun time, but she spends November remembering to be thankful for the life she has and what’s in it. For the last couple of years I’ve joined in! Last year she did ‘Thankful in November’ through Committed Coaching, which was a free offering, I don’t know if she’s doing anything this year but I’ve found it was really useful and it’s part of the reason I’m feeling much more optimistic this autumn, I’m still grumpy but much of it is surface grump as opposed to the deep despair I was rocking about 5 years ago.

So every day in November I’m going to take a photo to help dispel my November gloom. I honestly don’t expect them to be much different from most of my photos either on here or on Instagram. I’m pretty sure that, knowing me, the things that I’m grateful for will not be that much different from the things I’m always grateful for, family, friends, a place to live, literacy, whiskey….

That’s not the important part of the exercise. The way I experience depression*  is that it throws everything good in my life into the shade where it’s hard to see and then all of my focus is on what’s wrong with me. During the winter I find that I spend more time feeling that I’m not enough, that I’m not clever, rich, successful or pretty enough and that no one loves me and no one ever will and that every good thing I’ve ever had I’ve lost, either because God just doesn’t want me to be happy and I’m not allowed to have good things or because I’ve broken it and the more I feel like that the worse it is. So the point of this is to help me quiet the negative noise that my brain defaults to and to shine a light of the good parts of my life that are harder for me to see but are still exactly where I left them.

Rather than posting one a day, I’ll post them here on a Tuesday for the week.

Saturday 1st November

A quiet day doing things at home and decanting the plum gin.

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Sunday 2nd November

The amazing sunset after a pretty rainy and miserable November day.

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Monday 3rd November

My lovely bed and a day done and a the chance to sleep.

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*standard disclaimer – I don’t have a serious depression, I have mild Seasonal Effective Disorder and a history of bad things happening in November. If you do, being thankful for your life in November is unlikely to help unless you also have a good therapist and some anti depressants and if you don’t have those things, go and see your doctor, they can help

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Life Happened

Monday started with an unseasonally warm day and air con in my office wasn’t working.

On Tuesday, air con fixed, I had the ‘joy’ of sitting in on an industry meeting, it was a long meeting…and the abscess that was and then wasn’t there decided to come back and let me know about it. So after the 5 hour meeting, I rang the dentist, who told me to get to them straight away, so I did. One prescription later (and the next 5 days on antibiotics) I was at home and lighting candles to make myself feel better.

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The rest of the week passed in a bit of a haze of tired and cold (remarkable after being so warm on Monday and given our really mild weather). I’m blaming those antibiotics, they are marvellous things and I’m grateful to live in a world where we have them and they work (just), but I really try to avoid using them partly because overuse is a bad thing but really because I don’t react terribly well to them, they make me foggy.

Friday was the warmest Halloween on record and on Friday night I went to Dionne’s for a catch up and general chatting. I had nothing that I needed to do for the rest of the weekend, I did food shopping, cleaned the kitchen floor, tidied the flat, decanted the plum gin, mucked about in the kitchen and slept loads.

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It was a good week.

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