Monday Miscellany: Wind and Rain

Happy Monday!

Storm Dennis is over but most of Wales seems to be under water, the pictures are grim but please don’t tell me climate change isn’t real…

Eventually the sun came out but the weekend has been pretty grim. The week that came before it was ok, work was busy as everyone geared up for time off because of half term, which means that this week should be less busy and I can start to get some longer term things off my list.

It’s light at 7:30am in the mornings which makes me so happy!

This week I’m all about trying to get enough sleep, my sleep has got really erratic recently. I’m also struggling for motivation to do anything at the moment so I need to sort myself out.

I’m going to the theatre on Thursday afternoon and to the cinema in the evening, and yes I will be working from home on Friday!

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Sunday Music: George Benson – Give Me the Night

This was on the radio yesterday morning because generally, Saturday morning is a 6Music time. It’s impossible not to love this song and if you don’t, we probably won’t be friends…

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Friday Links: Shuffle

Happy Friday! I’ve had another busy week so this is short on news from this week, which has been as absolute clusterfuck of terribleness…

Here are this week’s links…

Experience: I get drunk without drinking. The human body is weird..

Karen Pierce appointed first female British ambassador to US This is a very interesting appointment

Number of workers living in poverty rises for third straight year. We are heading straight back to the Victorian era. You see it with the sectioning off of the deserving and undeserving poor and this.

Mary Lou McDonald: Sinn Féin leader who may play Dublin kingmaker

Angel Lane Chippie, Penrith: ‘It doesn’t need changing’ – restaurant review. Where I live, the best place is The Golden Chipin Hanwell, but is a long walk from my house. Walking distance from my house is Andy’s, which used to be great but is merely ok nowadays (and really expensive). Nowadays, I mostly confine my fish and chip cravings and save them for Amble, we go to Harbour Fish Bar and it’s great but The Old Boat House is really lovely for a proper restaurant experience. But I am a Londoner and curry sauce and mushy peas are rank…

Flip flop: why is the first pancake always a dud? Use the Delia Smith recipe and get the pan really hot. You have about two weeks to practice!

America’s elite is plotting revenge. This is interesting but the truth is that if it happens, Trump and the Republican party still did it. The constitution is there to balance each side. The GOP and Trump are stomping over every norm, every process, they’ve rigged it so that they win every time. And reasonableness at some point snaps. So yes if this happens then America will have changed for the worst because at some point you can’t compromise without being walked over. Obama was reasonable, the GOP was not. Trump is not reasonable and neither are the 43% of American voters that voted for him. They don’t want compromise, they want capitulation and you can’t work with that.

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Allotment Adventures: Calm Before the Storm

We are so close. Last Wednesday, Ma did a good three hours of weeding and then did another three hours on Saturday. The area that has no beds on it, is now weed free, it’s pretty impressive.On Wednesday, I trimmed the verbena and Ma and I finally sowed the broad beans and netted them, we also had to remove and encroaching raspberry runner. I love raspberries but they are little buggers, look at the size of that root!Anyway the broad bean netting is a thing of allotment beauty!On Saturday, while Ma was taming the weeds, I got on with other stuff. First I weeded the little bed that we’d put down next to one of the squash beds. Then I took up two of the flower circles at the top of the plot. They contained verbena and carnations and dianthus. The compost from the beds, went into the little bed and the plants when into the edge of the rose bed (verbena) and the flower bed (carnations and dianthus).Then I moved a self seeded oregano and two lavenders into the rose bed and moved one of the verbenas in the middle of the old plot. We have narcissi flowering right now, when they are done, we’ll move that last circle bed and but the narcissi in the big bed at the top. The chard did really badly in there and we decided it will be a flower bed in future. (I did buy a lot of seeds in Wilko last week)That done Ma and I had a discussion about the long beds, so the three we ordered haven’t arrived but I really wanted to split the autumn raspberries, so we decided to move what had been the boysenberry bed until last week to where one of the new beds was going to go and split the autumn raspberries into that. We also decided that the space left would be where our blueberries could go and that we’d only have three square beds instead of four.

I still wasn’t done. I sowed the sweet peas, I decided with Storm Ciara due on Sunday that I wouldn’t put the cloche up. I did try to burn the rubbish heap but failed (I am not a twisted firestarter!). Then I decided to build the last bed we’d planned to build. It’s not even close to lined up but I’m beyond caring about straight. Ma was nearly finished so I started to tidy up. I was worried about the impending storm and the rubbish pile (it’s all weeds and cuttings, not actual rubbish) when I hit on the genius idea of using the currently empty compost bin we found in the hedgerow. We put it at the back and loaded the pile into it, it can sit there forever and rot down and be tidy! I also spent a couple of minutes at the back of the plot, picking up rubbish, this is the area where the shed and other assorted rubbish was and people throw stuff over the fence, so I just want to pick stuff up every time we go to start to clean it up a bit. This rubbish got taken home! Finally we filled up the bird feeders…

So here’s where we’re at with the February list, we are six more beds and a pond away from having all the structure in place for spring…

  • Install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Transplant the roses
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Set up the cloche
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Sow leeks
  • Buy seed potatoes (we couldn’t get nicola’s so went for charlottes)
  • Paint the shed
  • Split and trim the verbena bonariensis and move the stuff next to the rhubarb
  • Trim the rosemary and sage
  • Sow the first batch of peas
  • Weed everything!
  • Buy compost and start filling some beds
  • Turn the compost bins
  • Have another bonfire

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Monday Miscellany: Cosy

Happy Monday!

Last week was fun, it felt busy but manageable. On Tuesday, Ma and I went to see David Copperfield which was a lovely, joyous film. On Wednesday, I worked from home, I spent lunch time on the plot and very reluctantly went back to work but left Ma on the plot. I failed to have a haircut because Jane wasn’t well so I have fringe issues….

Yesterday, I spent all day indoors and did nothing useful except reading which is I suppose, useful but not in a directly tangible way. It’s given me a new favourite quote and a motto for the next few months, “Be joyful, though you have considered all the facts”.

Despite the time off at Christmas, I’ve hit a wall, I need time and rest and daylight. Basically, I need a holiday, roll on April!

This week my plan is to see the doctor to talk about my ‘inexplicable fevers’ and to have a smear (I’m not going to be coy about it, I don’t like them but if you have a vagina, make sure you’re up to date with your smear test).

Medical joys aside, I have a busy work week and no other plans.

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Recommendations: Fated Mates podcast

I never really got the hang of podcasts. I listen to the radio all the time, and when I have used podcasts, they tend to be the BBC ones, so basically, I’m using them like radio iplayer (or BBC Sounds as it now prefers to be called) to catch up on the programmes I missed.

However, over on Twitter, I follow Sarah McLean and she has a podcast, Fated Mates, about romance novels and novelists and so I looked it up. As ‘luck’ would have it, the first one I heard was the episode on pegging. Both informative AND hilarious. (It also segued off into a discussion about how we teach our children about this stuff which was even more informative)

So I’ve been using my walk home from the station to listen to the podcasts. The subject matter is niche, if you don’t like romance novels then probably don’t check this out but it’s interesting to hear romance discussed and taken seriously as a valid form of literature. I’m enjoying it though

 

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Friday Links: Unimpeachable

Happy Friday! The first week of February has been busy, so not that many links:

Boris Johnson is about to find out just how weak the UK is after Brexit

Will a US-UK trade deal leave us with a plateful of problems?

HS2’s northern critics: ‘We don’t need it but we’ll be paying for it’

The Help: Gig-economy apps affect more than the economy—they’re changing what it means to be a friend. I am legitimately terrible at asking for help. I’m happy to help others but only really accept help if it’s offered, I’ll ask Ma but that is about it. This is a later life thing for me, after Stef died and all the madness that followed, I decided no more drama, and part of that was not being a stressful friend (because I felt I had been and I had asked for help that wasn’t forthcoming) and part of that was to be very clear about what was and wasn’t acceptable behaviour and to stop asking for help. How it’s ingrained behaviour.

Trump’s Jokes About Defying Election Results Could Create Chaos. Because deep down everyone can see that they are really jokes…

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Allotment Adventures: Everything’s Coming Up Roses

There was lots of moving plants this week. We have a rose garden in embryo stage, a moved boysenberry and a fully weeded squash bed. We also sorted out the chard bed and took out the cauliflowers. All typed out like that it doesn’t look like much but it was epic, I’m still recovering from all the wrestling of the roses (I hope they are too!). It doesn’t look like a lot but I’m hoping that with care it’ll look lovely in a year or two.I also picked up a bronze fennel and another verbena bonariensis. The fennel has gone at the back of the new flower bed and the bonariensis has gone the other side of the roses, a couple more will go there when I move the bed of them by the rhubarb and there will be other spots to find for them when I split the ones in the middle of the plot.I also moved the boysenberry to the back of the plot. It’s very little at the moment but they can get really big so I decided that it should have some space, it can spread out a little there whereas the bed it was in was a bit too small.The cauliflowers did not survive to be eaten. If anyone can tell me what happened, I’d be grateful.What we haven’t done is sort out the new raised beds because they haven’t arrived yet! Hopefully next week.

So here’s the state of the worklist

  • Install the first three long beds next to the fruit beds
  • Transplant the roses
  • Move the boysenberry
  • Split the autumn raspberry bed into two.
  • Sow some more broad beans and cover the bed with netting
  • Pull up the chard and cover that bed
  • Set up the cloche
  • Sow sweet peas
  • Sow leeks
  • Buy seed potatoes (we couldn’t get nicola’s so went for charlottes)
  • Paint the shed
  • Split and trim the verbena bonariensis and move the stuff next to the rhubarb
  • Trim the rosemary and sage
  • Sow the first batch of peas
  • Weed everything!
  • Buy compost and start filling some beds
  • Turn the compost bins
  • Have another bonfire

4 out of 17, it’s going to be a busy month but we are eight beds and a pond away from having all the major structure done and then we can start growing things

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What I’ve Read – January 2020

I started the year with lots of easy reading. I would recommend, Love Lettering, Evvie Drake Starts Over and A Cheesemonger’s Guide to the British Isles.

His Bride for the Taking – Tessa Dare

I enjoy Tessa Dare, I completely have to handwave the ‘historical’ part of it but they are always fun reads. This was no exception and was a lovely easy way into the New Year

The Friend Zone – Abby Jimenez

I still don’t know what to think about this. I guess I’m always a bit meh about a story that starts with infertility and ends up with a miracle baby. However, the happy ending is about more than a baby, it’s about learning to accept being loved and knowing that you’re worthy of being loved.

The Bride Test – Helen Hoang

I liked the take on the heroine not making or having an issue of the hero’s autism. I liked that neither hero or heroine were white and I enjoyed it and the ending.

Love Lettering – Kate Clayborn

This was a delight. I loved that Meg described how she sees words and that she works things out and learns how to be better at all relationships not just the romance and the weight that the entire story gives to friendships and honesty and staying. I also the description of PMT emotions as….

‘the kind of mood that swings wildly between “ten seconds from murdering someone” and “three seconds from crying because you noticed a layer of dust on your windowsill, you absolute filthy pig“‘

Evvie Drake Starts Over – Linda Holmes

Another book that I adored. It’s about how you manage relationships when you are completely broken and how you still need to have relationships and find yourself when everything seems to suck. I can relate. Another delight. Go and read.

A Cheesemonger’s History of the British Isles – Ned Palmer

Back in October, I linked to the review of this. Jo bought it for me as a Christmas present and it’s such a lovely read, it made me want to eat lots of cheese and taught me things, but it’s not preachy, just really enthusiastic. I really enjoyed this.

Moonlighter – Sarina Bowen

Another Brooklyn Bruisers book, I love how all of this is sort of taking place as other books are happening and it was the perfect end of January book

Heartland – Sarina Bowen

I prefer farmers to hockey players and I liked this one more, it’s amazing how quickly in life and in fiction, problems can be solved if you talk to each other and that goes for more than just the romantic relationships.

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Monday Miscellany: Finally it’s February

Happy Monday!

I’m so glad January is over! Ok, February is still not spring but it’s getting closer and the trees in my street are in blossom!

The last week of January was as to be expected, I spent Tuesday fighting off a migraine and Wednesday with another bout of ‘inexplicable fever except no fever’. I’m not sure what it is but the doctor is going to hate me because I’m going to keep booking appointments until we find out what it is!

On Friday, I went to Sue and Richard’s for dinner and we all agreed that we should do it more often, everyone is at that time of life, were there doesn’t seem to be much time! But it was fun. On Saturday, Ma and I worked on the plot, had a lovely dinner and I introduced her to ‘Sex Education‘ which I love and she thought was pretty funny.

Sunday was for shopping and prep for the week and here we are.

This week, is work, David Copperfield, more work and a much needed haircut!

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