What I’ve Read – March and April 2014

I didn’t post about my reading in March because I forgot, so you get two months reading in one and a discussion of book crack and not being ashamed of what you read.

So in April I read 9 books of one series, on the trot over about 12 days. Book crack, I blame R for introducing me to them and I’m not ashamed that I read them because I enjoyed them. However, I wasn’t going to talk about them in the ‘what i’ve read’ round up because they are romance books.

I thought about that for a bit. I am out and proud about my love of YA, am quite happy to admit to liking Sci-fi and Fantasy (and Georgette Heyer, which is romance BTW) but I’d somehow bought into the idea that reading romance was a ‘bad thing’ and marked me as a particular sort of person. The much mocked spinster that reads romances and adores her cat pops into my head about now. Which is weird because I’m all about liking the bits of culture that you like and not grading some as more worthy than others. We’ve all met those people, the people who say ‘I go the theatre, they watch films’,  ‘I read literary works of fiction, they read genre fiction’, ‘I don’t watch television or when I do it’s only the stuff that the Guardian reviews, not Mrs Brown’s Boys’.  As if somehow, what they like makes them better people.

I think I already covered this aspect of the culture wars when I wrote about why I don’t have a television, I like the things that I like, you like the things that you like, if we all liked the same things no-one would be able to get tickets to see Coriolanus at the Donmar….oh wait. Anyway my point still stands, I like theatre and Marvel films, classic novels and YA, The Wire, Buffy and Mrs Brown’s Boys. I’m complex like that, most people are.

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I read because I enjoy it. I read Austen and Neil Gaiman, Bronte (except for Wuthering Heights – I just can’t finish that book, I just end up throwing it at a wall because I cannot be doing with the stupid, stupid characters) and John Green. I’m not ashamed of who I am or what I like and I’m very clear that unless what you like harms others, I’m not going to judge you on it either. I don’t watch Big Brother but I adore The Vampire Diaries, both of those choices can be viewed as problematic but let’s just let people like what they like.

So this month I read 9 romance novels, when the next one is published, I’ll read that too, I may branch out and read other romance novels recommended by R and the ladies at Smart Bitches, Trashy Books (because the Bitchery is awesome) and I’ll just get on with it. If that means you think less of me and my intellect, then I’ll live.

My Life Next Door – Huntley Fitzpatrick

New adult light reading. Not taxing on the brain with happy ending but did feature parents, even the nice ones, behaving irresponsibly. I liked that even though the family next door were the ‘model’ they weren’t perfect and even their children had issues with the choices that they made and how that impacted on everyone in the family. I also really liked that some of the relationships in book just can’t be resolved and it’s ok, it’s sad but it’s ok.

The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms – N.K. Jemisin

I really liked this it’s fantasy, well written and completely engaging. It’s a trilogy (are there any fantasy stand alones anymore?) and I’m interested to see where the others go.

Re-reads

Flambards – K. M. Peyton

The Edge of the Cloud – K. M. Peyton

Flambards in Summer – K. M. Peyton

Flambards Divided – K. M. Peyton

I’m running out of time to share the books I loved as a teenage with H (and L), I loved the Flambards books (horses and flying!) but they aren’t exactly books for teenagers, I read them when I was about 13 and ‘suggested’ to H that she try them. She liked them, yay and we got L to read them, he liked the technical bits and it’s sent him off to find about about early aeroplanes (did that for me too so I’m not exactly surprised!)

White Boots – Noel Streatfeild

See above about reading with H, different than I remember and very post war..

Anna and the French Kiss – Stephanie Perkins

Easy reading for the plane to DC, I really enjoyed Anna when I first read it and it’s a lovely comforting re-read.

Slave to Sensation – Nalini Singh

This is the book crack. I’m going to talk about all of them at once. It’s set in an alternative earth made up of three races, humans, the Psy and the Changelings. The Psy are ‘Silent’ trained not to show or have emotions, the Changelings are shapeshifters and the books concentrate on leopards and wolves although there are others changlings. (one of the things I loved in the later books is the ongoing conversation about sea changelings and what they might be – jellyfish, octopi?). The world is fascinating and each book builds on the world and adds more depth to each race and the politics of the world. In fact, towards the end of the 9 books, and this could be because I read them all one after another, I was more interested in the politics of what was happening than the romances. The men, even when they are non-Changeling, are all the same type. Possessive, dangerous, macho etc, and I was pretty bored with the ‘I’m a predatory Changeling male, it’s to be expected’ lines throughout the books. There is a lot of talk about alpha males and dominant and submissive people but Singh shows and tells that healthy relationships and families and groups need a balance of both. Being submissive is not being weak and being dominant doesn’t mean always getting your own way. They are pretty crazysauce but consistent in the world Singh has built.

The books are a world and although you can read them stand alone they are all interlinked and I would start the beginning and watch the time you have to do anything but read just vanish. Seriously addictive reading

Visions of Heat – Nalini Singh

Caressed by Ice – Nalini Singh

Mine to Possess – Nalini Singh

Hostage to Pleasure – Nalini Singh 

Branded by Fire – Nalini Singh 

Blaze of Memory – Nalini Singh

Bonds of Justice – Nalini Singh

Play of Passion – Nalini Singh 

Kiss of Snow – Nalini Singh 

Tangle of Need – Nalini Singh 

Heart of Obsidian – Nalini Singh

The Boy in the Smoke – Maureen Johnson

This is a short story about Stephen in the Shades of London series. If you’ve read the first two books (The Name of the Star and The Madness Underneath), I’ve read both and this story made me sad, because I know Stephen’s future. It’s reminded me to go and re-read the first two books before the last one comes out this year. If you want a short story, this could stand alone but it’s deeper reading experience if you’ve read the Shades of London books and I had all ‘the feelings’  when I was reading it.

Boy Proof – Cecil Castellucci

I really enjoyed reading this although Egg, who is the narrator, annoyed me a bit. That’s down to me not being a teenager. I liked how Egg grew into herself and began to understand friendship and that being who you are doesn’t have to mean isolating yourself from people.

The Child Who – Simon Lelic

This is set in 2000 and about a child who has killed another. Except it’s not, it’s about what happens to the duty solicitor who gets the case and about public reaction and hate and fear. I remember the public reaction when James Bulger was murdered and I remember the mass hysteria when Princess Diana died and it’s clear that both fed into this book. I’m not sure that enjoyed is the term I would use about reading this book but I wanted to know what happened and it’s a good book.

Daughter of Smoke and Bone – Laini Taylor

Finally, I got around to reading this. It wasn’t what I expected and the ‘epic’ love story is not why I kept reading. It feels otherworldly and I do want to know what comes next so I’ll be reading the other two at some point!

 

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Sunday Music

We have tickets for Old Crow Medicine Show at the Roundhouse in October and there’s a new album in July.

Excited doesn’t even cover it…

If you don’t know the glory that is Old Crow then you must be new around here..but just in case…

Wagon Wheel

Alabama High Test – song starts at 1:10 and he starts with the wrong fiddle!!

Down Home Girl

And doing Whitney Houston’s I Wanna Dance With Somebody

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Friday Links

Happy Friday, this weekend is another 4 day weekend for me as I’m off work today (cooking for Ryan’s engagement party – how am I old enough that I have a godson who is 29 and engaged?) and Monday is a Bank Holiday. This weekend features cooking and a haircut and colour (hurrah I can hardly see through my fringe!), an engagement party and lunch with the family in Watford which reminds me that I really need to charge the iPad. I may even get to see Jo and Ms T as they are back for a week. So, it’s all good! Here are some things I read this week!

1) Simon Russell Beale in a Guardian webchat.

2) This is fascinating. My friends Matt and John are from Pittsburgh and now I understand so much more about how they speak.

3) This is just awful. I don’t believe in the death penalty and I’m so glad that we don’t have it here, although I am aware there are a whole bunch of people who think we should. If killing people is wrong, it cannot be right for the State to do it. Two wrongs, don’t make a right.

4) And, as ever, someone else says it better than me.

5) This is why I didn’t take antibiotics when I had bronchitis. In fact I’ve only resorted to them twice in the last 15 years or so (I also had a really bad reaction – colitis and hallucinations – fun!). I think it’s hilarious when one of the practice doctors tries to dissuade me from them before we’ve discussed what’s wrong with me, my actual doctor knows that I don’t ask for them, I ask him what I can do to get better without them.

6) For non-British people this won’t make any sense but tinned baked beans are like marmite, you either love them or hate them. For both marmite and baked beans I come down firmly on the side of ‘these things are the work of the devil’.  If you love them, then this how to cook is for you and if you don’t read the comments!

7) Why fitness apps will only get you so far.

8) Finally Labour propose something useful. Having said that this emphasis on ‘Generation Rent’ bugs me. My grandparents rented, my parents rented, I rent (although Ben and Lu don’t) it’s what the working classes do!

9) A short history of apples in the USA. It’s not really but I didn’t know half of this stuff, fascinating.

10) The gender bias in drinks. I’m one of the whiskey drinking woman because I like it. I tend to go for cocktails that don’t contain fruit. But I do try to to cater to my fruity drinks loving friends without judgement and liked drinking some of them. People should be allowed to like what they like. I like the taste of whiskey and gin and vermouth, so that’s what I drink, I’m certainly not trying to keep up with the boys but it always used to amuse me when the waiter gave me the fruity drink and the whiskey to the guy.

11) While we’re on the subject of drink, drunk monkeys! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSm7BcQHWXk

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Sausage and onion pasta

Living alone gets you out of the habit of cooking for other people. (It also means that on a really bad day, dinner can be ice cream and a glass of wine and no one can call you on it!). The food in my house is tailored entirely around my needs and wants and cooking for more than one person is a bit more of a ‘big deal’ that it used to be when I shared my space. Then it seemed to be easy to cook for more than one, now it seems like a big deal to have someone come around for dinner or lunch.

I think it’s more about attitude, having people over to eat has become more of a big deal because everyone I know has reached the stage where it takes a while to co-ordinate diaries, no-one just pops in any more and gets asked to stay for dinner. Or it could be that I’ve become really anti-social!

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Whatever the reason, while cooking enough food is never a problem, I normally cook enough for dinner and lunch the next day, what to cook is. Do I go vegetarian as I would normally mid week, will my guests like that spinach and chickpea thing that I love to eat, do I need to make company food or the food I normally eat? This is a sort of answer to that. Michael popped round to return some things I’d left with the godchildren and I was making this. There was enough for two and he stayed to help me eat it. When it comes to cooking for others, like most good things in life, it’s probably best not to worry about it too much!

What

Olive Oil

2 sausages

2 small red onions

a tin of chopped tomatoes

120ml of red wine

1 tablespoon of balsamic vinegar

enough pasta for two people (for me that’s about three or four handfuls!)

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How

While you are cooking the sauce you also need to be cooking the pasta.

Heat the oil in a pan and skin the sausages. Add the sausagemeat to the pan and start to brown after 2-3 minutes, add the sliced onions and cook until, the onions are soft.

Add tomatoes, wine and vinegar and reduce heat. Simmer until the sauce has cooked right down and then add the cooked drained pasta.

Eat with a glass of red wine!

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A new week

Monday doesn’t have a good reputation.  It’s the beginning of the work week and the start of time not being your own because it belongs to whoever employs you, which means that you have less time and freedom during the week and for me the dreaded commute…

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I do like that Monday gives me an opportunity to reset my life. I have a new week with no mistakes in it and I get to decide the tone of that week. The tone of this week is going to be all about care and backbone.

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Last night, Angie who blogs at Wandering Angie and I had a twitter conversation about feeling bad about being ill.

It’s fair to say that Angie and I approached this conversation from totally different points. I’ve more or less given up guilt and anxiety because it’s not productive..

But something else I said to Angie got me thinking a little more about how I’m doing things this year.

It’s absolutely true, we do need to practice being kind to ourselves but sometimes being kind to someone means telling the truth and right now, the truth is, I really need to buck up my ideas.

Over the last month I’ve not felt good and things have slipped a bit, the house hasn’t been as organised, I’ve been slack about exercise for the whole of this year and although my diet has been ok, I still eat lots of green things and not much processed stuff, I’ve been eating far too much and too much sugar (the sweet table at work is not my friend!). My nails look terrible because I’m not giving them any attention and last week, my mother pointed out that I needed to shave my armpits, (seriously you could have plaited it). My back hurt all last week and while it’s much better now, it’s not fixed and it still hurts.

Today I have a doctors appointment and I know that he’s going to ask about my weight and it’s not going to be a conversation I enjoy. If I was exercising and felt fit, I wouldn’t worry at all about what I weigh, but I’m not and I don’t. I know I could be doing better. I’m not caring for myself in the right way and I need to start to exert a little more discipline over my life. Not because I’m useless, not because if I do I’ll be more worthy of love or attention or good things but because it would be a kind thing to do.

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This week, I’m starting small with an improved diet, less sugar and more self and home care. I’ve said it before but it’s a lesson that I’m always going to have to come back to. So back to it!

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Friday Links

Hello and welcome to Friday! I’m informed by my Ma that my counting is off and my Grandad has actually been dead or ‘promoted to glory’ as his Salvation Army upbringing would have it, 16 years ago not 12 as I said yesterday. I’m confusing my grandfather with my father who has been dead 12 years. It’s not complicated, I’m just forgetful!

Here are this week’s links…

1) 20 lies parents tell their children

2) The local versus imported food argument

3) Although I don’t agree with all of it, it’s nice to see some evangelicals are starting to re-think how they approach LGBT people.

4) Two things about this story. One – a Moomin Cafe? Two – eating with a stuffed animal at the table takes me back to being a small kid!

5) 200 girls are missing in Nigeria. I knew about this, but I didn’t know that they hadn’t been found yet.

 

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On my mind

This week has turned to complete chaos. Ok not complete chaos, just not as organised as it should be. I’m blaming the fact that I can’t walk properly or bend down and keeping up with ‘things that need doing’ is almost impossible when the only reasonably pain free position is on your back lying on a hot water bottle.

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The list of things that need doing include taking down the air bed, currently in the living room (that Ma slept on Sunday night), taking the rubbish out, changing the bed and cleaning the bathroom. All of these things require bending that I just can’t do. It takes about half an hour for me to get dressed at the moment!

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I am really proud that there are three. Count them..three trays of cinnamon rolls in the house that I have not eaten. Yes ok, I did have to put them in the freezer to prevent that but I’m still calling it a triumph of willpower. I mean look at these things, they are really good and I’m not scarfing them down.

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The most popular post on this blog is the one about my Grandad’s bread pudding. It’s had over 2k views and yesterday someone tweeted about it. This seems apt, as tomorrow marks 16 years since he died. I don’t think about him every day but when I do think about him, I’m glad that I knew him and he was a part of my life, I know that lots of people don’t have good relationships with their grandparents but I’m thankful that I did.

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Projects, there are ideas in my head at the moment that need to actually happen. There are some picture frames that need spraying black, knitting that needs to be done, photos to scan and a ton of other creative stuff that I need to start doing and I will as soon as I’ve finished reading the current book…

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Yesterday, I overheard some of the most Waitrose conversations ever. A mother pointing out that buying ready to bake croissants and pain au raisin was actually saving her money because now she didn’t have to take the children to the cafe to buy them on Saturday morning. Which made me think about the things that we buy that seem over the top and/or extravagant but that save us money in the long run or help us feel better about ourselves. I would list my obsession with Dermalogica Microfoiliant and the Friday morning pain au raisin up there but I’m sure you all have some better examples.

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Catching up..

Over the past couple of weeks I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m broken.

There is the mysterious rash that is still on my chest and still mysterious. There is my back that decided that working was not something it wanted to do on Saturday and has been hurting ever since. Seriously, it only hurts a little bit when I’m lying flat on my back with my feet on the sofa, unfortunately there is not a lot you can do lying flat on your back with your feet on the sofa, so movement and pain is what I’ve been doing because there is only so long that this view is interesting for!

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Added to the current mix there is the feeling blah and the ongoing two weeks a month of hormonal migraine fun. I just don’t feel well, however, I don’t really feel that sick either, I’m tired but honestly there’s nothing wrong with me that a three month holiday wouldn’t sort out. So I don’t think I’m actually ill, I just think that I’m 40 and tired and there’s only another 27 year to go until I retire!

So apart from all this sickness that isn’t really sickness, what else is new?

Well godchild no 3 (that’s Luc) broke his wrist on Good Friday, godchild no 1 (Ryan) got engaged, he’s 29 so that’s perfectly allowable but man I feel old now. I made lots of cinnamon rolls  and roasted lamb over the Easter weekend.

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Generally, despite the pain I’m currently in,, the sun is shining and although I have a ton of stuff to do, my life is pretty great.

And that’s about it for today….

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On the menu

This week’s menu plan is more of the same, I am still clearing out the freezer and it seems to be taking a while. It’s light on food preparation because

Breakfasts this week will be the same as last week, toast with hard boiled eggs and vegetables.

Lunch will be a combination of leftovers and this chickpea salad

Dinners  are all from the freezer more greek turkey burgers

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fishcakes which I made myself and are tasty but not at all photogenic. Also chicken enchilada soup

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Friday Night Pizza (dough, sauce) is essential to my sense of well being!

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The weekend is absolutely empty of plans of any description either food or social but I would imagine that one day will be a treat breakfast – say hello to the waffle.

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There is chicken in the freezer so I’m thinking that I’ll use that.

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Friday Links

It’s Good Friday, which means Easter weekend, yay for a four day weekend! This week’s links…

1) I know it’s a link to the Daily Mail (sorry) but this is Giles Fraser talking about Christianity and politics and being his usual combative and challenging self.

2) Capitalism isn’t working.

3) North Korea finds salon advert in London, ‘disrespectful’.

4) How John Green became AFC Wimbledon’s biggest sponsor. It could only be made more perfect if they had properly explained about the Wombles!

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