Friday Links

Happy Friday, I’m celebrating surviving the work week with a coffee and a pain au raisin. Tonight I’ll be celebrating the end of the week and mourning England’s completely lacklustre performance against Uruguay with a pizza and a drink. This weekend I’m seeing Christelle, maybe making some cocktail cherries and reading (there are so many books I’m anxious to read at the moment!)

This week’s links, more football I’m afraid.

1) Mark Steel on Sepp Blatter and the World Cup. 

“The World Cup always provides spectacularly memorable drama, anticipation, tension, emotion and life-affirmingly heart-stopping pointlessness. It always requires putting to the back of your mind the sordid business and politics behind it, but Blatter has attained such squalid heights of repulsitude he’s made it harder than ever, so it’s only right all reasonable people should hate him for that.”

2) Owen Jones on the anti war protesters in 2003 and how our worse fears have come true.

“The invasion was justified as an indispensable part of the struggle against al-Qaida. Well, to be fair, large swaths of Iraq have not been handed over to al-Qaida: they are now run by Isis, a group purged from al-Qaida for being too extreme. Iraq and Syria are trapped in a bloody feedback loop: the growth of Isis in Iraq helped corrupt the Syrian rebellion, and now the Syrian insurgency has fuelled the breakdown of Iraq, too.”

3) John Oliver explains Fifa and the World Cup to America.

4) Grace Dent on what she’s loving about the World Cup.

“My pre-match research led to some perusing of the works of Andrea Pirlo, who, to my reckoning appears to be 50 per cent hirsute, smouldering, oddly cerebral seeming God-like being, partly super-powered ball-passing Robot from the Planet Woof.”

5) My friend Jenny preached at her son’s wedding last weekend. This is what she said, apparently there wasn’t a dry eye in the house and I can see why.

6) Alan Bennett on the basic unfairness of private schools and lots of other things besides.

“Unlike today’s ideologues, whom I would call single-minded if mind came into it at all, I have no fear of the state. I was educated at the expense of the state both at school and university. My father’s life was saved by the state as on one occasion was my own. This would be the nanny state, a sneering appellation that gets short shrift with me. Without the state I would not be standing here today. I have no time for the ideology masquerading as pragmatism that would strip the state of its benevolent functions and make them occasions for profit. And why roll back the state only to be rolled over by the corporate entities that have been allowed, nay encouraged, to take its place? I am uneasy when prisons are run for profit or health services either. The rewards of probation and the alleviation of suffering are human profits and nothing to do with balance sheets. And these days no institution is immune. In my last play the Church of England is planning to sell off Winchester Cathedral. ‘Why not?’ says a character. ‘The school is private, why shouldn’t the cathedral be also?’ And it’s a joke but it’s no longer far-fetched.”

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Good morning, sunshine

I’m not a morning person. Those people who get up at 5am every day and are cheerful and happy about it, I’m not one of those people. I do wish I was, because they seem so in control of their day, but they are not my people.

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My people are the ones who stumble out of bed having pressed the snooze button roughly 60 times and don’t really wake up until mid morning. These are the people I understand.

So I’m not naturally a morning person, my sleep patterns are messed up and for roughly two weeks every month, I have an almost constant headache and morning nausea. Yes for me, PMT presents like morning sickness, I’m just very lucky that way. In winter, all of this is made much worse because of the SAD, but summer or winter, I have found the best way to deal with all of this is to sleep through it until about 9.30am. I cope with feeling ill much better at a civilised hour, unfortunately, I live in a world that starts earlier than that and I need to be at my desk by 9am.

As part of my ‘buck up my ideas’ routine, I was looking at a way to help me be more present and awake in the mornings. So I looked at aromatherapy, because lavender oil has been helping get to sleep and the citrus linen spray has been making ironing easier so there must be something that would help wake me up!

After some experimentation, I found a blend of oils that work. Eucalyptus, peppermint, grapefruit and lemon. The first two also help with clearing blocked up noses and hayfever season is upon us! Grapefruit and lemon are uplifting and refreshing which I think are good things to be in morning.

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I mix them together (20 drops each of eucalyptus and peppermint and 10 each of lemon and grapefruit) and put them in a little dropper bottle.

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Then in the morning before I turn the shower on, I put a couple of drops in the little bowl that sits in the shower. It’s really great for waking me up and as a bonus makes the bathroom smell nice. I use it every morning.

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It’s not a miracle cure for the morning blues but it does help and I need all the help I can get!

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Monday Monday

It was a good weekend. I think it was because I started it well. I knew that I was going to be quite busy and so I spent some of Friday night listening to the football and doing chores that really needed to be done but always seem to find themselves at the bottom of the list, sweeping the kitchen floor, giving the plants a haircut, really tidying the kitchen. So on Saturday morning when I had to be up and out of the house at a weekday time (8am), I didn’t feel I was leaving the flat messy or neglected.

I also realised this weekend how many of the things I don’t conciously do, I learnt from my mother, I guess it’s true, we really do turn into our mothers.

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I have newly cut hair but I’m still growing out the fringe so am still dealing with the flick of doom.

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Also I’m wondering if it’s time to bite the bullet and have my hair coloured every 6 weeks instead of every 12 weeks, the grey is becoming more prominent (to me at least) and it’s not so much the colour as the texture of the grey hairs that I dislike, all wiry and sticky up!

The rest of Saturday was spent with a negroni (ok two) and the football. England, unsurprisingly lost, but I don’t think there has been a boring game played so far and no 0-0 draws. At work this morning, someone commented that it was still the best they’d seen England play since 1996 and I can’t disagree although certain England players (ok mostly Wayne Rooney) need to buck up their ideas and Roy needs to address the defence and the gaping holes on the left side.

On Sunday, I had a lie in, breakfast and didn’t do my ironing.

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In the afternoon, Ma and I went up to Apsley House for some of the Waterloo Festival, where we saw the Battle of Waterloo re-enacted with vegetables. It was a really good way of showing it and very funny. Wellington’s troops were represented as carrots because they’re easier to put in square and Napoleon’s troops were onions, Imperial cavalry were baguettes (ours were parsnips) and the artillery were garlic (Wellington) and spring onions (Napoleon), in case anyone knows what I’m babling on about and is wondering Blucher (and his Prussians) were an aubergine! Very silly but very educational.

Wellington's forces

Wellington’s forces

The French

The French

This week is going to be quiet and busy. Busy at work, quiet at home. I’ve been working at an evening routine and it has occurred to me (with some prompting – thanks Krissie!) that if a bedtime routine works for small children, then something similar will work for me too. Actually, I know this, but like a lot of things, they are lessons that I constantly need to relearn, I’m not known for consistency when it comes to routine but this week that’s what I’m going for.

Consistency. The list is mostly the same, no screens after nine, making sure that I’m prepared for the next day (lunch, clothes, tasks etc), yoga and bed by 10pm. So I’m going to make that wind down hour my priority for this week.

Anyone else care to share the thing that you’ll working on achieving this week, whether it’s daily meditation, perfecting a recipe or doing sit-ups every day (all stuff I might think about in the coming weeks!) what is your week going to be about?

 

 

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Sunday Music: Old Crow Medicine Show – Sweet Amarillo

New Old Crow Medicine Show, like you didn’t expect it at some point.

Sweet Amarillo

This is another co-write with Bob Dylan but apparently Dylan had more input into this one than into Wagon Wheel.

Roll on July 1st, new album, I will be unbearable…

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Sometimes life gives you a smack around the head!

To say I woke up on the wrong side of bed yesterday morning would be the understatement of the year.

I woke up hot, sore, headachey and extremely grumpy and I knew it. I’ve been spending some time this week thinking about how I recognise a lack of balance in my life because my reactions to situations become completely out of proportion to the size of the problem.

I did things that might help, I did morning yoga, I decided to have a ‘treat’ lunch and buy something instead of packed lunch, I made pizza dough for FNP. None of it worked, I was still a miserable & grumpy. More so when I got halfway down my street and realised that I was still wearing my slippers! It was that kind of a day.

A conversation with my mother and the Friday morning coffee from Papillon helped a bit, but having to let a train go because I couldn’t get on it and two people pushing and shoving me on the platform didn’t really help my mood. Brows were lowered, I just knew it was going to be a crappy day.

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I got on the next train, no seats, and the Tube was built before air con, it’s pretty much the 7th circle of hell, but hotter. There were 4 tourists on the train trying to work out when their stop was and starting to get up. They were about 15 minutes away from their stop, so I told them to hang on for a bit ’cause they had some time. They told me how impressed they were with the Tube (the Piccadilly Line too!) because it was so clean and bright and how polite everyone was each other, even though it was really busy. Apparently, compared to their trains (they were from Chicago) ours were really good.

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They talked about what they were doing here and what they wanted to see. It sort of hit me then that the last time I really appreciated the Tube was when I was in DC using the Metro and despite the heat and my grumpiness and the fact that Londoners voted Boris Johnson in as mayor twice, I love where I live.

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Sometimes, you need to look at a problem from another direction and today 4 tourists reminded me that I have a lot more to be happy than grumpy about.

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Friday Night Cocktail

Tomorrow is World Gin Day!

I do not have a new gin cocktail to share (or indeed any kind of cocktail at all!) it has not been a week for drinking.

Last year, I gave you links to all the gin cocktails I had made and posted (oddly enough I was also having my haircut that weekend as well!)

Today, I’m going to give you a couple of my favourites. Whatever you do this weekend, have fun and drink gin!DSCF1332

The Classic G & T DSCF3029Summer in a glass

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The Aperol Negroni (negronis in general are something I’ve really begun to enjoy this year)

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The Foghorn

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The Gin Rickey

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Rosemary Grapefruit Sour

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! Yesterday was the first day of the World Cup. And this is a public service announcement for those of you that don’t like football (or soccer as some misguided people call it!). I know, I understand, I don’t like or understand rugby or cricket or hockey or cycling or X Factor or Britain’s Got Talent or lots of other sports or games and entertainment that other people really love and talk about all the time. I do like football, as it goes I’m the least fanatical football person in my family, and the World Cup is special and there will be some World Cup stuff floating around the next couple of weeks. I know Fifa is corrupt but so is the IOC and I didn’t hear people who were excited about the Olympics (you may recall, I was not!) accepting that as a reasonable excuse for why I was mardy about them! It’s four weeks, it’ll be over soon.

1) Ready or not, this is Brazil’s moment. Just for this – “We always live in a crisis, but the football comes along and we forget everything.”

2) Melvyn Bragg is fed up with people slagging off the working class.

3) Zoe Williams tastes tests low calorie, low alcohol wines. If you want a recommendation, this isn’t for you, if you want to laugh, then go ahead and read.  – “A phenomenal waste of human endeavour – it has no more body than grape juice, yet lacks even the slender charm of that. At the risk of sounding like Samuel Beckett, it tastes only of absence”

4) According to my mother, the best way to get a perfect lemon meringue pie, is to get my Aunt Jude to make it. This is probably true, Jude is brilliant at pastry, Ma not so much. For those that don’t have access to my aunt, here is a recipe.

5) More World Cup love from someone who doesn’t even like football.

6) Which World Cup team are you? I’m Germany, apparently but I want to be Brazil!

7) How should we commemorate the 200th anniversary of the Battle of Waterloo? Well, I’ll be commemorating the 199th anniversary by going up to Aplsey House this weekend (English Heritage is doing some stuff this weekend and next) and on the actual day (18 June) Ma will be sending me ‘updates’ on the progress of the battle (she takes this stuff very seriously!)

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Swings and Roundabouts

Time for a quick catch up…

 

I had a really good weekend. Friday night out with my team from work and a lovely evening with Christelle and Mike on Saturday, the only downside was when the gods of public transport decided that I wasn’t allowed to go to Watford on Saturday afternoon to see the family and I missed the family World Cup draw, having said that Oli drew the groups and I have Group A (Brazil, Croatia, Mexico, Cameroon) and Group F (Argentina, Bosnia-Herzegovina, Iran and Nigeria), so I’m not too unhappy with that.

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Oh and somewhere over the weekend I’ve lost my prescription sunglasses this is not a good thing, I love those glasses and I need them.

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I was organised and ready for work on Monday but instead had a migraine, so spent the day in hell and all that lying down has hurt my back. Just as the yoga was really starting to stretch it all out.

I’m busy at work and doing yoga every day and in between trying to deal with anything else that comes my way. Summer (more or less) seems to have arrived and seems to be staying at least until the end of the week. Cooking has been basic, I haven’t made a cocktail in weeks and life is pretty good.

 

 

 

 

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Friday Links

Hello. Today is the 70th anniversary of D-Day, there is a lot of stuff about it floating around. I remember when I was 19 talking about WWI and how it was almost outside of living memory and we’re entering that with WWII. My granddad fought in that war, my parents (both born in 1948) remembered rationing (meat rationing didn’t end until July 1954!) and playing on bombsites. Today is a good day to remember not just the bravery of the people that landed (and died) on those beaches but also what came after. The NHS, housing, education for people based on ability not money, the determination to truly make the country a ‘land fit for heroes’. D-Day was an amazing feat of planning and will but what they did after the war, what those men actually died for, that’s an achievement that needs to be remembered too. (off my soap box now!)

1) Harry Smith on the NHS and what life was like before. If you think that Harry is making this up, here’s my mum writing about how the NHS changed and probably saved her life.

2) This. Sing it sister..

3) Rabbit Island. I don’t think that’s cute, I’m a bit weirded out by the idea..

4) George Monbiot on housing and taxation.

5) Pictures of fathers and daughters whose virginity, they’ve pledged to protect. I find these really, really creepy, especially the one of the little girls, who are far to young to make that kind of promise. I didn’t have a great relationship with my father but the best thing he ever did for me was make it clear that sex was my decision, that boiled down to “Don’t do anything you don’t want to, if anyone tries to make you do something you don’t want to do, send them to me and use contraception. I’m too young to be a grandparent”. Both my parents were very clear about being open and telling Ben and me the truth about questions we had, so that talk came on top of 16 years of my parents trusting me to think for myself about this. I think I prefer that approach to this one.

6) I didn’t know that Hollande was trying to merge the French regions. Interesting.

7) Michael Bradley feels that he’s good enough for Arsenal, Wenger didn’t feel the same way. My reaction to this is that no one owes you anything and I don’t think that US football players are good enough yet. I’m cut up that Frank Lampard is not going to be at Chelsea, next year but that’s the way that football works!

8) Another week, another person feeling that they know better what people should read. Look, I’ve read Dickens*. I’ve read Tolstoy, I’ve read the Brontes and Gaskell and Austen and even Dante, I’ve read a fair amount of ‘adult’ books that were dreadful as well as a whole bunch of books I loved or that made me think. I loathe literary novels that wonder all over the place and seem to be written to show us how clever the authors are (AS Byatt, I’m looking at you). Reading is something I do to relax and learn so different books for different times and moods. Some people need to get over themselves and stop thinking that their taste is what everyone should have.

*I’m not keen and his characterisation of women gives me the creeps – they are always bad or too soppy to be true and why does he use 30 words when he could use 3**

**actually I know the answer to that, he was paid by the word

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Random things…

I’ve been doing this and this to my hair quite a lot. Totally getting me through the days that I don’t wash my hair.

Although the weather and the growing out fringe makes my hair do this a lot.

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My hair wants to be curly but really can’t be bothered and this is what happens…

Although it’s behaving this morning, we’ll see how long that lasts.

My nails get really bad in April/June, really weak and peeling. For the last couple ot This month I’ve been using Essie’s Millionails, Grow Stronger and Apricot Oil to rehab them. This has meant no funky colours and I’ve been obsessed with how dirty my fingernails get. Seriously, I don’t do anything that justifies the amount of dirt that gets under them and I hate having dirty fingernails. Always have, my dad used to tease me by telling me I was ‘a little girl with dirty fingernails’, as we get older, we become ourselves, only more so..

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This morning I overslept, ‘slept all the way from 10pm to 7am, didn’t wake up, slept through the alarm, am going to be late for work’ type overslept. This has not happened for nearly 10 years. And I didn’t have any back pain. Maybe it’s the yoga. Whatever it is, I’m grateful for it, even though I’m gonna be late for work!

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And finally, it’s sunny today, it’s amazing how good the sunshine makes me feel, I don’t need it to be warm but sunny makes me a much nicer person to be around!

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