I give in

Sometimes I don’t think there has been a day in the past 10 years when I’ve woken up feeling refreshed by a good nights sleep. Most days, I stagger out of bed wishing I could go back to it. If asked how I am the first thing that springs to mind is ‘tired’.

I’ve written about my before and the things I do that help and they do help, but they don’t cure and recently my sleep woe has been compounded by my next door neighbours baby. That baby cries and cries and cries. Yeah I know it’s what babies do, but I don’t have a baby but because the baby and I share a bedroom wall, I’m as awake as it’s parents are when that baby is crying. On Friday, that was from about 9.30pm to 4am, I didn’t sleep well at all and feel like I’ve been playing catch up ever since..

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This week, I just gave up and have been going to bed really early. I’m normally in bed at 10pm on school nights anyway but on Monday night, I was so tired, I just did what needed to be done at home, dinner, lunch making, washing up, removing makeup and brushing teeth and went to bed. At 8.45pm. I read for half an hour and then went to sleep.

I did the same yesterday. I don’t know that it’s helping me feel less tired but I’m finding getting up a bit easier. Does that count?

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Cherry Pie

I love cherries. I love everything vaguely cherry flavoured. Cherry flavoured slush puppies, cherry brandy ice lollies, cherry jam, cherry coke (and Dr Pepper), cocktail cherries, even the bright red full of bad chemicals maraschino cocktail cherries which I can eat straight from the jar.

So right now, in the middle of cherry season, I am in heaven. I’ve been buying about 2 kilos of cherries a week!

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Mostly eating them just as they come and they really don’t last all that long. I’ve made a batch of cocktail cherries and a batch of cherry brandy and I decided this week would be the week of the cherry pie.

I had pastry in the freezer, (this one, although I use the ‘bung it all in food processor’ method to make it) which I use for mince pies at Christmas and should give you an idea of how long it’s been in the freezer and I had this recipe for the filling, I used less sugar than suggested (1/2 a cup) and the result was very tasty but not too pretty.

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It tasted great though!

 

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Food this week

Happy Monday. Actually, at 6am this morning, I was not happy at all. The thoughts going through my head were more of the ‘How can it be Monday already?’ possibly..ok, almost certainly..more sweary than that but in that ballpark.

Then I dragged myself out of bed, ate some toast, said hi to Ma (who stayed the night), Ma was mostly singing the German national anthem and being very happy (some would say she was gloating, she was definitely gloating) about her winning the family World Cup bet.

But the sun is shining, godchildren 2 to 5, called me and left a message on my phone singing La Marseillaise because it’s Bastille Day! Sarah called to say hi and I got over my slight ‘Oh my God, Monday’ mood and started to enter into the week with some enthusiasm.

On to this weeks menu plan. I’m still working on using what’s in the freezer a bit more but there are loads of leftovers in the fridge so that’s what I’m trying to use up. I made a loaf of sourdough yesterday so breakfast will probably be toast and eggs. There is a ton of aubergine parmigiana from River Cottage Veg (this is the recipe) leftover from yesterday’s lunch and that with some salad will be lunch for a couple of days.

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There is also half a cherry pie in the fridge and I don’t think that will last long at all!

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Dinners will be the spinach/chickpea thing, a hash of lentils, vegetables and chicken (also leftovers from the weekend), and a frittata, the remains of this will be lunch once the aubergine parm has gone.

Friday is as ever, pain au raisin and coffee for breakfast and pizza for dinner!

What are you eating this week?

 

 

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday or as I like to call it ‘Pain au raisin’ day. I caused general cultural confusion in a cafe in DC this year when I asked for a coffee and a pain au raisin. It took some pointing but in DC they’re ‘raisin escargot’, which I found baffling, if you’re going to use a French word for something surely it makes more sense to use the correct one?  Two peoples divided by a common language..so true.

How was your week? Mine was busier than I expected with later nights due a busy work week, a migraine on Monday and the football, especially on Wednesday night when Argentina v. Holland went into extra time and penalties. Yes, I did go to bed at 9.30pm yesterday and I am not ashamed. All in all though it feels like it was a pretty successful week, I finally sat down and wrote the paper that I’d been putting off because I hate writing those things. People should just do what I say, not ask me to justify my reasons! You may call it bossy, a colleague in jest called it authoritarian, I call it directive!

My weekend plans are limited to not doing much and Sunday lunch with my mother, which if the weather continues in it’s grey and dreary vein is not too much of an issue. Here are this week’s links…

1) Robin Lustig on Israel.

2) Candidate for office admits that she had a termination because she wasn’t ready to be a mother. My first thought when I read this was something along the lines of “that’s brave”, why it’s brave for a woman to be open about having a legal medical procedure says a lot about the general attitude to abortion and woman who have them.

3) I thought that everyone knew that the British plug was a design classic. Apparently not.

4) Good reviews for The Crucible, which is good because I’m going to see it on my birthday and it’s nearly 4 hours long…

5) Lost in Showbusiness on tax avoidance with style.

6) This. What’s the worst thing about cycling? Other cyclists.  I don’t drive and I don’t cycle but my daily walk to King’s Cross from the office is made more dangerous by cyclists going through red lights and then calling me names for having the temerity to be walking across the road. I do think that we should have proper cycle lanes, separated from the road but I also think that cyclists should have to take a test to cycle on the roads in the same way that drivers do, because, as a pedestrian, cyclists scare me in a way that car drivers don’t.

7) Food banks and why demand is up. Just read it.

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On my mind

1) Brazil oh dear God, Brazil. I didn’t have much hope that you’d beat Germany but that was abject.

2) Argentina, all my hope rests on you…

3) I want to be on holiday, I have another 2 months but I want to be there now…

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4) I think I may have eaten my own weight in cherries over the last 2 weeks…I’m still not bored of them.

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6) I’m also increasingly obsessed with Starbars. Seriously if my cravings had their way I would be living on a diet of cherries, starbars and gin. Maybe I should just put it down to PMT

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Sunday Music

This week I have been mostly listening to the new Old Crow Medicine Show album, Remedy.

I did tell you I’d be unbearable about it! Apart from Sweet Amarillo, which has already featured, I can’t find anything from the album on You Tube. Which is sad because the album is great. But OCMS are a band best experienced live, so instead here they are doing Mama Don’t Allow with The Del McCoury Band..

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Then and now

Yesterday I celebrated 5 years in the same place. I think it’s the longest time I’ve lived in the same flat as an adult. I’ve written before about the flat and what it means to me so instead here are some now and then photos.

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The books

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s the 4th of July, Americans celebrate Independence Day, the British don’t but losing that one enabled us to beat Napoleon, you win some, you lose some. It’s also 5 years since I moved into my flat. That went quickly..

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It’s also the first day of my weekend, I’ve had a week that required a day off doing very little. I will do some reading and I may do some chores but it’s a day devoted to not having to do anything and probably lying in!

So this week’s links….

1) Tony Benn was right about a lot of things.

2) Dilemmas for book lovers. Been there, done most of them and don’t have a TV not because I don’t watch TV but because there’s nowhere to put it because of the bookshelves…

3) Engraved Rolling pins, yes I’d like one!

4) I quite like the Queen but Catherine Bennett sums up why I’m a republican.

5) Why making your home ‘company ready’ is a bad idea. I love this, you should keep your house tidy because it makes your life better.

6) The SCOTUS decision on Hobby Lobby is, to this NHS baby, horrifying. It when stuff like this pops up, I realise how lucky I am that the cost of contraception has never been something I worry about.

7) The Guardian editorial about Israel and Palestine. My brother is in Tel Aviv this week, they went over for a wedding. Ben spoke to Ma last night and said that it’s seems that neither side will listen to the other. Which is about the sum of it.

8) How the Tories hit the poor. We are so not all in it together.

 

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You need to care for your hair

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I got asked last week how I get my hair so shiny. Which was strange because I didn’t think it was all that shiny, having said that I am aware that I have pretty good hair, mostly that’s genetics (thanks Ma!). First things first, I’m all about having my hair cut every six weeks. This keeps the shape of my haircut and cuts away the split ends, that alone makes your hair look better.

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I know that for most people that’s hard to do and I know that I’m lucky, my hairdresser is also a friend, she doesn’t work out of a salon so she is cheaper. Jane has been cutting my hair for over 20 years, she knows me, she knows my hair and she knows what I will and I won’t do. So if I want to change something, she’ll talk me through the care aspects of the new style. That’s the other thing, if you can’t have your haircut as often as I do, find a hairdresser that you trust and that will listen to you, good hairdressers do that. So if you’d rather kill someone than dry and style your hair every morning, explain that before they talk you into a radical new cut!

I have long thick hair, that has a couple of curly sections (around my face) but is mostly wavy rather than properly curly. I did have curls until my first haircut and if my mother’s hair is a guide to mine, it will get more and more wavy and flicky as I get older and greyer! I have it coloured every other haircut, so roughly every 12 weeks. I don’t know what Jane uses on it but I do know that because it’s a full head of colour, it’s semi-permanent. Jane will not do an all over colour of permanent colour, roots are bad enough with highlights or lowlights and one colour all over is not a good look! It’s a reddy colour and my hair feels really well conditioned after it’s done. Although, Jane keeps telling me that even semi-permanent colour stains your hair, it does wash out and I try not to overwash my hair, usually I wash it once or twice a week and use dry shampoo and the tried and tested technique of putting it up when it’s dirty, to stretch out the washing. When I have a fringe, I’m growing it out at the moment, I wash it every day so it doesn’t get greasy and it’s amazing how clean the rest of your hair looks when your fringe is clean.

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So that over, this is what I use on my hair.

Pre Shampoo

L’Oreal Extraordinary Oil. I got this on special offer before Christmas and I put it on my hair to help protect the colour. It seems to work and it does make my hair soft.

Shampoos

I have dandruff and the L’Oreal Paris Elvive For Men Anti Dandruff Intensive Shampoo is the only thing that actually works, and believe me, I’ve tried everything! Bonus points because it’s not expensive. It’s recently had a rebrand (apparently women don’t have troublesome scalps any more.) which might account for why it’s been so difficult to get hold of but if I can’t get that then it’s the Nizoral which is as good but much more expensive. I also use the L’Oreal Paris Hair Expertise EverPure Colour Care & Moisture Shampoo and Aussie’s ColourMate shampoos but much less often.

Conditioners

Everyday is either L’Oreal Paris Hair Expertise EverPure Colour Care & Volume Conditioner  or Aussie ColourMate conditioner. For deep conditioning, especially in the summer, I like Aussie’s Three Minute Miracle.

Styling

I’ve always been a fan of the FrizzEase serum but only really need to use it when it’s damp to tame the waviness. Sometimes, more often in the summer, I’ll like to use a serum or oil before I dry it. More Extraordinary Oil or Lee Stafford’s Poker Straight Serum

I also really like the Blow Dry Spray from Lee Stafford too because properly blow drying my hair takes ages without it.

I don’t really use mousse anymore as it doesn’t seem to make that much of a difference but I do use hairspray and it’s been Elnett for a very long time, usually the unperfumed or coloured hair versions but really all of them are fantastic so whatever is there and when it’s on offer.

Dry Shampoo

I tend to use the VO5 Refresh Me Quick and the Lee Stafford one, but pretty much I’ll buy what’s on offer!

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What I’ve Read – May and June 2014

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Saga Vol 1 – Brian K. Vaughan & Fiona Staples 

Saga Vol 2 – Brian K. Vaughan & Fiona Staples 

Saga Vol 3 – Brian K. Vaughan & Fiona Staples 

I’m going to talk about these as one thing, I read them in a day although, I think I’m going to have to go back and re-read to get more depth, that is the problem with graphic novels. Anyway, I’m enjoying this, I will read the others as they appear but if intergalactic war, one eyed novelists, robot princes, non-corporeal pink babysitters, hired assassins and cats that can tell if you’re lying are your thing, this is probably for you!

Everything I Know About Love I Learned from Romance Novels – Sarah Wendell

Funny but at the same time a call for some people to stop treating romance novels as if they have no value. I bought this because I love Smart Bitches, Trashy Books and Sarah runs the site and it’s the site in book form, maybe with less snark.

Delancey: A Man, a Woman, a Restaurant, a Marriage – Molly Wizenburg

I love Molly’s blog, Orangette and I enjoyed her first book. Like her first book, this is not a book you buy for the recipes, you read it for the stories and the ideas. I dashed through this is a day and I really enjoyed it. I liked that it made me think about food and living and although she joked that the book her husband would write in reply to this is ‘My wife is a liar’, it’s the honesty she shows in detailing her reactions that are key here. She’s honest about the fact that she didn’t think it would happen and honest about how hard she found it to adjust to the new normal. It’s a lovely book and I’m going to buy it for several of the foodie people I know.

The Untelling – Tayari Jones

Sometimes you want to like a book and you just can’t. I wanted to like this book, there are things to like, it’s well written and the prose is beautiful and descriptive but doesn’t wander all over the place. It’s me, I just didn’t like it. Intellectually, I knew what was going on, but I didn’t understand Aria’s actions and by the end of the book I didn’t much care about her pain. Stories don’t just need to show a journey, they need to make you care about journey and I didn’t. I just wanted her to sort it out, so I could be done with the book. I feel a bit guilty about not liking her or her story but there it is. This is probably a great book but I couldn’t connect with it.

The Lost Sun: The United States of Asgard – Tessa Gratton

This was one of Luc and Helene’s holiday books (yep more holiday!). I liked it, Luc would have preferred less romance (he’s 13, he can’t be perfect!), H loved it. It had some fabulous world building, the idea being that Vikings settled the US and the Norse Gods, trolls etc are all real and present in the world. So it’s familiar but different, the names of the States are spelt differently and of course are kingstates, honey soda and mead, instead of coke and beer. An alternate history and an alternate reason for slavery and emancipation, speaking Anglish instead of English, the White Hall instead of the White House, the way Christians (Biblists) are viewed as a strange minority and because the Gods are a presence, so is religion. The only problem is that it seems too pat sometimes, such as ‘The Lays of Thomas Jefferson’, it’s funny but it doesn’t make sense as the book has already established that in this world the Nordic naming customs are used so he wouldn’t be called Jefferson. Its a minor quibble because I think too much. I liked that there’s more to Soren, to his issues, than his parents and his berserking maybe to do with race. All through the book, he mentions his dark skin or someone else as having traditional Asgardian colouring, i.e. fair and he’ll uses his complexion as a description of someone else, ‘almost as dark as me’ but we don’t get a description of Soren or get to see him through anyone else’s eyes, which makes me think there’s something going on. I’ll probably read the next one because I really want to know where Gratton is going with the story.

The Mortal Instruments: City of Heavenly Fire – Cassandra Clare

This was H’s pick for half term reading. Same reaction as the last book, Luc did like some of it, H loved it, I was glad it was a nice ending maybe some of it a bit pat but that’s fine. The set up for the next books was fairly obvious but H and I will read them so it worked. All of Cassandra Clare’s books have funny snark in them and she keeps things moving along.

Guildhunter Series – Nalini Singh

Angels’ BloodArchangel’s KissArchangel’s ConsortArchangel’s BladeArchangel’s StormArchangel’s Legion

More book crack from Nalini Singh. When you read them all at once, you can see some of the repetition, which was similar when I read all of the Psy-Changling series, massively ‘alpha’ men and so on. Having said that, I liked that the romance didn’t solve all the problems, I like that we get to see the main characters relationship and backstory develop through the books and I like that Singh puts real thought into what a world that had massively powerful angels in it would look like, how things would change. How culture would change depending on which angel was in charge. I also enjoyed the idea that vampires come about because of the angels and how that would change things. By the end of it, I was less interested in the various pairings and more interested in the politics and fighting. Easy to read but interesting enough that you think a bit, I think I read them all over 4 days, I have a problem….

 Ruin and Rising – Leigh Bardugo

The last of the Grisha trilogy. This is a big year for finishing trilogies and series, this, City of Heavenly Fire, Ruins, Unmade, it’s all happening. This ended well, the bad guy was defeated and they sort of lived happily ever after. The solution to the problem was staring them in the face and the solution, wasn’t quite what they thought it was. I’m sort of sad that we ended the series with Alina and Mal losing their ‘talent’ and being together, rather than working out how to live with it.

We Were Liars – E Lockhart

I really didn’t like this. I had the same reaction to it that I had to The Untelling. It was clever, beautifully written and I really didn’t enjoy it or like the narrator. I don’t know why, it’s just one of those things but I worked out what had happened and what was going on with Cady quite early on, so that may have had something to do with it.

Under Heaven – Guy Gavriel Kay

I love most of Kay’s books, this was one I hadn’t read and I’m off on a Guy Gavriel Kay reading spree very soon. It’s based on the An Lushan Rebellion during the Tang Dynasty in China, I really don’t know anything about Chinese history, or culture for that matter, so I can’t tell you how close it is to the real events and it’s early medieval so really how accurate are any novels written about time so long ago? I did like it and I loved the theme running through it, of how much, and how little one person can change events.

Shades of Milk and Honey – Mary Robinette Kowal

I really enjoyed this. It’s set in the regency but with magic, when I put it like that it sounds dreadful, but it’s not and the glamour stuff is actually very subtle. It reads as if it was written in it’s time period and must have been inspired by Austen. I really enjoyed it and I liked Jane. There are others and the next one is set in Belgium just before Waterloo (my own personal catnip!) people have to stop writing good books, I don’t have enough room in my budget or time to read them all!R

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