Friday Links

One link this week, because tooth extraction knocked me on my backside, I’ve spend most of this week asleep, so there’s been very little time for reading…

1) My friend Jenny writing about grief a year after her dad died. Jenny wrote about her dad last year and because Tina was dying and because of a lot of things, it prompted me to think about death and how because every death (like every life is different) we experiece each death differently. Grieving is the same and Jen is right ‘there is no path’ but it will get softer and I wrote about that last year too..

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Plum Crumble

I decanted the plum gin on the weekend and was left with the question of what to do with the plums. I did think about jam, but I made jam with the leftover raspberries and I have 2 jars of plum jam at the moment (made by Charles from the last batch of plums they got off the tree at St Leonards Road!).

It was the second day of November so I decided on crumble.  Crumble is the perfect autumn food and one of the best puddings ever, because it’s so simple and you can change it up by changing the fruit.

These were the plums after I’d de-stoned them. Like the raspberries, they’d also lost weight and weighed in at just under 800g.

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I put them on a low heat and added about 1/4 cup of sugar and a teaspoon of cinnamon and half a teaspoon of ginger. I let the plums heat up until they had released some juice and the sugar had dissolved and put them in a dish. I used my Falcon Enamelware pie dishes, one 20cm and one 30cm).

My crumble topping was 5oz plain flour, 3oz butter, 3oz rolled oats and 3oz brown sugar. Rub the butter into the flour, add the oats and sugar.

Put the crumble topping on the plums

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The crumble in a oven at 200C for about 30 minutes.

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I ate mine with custard, it’s not pretty but it’s what my Sunday needed..

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Remember, Remember the 5th of November…

Obviously I don’t actually remember it because the one referred to in the poem was in 1605 and I’m in no way advocating a return to any anti Catholic sentiment but I’m all over the pretty pictures of the fireworks and this year we’re not going with Lu and Oli….

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What I’ve Read – October 2014

Trial By Fire – Josephine Angelini

More Josephine Angelini. Easy to read, fantastic world building and easy to read book crack.

 What a Wallflower Wants – Maya Rodale

Historical romance, that starts with a heroine who’s been raped and doesn’t say anything because if believed she have to marry her rapist. That part of the story was good, it all goes a bit unrealistic towards the end but it’s a romance, they’re not big on social realism. I enjoyed it and it’s good to see a genre book address the issues that the genre has (women and the working class and the bottom of the rungness of their existence)

The Apple Tart of Hope – Sarah Moore Fitzgerald

One of Helene’s picks. I liked some of it but it didn’t ring true to me, I really wanted to like it more but I couldn’t, it all felt a bit shallow and everything was resolved too easily.

Stately Pursuits – Katie Fforde

I picked this up at Barter Books the last time I was in Northumberland and although I quite enjoy early Katie Fforde, I didn’t really enjoy this. It was all a bit too much and certainly too easy.

The Blood of Olympus – Rick Riordan

Another of Luc’s picks. We were always going to finish the series, they are enjoyable. Rick Riordan has got some flack for being too accessible, an opinion that I totally disagree with, I lean firmly to the view that all reading is good reading. People read for all sorts of reasons and I really loathe the idea that reading that children do has to be educational.  Children are fires to be lit not pots to be filled and some children will read the Percy Jackson books and be entertained and some children will be entertained and inspired to go and learn more about the Greek myths, both are fine. I like these books for other reasons too, although girls read them, they are very much boys books  (as much as I wish it wasn’t so, my experience tells me it’s harder to get boys to read books they think are ‘for girls’ than it is to get girls to read these books – but maybe that’s just my godchildren!) but during the series things happen to both the male and the female characters that are human and real but the books aren’t issue books and the story doesn’t suffer while everyone sorts out their emotions. One of the characters comes out, another character learns to come to terms with not being the ‘chosen one’ but to value the things that they can do and have, all of them learn about being a team and giving and accepting love and friendship and help. It’s important and if it does all of that whilst being funny and entertaining, that’s a good thing.

Truly – Ruthie Knox

Fluff but interesting for me in that these characters didn’t have their act together. He wasn’t wildly successful, she wasn’t sure what her work life was going to be, they made a decision to work on all of that together. I like romances where there is no rescuing…

We Are All Completely Besides Ourselves – Karen Joy Fowler

I really enjoyed this, I wasn’t sure if I would. It’s about family and loss and experiments that go wrong.

 The City’s Son – Tom Pollock

Luc’s pick for half term. We both really enjoyed it and yes some of the metaphor was a little heavy handed and some of the writing felt older than YA but it’s nice to see London in a YA and bonus points for calling the police ‘the filth’ and other slang. I thought we were going for romance but it turned out to be more about friendship and the next book, which Luc is already reading (it’s a YA fantasy of course it’s a trilogy!) is about that friend. I enjoyed it and didn’t want to let it go so I imagine that I’ll be reading the next book pretty soon!

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Thankful

I hate November. Not as much as I used to but it’s not my favourite month, it’s dark and cold (although the weather is not at all cold yet!) and generally I don’t enjoy it.

Krissie doesn’t have my issues with November not being a happy, fun time, but she spends November remembering to be thankful for the life she has and what’s in it. For the last couple of years I’ve joined in! Last year she did ‘Thankful in November’ through Committed Coaching, which was a free offering, I don’t know if she’s doing anything this year but I’ve found it was really useful and it’s part of the reason I’m feeling much more optimistic this autumn, I’m still grumpy but much of it is surface grump as opposed to the deep despair I was rocking about 5 years ago.

So every day in November I’m going to take a photo to help dispel my November gloom. I honestly don’t expect them to be much different from most of my photos either on here or on Instagram. I’m pretty sure that, knowing me, the things that I’m grateful for will not be that much different from the things I’m always grateful for, family, friends, a place to live, literacy, whiskey….

That’s not the important part of the exercise. The way I experience depression*  is that it throws everything good in my life into the shade where it’s hard to see and then all of my focus is on what’s wrong with me. During the winter I find that I spend more time feeling that I’m not enough, that I’m not clever, rich, successful or pretty enough and that no one loves me and no one ever will and that every good thing I’ve ever had I’ve lost, either because God just doesn’t want me to be happy and I’m not allowed to have good things or because I’ve broken it and the more I feel like that the worse it is. So the point of this is to help me quiet the negative noise that my brain defaults to and to shine a light of the good parts of my life that are harder for me to see but are still exactly where I left them.

Rather than posting one a day, I’ll post them here on a Tuesday for the week.

Saturday 1st November

A quiet day doing things at home and decanting the plum gin.

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Sunday 2nd November

The amazing sunset after a pretty rainy and miserable November day.

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Monday 3rd November

My lovely bed and a day done and a the chance to sleep.

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*standard disclaimer – I don’t have a serious depression, I have mild Seasonal Effective Disorder and a history of bad things happening in November. If you do, being thankful for your life in November is unlikely to help unless you also have a good therapist and some anti depressants and if you don’t have those things, go and see your doctor, they can help

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Life Happened

Monday started with an unseasonally warm day and air con in my office wasn’t working.

On Tuesday, air con fixed, I had the ‘joy’ of sitting in on an industry meeting, it was a long meeting…and the abscess that was and then wasn’t there decided to come back and let me know about it. So after the 5 hour meeting, I rang the dentist, who told me to get to them straight away, so I did. One prescription later (and the next 5 days on antibiotics) I was at home and lighting candles to make myself feel better.

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The rest of the week passed in a bit of a haze of tired and cold (remarkable after being so warm on Monday and given our really mild weather). I’m blaming those antibiotics, they are marvellous things and I’m grateful to live in a world where we have them and they work (just), but I really try to avoid using them partly because overuse is a bad thing but really because I don’t react terribly well to them, they make me foggy.

Friday was the warmest Halloween on record and on Friday night I went to Dionne’s for a catch up and general chatting. I had nothing that I needed to do for the rest of the weekend, I did food shopping, cleaned the kitchen floor, tidied the flat, decanted the plum gin, mucked about in the kitchen and slept loads.

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It was a good week.

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Food This Week – 1 to 7 November 2014

Hello November. I did promise that this week, I’d update you on last weeks shopping and I’ve identified a weakness in my menu planning, it all goes to hell if I don’t shop for food on the weekend and last weekend I didn’t. I was off plan for all of the weekend, after a Saturday breakfast of minty fresh pancakes (the vanilla and peppermint extract bottles are very similar!) I ended up drinking champagne and then doing the M&S Dine in for Two on Saturday with Ma. On Sunday I didn’t shop and instead did some shopping on Monday night for the basics of what I needed, I spent £14 but I didn’t get everything I planned.

So onto this week…

Saturday

Breakfast – Yoghurt and pear honey

Lunch – no plan

Dinner – Cheese and bread and hummus from the Cheddar Deli

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Sunday

Breakfast – Pancakes with vanilla this week!

Lunch – Roast dinner – practice at roast dinner because I’m cooking it for Ma’s birthday lunch and it’s dark.

Dinner – ‘lunch’ will probably be around 5pm so nothing!

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Monday

Breakfast – Egg cups and veg

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – Black Bean burgers and roasted vegetables (minus the bread part!)

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Tuesday

Breakfast – Egg cups and veg

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – Chicken Risotto – I’m having a tooth out on Tuesday, I figured that soft food would be a good idea!

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Wednesday

Breakfast – Egg cups and veg

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – Frittata

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Thursday

Breakfast – Egg cups and veg

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – Chicken Soup

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Friday

Breakfast – Pain au raisin

Lunch – Leftovers

Dinner – No plan, out with Ma and Maggie and Jem

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Snacks

  • Yoghurt
  • Vegetables and dip
  • Fruit

Shopping and cost

Because it’s the beginning of the month this shop is a lot of stocking up on basics and buying meat for the rest of the month so I reckon it’s going to cost about £40.

eggs
Chicken
10 sausages
4 pork loin steaks
black beans
chickpeas
red lentils
quinoa
peppers
carrots
mushrooms
leeks
stuffing
milk
butternut squash
parsnips
laundry detergent
bin bags
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Friday Links

1) I got 15 out of 15 on this quiz about alcohol from abroad…I’m still not sure whether to be impressed with myself or really worried.

2) How do we start English devolution? Apart from cost, I’ve still not heard a decent argument against 4 devolved parliaments and a federal government at Westminster. If devolved government is right for N.Ireland, Wales and Scotland, why not England. Give all of them the same powers, with Westminster dealing with currency, defence and so on, that way everybody is on an equal footing and no one can cry favouritism. My only request is that an English parliament is based somewhere northern and not London.

3) Ketch Secor’s Americana playlist..

4) YA doesn’t have to be a gateway to ‘better’ books.

5) Yesterday was the start of the Royal British Legion’s Poppy Appeal. I remember this being much less of a ‘thing’ when I was a younger but after Britain’s involvement in Iraq and Afganistan wearing a poppy has become a much more usual thing and people not wearing a poppy especially people in the public eye get a lot of flack. Last year, Harry Leslie Smith, wrote about why he’s not going to wear a poppy this year. Worth a read.

 

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Daniel Buren at The Baltic

More holiday photos.

Everytime I go to Newcastle, I end up at the Baltic. There’s always something interesting on and it’s just the right size, big enough to have something I want to see and small enough that I don’t get ‘art fatigue’ (a serious condition that leaves me unable to view anything with consideration and opting for the ‘this is all rubbish’ as an opinion – admit it, you get it too!)

The stand out this time was the Daniel Buren – Catch as catch can: works in situ. My friend Sue had been in Newcastle the week before so I was aware of the exhibition but it was much better in person.

I really liked the way that he’d used the building with the transfers, changing the way that you viewed the building and even things outside the building.

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The room with the mirrors was also quite dynamic because it changed depending on whether the sun was shining and who else was in the room and reflected in the mirrors

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