Judah and the Lion – Back’s Against the Wall
It’s a bit Mumford & Sons but I love it…
here now I have been set free/fear has got no grip on me
Judah and the Lion – Back’s Against the Wall
It’s a bit Mumford & Sons but I love it…
here now I have been set free/fear has got no grip on me
07/09/2015 – I’ve been not exactly sick this weekend but was under the weather and not feeling my sparkly best, so I’m ok with what I didn’t do, but I will try to do most of it during the week. It’s worth noting that the things I didn’t get to are the things I don’t like doing (hoovering and cleaning the floors are the one housework chore I would pay someone to do! It’s a loathing I come by honestly – it’s Ma’s most hated job too!) or required too much effort, it’s easy to change the bed but ironing means getting the iron and ironing board set up!
Because Saturday is slightly jam packed (allotment volunteering, making a birthday cake, helping Kathy set up for her party, going to said party) and because I’m all about trying to be more intentional and organised this month. I’m bringing back the weekend tasklist! I’m going to update it as I go, so if you’re bored and want check what I’ve managed to do, come back on Sunday night and have a look!
Kitchen
Bathroom
Hall
General things
Happy Friday! Last week’s impromptu blog holiday means that some of these links are a bit old but never mind!
Affordable sparkling wines that aren’t Prosecco. Ha! the Charles de Fère Brut is currently my favourite fizz and I bought 6 when it was £7 a bottle and 25% off six!
New Zealanders cull the wrong bird. File under not sure whether to laugh or cry but they’ve reduced the population by 5% so I’m going with cry
New London Theatre. Could be interesting.
‘Affordable’ shared ownership flat for £1 million.
Where could you buy a house in England and Wales. It’s not good for me, 77% of the country is out of my price range. I can’t even afford Amble and I’d need another 100k or so to afford anywhere where I currently live..
America should do better with gun control
PMS Survival Kit. Bring it too me now, preferable with a tub of ice cream and a gin and tonic…
Tom Holland on the ruins at Palmyra ISIS is not medieval, but they are barbaric and blowing up history is actually the least worst thing they are doing.
The hypocrisy of the West about the ‘migrant crisis’. I’m really struggling with this but this is about right..
it is just standard Western hypocrisy laid a little more bare than usual. If you actually want to help Syrian refugee children like the little boy in the viral photo, it’s not enough to care about this single dead child; you have to care about living refugee kids too, and in fact you also have to care about living refugee adults. If the image of the Syrian refugee boy made you feel something, that’s great, but it only matters for making an actual difference in the world if you can apply those feelings to living refugees as well.
I really enjoyed August, it was a proper holiday month. There was my birthday and Ryan’s wedding and 7 days off work. It was lovely.
September Plans and Goals
September is not a very busy month. I have an allotment volunteer day, 2 birthday parties, for a 43 and a 4 year old. Waiting for the new niece or nephew, due any day now! Mostly though September is a month for getting back on track. It’s been more than 20 years since I was tied to the school/uni calendar but September is the time to clean up my act and get back into a routine. Also, although the clocks don’t go back until the end of October, it’s darker in the morning and evenings and that makes mornings harder to deal with, so this month has to be about forming the habits that will (hopefully) ensure that I’m not a wibbering heap of SAD when the lack of sun really kicks in on the lead up to Christmas!
BODY & MIND
I know that exercise is good for mild depression (which is essentially what SAD is for me) so I need to exercise a bit, I’m starting (actually started) doing 20 squats, 10 sit-ups, 10 press-ups: and a 10 sec plank every day. It isn’t much at all but I’m increasing the first three by one and the plank by 2 sec each morning. By the end of the month I’ll be doing 49/39 and a plank for over a minute. Which gives me a good base for October.
2 body balance classes a week. It is the bare minimum, I actually hope to do 3-4 a week but work is nuts in the first 2 weeks of the month with meetings that run on and on, unfortunately, leaving because you have a class is frowned upon!
2 x 30 minute walks Monday to Friday. I’ve been doing this more or less since the tube strikes and walking is good for you…
Yoga before bed every day. As part of having a proper bedtime routine and wind down before lights out, which is 10pm Sunday to Thursday.
With the exception of Kathy’s birthday and maybe champagne when the newest member of the family arrives, September is a no alcohol month. I don’t view my drinking as excessive but with birthdays, holidays, a night at Christelle and Mike’s and a wedding, my consumption was higher than usual in August and I’m feeling a bit jaded, so a small period of abstinence is probably no bad thing!
HOME (BOOKS)
This is another more of the same goal, don’t buy any books…
HOME GENERAL
It’s pretty tidy at the moment but there are a couple of things that I need to attend to.
MONEY
This is more of the same, stick to the budget. You know actually stick to it rather than just barely avoiding disaster every month…
These slides
This
This nephew
This mother
This godchild
And all of them plus Ben, Lu and Jo in one place!
Art from the children of friends and that they’re here for good (hurrah for the legal system finally sorting itself out!)
Allotment open day
This wedding
And my favourite photo of the whole day (taken by Justin!)
I took a holiday. It was lovely, I really needed the time away from work! I had the week off to go to Ryan and Claire’s wedding.
In my head, Ryan is still the cute five year old I used to read stories to and chase around the park. In fact, he is a grown man who despite being a total drama queen, is responsible (as much as any of us are!), kind, occasionally wise and now married!
It was a pretty good wedding and it was lovely to catch up with everyone. I read something the other day and this really stayed with me
family, as a concept, isn’t fixed to marriage. It is a fluid relationship of intimacies between communities that aren’t always confined to blood.
I really love the irony of feeling that at a wedding, Tom, who is one of Sarah’s best friends said that he felt that Sarah’s friends were part of his extended community too. It’s one of Sarah’s gifts, she collects us and makes us family and it’s a gift Ryan inherited.
Happy Friday! Today is the last day in August that I have to be in the office and despite already having had 2 days of this month, I cannot wait! Here are this week’s links
Lovin’ their elevator: why Germans are loopy about their revolving lifts. Are we sure that they aren’t called paternosters because that’s the prayer you utter when in one? I bet David Cameron has never been compared to a lift…
Strohschneider believes the reason why many paternosters still exist in Germany, relative to elsewhere in Europe, is because they suit the “German penchant for reliability, efficiency and resistance to change. They are like Angela Merkel. They’ve been around a long time, they work well and because of that they give us a sense of security.”
When keeping a child from their mother is in their best interests I was shouting at the radio last week when the Latvian guy was defending the ‘maternal feelings’ of the mother.
In March 2010, when CB was aged 22 months, she was found alone at home after the landlord had called the police. The little girl was wet and shivering. She had not been changed or cleaned all day. There were dried faeces on her body and her skin was soaked in urine that had leaked from her nappy and gone through her clothes, causing dermatitis.
If she could leave her child in that state, I question those maternal feelings. Look I understand that parents mess up and need help to change behaviour. I also know that the kind of help required take time and money and should not be at the expense of a child’s right to be safe and feel love. I’m a bit biased about this especially at the moment, I’ve seen what happens when children who’ve been neglected are placed in a family, they blossom but what happened to them leaves scars. So I have very little for the birth mother and huge amounts of sympathy for that little girl and her adoptive parents who have given her what she needs and been her parents and have been waiting for that to be legal.
ISIS Enshrines a Theology of Rape This is just..I don’t have words for this. I know that Islamic concept of God is different from the Christian concept and that Christians have (and still do) use the Bible to justify slavery. It confirms my belief that all fundamentalist religion has very little to do with God but is about control and justification of whatever the hell you want, which is the opposite of faith.
“I said to him, ‘She’s just a little girl,’ ” the older woman recalled. “And he answered: ‘No. She’s not a little girl. She’s a slave. And she knows exactly how to have sex.’ ’’
“And having sex with her pleases God,” he said.
Increase in applications for dual nationality before the vote on staying in the EU. We’ve been talking about this and I’m still considering applying for an Irish passport if vote goes for exit. I’m not sure what happens to Christelle and my other friends from EU countries who lived here for ages…
We must resist the allotment land grab. I don’t have a garden or windowsills or a balcony, I can’t really grow anything useful at the moment and the waiting list is 4 plus years. My local allotments already only give half plots anything smaller is probably a bit useless if you don’t have a car or a garden.
Supermarket gins win a taste test. I want a list of all the gins they tasted because it seems to me that this is about basic gins such as Gordons, as opposed to say the glory that is Plymouth or Sipsmith.