Sunday Music

Bank of Skulls – I Know What I Am

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Weekend Tasklist

This more or less worked for me last weekend, so I’m going to reinstate it, probably until spring when housework comes more naturally to me! This weekend is pretty quiet, Christelle is coming over today and there’s Grace tonight and Ma is coming for lunch on Sunday! So I can’t spent all weekend reading (although that was pretty much all of Friday night!). So here’s the list, not very different from any other week really…

Kitchen

  • General clean (sort out the recycling and rubbish, mopping the floor and general cleaning)

CookingIMG_3051

  • Food prep for next week.
    • Sort out yoghurt pots
    • Lunches for the week
    • Make bread
    • Make stock
    • Cook chickpeas and black beans

Bathroom

  • General clean (mop floor, change towels, empty bin, clean bath, sink and toilet)

BedroomIMG_2726

  • General clean (sweep floor, change bed, dust, general tidy)

Living RoomIMG_3150

  • General clean (sweep floor, dust, tidy sofa, put things away etc)
  • Clean window surrounds

Hall

  • Hoover

General things

  • Shopping
  • Washing (clothes wash, white wash, towel wash)
  • Ironing
  • Wash make up brushes
  • Water plants
  • Back up laptop
  • Charge kindle, ipad and camera batteries
  • Handwashing
  • Exercise
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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s been a busy work week (do I say that every week?) and I had to take an afternoon to go and see this little boy..IMG_3373-0

Yep, the newest Dempsey made his entrance on Tuesday. He’s gorgeous and cuddly and looks so much like his big brother. Also babies do have a habit of putting a stressful work week in perspective especially as aunts as a general rule don’t suffer from child induced lack of sleep!

Anyway, there will be a lot more gushing about my lovely nephews later, here are this week’s links.

Why you should start work later if you’re under 50. I knew it!

The Walkie Talkie is a sty in London’s eye – and proves we can’t say no to money. London only works with balance and it’s not balanced anymore….

The NFL and concussion. This is the GQ article that inspired the forthcoming Will Smith film. The article was fascinating, I wonder how the Premier League and FIFA would react to something similiar…

David Cameron should suspend NI devolution. Well it’s a thought. It the DUP honestly felt Stormont was done, they wouldn’t have left one minister there with the power of veto over appointments to government. It’s time that the whole lot of them (on both sides) got over themselves and started to actually work it out but it’s more than time that the Unionists grew up.

Let Elizabeth reign and then let’s get rid of the monarchy. Yep. It’s not that I hate her or anyone else in her family, I just don’t think that monarchy is good for the country and although I think that this Queen keeps to the bounds of her role, I don’t think that Charles would and I don’t think that we should pay for them.

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Chocolate Birthday Cake

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This is my new holy grail of chocolate birthday cake from Nigella Lawson. What I love best about it, is that it all gets done in the food processor, the frosting too…

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Life Happened: Back to work

Last Monday was a bank holiday, the last one until Christmas! Ma had stayed the night before and breakfast was homemade bread and jam.IMG_3362It was rainy and gross but I ventured out and spent the afternoon at Kathy and Adam’s, with the over tired children (and adults).

Tuesday was back to work and it was a pretty quiet week because I was busy at work and trying to get back into a routine.

Weekend highlights were pizza on Friday nightIMG_3365 cleaning the oven (not pictured!) and making Kathy a birthday cakeIMG_3367When I finally shook the headache I’d had for most of Friday and Saturday, (apparently the cure was a Manhattan – which is worrying!) I went to Kathy’s to celebrate her birthday, it was lovely to catch up with people and reminds me that I need to try and get to Grace more often!

I would like to say that Sunday was all about housework but it would be a lie, I did some but I mostly read books!

This week is more of the same, a busy work week, getting back to body balance and waiting for the new baby. It’s official due date is today, Lu must be ready to pop!

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Sunday Music

Judah and the Lion – Back’s Against the Wall

It’s a bit Mumford & Sons but I love it…

here now I have been set free/fear has got no grip on me

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Weekend Tasklist

07/09/2015 – I’ve been not exactly sick this weekend but was under the weather and not feeling my sparkly best, so I’m ok with what I didn’t do, but I will try to do most of it during the week. It’s worth noting that the things I didn’t get to are the things I don’t like doing (hoovering and cleaning the floors are the one housework chore I would pay someone to do! It’s a loathing I come by honestly – it’s Ma’s most hated job too!) or required too much effort, it’s easy to change the bed but ironing means getting the iron and ironing board set up! 

Because Saturday is slightly jam packed (allotment volunteering, making a birthday cake, helping Kathy set up for her party, going to said party) and because I’m all about trying to be more intentional and organised this month. I’m bringing back the weekend tasklist! I’m going to update it as I go, so if you’re bored and want check what I’ve managed to do, come back on Sunday night and have a look!

Kitchen

  • General clean (sort out the recycling and rubbish, mopping the floor and general cleaning)
  • Clean the oven

CookingIMG_3051

  • Food prep for next week.
    • Bake Kathy’s cake
    • Make muffins
    • Make bread

Bathroom

  • General clean (mop floor, change towels, empty bin, clean bath, sink and toilet)

BedroomIMG_2726

  • General clean (sweep floor, change bed, dust, general tidy)

Living RoomIMG_3150

  • General clean (sweep floor, dust, tidy sofa, put things away etc)

Hall

  • Hoover

General things

  • Shopping
  • Washing (clothes wash, white wash, towel wash)
  • Ironing
  • Wash make up brushes
  • Water plants
  • Back up laptop
  • Charge kindle, ipad and camera batteries
  • Handwashing
  • Exercise

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! Last week’s impromptu blog holiday means that some of these links are a bit old but never mind!

Affordable sparkling wines that aren’t Prosecco. Ha! the Charles de Fère Brut is currently my favourite fizz and I bought 6 when it was £7 a bottle and 25% off six!

New Zealanders cull the wrong bird. File under not sure whether to laugh or cry but they’ve reduced the population by 5% so I’m going with cry

New London Theatre. Could be interesting.

‘Affordable’ shared ownership flat for £1 million.

Where could you buy a house in England and Wales. It’s not good for me, 77% of the country is out of my price range. I can’t even afford Amble and I’d need another 100k or so to afford anywhere where I currently live..

America should do better with gun control

PMS Survival Kit. Bring it too me now, preferable with a tub of ice cream and a gin and tonic…

Tom Holland on the ruins at Palmyra  ISIS is not medieval, but they are barbaric and blowing up history is actually the least worst thing they are doing.

The hypocrisy of the West about the ‘migrant crisis’. I’m really struggling with this but this is about right..

it is just standard Western hypocrisy laid a little more bare than usual. If you actually want to help Syrian refugee children like the little boy in the viral photo, it’s not enough to care about this single dead child; you have to care about living refugee kids too, and in fact you also have to care about living refugee adults. If the image of the Syrian refugee boy made you feel something, that’s great, but it only matters for making an actual difference in the world if you can apply those feelings to living refugees as well.

 

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August Recap/September Goals

I really enjoyed August, it was a proper holiday month. There was my birthday and Ryan’s wedding and 7 days off work. It was lovely.

  • I had 1 migraine this month, on a day off no less, but I can lay the blame on that firmly on having too much fun, booze and late nights on my week off at the end of the month.
  • It was an ok month for exercise. I haven’t been regular with the body balance classes but I have taken up a 30-ish minute walk as part of my journey to and from work. It’s a really good way for me to mark the change between work and home. Over August, I’ve taken nearly 300,000 steps, which given that I didn’t wear the fitbit for quite a lot of the last week in August is pretty good.
  • My eating has been much the same, my sleep has been much the same, I’m still 4 to 5 hours a night, not great but not too bad for me.
  • I bought 4 books last month which means I can only buy 5 this year but I’m on the home straight with only 4 months of the year left and no trip to Barter Books in October.
  • The house is tidy and clean but that’s about it. I need to clean the oven again!
  • I barely stuck to the budget this month there was too much fun happening in August!

September Plans and Goals

September is not a very busy month. I have an allotment volunteer day, 2 birthday parties, for a 43 and a 4 year old. Waiting for the new niece or nephew, due any day now! Mostly though September is a month for getting back on track. It’s been more than 20 years since I was tied to the school/uni calendar but September is the time to clean up my act and get back into a routine. Also, although the clocks don’t go back until the end of October, it’s darker in the morning and evenings and that makes mornings harder to deal with, so this month has to be about forming the habits that will (hopefully) ensure that I’m not a wibbering heap of SAD when the lack of sun really kicks in on the lead up to Christmas!

BODY & MIND

I know that exercise is good for mild depression (which is essentially what SAD is for me) so I need to exercise a bit, I’m starting (actually started) doing 20 squats, 10 sit-ups, 10 press-ups: and a 10 sec plank every day. It isn’t much at all but I’m increasing the first three by one and the plank by 2 sec each morning. By the end of the month I’ll be doing 49/39 and a plank for over a minute. Which gives me a good base for October.

2 body balance classes a week. It is the bare minimum, I actually hope to do 3-4 a week but work is nuts in the first 2 weeks of the month with meetings that run on and on, unfortunately, leaving because you have a class is frowned upon!

2 x 30 minute walks Monday to Friday. I’ve been doing this more or less since the tube strikes and walking is good for you…

Yoga before bed every day. As part of having a proper bedtime routine and wind down before lights out, which is 10pm Sunday to Thursday. 

With the exception of Kathy’s birthday and maybe champagne when the newest member of the family arrives, September is a no alcohol month. I don’t view my drinking as excessive but with birthdays, holidays, a night at Christelle and Mike’s and a wedding, my consumption was higher than usual in August and I’m feeling a bit jaded, so a small period of abstinence is probably no bad thing!IMG_2825

HOME (BOOKS)

This is another more of the same goal, don’t buy any books…photo

HOME GENERAL

It’s pretty tidy at the moment but there are a couple of things that I need to attend to.

  • Clean the oven (again!)
  • Clean the living room windows, these windows have been open most of the summer and the surrounds of them are filthy and need a good scrub
  • I need another bedroom clear out, I still have too much stuff!

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MONEY

This is more of the same, stick to the budget. You know actually stick to it rather than just barely avoiding disaster every month…

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What I’ve Read – August 2015

August has been a month of easy reading, I had access to a friend’s ebooks this month so there was so much new stuff to read and didn’t read anything too taxing, there was a lot of romance. It was also the month of a lot of reading, I was a reading machine..

Blood of Tyrants – Naomi Novik (library e-book)

This is my last Temeraire novel until the last one comes out next year and it was all the things I like about the series but I’m really tired of the villains of the piece being the Admiralty and co, when they are fighting Napoleon. I know that most of the world views Napoleon as a genius and this is alternate history but the Russian campaign was the beginning of the end for Napoleon, it was the point at which his arrogance outran his supposed genius and the book finishes with him turning around his loss and seemingly about to take Russia, I don’t like him to win, even in fiction. If the next book is last one, he better end up defeated!

The Royal We – Jessica Morgan and Heather Cocks  (borrowed)

This is clearly based on Prince William and Kate Middleton. Changing some key stuff and giving us a different Royal Family. It needed a British editor, posh girls from Yorkshire (the sort that are on first name terms with Royals) do not speak with Yorkshire accents, they speak in RP or for that matter know Cockney Rhyming Slang (which I am thankful they didn’t try to write, just referenced), port is just called port here not port wine and the last and most egregious thing for me was describing Shepherds Bush as arty. Shepherds Bush is halfway between where I grew up and where I live now. My dad grew up there, my mum used to work there and while I accept that it’s up and coming with a Westfield there nowadays, I can’t swallow it being described as arty! All of that makes it seem like I didn’t enjoy it, but I really did..

The Understatement of the Year – Sarina Bowen (Kindle TBR List)

This is the third book in the Ivy League series and it’s as readable and sweet as the others, what makes it stand out is that the couple are gay, both hockey players. One out and coping with all the nonsense that entails in a macho sport and one very firmly in the closet. It doesn’t brush over the difficulties of that situation but it also doesn’t make it all about that. I’m so glad that Bowen tackled it and if I could pick a grandma, I want the one in this book!

The Shameless Hour – Sarina Bowen (borrowed)

I’m not sure how I feel about ‘the incident’ but I liked that it dealt with it but I think this is an upbringing and generational thing for me because I couldn’t relate to what happened to Bella. The being in control of your sexuality thing and not being ashamed I understand but it seemed to me that Bella was ashamed and her sleeping around was 50% ’cause she wanted to and 50% acting out at what happened with her family. What happened was horrible but the way she internalised it, it seems to me that she was ashamed. The other part of it that I don’t get is being around people who would sleep with her and act like she should be ashamed or dirty. I guess that this is generational because I think that for all society is supposed to be more open and liberated, in terms of sex and enjoyment of sex, attitudes to sex are much more Victorian than they’ve been for a while. Now the argument may be that it was ever thus but my experience is that if men/boys have that attitude and membership of a fraternity that has a ‘slut of the week’ contest may be a clue, you don’t bloody sleep with them or hang out there by yourself and this is not about putting the blame for sexual assault on women, it’s about being realistic AND valuing yourself. I wouldn’t be friends with someone who didn’t value my, why would I sleep with them?

Beautiful Secret – Christina Lauren (borrowed)

I’ve just realised how many books I’ve read this month have characters who’ve been sexually assaulted in them. In this instance, it felt unnecessary, like it was a way of giving Ruby some depth. It didn’t really gel for me, I was more interested in why one of the friends (clearly from an earlier book) referred to the wife of a mate as ‘the Dark One’.

Helen of Sparta – Amalia Carosella (Kindle TBR List)

Well in this instance the rape of Helen is the least of the horrible stuff. It ends with Helen going back to Sparta to be married to Melanaus (and we know what happens then) and Thesus trapped in the underworld. It made for good but uncomfortable reading, with questions about fate and agency and control.

The Deal – Elle Kennedy (borrowed)

The Mistake – Elle Kennedy (borrowed)

The Duality Principle – Rebecca Grace Allan (borrowed)

The Hierarchy of Needs – Rebecca Grace Allan (borrowed)

The Hurricane – R.J Prescott (borrowed)

Getting to Her – Erin Nichols (borrowed)

Firelight – Kristen Callihan (borrowed)

Bittersweet – Noelle Adams (borrowed)

Getting to Her – Erin Nichols (borrowed)

Three Weeks with Lady X – Eloisa James (Kindle TBR)

This was so funny, I need to check out more of James’ books..

Welcome to the Shadowhunter Academy – Cassandra Clare & Sarah Rees Brennan (library e-book)

The Lost Herondale – Cassandra Clare & Robin Wasserman (library e-book)

The Marriage Contract – Katee Robert (borrowed)

First Time in Forever – Sarah Morgan (borrowed)

Nothing But Shawdows -Cassandra Clare & Sarah Rees Brennan (library e-book)

The Whitechapel Fiend – Cassandra Clare and Maureen Johnson (library e-book)

The Evil We Love – Cassandra Clare & Robin Wasserman (library e-book)

Getting Over It – Erin Nichols (bought)

Heat Exchange – Shannon Stacey (bought)

The Queen of the Tearling – Erika Johansen (bought)

I loved this, I’ve got the next one on order from the library…

Fangirl – Rainbow Rowell (re-read)

My Life Next Door – Huntley Fitzpatrick (re-read)

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