Allotment Adventures: Lazy Weekend

This was another week of doing very little and it was still a bit too windy for comfort. We walked to the plot, emptied food scraps into the compost bin and coffee grounds onto the blueberries, chatted to my plot neighbour about the where another of our plot neigbours was because we hadn’t seen him. Bought some compost and bird food and made sure that the bird feeders were topped up.

We didn’t do much else because honestly the weather wasn’t good and there isn’t an awful lot to do. Weather permitting, next week we’ll sow or plant something.

Meanwhile, the celery came up.

And the potatoes are chitting away

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Monday Miscellany:

Happy Monday!

Last week felt much longer than it actually was, this is because I had a cold. I really hate having colds. I still have a sore throat but am mostly much better, six years ago, I caught a cold that wouldn’t die and it turned out it was bronchitis. That started a run of colds that turned into something else usually featuring a hacking cough and ultimately lead to an adult asthma diagnosis. Things have been much better but when I catch a cold, I always worry that it’s going to linger and not just be a cold!

Although cold filled, the rest of the week was pretty good. I worked from home so the plumber could change the taps in the kitchen and the bathroom, my poor landlord is coming to terms with the fact that the kitchen is in dire need of replacement. It wasn’t looking great when I moved in and it’s been 10 years, I’m worried that my rent is increasing this year (along with my energy bills, my council tax, my water bill, my broadband and my mobile phone bills).

So the good news is that I got a bonus and a small pay rise. I wasn’t expecting either so I’m made up.

I’m coping well with my Lent resolutions, I’ve not eaten crisps, sweets or chocolate although I did make a small exception this week for cough sweets to prevent coughing on the tube and in the office. This week the food bank donations were tinned veg and Smash. I always buy things on the list, having sorted out approximately 4,000 packets of pasta, I buy what they are asking for, no food bank is ever short of baked beans!

This week is work, I’m learning something new, which is both daunting and fun for my brain and we have an all department function on Thursday afternoon. Outside of work cinema on Wednesday night (Captain Marvel) and Sarah is staying on Thursday night!

I’m determined it will be a good week, let’s see if I manage it!!

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Sunday Music: Danny Boy – The Muppets

It’s St Patrick’s Day and while I’m mostly allergic to most of the ‘paddywackery’ that goes on, I will put aside my objections for whiskey (this year – Jamesons Caskmates Stout Edition) and the Muppets….

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Friday Links: Zombie Prime Minister

Happy Friday!

I woke up this morning to the news of a massacre in New Zealand, which is horrific. The Brexit car crash continues on and I honestly think that the only things to do is have a referendum on the choices because Parliament can’t work this one out. Anyway, here are some links for this week, apologies for how grim they are!

As the losses take their toll, May is now a leader in name only

Even cabinet unity is a distant memory. Something Philip Hammond made no attempt to conceal during his spring statement. Normally these occasions are red letter days in parliament, but with the general level of clusterfuckery at Defcon 1 this was a total non-event.

Hypnotised by cake and unicorns, the Brexit perfectionists have blown it

Don’t Expect Theresa May to Put Country Over Party

The Most Absurd Details From the College Admissions Scandal Indictment

Will Bibles designed for the Instagram generation get millennials into religion? So £60-ish for a hardback and £30-ish for a paperback. The Bible in a consumerist world….

Chimpanzees Are Going Through a Tragic Loss

The People Who Eat the Same Meal Every Day

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Allotment Adventures: Windy

I had grand plans for the weekend on the plot but honestly it was too windy, things were zooming across the plot. But we now have all three beds in, if not filled.I cut the verbena back but decided to leave the rosemary until next month. We harvested kale, leeks and chard and got very excited about the new leaves/buds on the gooseberries, raspberries, plum tree, blueberries and rhubarb.

I had my usual March/April envy of Dennis’ rhubarb (which he doesn’t even like!)Hopefully over the next two weeks, the weather will co-operate and we’ll get more done.

  • Build new bed
  • Sow celery, leeks, sweet peas and beetroot (indoors to go into cloche once up and growing!)
  • Trim the rosemary and verbena bonariesis
  • Have a bonfire
  • Sow peas, spring onions, carrots and parsley (outdoors later in March)
  • Tidy edges of the plot – nearly there
  • Grease bands on the plum tree
  • Paint the shed inside and out
  • Plant up the walking onions
  • Plant potatoes in sacks (mid month)
  • Sort out a water but
  • Fill all the new beds with compost
  • Dig up lemon balm and put in pot

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Monday Miscellany: Another cold

Happy Monday!

Last Thursday, I went down to Southampton for a team building day at FareShare. It was fun and one of my colleagues, who lives near my mum, gave me a lift down. He had a cold and on Saturday night, I realised that I had a cold too!

I’m not impressed with my immune system. In fact given that on Tuesday night I had a PMT migraine and right now have a spotty hormonal chin, I’m just over my body full stop. I’ve also given up sweets, chocolate and crisps for Lent and whilst technically I can eat those things on a Sunday, I’m not but I can’t really be arsed to cook either!

So apart from feeling dreadful, this week, I’m all about getting by and early nights. On Tuesday I’m going to see Captain Marvel but other than than, I’m drink Night Nurse and trying not to sneeze or cough on anyone!

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Friday Links: Pathetic Bribery

Happy Friday!

So I’ve been away from my computer since Wednesday night. No doubt since then something blew up or was set on fire! But yesterday was World Book Day and today is International Women’s Day. So it a good week for me!

I backed Sadiq Khan – but now his racist minicab policy has betrayed me. This will make my brother’s head explode! Without the explosion, I agree with him. Black cab drivers are majority white working class but there’s nothing to stop a minicab driver doing the knowledge. Cab drivers who do pass the Knowledge are subject to more rules than minicab drivers. If it doesn’t reduce pollution, it’s not a good policy but I don’t believe it’s a racist one.

May’s Brexit bung to the north is pathetic. It changes nothing

The End Is Nigh for Netanyahu. Netanyahu is a crook so let’s hope so…

The Aldi effect: how one discount supermarket transformed the way Britain shops

Some sackcloth and ashes can do us all good – that’s why I love Lent. It’s not a month Dawn, it’s 6 weeks. I always do the full six weeks but Lent is technically 40 days. So it’s six weeks with all the Sundays taken out (Sundays are always feast days!). That’s the Roman Catholic Church for you, there’s always a get out clause!

Ilhan Omar Has a Point. Nice to see that the Labour Party isn’t the only one struggling with this.

How did home cooking become a moral issue?

World Book Day: Without libraries we are less human and more profoundly alone

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What I’ve Read – February 2019

We’re into the third month of the year and I’m feeling pretty good about my reading year so far. Just to recap, I really, really want to get the TBR pile down this year, in January it was at roughly 133 (I thought it was 131 but didn’t count two books sitting next to my bed!) and I’ll like to have it down to under 70 by the end of June. It’s currently running at 117, I’ve taken 15 off the pile so far but I need to read 47 books between now and then so no pressure!

I haven’t included books that were pre-ordered in this list so new books will make their way onto the monthly lists but I’m trying really hard not to buy anything else until I have the numbers down. I think it’s realistic to have a TBR pile/list of about 20 and that’s what I’m aiming for by the end of 2019. However, 97 books between now and next year might be a stretch!

The Something Girl – Jodi Taylor

This was a sequel to The Nothing Girl which I read last month and it’s not as good. It’s still funny but it lacked something.

Taking It Easy – Erin Nicholas

Nice and Easy – Erin Nicholas

They were both were nice and easy to read. Erin Nicholas books are simple, they don’t tax my brain mostly because anything in these books that would stand out for someone from New Orleans, I can’t see. It’s pretty simple and they are nice, everyone does the right thing, people help one another and it’s all good.

City of Jasmine – Deanna Raybourn

This was a Barter Books buy when we were up in Northumberland and my recent tearing through of the Veronica Speedwell books sent me to it. I enjoyed it, I’d read the other 1920’s book of Raybourn’s, A Spear of Summer Grass and enjoyed it and I enjoyed this too. I’m not convinced that they’ll be happy but I enjoyed it.

The Fever King – Victoria Lee

This was a free Amazon monthly read and I really wanted to like it but I didn’t. It started off fairly well but the politics of the world weren’t clear enough for me to understand what the hell was going on. It felt muddled and messy and as it’s a trilogy, the end was ambiguous but I’m not interested enough to continue.

Rock Needs River – Vanessa McGrady

This was also a free Amazon monthly read. Although this has been tagged as a book about how McGrady took in the birth parents of her adopted daughter, it’s more than that. The birth parents living with her and her daughter is the dramatic part of the story but it’s not the entire story, which is about why McGrady wanted to be and then how she became a parent. It reads quite distant. I’m beginning to think this is a cultural different in American and British writing styles, I notice it more in journalism. McGrady writes about how she met her husband and married him and then broke up with him without ever really acknowledging her role in the breakup of his previous marriage, or the possible alcoholism that led to her leaving him. It could be that in trying to tell her story and be respectful of others, but it leaves you with the feeling that she’s trying to hard to be blameless. There are things that she clearly doesn’t want to or can’t write about; her marriage and what seems to be the mental illness of at least one of her daughter’s birth parents. There are lots of assumptions about adopted children that I’m not sure that I agree with. I’m not sure that all children have a primal wound from the adoption process, some may struggle but to view adopted children as ‘broken’ from the beginning of the process seems wrong.  We don’t say that about children born of surrogates (well at least not that I’ve seen) or of children who have dead parents. We acknowledge that there could be issues and address them, an example is in the book she made adoption so normal in her home, that her kid didn’t realise that not all children were adopted!

Pretty Face – Lucy Parker

Making up –Lucy Parker

I bought these ages ago, I really liked Act Like It, the first of the series and then I just didn’t get around to the next two. I liked both.  Its lovely when a book has people who aren’t perfect and aware of it. In Pretty Face, I thought that the handling of a relationship between and younger actress and older director was thoughtfully done with all due respect to not taking advantage. In Making Up, Trix is clearly damaged by a previous relationship and part of her happy ending is her getting help for that, not that love makes all trauma better. One thing that got me. American-isms. Pacifier for dummy. Two English people wouldn’t call it a pacifier but Lucy Parker lives in New Zealand. See this is why it’s much easier to read books not set where I live, I don’t know everything about living in London but I don’t know an English person that says pacifier. I also really love the ‘lets add a London landmark so people know where it’s set’ covers!

Dreaming of You – Lisa Kleypas

I mostly love Lisa Kleypas historicals but I’m still not sure I liked this. Derek’s lapses into ‘cocker-nee’ when stressed annoyed me and also it was a bit overwrought. The baddie of the piece was deserving of sympathy and she was so ridiculous and one sided, I ended up cross. It was also a bit weird as a reading experience because featured in the book is the grandfather of the heroine of the next book!

Devil’s Daughter – Lisa Kleypas

This made me much happier than Dreaming of You. Because I like West and we got to see more of Sebastian from ‘Devil in Winter’. Happy ending that I was more able to accept because both of them needed to get over themselves and their preconceived idea of who they were and what they deserved!

Only a Promise – Mary Balogh (re-read)

Which I enjoyed again and read on a Sunday afternoon. There is a gentleness to this series that I required.

All the Ways to Ruin a Rogue – Sophie Jordan

This has been sitting on my Kindle since January 2017 and I should have left it there. I also should have stopped reading this when I realised how much it was annoying me. I didn’t. I can’t put my finger on what it was but it just really made me cross.

Finder – Emma Bull

I loved this because I know nothing about Bordertown or the other books/stories set there. But I really enjoyed this, the ending was both sad and hopeful.

Remember How I Told You I Love You – Gillian Linden

This is a set of loosely connected short stories and by the end of them, I just didn’t see the point of any of them. I don’t know, they were disconnected and distant, no-one in them seemed to feel anything or do much either.

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Allotment Adventures: Black Gold

It’s Wednesday and I’m not entirely recovered from the workout the plot gave me on the weekend.

On Friday, I sowed sweet peas, leeks and celery and Ma made some decisions on which types of tomatoes, cucumbers and squash we were going to grow this year.

Saturday was the volunteer morning, so the plan was that I would go and help the volunteers and Ma would weed (and compost around the rhubarb). The focus of the volunteer work was to clear and tidy the communal compost heaps. We have six or so massive ones that we use for the green waste from the site and the Radbourne Walk, some plotholders have been dumping their waste too and they were over full and hadn’t been cleared in about three years. So we emptied them, sorted burning stuff from compostable stuff as we did so and wheelbarrowed out anything that was compost, which we split amongst ourselves!

By the time we got to lunch, I had three wheelbarrows worth of compost to sieve and we were all pretty tired! Ma and I then went and collected our lawn edging and some more compost for the new blueberry I bought on Thursday from Morrisons. So we have four right now and I’m waiting for the other two I ordered via Kitchen Garden!

I planted the blueberry in a bucket and we got on with building the new beds, only to discover that we had eight not ten! So we got one more bed built but we have one more to do next week. The new bed is not straight but by the time we realised, neither of us were up for re-doing it. Ma carried on with her epic weeding of the side of the plot, seriously, there’s nothing she can’t do if you give her a garden fork and a pair of scissors! And I started to sieve compost, and sieve and sieve….

When Ma decided that we needed to remove a pole that had been sticking out of the ground left over from the raspberry framing we got rid of a couple of weeks ago, it was a welcome break but felt like digging to Australia and my arms and shoulders are still sore but it’s gone!

We did have a pile of things to burn but weren’t doing very well, when one of the committee members who was burning all of the non-compostable stuff from the morning, asked us if we wanted to put our stuff on it. Simon is the king of the bonfires and yes we really did!

I got the missing two pieces of lawn edging on Sunday and they are on the plot waiting for the weekend.

So we have a tidy plot, almost all the beds we need and sore backs, it just needs to get a little warmer and I’ll be at the ‘plant all the things’ stage of the allotment year! The march list is looking longer but I’m feeling good about it..

  • Build new bed
  • Sow celery, leeks, sweet peas and beetroot (indoors to go into cloche once up and growing!)
  • Trim the rosemary and verbena bonariesis
  • Have a bonfire
  • Sow peas, spring onions, carrots and parsley (outdoors later in March)
  • Tidy edges of the plot – nearly there
  • Grease bands on the plum tree
  • Paint the shed inside and out
  • Plant up the walking onions
  • Plant potatoes in sacks (mid month)
  • Sort out a water but
  • Fill all the new beds with compost
  • Dig up lemon balm and put in pot

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Lent

Ash Wednesday is tomorrow and signifies the beginning of Lent, it’s significant in the Christian calendar and is traditionally marked with fasting and prayer because Lent is usually slap bang in the middle of the hungry gap and the Church loves to make a virtue of a necessity!

I’ve been thinking about what if anything I’m going to do to mark the season, it’s tricky as I don’t really feel part of Grace for various reasons and not having a church community makes it difficult but I do find Lent useful for lots of reasons. So this is what I’m going to do.

  • Communion once a week. I miss the simplicity of Mass and the Eucharist for the simple way that it grounds me spiritually (yes I’m aware of how pretentious that sounds but it’s true nevertheless!) and I happen to be working practically next door to St Paul’s Cathedral and they have daily Eucharist at 8am. So I’m going to put the two together.
  • Stations of the Cross. I actually wrote a Stations of the Cross meditation and although I’m not going to do it repeatedly, I’m going to do once station a day until Good Friday. So I start on 6 April.
  • Donate to the Foodbank. I do this fairly often but I’m not consistent, so over Lent, three items weekly when I do my shop as part of my food budget.
  • Fast. I’m not big on deprivation but I have a sweet tooth that really needs reining in. So I’m going to give up sweets and chocolate for the duration and that means no cheating on Sundays. Every time I would have bought sweets or chocolate, I can add the money to a pot and use it to buy more stuff for the foodbank after Lent. So it’s improving for me and the world just a little bit!
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