Random

Random Links to stuff I found interesting this week.

First a warning, some of these links are about Gaza. Thankfully there is (well at least at the time I set this up to post!) a ceasefire.  Regardless, everyone has a view, this week someone told me that talking to terrorists never solved the problem or got the terrorists what they wanted. I don’t agree, in Northern Ireland, we have something approaching peace for the first time in years because of talking. It’s not perfect and there’s work to do but Northern Ireland is a much less scary place than it used to be. Israel is a state founded on terrorism (this list for example) that they don’t apologise or accept responsibility for, yet they accuse Hammas of the same thing, it’s always changing and it’s always the same. My point is that one person’s freedom fighting is another’s act of terrorism.

I’m not sure that anyone will comment but if you do, keep it civil. Talking and listening are important.

1) I thought this might make me cross, it didn’t

One good lesson I am learning this week is to shut up and listen. Because the only way to cut through the mutual agony here is to find people who have solutions and to hear what they have to say. Bombing the other side into oblivion is no more a solution than counting your dead children in public.

2) Why whatever happens in the occupied territories, Hammas wins

 (Netanyahu) may intellectually accept the possibility that the absence of meaningful negotiations actually empowers Hamas. But never emotionally. If you see the world through an us vs. them filter, you’re rarely responsible for the problem — it’s almost always the other guy’s fault.

4) Giles Fraser on photos of dead children

These images call me out of my ordinary day – but to God knows what. Do they amplify an instinct for revenge or an instinct for making peace?………..The danger is that one is left marooned in one’s own anger when the real challenge is to find some way forward – both emotionally and politically.

5) British Foreign policy that’s wrong, wrong, wrong

Ever since, Modi has been persona non grata in the west. The US refuse him visas; European diplomats will not shake his hand. Yet last month, for no obvious reason, the British government broke ranks and brought him in from the cold. For Modi, who contests state elections next month and wants a shot at running for prime minister in 2014, this was a massive boost. No sooner had he got the news than he convened a rally to announce that the British had rehabilitated him.

6) The UK’s last typewriter. I feel nostalgic for the my aching little fingers as I learnt to type in school.

8) The CofE still doesn’t have women bishops.

Again and again, opponents claimed they longed to see women bishops accepted by the whole church. Each time this happened, I had to pinch myself to remember that they were the bit of the church that didn’t and don’t accept women as bishops. If they want to see women bishops accepted by the whole church, all they need do is accept them

9) Given the awful things that are happening in the world right now. I really don’t think that the presence (or not) of donkeys at the birth of Jesus are really important. The Pope disagrees. Way to go Benedict….

“In the gospels there is no mention of animals,” the pope states. He says references to the ox and the donkey in other parts of the Bible may have inspired Christians to include them in their nativity scenes.

10) How to cope with a hangover.

If you must remain awake, there follows a period known as the “false dawn”, where you feel surprisingly OK. “I feel surprisingly OK!” you will say, thoughts turning to a full English, or an Egg McMuffin. I cannot advise this. The meat-sweats will make the Inevitable Dawn far, far worse. No, fruit sugars are most effective, banana on rye toast the advised breakfast. (Pret A Manger’s miso soup can also work wonders.) Spend the morning drinking green tea, take another Alka-Seltzer at 11am, and you should be good for the noon meeting.

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Oliver James…

Today is Oli’s third birthday. It’s hard to believe that this small boy has only been a member of our family for three years, it seems like he was always here and no time at all. Which I guess is the joy of children.

We love him so much, which is a good thing, ’cause we can’t take him back now!

 

 

 

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Bad News, Bad Weather and General Gloom

It’s November.

Israel and Hammas haven’t called a truce.

The Synod rejected the proposal for how the CofE have women bishops without offending people who believe that women shouldn’t have authority over men.

Chelsea have sacked Roberto Di Matteo.

It’s raining again.

However, I’m going to trudge on because I have hope and faith and that’s really all I can do.

The sun will shine at some point and the rest I can only pray about.

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Migraine

This isn’t a proper post today because yesterday I was sick with migraine.

Actually I was sick on the train to work and Hammersmith to Northfields is a long way to go on a train when you have vomit on your shoes.

Instead of whining about how painful they are and how horrible I felt, this is another ruined abbey in Yorkshire.  Jervaulx this time.

 

 

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The Weekend

This weekend started early because I had Friday off.

To go to the Sanctuary with Christelle. This was a present from Christelle for doing a reading at her and Mike’s wedding and being the witness and storing the wedding dress for 8 months..

So a day of lounging about, chatting and massage. There are worse ways of spending time.

By the time we finished there, we were pretty tired and I went home to a phone call from godson no. 1 and a general chat about life, the universe and Ryan’s travel plans for next  year. Ryan has had a tough couple of years and he’s coming out of it and making plans and generally being lovely.  Then Friday Night Pizza, this time with a new base from here, using yogurt instead of kefir and spelt flour that was 60% wholemeal spelt and 40% white spelt flour, I’m incapable of remembering what I need to buy unless I write it down, it worked as well but I need to remember not to overload it with toppings..

On Saturday, I pottered around the house and then went to meet Ma for the theatre, which due to a signal failure (thanks TfL) I nearly missed. I did get there in the nick of time and I got to assist some very confused American tourists on the Tube. Growing up and living in the city, I forget how overwhelming it can be to suddenly find yourself in a city, hopefully they’re a little less confused now…

The theatre was Uncle Vanya, the acting was great but it’s Chekov, people spend hours complaining that they are bored, that their lives have been or are being wasted and then they do precisely nothing to change that. Ma was far more irritated by it than I was and is about to put Chekov with the Greek plays as stuff she should avoid because she ends up wanting to slap some sense into all the major characters, I am of the opinion that they could do with a bit of stoicism…

After the Russian gloom, we thought a drink would be in order but the American Bar was too busy as was Rules. In the end we went to Bedford and Strand and worked out the logistics of Christmas. Ma is coming to mine for Christmas, mostly to avoid having a Christmas tree, which means that for the first time in ages, we will decorate the tree on Christmas Eve as is tradition…yay..

Then we went home, except I left my phone in the bar and had to go back for it. Thank goodness for honest people who hand stuff in and yes I am so very, very lucky.

I had a ton of stuff to do on Sunday morning and instead I read. Ma came over at midday, in the hired car, so we could go and put some flowers on the ‘plague’* and there were irises so we had to have them…

Then some food shopping and off to buy some compost. Homebase was full of Christmas Trees, which is it far to early for.

Home and I potted up a mint sprig and pruned the plant in the bathroom. I’m taking cuttings from it but I hate chopping back plants even though I know it’s better for them in the long run.

Sunday night prep for the coming week and so to bed.

What did you do at the weekend? More exciting than mine? (wouldn’t be hard!) or prep for the week to come?

*Grandad wrote us a letter with his last wishes and said that he wanted a plague next to Iris’ rose bush, instead of a plaque.

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Sunday Music

On Saturday morning this was on the radio and I remembered how much I liked it.

Sly & the Family Stone – Que Sera Sera

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Friday Night Cocktail

Inspiration for FNC comes from many places. Today it’s from The Faerietale Foodie.

I needed a drink that I could give to my strange friends that don’t like whiskey or gin. Obviously they are good friends because I still like them despite their obvious drinking flaws, so I wanted a cocktail that I would drink too. The Summer in a Glass works really well but takes forward thinking. What about when people just pop in unexpectedly?

When I saw this post, containing a recipe for a cocktail using vodka and elderflower liqueur and apricot jam, I knew I was onto something. All ingredients I have. Except not. No apricot jam. I have gooseberry, rhubarb and ginger, strawberry and vanilla, cherry, orange and lemon marmalade, all homemade, all delicious but no apricot. Which is annoying because I did consider making some this summer but opted not to.

So I used the gooseberry. Which I think worked really well with the elderflower.  This is a nicely balanced not too sweet, not too sour combination. I used Sipsmith vodka because that’s what I have in the cupboard, I think it’s a great all rounder and smoother than any other vodkas I’ve tried and it’s local!

What

50ml vodka

30ml elderflower liqueur

10ml lemon juice

1 teaspoon gooseberry jam

How

1) Fill a shaker with ice and pour all ingredients in.

2) Shake hard

3) Fine strain into a rocks glass filled with ice

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Random

There are things that I see or read and/or think that don’t really find a place on the rest of the blog or aren’t big enough to post about. So I’m dumping them here on a Friday morning.  If I don’t have anything that fits the above category, there won’t be a post. Sound good?

1) How the Aeron chair was designed.

2) Will Hutton makes the best argument for why privatisation of infrastructure isn’t working

3) Brilliant review of a terrible restaurant

4) The City of London Distillery (COLD) opened properly yesterday. Go and visit, or follow on twitter @COLDistillery or just be really happy about there being more good gin in world

5) This quote about Yotam Ottolenghi from The Kitchn:

‘Both chefs are passionate home cooks and in fact develop most of their recipes at home, with ingredients from the supermarket. Yotam explained it was very important to them that their cookbooks are accessible to people cooking at home, that they are not too fancy or chefy.’

I’ve heard such good things about Ottolenghi, and I have friends that adore Plenty and will run out to but the new book but where does he shop and have you seen his recipes in the Guardian on a Saturday? Minimum 10 ingredients last week and dried Iranian limes, this was a good week and maybe in a big city you could buy all the ingredients (hell I live in a big city, right next door to Southall and I struggle to find all the listed ingredients sometimes) I don’t buy it being for home cooks.  Sorry…

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Food I can’t live without

Everybody has food or something you will alway find in their fridges or cupboards. Their basics. I can tell you right now, that my mother always has fresh coffee, oatcakes, mint tea, HP sauce and salt and pepper in her house. Pretty much that’s all you can guarantee. Most of the time, you’ll also find tomatoes, cucumber, peppers, chicken, hummus, tinned mackrel and horseradish but these things are not guaranteed and never on a Friday!

I’m the same, there’s stuff I always have in the house, pretty much from when I left home; salt, pepper, coffee, olive oil, tomato ketchup and balsamic vinegar.

Then there’s the stuff that, right now, I can’t imagine not having in the house but may change, last year that was granola and lentils, this year the lentils remain but I don’t want granola and there isn’t any in the house. In September, I flirted with porridge, now it’s not a required food. I’ll probably go back to it at some point but right now it’s not making my heart sing, I’m having green smoothies for breakfast!

So this is the stuff that has been at the top of my shopping list for the last month or so.

1) Greek yogurt

A year ago if you had told me that I would be eating nearly a kg of greek yogurt a week, I would have laughed in your face. Cheese aside, I didn’t consume a lot of dairy based food and although I didn’t avoid yogurt, it wasn’t my go-to food. Ma reckons that my poor calcium deprived body has had enough and started to give me cravings. She may be right, last year I started to eat yogurt in my soup and then moved on to Greek yogurt because it has more protein and now I can’t do without it. I stir it into chilli and soups. Eat it with compote and fruit and put it in smoothies. My fridge without it seems impossible to imagine!

2) Beans

I blame this on the two vegetarian days a week. There is only so much cheese you can eat at dinner time! As soon as I started looking at vegetarian recipes, it became apparent that I was going to have to eat more beans. Chickpeas for hummus and this spinach chickpea thing. All sorts of beans for beer bean stew and for work lunches,  not to mention pancetta bean soup and lamb shanks. I cook big batches of them and freeze them so all they need is defrosting!

3) Eggs

I love eggs, I mostly used to have them for cakes, now eat at least 6 a week, in lunches, on top of things, poached eggs on toast is my favourite breakfast..

4) Applesauce

I make a batch of applesauce every week to go in my smoothies. As smoothies are my current favourite breakfast I can’t do without it.

What food can’t you live without at the moment? Is it a new thing or do you always have it in the fridge/cupboard?

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Meh

This is not a good week.

As weeks go, I’ve had worse and on paper this week is a pretty good one. I’m only at work for 4 days, I’m seeing people on Wed, Thurs and Friday, I’m swanning off to the Sanctuary for a day of relaxation and massage and I’m going to the theatre on a Saturday afternoon. Work isn’t very exciting but there have been things to do and no-one’s died.

However, it’s still not a good week. Things have gone wrong, burnt bread pudding, sore knee and let’s just not talk about how much I really need to do the ironing and generally clean the house, especially as people are coming for dinner this week and my usual ‘keeping it above the dysentery line’ standard of housekeeping will not do.

Everything feels like an obligation and I’m really, really tired despite getting enough sleep. I crave sugar and coffee and hibernation sounds just fabulous. Generally, I’m not nearly as pleased about the good things as I am about the bad and I don’t like it one little bit.

Yes, I do need to go and boil my head, snap out of it and generally buck up. I know this. I know that the only way to handle how I feel right now is to carry on as best I can and it will come right. It’s just so hard and I feel so rubbish for so many reasons and no reason at all.

I read something yesterday that exactly explained why I’m not having a good week. At Backwards in High Heels Tania Kindersley is talking about grief and while I’m not actively grieving anymore, in November this is a really good description of what happens to me.

“the proportion goes. Sadness removes all defences. So instead of taking it on the chin and making an alternative plan, like a grown-up, I whimpered and collapsed in a heap. This is what I discover, as I learn more about grieving. You can pull yourself together and concentrate on the good things and be determined and understand that life goes on. You can, if you are me, console yourself with love and soup and trees. But all it takes is one small thing, and suddenly I am undone, all over again. I am that line in Auden: nothing now can come to any good.”

Proportion has gone and everything is difficult.

This isn’t very cheerful so here’s some fluffy animals

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