Roasted Cauliflower

It’s a strange thing, my current love of cauliflower. It’s not that I don’t like cauliflower, I do, it’s just not one of my ‘go-to’ vegetables. My shopping basket will always have carrots and peppers in it and either leeks, spinach, maybe broccoli, sometimes greens or cabbage. I generally don’t think about cauliflower or buy cauliflower. Which is a shame as it tastes good and is good for you, it’s high in Vitamin C and other stuff.

But cauliflower seems to be everywhere I look at the moment, I’ve seen loads of recipes with cauliflower in them.  Eventually, I gave in and tried cauliflower mash. It was pretty good and then I saw a recipe for spiced roasted cauliflower.

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Roasting does work really well for cauliflower, it doesn’t get waterlogged and the spices and salt stop it from being bland. It also meets my criteria for cooking, involving very little faff.

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Spiced Roasted Cauliflower. (loosely adapted from Putney Farm.)

What

1 head of cauliflower

1 and a half tablespoons of olive oil

Half a tablespoon of sea salt

1 teaspoon ground cumin

1 teaspoon corriander seeds, crushed

1 teaspoon cumin seeds

1 teaspoon ground black pepper

How

1) Pre heat oven to Gas 7/220C/425F.

2) Chop up the cauliflower into chunks and place in baking tray.

3) In a small bowl mix up oil, salt and spices.

4) Pour over cauliflower and ensure the cauliflower is coated in the mixture.

5) Bake for 25 to 30 minutes, until the cauliflower is soft in the middle and golden on the outside.

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Gay marriage, or how not to argue against it…

On Friday, there was a piece on the Today programme about how many Tories were opposed to the proposed changes in the law to allow gay people to marry each other rather than have a civil partnership.

One of the major objections, was expressed thus “The State has no right to interfere in what constitutes marriage” I have heard this argument before and it’s often used in tandem with “Gay people have civil partnership and that should be enough.”

At this point I start shouting at the radio and swearing.

First, civil partnership, as my mother points out civil partnership is to all intents and purposes the same as civil marriage. It’s the difference between white coffee and coffee with milk, they are the same thing but we call them something different. If you are happy for gay people to have the benefit of civil marriage, and if you agree with civil partnership, you are, then why the need to call it something different?

If you believe that the Bible says that homosexuality is wrong and you don’t want your Church to do it. The proposed changes won’t force your church to do marry gay people and if you have a minister that wants to do that, you’ll need to fight it out in your Church. However, if your views are Biblically based, then you shouldn’t eat prawns or pork, not wearing fabrics made of mixed fibres or have a tattoo! (all banned by Leviticus). 

Personally, I think we should have one thing either civil marriage or civil partnership, for two adults regardless of their sexual orientation. You have that conducted in front of a registrar and have a separate ceremony in a Church. Like my parents did (admittedly, theirs were several years apart but the point stands)

Let’s move on to ‘the State shouldn’t change the definition of marriage’ argument. This seems to be based on the idea that the concept of what marriage is unchanging and that the State  has never interfered or made laws that changed that concept.

A brief glance at the history of marriage in the UK proves that wrong. So wrong, it’s a concept standing in a field with a 60ft flashing sign of wrongness.   A quick search on Wikipedia shows me that from 1540 to 2010, there have been 31 Acts of Parliament that have defined and re-defined what marriage could be in England and Wales. It changed who could marry, where they could marry and what constituted marriage.

Some examples:

  • The 1753 Marriage Act, (An Act for the Better Preventing of Clandestine Marriage), changed the definition of what constituted marriage in England. It said that for a marriage to be valid it had to be performed in a church and after the publication of banns or the obtaining of a licence. Further, it stated that if you were under the age of 21 you had to have parental consent to be married by licence. Jews and Quakers didn’t have to get married in a CofE Church but if you were a non conformist or a Catholic (both sides of my family) and didn’t get married in a CoE Church, according to law you weren’t married.
  • The Marriage Act of 1836, changed that though. This allowed for ministers belonging to non-Anglican churches to register marriages performed in their churches with the government, thus granting legal status to those marriages. From Wikipedia: One of the opponents of the bill was Henry Phillpotts, Bishop of Exeter. The Times of 13 October 1836 reports that he denounced the bill as being [3] “…a disgrace to British legislation. (It) is pretended to be called for to prevent clandestine marriages, but I think it will greatly facilitate such proceedings. Not solemnized by the church of England, may be celebrated without entering into a consecrated building, may be contracted by anybody, and will be equally valid, whether it takes place in the house of God, or in the house of a registering clerk, one of the lowest functionaries of the state. The parties may take one another for better and for worse, without calling God to witness their plighted troth. No blessing sought; no solemn vows of mutual fidelity; no religious solemnity whatever …” 
  • In 1907, the law on marriage changed to allow a man to marry his dead wife’s sister.

What marriage is, who may get married and what it means to be married. These things seem timeless but are in fact constantly changing and to say the State has never interfered is nonsense.

If you think that gay people shouldn’t be allowed to marry because it somehow diminishes marriage. Then admit that. I think that’s mad and I think deep down so do you, because straight people have been doing that for years and two people making a commitment to love and care for each other diminishes nothing.

But please don’t talk patent nonsense about marriage being unchanging and the State having no right to change the definition of marriage. It’s simply not true and an invalid argument.

 

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It’s him..

There was a press conference this morning, about a skeleton dug up from a car park in Leicester.

In the conference they confirmed that they have found the skeleton of Richard III. From the Guardian website:

Richard Buckley returns to announce the team’s conclusion.

He says that it is their academic view that “beyond reasonable doubt the individual exhumed at Grey Friars on September 12th is indeed Richard III, the last Plantagenet king of England”.

Now we’ve found him, maybe we could work on his reputation.  I’m strangely excited about this, Richard is my favourite English king.

I’m off to re-read Paul Kendall Murray’s biography of Richard. Or I would be if I was at home rather than work.

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(If you’re wondering about the picture, it’s Middleham, which was his castle and base before he was king.)

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The Weekend

Happy Monday! Are you excited to be back at work today? I’m excited because tonight I shall be seeing OCMS live and that makes me happy!

So the weekend. The first weekend of February was the  first of three that are going to be quite busy. If I’m going to stay in control of the flat, work and my mind, I need to be very organised. I started off  on Friday by getting two washes (of the five that I do over the weekend) done. I was a bit late for work because the ginger cat that likes to sit outside my front door, ran into the house and took up residence under my bed. Normally, I manage to fend him off in the morning but on Friday I was going on 2 and half less hours sleep* than normal and not at the top of my game!

Friday night was a trip to the OXO Bar to celebrate the start of the month with a manhattan (or two or three!).

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Ma stayed at mine and then left very early on Saturday morning and I went back to bed. We had family lunch in Ma’s new kitchen on Saturday afternoon.

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Oli was delightful..but check out his sad face, up to that point he’d been helping mash potatoes and serve and was a bit sad about having to sit down and eat his dinner.

After dinner, I spent a lot of time being a witch, while Oli pretended to be a dragon who wanted to eat ‘witch and chips’. He also made a pond in the sink for the duck.

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I was really surprised by how much he wanted to play but I’m never leaving my phone unattended near my brother and sister in law again!

Home on Saturday night and a very quiet and unproductive Sunday. I just ran out of steam and decided that I’d do nothing and enjoy doing it!

How was your weekend? Hopefully none of you had to hide in the bath from a nephew who had turned into a dragon!

*we went to see Kiss Me Kate, it was brilliant apart from the submissive, beaten woman part that is The Taming of the Shrew. Music was great though.

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Sunday Music

Tomorrow, I’m going to Shepherds Bush to see Old Crow Medicine Show.

If you’ve been following Sunday Music posts for any length of time, you will already know about OCMS and my love for the music.

So in honour of hearing them live for the first time, more OCMS

Wagon Wheel was the first OCMS song I heard

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January Goal Recap / February Goals

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January is done. So I’m just going to go through the numbers and then talk a bit about them.

1. Drinking. There 31 days in January and aside from the New Year’s Day champagne, I’m not going to drink in any of them. 

30/31 – I was queen of not drinking, until Thursday night. When, with 6 hours to go I cracked at dinner before the theatre and had a glass of champagne and a glass of red wine. Note to self, don’t go out with my mother during dry January because she is an evil tempter and I have no will power! Overall though I feel pretty good about this, it was much easier than I expected. However, although my liver probably feels good about my month of abstinence, I haven’t really seen any other benefits. My skin isn’t clearer, my sleep was slightly better in the 2 week of January and then went back to being rubbish, I didn’t lose any weight but I’m glad I did it as I feel that it’s given me  an opportunity to look at my drinking, as the daughter of an alcoholic, I like to check in with that every now and again…

2. Food. I will take a packed lunch to work every day and I will eat 5 portions of fruit and vegetables a day.

Lunches 21/21 – This is really all about planning and is really good for my health and my budget.

Five a day 31/31 – I’ve hit the targets but I can’t honestly say that I’ve felt better or worse for it.

3. Coffee.  I’ll drink it three days a week for January (probably Friday, Saturday and Sunday!). The other 4 days of the week I’ll drink herbal tea!

19/19 – This was probably the hardest goal. Some days, Monday and Tues this week I really wanted a coffee. Once I was out of the house in the morning it was fine, but I did spend the first week or so reaching for the coffee and remembering that it was a tea day.

4. The messy cupboard.  By the end of January it will be tidy. It will have new shelves, I will be able to find things in it!

1/1 – It was so nice to get this done and it’s been so nice to use. It’s fuelled a organisation kick at home and I’m starting to tackle other ‘messy’ areas in the house

5. Sleep hygiene. Sunday to Thursday sleep rules are. No computers after 9pm. In bed and ready for sleep at 10pm.

20/22 – Two slips, both towards the end of the month. Both of them about sleeping time not computer use and this weeks slip was on the 31st and ’cause I was at the theatre (Kiss Me Kate), I’m comfortable with that.

6. Self Care. I will moisturise every day, I will remove hair weekly and I will look after my feet!

31/31 – I could just stroke my lovely soft skin all day but that would be weird!

How it felt. 

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Really good. I had two slips on the sleeping front and one on the drinking but other than that I rocked this! I award myself a solid A, well done me. I set January’s goals to be simple and small because I wanted them to be easy to stick to, I’m lazy and lack will power and January is a nasty month. Even so, it was hard, especially in the last two weeks when everybody has been falling off the wagon and into the arms of a G&T, what really helped me was wanting to have a full house, to start the year successful and focussing on the ultimate reason for setting the goals, to build (word of the year) a different kind of life this year. January was me proving to myself that I can do the things I set my mind to, I just have to remember why I want to do them and not be a brat about it.

Which leads me quite nicely onto February’s goals. What worked in January was setting realistic goals, last year I set goals that were easy for me to derail, if I had a target of gym 3 times a week, I’d miss one and then all of them. So I need to be a bit more realistic at the same time I need to step it up a bit..

Goals for February 2013.

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Food

1) Continue with the coffee and add booze to that. Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

2) Take my lunch to work – this is about healthy momentum and budget. So no Friday ‘treat’ day.

Self care

3) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs). This has really helped get me to bed on time and have an organised home, both things are really important to me!

4) Moisturiser and general maintenance. Same as last month, I don’t feel it’s a habit yet, so more of the same until it is.

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5) Paint the living room. Painting the flat is one of my 2013 goals and I think having one ‘big’ thing to do every month is helpful. Also I’ve planned to do this on the 16/17 February and having it as a goal will help keep up my momentum when I’m moving the books out of the living room!

6) Dust under the bed, find out what’s underneath it. I sweep and clean around the bed and although it’s not a weekly task, it should probably be a bi-annual one. Also you may have noticed over January, I’m in an organising mood, this it part of that.

Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. Again this is one of my 2013 goals, so time to be dedicated about it. Tuesday and Thursday lunchtime, no messing about, no being a brat. Also I have a 5km booked in June so will need to start training properly in March, this is a good run up!

8) Three times a week I will do the set of exercises below three times. I think that Monday, Wednesday and Saturday might work quite well! I won’t enjoy it but I am going to do it.

20 squats /12 sit ups/12 press ups/1 minute plank

Eight things, some continuations of last month, some working towards 2013’s major goals, some because I’m getting a bit obsessive about the state of my flat.

What are your plans for February? Are your goals helping you achieve them?

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Friday Night Cocktail

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I will be celebrating the end of my dry January with manhattans at the OXO Bar.

If you’re still not drinking, ideas here and here.

If you are, have fun don’t overdo it and drink lots of water…

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Friday Links

Welcome to Friday and the first day of February! What I’ve found interesting since last week!

1) Some hard facts about the economy. We all need to take a hard look at ourselves. Well, here’s the thing about 2006: the economy was in better shape than today, but it still wasn’t working for the majority of Britons. And unless we’re honest about just how crocked our economy is, how the private sector doesn’t create jobs and hasn’t done serious investment for decades, we won’t get out of this mess.

2) The Birthday Dinner. Last one I did was about five years ago, I ask people over for Friday Night Cocktails and go out for family dinner for those reasons.

Seems like a nice idea, the birthday dinner. It is not. It is a tedious, wretched affair. It is also an extravagantly expensive one. In these wintry economic times, we need to scale back. I hereby propose that the birthday dinner go the way of the $4 cup of coffee, the liar’s mortgage, and the midsize banking institution.

3) How childhood helped the species. 

In the nasty and brutish prehistoric world our ancestors inhabited, arriving prematurely could have been a very bad thing. But to see the advantages of being born helpless and fetal, all you have to do is watch a 2-year-old. Human children are the most voracious learners planet Earth has ever seen, and they are that way because their brains are still rapidly developing after birth. Neoteny, and the childhood it spawned, not only extended the time during which we grow up but ensured that we spent it developing not inside the safety of the womb but outside in the wide, convoluted, and unpredictable world.

4) The Circular Tube map. My mind is blown. It seems to make more sense geographically but whoa..for comparison see the current one TfL use.

5) Three Lies about Celery. I happen to love celery but this was really funny!

Celery eater Martha Rose Shulman writes: “I’m a big fan of celery, both raw and cooked, as the main ingredient or as one of several featured ingredients in a dish,” and then proceeds to instruct her readers on how to cook and eat the thing, as if celery were capable of being eaten and digested, when everyone knows it just rolls around in the mouth, becoming more and more fibrous, until one is obliged to spit it out in a napkin.

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Cranberry and Cashew Blondies

The inspiration for these came from Eat, Live, Run, they looked good and I had all the ingredients except walnuts. Come on guys, you didn’t really think I was going to say I didn’t have any whiskey did you? Yeah like that’s gonna happen! I may not be drinking this month but there is always whiskey in the house. There’s a legend that if the ravens leave the Tower of London, the country will fall, my house without any whiskey in it would be a disaster of similar proportions.

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I didn’t want to go out and buy walnuts, but I did have little snack pack of cashews and cranberries and as luck would have it, it came to half a cup so I just subbed them in.

I made a couple of changes to the method, cause I don’t have a stand mixer (dammit!) and they turned out really well, the texture of a brownie without the chocolate. The whiskey cooks off and pairs nicely with the brown butter. Normally, I’ve always been a bit suspicious recipes that call for brown butter, it just seems like another step and for me another way for me to burn an ingredient or myself. In these it adds another dimension to the flavour and is worth the extra step. I just let the butter heat up over a medium heat, kept a close eye on it and turned off the heat when the butter got really foamy, it took all of five minutes, the trick it seems is to show it no fear…

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Cranberry and Cashew Blondies

adapted from Eat, Live, Run

What

4oz butter

1 cup packed brown sugar

1 egg

Half a teaspoon of salt

1 teaspoon of vanilla

2 tablespoons of whiskey (I used the default Irish)

1 cup plain flour

Half a cup mixed cashew nuts and dried cranberries

How

1) Pre heat the oven to Gas Mark 4/180C/350F.

2) Butter an 8 inch square pan

3) Melt and brown the butter until it’s golden

4) Put the sugar in a mixing bowl, add the browned butter and beat together

5) When the sugar and butter are combined and the mixture looks fudgey, add the egg, vanilla and whiskey and beat again

6) Add the salt, flour, cranberries and cashews and mix until all combined.

7) Spread in the baking pan and bake for 20-25 minutes.

8) Leave to cool and slice, try not to eat them all in one go!

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