Library Love

Before Christmas, I finally got my act together and prompted by the knowledge that I was going to severely restrict my book buying this year, I re-joined the library.

Although the primary reason was selfish, I also wanted to show my support of libraries in general, with the severe cuts that are happening within local authorities, libraries are under threat and I feel that we’re entering a ‘use it or lose’ it phase with our local services.

I was a library baby for years. Ma used to take us when we were little, but in junior school (7 to 10) my primary school used to timetable trips to the library every month. I think the headmaster, Mr Jennings, who was a very strange man but also really enthusiastic about learning, felt that it was a useful thing to teach us how to use a library. We weren’t just set free on the books, we were also taught how to use the library catalogue, how to look up information for projects and so on.

When I was a teenager, I was always in one library or another. At school, I practically lived in the school library*, it was there I learned to cover books and put them back and eventually I helped choose the new fiction books. After school, I went to the library on the way home, and worked my way through the books there, eventually I got a job at the main library, for two evenings a week, I got to shelve books, work out the intricacies of the Dewy Decimal System and if it was a slow night, cover and repair books. I had to give that job up when ‘A’ Levels got in the way but I’ve always loved the magic of libraries. So after a 15 year or so lapse, I’m back!

Ealing Central Library

Libraries have changed since I was last here. Ealing contracts it’s library service out to Cultural Community Solutions (Carillion) and you can do a lot more online, including joining the library, and reserving and renewing books.

nicI registered online in December and then went into the library on Christmas Eve and they issued me with a library card and key fob there and then. There is a desk service but you can also check books in and out using the machines.

I can borrow up to 15 books for 3 weeks, you can also borrow audio books and DVD’s. You can renew books online and check the catalogue to see if they have a book you want. Because CCS runs libraries for 4 boroughs you have access to their books too, you can reserve books online and check to see where they are, when they arrive or your books are nearly due to go back, they send you an email to let you know. The ability to reserve books is probably my favourite thing, especially since they stopped charging for it – I have about 10 books reserved, but email to tell me that my books are due back is the thing that will stop me paying ridiculous finds.

If you have a computer and internet at home the list stuff you can access with your library number is pretty impressive, The Times Archive, the Oxford University Press Online Reference, Encyclopædia Britannica Online (of course!) and loads of other stuff, you can also practice for your theory driving test and your Life in Britain (citizenship) test.

If you don’t have online access at home, you can use the computers at the library.

Library membership also gives me access to ebooks and e-audiobooks too. I don’t have any out at the moment but I can borrow up to five.nic

 

I love the library service and am just generally gushy about it.

Are you a member of your local library, love them, hate them? Do you use it to save you money or is the thrill of owning the books better?

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*fun fact, every year Ma takes a holiday with ‘the ladies’ and one of those ladies is Ruth who was my school librarian. Ruth is absolutely the worst person ever to be let loose on ‘innocent’ children but I will always be grateful for the way she let us use the library during school lunch times and took our advice about what would get the rest of the school into the library!

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Life Happened – A tiny bit cross

Before I start with the usual recap. I need to issue a correction. In the St Patrick’s Day post, I said that Oli goes to gaelic football ’cause his neighbour TJ does. The fact checkers (hi Ben!) would like me to note that Oli started going to gaelic football because his swimming instructor’s child went and Oli went along too. Then TJ started going.

Right back to what I’ve done with the past week. The answer is not a lot. I did manage two body balance classes, there was a departmental team building afternoon on Wednesday and I played Ping Pong, I’m still pretty useless! IMG_2861My hyacinth blossomedThere was also an eclipse on Friday that no one in London could really see because it was so cloudy, it was dark for a bit, then it wasn’t. The sunset was pretty though!If you’ve been around this space this week, you will notice that I had lots of strong options (here if you missed it!), sorry, I’m not sorry. However, ranty I was here by the weekend I was marginally more calm.

Other things done this week, Ma and I have decided that we are going on holiday. Our usual trip north but not until October, we can’t go in September as usual and were going to skip it but decided this week that we would miss it too much so we’re going! (Ma is away in June, we’re in Wales for Ryan’s wedding in August so really it’s the only time we can’t go!)OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAMa came for Friday night pizza on Friday night, she stayed over.IMG_2872We arsed about on Saturday. Went to the library, went to Ma’s and ate chicken and coleslaw sandwiches (food of the Gods) and then I headed off to Christelle and Mike’s. It was an evening of firsts, I was early, C & M cooked. The lamb was amazing…We talked and drank wine and generally caught up.

I got home about 2pm and did some housework and lazing around.

This week I have a gym class booked every day this week, and that and work and dinner with Ma on Saturday is all I have planned. Nope, I lie, I’m popping over to Kathy and Adam’s tomorrow, for a catch up and some fun with toddlers. The clocks go forward this weekend so lighter evenings, yay!

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Sunday Music

This has been going through my head for the last couple of weeks, so now it can go through yours!

 

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Not everything has to make us happy.

It was pointed out to me yesterday morning that I was a tiny bit ranty. It’s true, it’s partly my natural inability to cope with what I see as fuckwittage and also PMT, I just don’t have the energy to remember to be graceful. Everyone may be fighting a hard battle but they can bloody well remember that I’m not an idiot or a skivvy and behave accordingly. Also my language would make a sailor blush. I’m all kinds of fun to be around at the moment.IMG_2823

But it’s the ‘happy’ myth that is the particular focus of my ire today.

It’s my Christian friends that think that Jesus will fix it. Which is ridiculous, as I keep saying, “Jesus doesn’t promise to make it all better, He just promises to be with you even when it’s shit”.

It’s ‘Do what you love and you’ll never have to work a day in your life’ bollocks that gets spouted so often. Nope, if you chose to make your passion your job, you’ll just end up loving it less.

This is what set me off this week.

You know there are some things that you can decide to do that make you happy but they won’t make you happy all the time. What I love to do is lie around reading books, with occasional forays into cooking, drinking cocktails and maybe a bit of travel. That’s what would make me happy. You know what I wouldn’t love, being homeless, so I have to abandon the things that make me happy to go to work so I can earn money, so I don’t have to live on the street.

I’m pretty good at what I do for work but I don’t get excited about expenses, arranging meetings or writing reports. I take some pride in doing it as well as I can because that’s what you do, it’s what my mother taught me. You could argue that if I had different work, work that I loved, I’d be happier to be there, and maybe I would, but much of the way that society runs, relies on people doing things they don’t love. Parents love their children but no-one likes changing a nappy or being up all night with a screaming baby. Society would crumble if everyone only did what they loved or what made them happy.

We can’t be happy all the time. Emotionally, it’s not sustainable. Thinking that we should always be happy makes us discontented with the lives we have. IMG_2534

So this is my challenge. Look at your life, really look. It’s probably not perfect but if you’re reading this, you can read, you have access to the Internet, which means you probably have a computer, and a place to put it in. Which probably means you have a place to live and a job. If you have all those things, you already have a shitload of stuff to be happy about. Think about what life would be like if you didn’t have what you have. As a culture, we are so focussed on the next thing that will make us happy. If we had the perfect partner or a better job or a baby or more friends or we travelled more. If think that if we were fitter/thinner/richer/prettier our lives would be better but we’ll still be the same people and likely we wouldn’t be happier just looking for the next thing that really would make us happy.

There are things you can be other than happy. You have tons of things to be grateful for and most of the things you are unhappy about you can change.

Stop looking for happiness. Stop expecting to be happy all the damn time. There are other good emotions beside happy! Surprisingly enough, when you stop focussing on happy, you start to get happy…DSCF4898

 

 

 

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Friday Links

1) The most important political issue of the moment? Ed Milliband’s kitchens. He’s right, but there is a part of me that wonders what a man with 2 kitchens really understands about the lives of the people for whom the ‘functional kitchenette’ is a decent kitchen. Also worth pointing out that Sarah Vine, who’s article in the Mail kicked this off, is married to Michael Gove and here is an article (from the Torygraph) about his expenses claims. Over 3 years, his claims came to more than his annual pay. Mmmm…

2) I’m a bit late with this but it’s fascinating. What is blue and how do we see colour?

3) If bankers want the gain, they should feel the pain.

At present the financial uber-class expect to have the best of both worlds – all the rewards of being in charge without paying the price of responsibility. It’s an individual version of the injustice laid bare during the great crash: that while gains are privatised, losses are socialised. The bankers get the big bonuses when things go right, the taxpayers bail them out when things go wrong.

This is why people don’t vote, they feel that no-one in power is ever called to account but that ordinary people always are. Get your benefit claim wrong, be sanctioned or worse sent to prison, but avoid tax and nothing happens.

4) The rise of Wetherspoons. My first thought when reading this was ‘ it’s Boston, of course it is’ but where do people go when they can’t afford heating and the libraries, community centre and other public spaces are gone?

The chain is now the nation’s fifth-most-popular place to have breakfast. Its accessibility in terms of price makes the march of ’Spoons’ seem inevitable, particularly in a world in which public space is ever-shrinking: it lines its pubs with books while libraries are closing, and competes with supermarket beer prices while offering more company than a living room or kitchen.

5) The ideas that define Benjamin Netanyahu. Doesn’t make his thinking right but makes it understandable.

6) I didn’t leave Labour, they left me. That’s been true for a while now. Labour didn’t start talking about a cost of living crisis or about ‘generation rent’ until it was a problem for their middle class children. It’s been a problem for working class kids for a while longer than that and we won’t inherit property from our parents and access to social housing has dried up and the Shadow Work and Pensions Secretary doesn’t want to represent people who claim benefits, who are unemployed. Five years ago, I’d been unemployed for 9 months. Yes, I do go on about it quite a bit, because it was an awful time and the horror of it (and it was fucking awful) has stayed with me. Even with state support, without my mother’s financial and emotional support, it would have been a lot worse. 5 years later, I’ve not financially recovered, I don’t as much, I can’t save, my rent has increased £100 a month. Being unemployed now is much, much harder. Being in work now is much harder, 1.03 million people who have work are claiming benefits to make ends meet. She might have chosen her words poorly but that she can even say that horrifies me.

7) I’m puzzled by this. Israel must pay a price, but that price is not sanctions, or cuts to military aid, or subjecting Israel to prosecution under the International Criminal Court, or supporting a Palestinian-backed United Nations resolution that would demand the establishment of a Palestinian state within a year, with no corresponding promises to Israel. Gaza and the West Bank are currently subject to sanctions, and cuts to aid even though they’re trying to rebuild Gaza after the Israelis bombed the shit out of it. In February Israeli settlers backed by soldiers walked into Abed’s Shop in Hebron destroyed it. Why, seems because they can and no-one is going to stop them. (Pictures from Rafat Shomali via Jenny Baker)

Look, I’m not arguing that Arabs are good and Israelis are bad. I think there are decades of hatred and conflict on both sides. However, what you HAVE to start doing is calling out both sides for bad behaviour, you can’t apply sanctions on the Palestinians for rockets and let Israel do what it wants with no reference to international law or censure. There are great honking sanctions on Iran ’cause they might be trying to develop nuclear weapons but  Israel as had nuclear weapons for years with nothing done. Unless and until the US starts actually holding Israel accountable (and Israel’s argument often boils down to it being civilised and Western) for it’s behaviour behaving accordingly, then Israel is going to continue to do what it likes. Meanwhile, Palestinians will continue to support Hamas because being moderate doesn’t work, Israel just takes more.

 

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Turkey, Chickpea and Spinach Meatballs

Who doesn’t like pasta and meatballs? For years I’ve been using Nigella Lawson’s recipe from How to Eat and they’re pretty good. I had people coming for dinner and minced turkey in the fridge but not enough to make enough meatballs for three people. I was in the mood to experiment and Jack Monroe, used white beans to pad hers out a bit in A Girl Called Jack, these became bung it all in meatballs! They got a thumbs up from my guests so here they are.IMG_2793

 

 

What

For the meatballs

1 onion finely chopped

2 cloves garlic, mince

Olive oil

450g turkey mince

1 can chickpeas (if you don’t use cans 140g cooked chickpeas)

1 egg

4 defrosted blocks of spinach (squeeze as much water out as you can)

70g feta

2 teaspoons mixed herbs (I have a mix of oregano, parsley and basil but use just one if that’s what you have)

plain flour (I’m guessing that I used about 1/4 of a cup, you’re going to coat the meatballs in it so you may use more or less.)

for the sauce

2 14oz tins plum tomatoes (or one 28oz tin if that’s how you work)

500g passata

1 tablespoon

How

1) Add about a tablespoon of olive oil to a frying pan and over a low heat, gently fry the onion and garlic until cooked but not coloured, about 5 minutes.

2) Put the flour on a plate and set aside.

3) Add the cooked onions and garlic, turkey, chickpeas, egg, spinach, feta and herbs to a large bowl and mix together. (I use my hands)IMG_2791-0

4) Roll the mixture into walnut sized balls and roll them in the flour.

5) Add about a tablespoon of oil to a large pan, and in batches, brown the meatballs. Adding more oil as you go if required.IMG_27906) Put all the browned meatballs back in the pan and add the tomatoes, passata and balsamic vinegar.

7) Stir and leave to simmer over a medium to low heat until the sauce has thickened up and the meatballs are cooked through (and your hob is pretty much covered in tomato sauce and needs a really good clean!). At least an hour although you can go longer at 2 hours, the meatballs will start to break up but that’s not necessarily a bad thing!

8) Serve with the pasta of your choice.

 

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St Patrick’s Day

On Sunday, Oli (and his gaelic football club) were in the St Patrick’s Day Parade.

It makes me laugh, ’cause my Dad didn’t encourage us to do anything Irish at all (and Ma isn’t) but Ben and Lu’s next door neighbours are and have a boy about Oli’s age and TJ asked Oli if he wanted to come to ‘football’ with him and Oli loves it (I think ’cause he can pick up the ball!)

Anyway, Oli plays gaelic football, his team was in the parade on Sunday and Ma and I went to see Ol in the parade. Man, it was cold..OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAOLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

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Life Happened – Mothers Day

This week started with me admiring the daffodils.IMG_2827

 

The rest of the working week was pretty much the same as usual. My team has changed responsibilities so I’m currently handing over my stuff and learning (actually re-learning new stuff), I’m not terribly happy about it but the joy of not subscribing to the ‘do what you love’ movement is that I don’t really expect to be. Anyway suffice to say that the next couple of months are going to be difficult at work. I’m still feeling ridiculously tired and not quite ill but not exactly full of wellness. It’s funny, just when I think I’m being a total wuss, Ma says that she’s not feeling quite the ticket and I realise that it’s whatever the bug was not my natural inclination to recline on a sofa being pale and wan!

I did have to attend a work lunch as part of my new responsibilities on Thursday and that meant that I got to the library to pick up my reserved book, there was a bit of difficulty when the computer said that I could only take out eight books, because I was under 16! The computer needs to have it’s eyes examined, this week I felt every second of my 41 year!

On Thursday night I also got myself into action and sorted out Ma’s Mothers Day present. There was some spray painting involved and I also got quite a bit of the kitchen table.IMG_2834I did have to spend some time sorting that out with white spirit and it’s fair to say that the table looks more ‘lived in’ that before.

Friday finally arrived and Friday evening meant shopping for the weekend, I did have other stuff to do but I was sitting at the kitchen table and suddenly realised that upright wasn’t an option any more. I was in bed at 8pm on a Friday night. This is middle age!

That sleep was a good thing though ’cause I had loads to do on Saturday. Cooking and house tidying. I made a pavlovaIMG_2837

 

IMG_2847Prepped chickens for roasting and all the other stuff that comes with having the family for over for lunch. I also made lemon curd, another Mothers Day gift.IMG_2841

After lunch we played games.

UNO, which is my favourite.IMG_2849

 

Ben and Oli were on the same team and lost five games in a row at which point Ben decided to have a cigarette and Oli decided to play Pop to the Shops.IMG_2851Oli won this one and if you have small children, the Orchard Toys games are ace, educational and fun and not to boring for the adults! We’ve played the Rocket Game, Pop to the Shops (and they do an international game using cents instead of pence too!), and Crazy Chefs. Oli never gets bored with them, neither do we (although Grandma as chief playmate might soon!).

Despite my refusal to give up my flip flops on SaturdayIMG_2844this weekend was much colder than last and Ma and I spent about an hour watching the St Patricks Day Parade and waiting for Oli (and Ben and Lu) and the Glen Rovers to march past. Man it was cold!

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAJust as we saw them, it started to rain and Ma and I decided to go home. Once home, I spend the afternoon on the sofa.

And that was last week.

This week, barring anything expected there’s work, a work department meeting and dinner (which I can honestly do without – I don’t want to take an afternoon out of the office next week, I’m too busy and if I’m going to spend an afternoon out of the office, there are books to read!), three Body Balance classes and dinner at Mike and Christelle’s. I know, you’re amazed by how seat of the pants my life is!!

Have a good week, folks…

 

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Sunday Music

Just ’cause..

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Mothers Day

Today is Mother’s Day in our family. Everyone is coming to mine for lunch. Ma will get flowers, but mostly it’ll be eating and talking and Oli running about and we’ll have a nice time, catching up and being with each other.20140404-212000.jpgOn Sunday, Oli and his Gaelic Football Club are going to be in the St Patrick’s Day Parade tomorrow and we’re all going to watch that.

I know that lots of women find Mother’s Day difficult because they don’t have children or a living Mum. Or maybe have difficult relationships with children, or even dead children. For all sorts of reasons, Sunday can feel like a hard day.

If it’s hard, I’m sorry, I think it’s really just a day to celebrate the people who’ve mothered us and sometimes that’s not just our Mums. I remember being really chuffed when I got my first ever ‘Happy Mother’s Day, Auntie Nic’ card from Oli because I love that Laura thought of it but really Mother’s Day is just an excuse for my family to spend some time together. We all have family. We may have been born into that family, we may have picked them but the people that we love and support and who love and support us are our family. Go celebrate them…

I will get Ma another card this year, but I think the sentiment of last year’s card is still good!20140331-132834.jpg

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