Life Happened – a difficult week

I’d like to tell you that although last week was busy and stressy, I handled it gracefully.

I did not, I handled it, survived and didn’t burst into tears, lose my temper and start shouting or kill anyone, even though I came close, so I’m calling it a win.

There was this salad IMG_0036There was some sunshineIMG_3055There were pastries (the only bright spark of a 4 hour meeting that I was minuting!)

There was lounging and spending time with the Baxters. This is a self portrait from the eldest one

and this is the knee I skinned after tripping over my own feet (no I hadn’t been drinking!)

the toddlers did kiss it better because they are adorable.

And that was the week!

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Sunday Music

BB King died this week.

This was going through my head most of Friday. Is this the best example of BB’s music, nah but it was the first thing I thought about when I heard he’d died. So…

I was there  when they crucified my Lord/I held the scabbard when the soldier drew his sword/I threw the dice when they pierced his side/But I’ve seen love conquer the great divide.

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! Hopefully, everyone has had a busy productive week and is ready for a nice relaxing weekend.

Here are this week’s links…

Well this is horrific. X-ray scan at Spanish border reveals child in suitcase.

 The problem is Labour’s missing soul.

What counts now as far left, many bridges too far for the Labour party – that housing is a human right, that tertiary education is an investment in the future that we all should share, that wages must be liveable or they don’t count as wages – would, within the past decade, have been known as common sense. To chase the centre is to chase the ever-shifting territory of your opponent’s demarcation

 Charlotte Church on being a prosecco socialist.

My friend Jenny, on her cancer diagnosis.

I’ve set myself lots of physical challenges over the last few years – triathlons, marathons, coast-to-coast cycle rides, the Dunwich Dynamo – and my body has carried me through them all. I have loved going beyond what I thought I could do, and discovering what I am physically and mentally capable of. This is a new physical challenge and not one I would ever have chosen. And it’s not going to be some great fitness adventure – it’s going to be shit. But I hope my body, mind and spirit will serve me well and carry me through.

 

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Perfect Poached Eggs

I’m not a perfect cook.

My palate is not that refined, I love to cook but don’t like to spent hours in the kitchen, I try to hold an 80/20 rule about eating processed foods and I do pretty well but I’m not perfect.

One skill, that I honestly don’t think is a skill is that I can cook a perfect poached egg, using a pan of water and a slotted spoon. It’s not a skill that I learned at home. We had an egg poaching pan, like this one and we used it. I didn’t eat a free-form poached egg until I was 16 and it was made by either Tina and Charles.DSCF4689For a while I tried to poach eggs free form and it never quite worked as I expected, I read Nigel Slater and various other cooks and they never seemed to come together as expected. Eventually, I found a method that worked from Delia Smith, who had a much ridiculed chapter on how to cook an egg in How to Cook, that took me through it.

Once I’d mastered her technique, the water should be off the boil, give the eggs some space and be gentle, poaching eggs was easy.20131007-073050.jpgAnd if you follow me here or on Instagram, you’ll know I eat a lot of poached eggs!

A couple of weeks ago, I came across another tip, from Julia Child, which involves, using a pin to make a tiny whole in the egg shell, putting the egg in boiling water for 10 seconds, removing and then poaching as normal.

Apparently the 10 seconds in boiling water helps the white stick together so you don’t get the floaty bits in the water. So I tried it, without pricking the shell (who has time for that!) and it works.

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Half Way

IMG_3055It’s Wednesday and sunny and I had a migraine last night and I’m the only person in the admin team that’s in the office and it’s a high stress work week.

I don’t feel at my best, today I would just like my life to be a little easier. I’d like to be a little less worried about money, a little bit more appreciated at work, I’d like life to be a little bit more exciting and for my friends to be a little bit more in touch. I know that that’s not going to happen because that’s not how my life has ever worked.

Usually, when I feel like this, I get really cross. I power myself through those feelings on a tide of being bloody furious. That’s what I do when I don’t feel understood or valued, I get cross.

Emotionally, I’m basically a three year old.

Today though, I’m just too meh to be cross and despite all the many and varied things I have to be grateful for (and I know they are legion), I’m sad and I’d like a hug and tired enough (10 hours sleep in three days will do that) not to have a filter about it.

So that’s how things are here, half way through the week….

 

 

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Dinner (and lunch)

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I’m having a stressy week. In fact, from here on in, the first two weeks of every month are going to be pretty high stress at work. Unfortunately, those two weeks are my migraine (PMT) weeks. So now you know things you probably don’t want to know and I’ve explained why everything outside of work needs to be easy this week.

I have clothes ready to wear for the whole week, regardless of whether I manage the ironing, the house is tidy and I’m showering before bedtime because mornings are horrible at the moment and cooking needs to be fast and easy, with minimal washing up, because I need to be in bed by 9.30pm at the latest, to maximise the sleep I can get. (Last night I managed 3 and a half hours sleep, which was pretty good but is not helping my mood or my ability to do stuff)

So on Sunday, I cooked a batch of cannellini beans in the slow cooker, which is the easiest way to cook beans. Soak overnight, put on high in slow cooker, 3 to 8 hours (depending on the bean – longer for chickpeas, shorter for others) later, they’re done and when they’ve cooled down, I divide them into 240g portions and freeze.  It’s cheaper than buying tins (a tin is about 60p for 235g of cooked beans, dried beans are £1.10 for 500g and you get the equivalent of 4 tins) and they taste better for minimal extra work, but of course you need a slow cooker!

So far I have made dip and this salad, to get me through the week.

Beans, celery, thinly sliced red onion soaked in vinegar and water to take away some of the sting, cooked tuna, lemon juice, olive oil, and salt and pepper. Mixed up and served with salad and boiled eggs and mixed up.

It’s also good on toast.

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Life Happened – General Elections and Babysitting

Last week was quite the week.   On Election Night, Ma and I were at the National to hear a recreation of the Putney Debates, which was even more fascinating considering the day. Things are always changing and are always the same.IMG_3039Having stayed up until 5am to hear the election results come in, I was in dire need of coffee on Friday. Especially as I had to keep up with this one on Friday night and he woke me up at 6.30am on Saturday morning.IMG_3043The rest of the weekend was spent reading, because it’s what you should do when you’re tired, PMT’ing and in despair about the country and its electorate!

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! So we’ve had the election and the people have spoken (the utter bastards) so I’m going to keep this an election and royal baby free zone as I’m too depressed.

Except that Monkey did a thing on matching gins to political parties, gin AND puns, I can’t not link to it. The Gineral Election

How to Declutter.

Sali Hughes on Not Going Out. Exactly..

How to eat a cheese sandwich. A cheese roll or a sandwich at a push is the hangover food of the Gods. Although I do agree, it’s most effect for a ‘3 to 4 cocktails and in bed by 11pm, with a pint of water’ hangover rather than ‘an up all night, multiple bottles of red wine with a whiskey chaser’ hangover. And it should be mature cheddar, lots of butter, no mayonnaise, white bread AND no Branston because like milk and baked beans, Branston pickle is the food of the Devil!

Abstinence only sex education doesn’t work. Redux.

 

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Election Day

Today is Election Day.

I have no idea who will be in charge of the government tomorrow. We might not know for several weeks.

 

This is what I am sure about. I am sure that there won’t be soldiers on the streets. I’m pretty sure that there won’t be bombs or missiles fired. I’m pretty sure that life for those of us who aren’t MP’s or journalists will go on as normal.

Something extraordinary is happening though, because today, I will go and exercise my right to vote and I get a say in who runs the country.

It’s not something I take for granted. Universal suffrage in the United Kingdom didn’t exist until 1928. The first general election where every adult (aged 21 and over) with citizenship could vote regardless of sex and wealth was on May 30th, 1929. It’s still within living memory, my grandparents were 17 and 15 at that election, so it might seem like something we’ve always had but it’s not. The right to vote, to choose your government is a rare thing, even now and it’s not just the right to vote that we take for granted, it’s the peaceful transfer of power.

Think about all the countries where elections are either non existent, where only some people are deemed worthy of the right to vote, or where an election can kick off into something else entirely. (In no particular order, Saudi, Congo, Cote d’Ivoire, Egypt, Syria, Ukraine, Zimbabwe, Libya, Kenya, Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq, North Korea, Hong Kong, China, Sudan – and that’s just off the top of my head)

People died so I could vote. People are still dying so that they can do what I will do today, decide who makes the laws that govern us.

It’s a rare gift we’ve been given, simply by the circumstances of the place and age we were born into, but the truth is that democracy doesn’t work, unless the voters do.

So if you have the right to vote in this General Election, you can. You can choose not to vote today. You can decide that all politicians are the same and you won’t bother. Or you could go and vote, even if spoil your ballot paper, even if you despair about the state of the country.

Go and say thank you to all the people that came before you and the work they did that made a General Election and the peaceful transfer of power from one government to another, no big deal.

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Reasons to be Cheerful – April 2015

1) More family time. Watching Oli prank his parents with his Easter chickIMG_29392) Seeing Jo and Ms T (and getting a postcard from Ms T, where she says she misses me and wants more rules!!)IMG_29233) The Gin Martini and just general wonder that I live in a world where gin exists…IMG_29274) The amazingness of living in a connected world where people can do nice things for one another. Illustrated by the ‘dinosaur dress’. Kathy’s girl wanted a dress with dinosaurs on it, one of Kathy’s friends saw this on Facebook and made one and posted it to them. Humans, we can be amazing…IMG_29745) Sunshine. Yay for sunshine…IMG_29846) And work lunches in the parkIMG_2951

 

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