Happy Birthday to me!

Today is my birthday!

To celebrate, I’m taking a week off work. Birthday weeks are serious things in this house. I’m kicking off the week with family lunch. Me, Ma, Ben Lu, Oli, Joe, Jo and Tabs are coming over, we will talk, catch up, eat, visit the allotment, try and stop Joe getting into mischief!

I’m taking some time off work and the blog this week, the food and budget update will go up on Tuesday as usual but that’s probably it. I may tweet and Instagram more but that’s it, no blogging, no thinking about the blog, no little goals this month, no thinking about work.

Have a good week!

 

 

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s been another busy week, so not many links!

I really don’t intend to be self sufficient on the allotment, my intention was always to grow things that were more expensive or difficult to source in the supermarket. Although we are having a huge amount of fun working out how to do it and being delighted with actually growing stuff. Ma is so enchanted she’s going to split the rent next year! This is a timely reminder though!

It’s almost that time again. Here’s the Guardian’s review of my team’s hopes this season (unless Oli curses us again and we really do end up in the ‘Conferenceship’)

How Left-Handed Penmanship Contests Tried to Help Civil War Veterans. I was interested!

On being a fortysomething renter. I agree that something needs to be done about renting but I’m not so optimistic about it. It’s not the renting that I mind per se, it’s the total lack of security.

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Nasturtium Pesto

Is there anyone who doesn’t like pesto? I love it, it’s uses are endless, stirred through pasta, on fish or meat before you roast it, stirred into soups to add a flavour boost, the list goes on. I don’t often have enough basil to make pesto and most often use  but I saw someone mention nasturtium leaves and I have a lot of them so I thought I’d give it a try. The original recipe is here but I changed it a bit and for a wonder, weighed the ingredients for people that don’t have cups!

  • 320g tightly packed nasturtium leaves
  • 200ml cup olive oil
  • 30g pine nuts
  • 3 large garlic clove, peeled and roughly chopped
  • 30g parmesan (or hard cheese of your choice)
  • salt and freshly ground pepper to taste

I toasted the pine nuts and put everything in the blender except the olive oil. Then with the blender on, added the olive oil until I got to the consistency that I wanted.

It’s good, it is peppery but I don’t think overly so.

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What I’ve Read – July 2016

In month seven of this year, I read:

The Dark Days Club – Alison Goodman (library book)

This book had me at it’s second line.

In 1811, his son, the Prince of Wales – fat, frivolous and forty-nine…

Summed up and destroyed a man’s character in three words. I could also completely buy Napoleon as a Grand Deceiver (of course I could). Although I found Helen frustrating, the book did a really good job of making me understand why she was struggling which of course was because of how she was raised and what was expected of her. This is set in the Regency and apart from the demon hunting bits was well set in it’s period. Helen is different from everyone else in that she’s a Receiver but she’s properly situated in her historical time, she’s not aiming for more than to do what is expected of her and all this Dark Days Club stuff is bewildering to her as it would be. She isn’t jumping in to be the heroine and that plot gives her a real choice of which to pick and points out the real cost to each option. I can always do without love triangles, or more accurately for this book ‘attraction triangle’ but it did represent very nicely the choice that Helen had to make and the pros of each choice. I took a long time to read this but that was more because I started to read it the same week that I became totally infatuated with the Hamilton soundtrack and it’s difficult to concentrate on reading when you are listening to that.

League of Dragons – Naomi Novik (library book)

I’ve been waiting for the last of the Temeraire books since I finished all the others last year and I enjoyed it but… Ok so I know that this is an alternative world but first off, Napoleon undoubted genuis that he was, was also, especially by the time we get to the Russian campaign, an arrogant general with little regard for his troops, yes they loved him but he was not really concerned about them. Laurence wants to beat him but admires his manners etc, Laurence is beset by the Admiralty, which I’ll concede full of idiots, I can’t buy this wholesale portrayal of incompetence and worse. Novik is American and it seems to me that apart from Laurence she generally can’t have the British do anything remotely good, clever or sensible. At one point in the book, Laurence decides that if a course of action is taken, he’ll go over to Napoleon. That action is not taken and he is appointed to take charge of the entire allied ‘airforce’ but we don’t see it. We see captains who don’t like him and have let him down assume that he’ll go over to the French but nothing else. Which leads me to the next problem, great chunks of action are missed out and we from one thing to another. Temaraire is injured without Laurence and we go straight to him and Laurence and Tharkay doing something else; what happens to Jane? I think she gets made a duchess but that’s not very clear and almost nothing is resolved in her relationship with Laurence (are they together, friends with benefits? who knows), apart from Granby we don’t really know what happens to Laurence’s friends in the service, we know that Laurence and Temaraire are going to settle down on Tharkay’s land in the Peak District and that Temaraire is going to go to Parliament but what about reform to the Service? Which surely needs to be addressed.

So I’m pleased it more or less ended well but this book felt unfinished and patchy.

Marrying Winterbourne – Lisa Kleypas (library book)

This made me so happy, after a tricky week, I read it in a day. I like her historicals and this one has not changed my mind.

The Tropic of Serpents: A Memoir by Lady Trent – Marie Brennan (library book)

The Voyage of the Basilisk: A Memoir by Lady Trent – Marie Brennan (library book)

In the Labyrinth of Drakes: A Memoir by Lady Trent – Marie Brennan (library book)

I’m going to take all three of these at once. I really enjoyed them. Isabella’s narration of her adventures from the perspective of her old age, the assumption that we know what happened and the world itself are delightful. I find myself wanting to know more about the world, the religion, the countries and the political set up as well as wanted to see what she does next.

Make Believe Wedding – Sarah Mayberry (Kindle TBR – free book)

I had a whole Sunday of doing nothing but reading this was a quick book, Sarah Mayberry can make even really silly plots interesting and can make you root for heroines while rolling your eyes at her. Even though you could see where this was going and she set a couple up for another book, I enjoyed it.

A Certain Magic – Mary Balogh (Kindle TBR – bought)

This was a re-release of an earlier book and it was delightful although you can see the writer learning her craft. I really struggled with the typos though ‘1 am’ for ‘I am’ and so on. Mind you it was on offer when I bought it and I will re-read it again so probably worth the quid I paid for it.

Not Quite Dating – Catherine Bybee (Kindle TBR – free book)

I’ve seen this knocking about and it’s book as wish fulfillment. Rich guy disguises his riches to see if the poor waitress with a kid will give him a chance. Of course she realises she loves him and there are a couple of bumps as well as setting up the next book. It was good enough that I read it all the way through more or less in one sitting but it was all a bit to easy, I didn’t see the relationship.

The Viscount’s Christmas Temptation – Erica Ridley (Kindle TBR – free book)

This is a novella and kicks of a series and it’s all a bit silly and a bit modern for a Regency but it was designed to get you to read the series and it’s hard to develop characters and motivation in such a short space of time. One thing that did make me stop and check was the reference to using Vauxhall Bridge to get to the Gardens but she was spot on, the book is set in Christmas 1816 and the bridge opened in June that year.

My Life Next Door – Huntley Fitzpatrick (re-read)

I read this a while ago and I liked it, H is reading it and so I read it again and I still liked it. Then I read two more by Fitzpatrick.

The Boy Most Likely To – Huntley Fitzpatrick (Kindle TBR)

This isn’t a sequel to My Life Next Door but features two of the characters from it. I liked Tim, a lot. I liked Alice too but I felt that Tim had a lot of growing up to do but he never let Alice look after him (which is what she needed). It’s interesting having a story about a 17 year old alcoholic who fathers a kid and doesn’t remember but takes responsibility for the kid. It’s about standing up and being a grown up even when the grown ups in your life don’t approve.

The Things I Thought I Knew – Huntley Fitzpatrick (Kindle TBR)

This one set in the same area but and one connection to the other book that I could see, was more straightforward YA and I liked both the heroine and her parents, how they muddle through their difficult choices and still are ‘good’ people. None of these books sugar coat bad choices which is nice, I like it when characters muck up. What I really love is that they come back, choices define you but none of the situations are hopeless.

Thomas (The Jaded Gentlemen Book One) – Grace Burrowes (Kindle TBR)

I picked this up free and finally got around to reading it. Look I love most Grace Burrowes historicals, they drive me batty and I cannot stop reading them. And I liked this one, hero wasn’t or at least didn’t seem that jaded but what do I know. Heroine was capable and damaged in a very recognisable way (well to me I have daddy issues!). They have a HEA and that’s all I needed.

Idol (VIP Book 1) – Kristen Callihan (Kindle – bought)

I liked this well enough but I am a little bit tired of 25 year old millionaire rock stars. I’m still looking forward to the next Game On book by Callihan because apparently I’m not tired of 20 something american football players (I know!). I think ultimately, I didn’t get the second half of the book which is when it all seemed to get wish fulfillment-ish and unreal.

Listen to Me (A Fusion Novel) – Lisa Proby (borrowed)

This is the first of a series, based around five women and the restaurant they own. I loved the way the group support each other, I love that they are smart, clever and capable. Although heroine is an ex model and hero is ex rock star, why I’m tired of rock stars maybe. It was a bit to up and down for me, I felt they both should have used their words both with each other and with their issues. Will I read the next one, probably because I’m a sucker!

 

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Food and Budget Update: 23/07 to 29/07/2016

SHOPPING 

This week, I did no shopping for my everyday food. I bought some wine for my birthday lunch and some dried fruit, mixed spice, sugar and milk to make bread pudding for a friend. So my total spending was £7.69 (mostly mixed spice, one batch needs one pot and I made 4) but none of that was for any of my meals.

I got loads of food from the allotment on the weekend.img_4635And collected another 8 courgettes on Monday! And K & A left me a fridge full of things I should take and use while they were away. This is why I made bread pudding because that’s what you do with leftover bread and I was going to Jane’s on the weekend for a haircut and Jane loves bread pudding!
COOKING AND EATING 

Ma and I ate saute and a poached egg. The saute was potatoes (dug up that morning by Joe, my allotment neighbour and all round wonderful man – he told me that my plot was looking really good, high praise from the man who had it before me, longer than I’ve been alive!), courgettes, onions and turkey.The rest of the week has no photo because I didn’t really cook, Sunday I ate leftover saute and on Monday and Tuesday, I took salad into work and didn’t really eat. On Tuesday, I was in bed before 7pm. This and the cause of the not eating became obvious on Wednesday morning – migraine. I ate some pasta after it stopped and had another picky day on Thursday, I was really, really busy and not feeling fantastic, I did make bread pudding though. Friday night I stayed at Ma’s and we ate from M&S and it was marvellousimg_4649-1

LESSONS LEARNED

A week of no shopping, fitted quite well with my not being up to cooking, it wasn’t that I didn’t eat, it was just that I didn’t have the energy to cook or tidy up after cooking. I could have done much better and I really need to use up the courgettes!

 

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Life Happened: Busy

The first rule of having a holiday is that the two weeks before the holiday are really, really busy. This is especially true when the two weeks are also leading up to your birthday..

So last week was busy at work and home AND I had a migraine on Wednesday. The weekend wasn’t any better because I had loads to do but it was a good week anyway.

I made bread puddingimg_4646-1Had a haircut, picked sweetpeasPlanted a cucumberPicked 24 courgettesThe french beans have started to come off and I’m so happy!  Soon there will be peas too.

Had breakfast with MaIt was a good week.

This week is also really busy, I need to child proof the flat for the weekend, I think I can probably trust Oli and Tabitha not to get into anything they shouldn’t but Joe is just at that stage!

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! It’s been quite a busy week so not too many links this week. Seriously, I have been running around, except on Wednesday when a migraine just left me for dead!

First up, Hilary Clinton is the official Democratic candidate for President. I like Hilary, more to the point people (ok the one person) I know that have worked with her, like her. And this is a moment. I can’t say that I’m thrilled with the UK’s 2nd female Prime Minister but it, and this, is a big deal. I remember reading a book as a teenager were two characters were discussing what would come first a women or a black man as President. Well we know the answer to that now but a women as President may come straight after.

Hilary Clinton accepts the nomination And it was a great speech, especially considering who her warm up acts were.

Khizr Khan’s message to Trump. I’m always suspicious of politicians who are eager to go to war. I read somewhere that in 1938 at least three quarters of MP’s had served in the armed forces or had children that had served in the armed forces. McMillan was injured 5 times during WWI! My point being it’s harder to send soldiers to war if you have personal experience of what you are asking them to do and/or the consequences of it. Trump has no personal experience and no empathy, it thinks it’s a game.

Hilary just won’t stayed throwed. Fabulous

Hinkley Point is bad business and should be put out of its misery. Just so.

Stephen Hawking is a genius, this is one of the most sensible things I have read in ages.

The rise of the Lido.

Honour’ killing may not be in your culture, but the problem belongs to us all. Does it though? It would have never occurred to my dad or to my grandad, to my brother or my uncles that my sex life and who I married or if I married had anything to do with them. So the idea that there are men that do believe their daughters and sisters suffering is less important than some strange definition of family honour, is hard to wrap your head around. It’s also hard to challenge these ideas and actions when so many of the community will go all out to protect the criminal behaviour of members of their community and ensure that it’s not prosecuted. Personally, I’m all for the Charles Napier school of dealing with this but how would that go down? Don’t know what I’m going on about? From Wikipedia:

A story for which Napier is often noted involved Hindu priests complaining to him about the prohibition of Sati by British authorities. This was the custom of burning a widow alive on the funeral pyre of her husband. As first recounted by his brother William, he replied:

“Be it so. This burning of widows is your custom; prepare the funeral pile. But my nation has also a custom. When men burn women alive we hang them, and confiscate all their property. My carpenters shall therefore erect gibbets on which to hang all concerned when the widow is consumed. Let us all act according to national customs.”

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Spaghetti fritatta

I am not the type of person to have leftover pasta. I could quite happily eat it every day and one of the reasons that I don’t is that I always cook too much and generally eat it all. Given my inability to restraint myself once its in front of me, I try not to cook it too often, although if you’ve been reading the weekly food and budget posts, you’ll notice it pops up quite a lot.

When Sue and Richard came to dinner a couple of weeks ago, I made pork ragu which I love. And there was leftover pasta because I cooked a whole packet of linguine which I prefer to spaghetti, because yes I am that pain in the neck who is fussy about pasta. Which is to say I’m fussy about it in my own house but don’t really care when someone else is cooking. I use DeCecco and that’s another reason that I don’t eat so much because it’s more expensive than supermarket own brand.

But I’ve seen people suggest using cooked pasta in a frittata and thought I’d try it. img_4547

This really isn’t much of a recipe, cook some vegetables (I used onion, courgettes and mushrooms, add the cooked pasta and then stir in 4 beaten eggs. Make sure the egg is everywhere, add cheese, then bake in an oven for 10-20 minutes.

It was a great lunch cold with a green salad.

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Allotment Adventures: The Courgette Glut

Everything I’ve ever read about growing vegetables, will note that courgettes are easy to grow and you will have a glut of them. img_4394I was ridiculously excited about my first ever courgette in June, at the end of last week, I had picked 14 courgettes and on Monday, another 8. We are in courgette glut. I’m quite enjoying it.

Other things that are going well. Sweet peasimg_4621You have to pick them to encourage them to continuing to flower, and there are more every time I go to do the watering. I have actual pea pods with peas in them and tiny french beans, I also grew radishes, which makes me happy.img_4631The salad got a wall and we collected loads of seeds from the afgan poppies, which makes Ma happy as she wants to pull them up, they are absolutely in a bad spot and we did a bit of planning of the space.img_4635Tasks for next week are potting strawberry runners, cutting back the raspberries, weeding and burning the dead plants pile!

It’s vain but I want the place to look as good as it can before my brother and Jo come next week and as I am my mother’s daughter that means tidy!

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Food and Budget Update: 16/07 to 22/07/2016

SHOPPING 

I have to confess this week I cheated. On Saturday night. I went to Marks and Spencer and bought the £10 meal for two. A chicken, roasted veg, profiteroles and a bottle of wine. The rest of the week’s shopping came to £7.78 and looked like this.img_4587So that’s £17.78 for the week but I don’t intend to shop next week so we’re good.

COOKING AND EATING 

Saturday breakfast with Maimg_4559Saturday dinner. M&S and a salad from the allotment.On Sunday I had toast for breakfast and picked at chicken and that was pretty much it, I wasn’t really in an eating mood. (I know it was weird!)

Work breakfasts were my usual rhubarb/yoghurt combo and work lunches were hummus and veg and toast, on Tuesday I started to add a hard boiled egg too.

Monday’s dinner was chana masala which I was going to eat with flatbread but it was too hot, so I grilled a courgette and had more allotment salad. img_4598I did have a lolly for puddingTuesday was even hotter and after a quick water of the plot, I went home with another courgette and more salad and that was dinner.Wednesday was the roast all the vegetables day. I ate them with salad leaves.Thursday was courgette and mushrooms on toast, with a salad. Friday was pizza but yes there was a courgette involved!

LESSONS LEARNED

I ate courgettes every day and I wasn’t at all bored of them. However, on Thursday morning I had 8 courgettes in the fridge which seemed excessive. My diet gets very simple when I’m tired which I really was this week but because of the bountiful courgettes and salad leaves, I felt I had a good healthy week.

 

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