Allotment Adventures: Rhubarb Season

I’m a bit further along with the allotment tidy thanks to some time off this month.

Compost

First, the compost arrived.

So far so I’ve used it to plant potatoes and fruit trees. Two cherries and an apricot that are new to the plot and to pot up two more.

Potatoes and a cleared squash and bean bed.

I’ve also weeded and topped up the asparagus and strawberry bed and in the compost order was some ericaceous soil so the blueberries have been weeded and new soil added.

New trees

I have a plan to net this whole area, which I’m hoping to do next weekend and I have all of them in trays because I know that really helps the blueberries especially in the summer.

I’ve weeded most of the grass that came up in the front bed and I’m really pleased to see the tarragon coming back, I’ve also planted a pink and a purple scabious in there and will plant the Erigeron that I’ve ordered, when it arrives. I think with this area, I’m always going to be fighting the grass, which I find amusing as I used not to be able to get anything to grow here!!

Weeded up to the blueberries

Most of my time has been spent weeding the paths and I’m working my way up the plot to get the main path and beds cleared and ready. I’m up to the raspberries. Once the beds are cleared and the main path weeded, it’ll look a lot better. Then I need to deal with the overgrown beds at the side.

The indoor greenhouse is up and contains, cucumbers, tomatoes and sweet peppers and I’ll add to that this week with squash plants.

This year is test for me to see whether I can reasonably continue with a whole plot, without help from my mum and with one day a week. To that end, my long term plan is to put some perennials in the beds at the back of the plot. I’ve come around to the idea that a lot of time on the plot for me is weeding and I struggle to split my focus and find time and space for sowing plants, having beds that don’t need to be cleared and refilled every season would be a help. I have some perennial leeks in one of the beds so I’ll let them spread. This was a spur of the moment decision over the last week, so I’ve bought seeds for nine star broccoli and cottagers kale. They aren’t long lived perennials but they last a couple of years and I can propagate them. I think I’ll also plant up a bed of strawberries because I don’t feel I can have too many of them. So that’s four of those seven beds filled. It might also cut down on water haulage in the summer, if I only need to concentrate on the winter squash beds and polytunnel beds! That’s the dream

Rhubarb

The rhubarb is suffering a bit in the dry weather, I have been watering it but I still had to cut off three flower spikes yesterday! But I’ve made my first batch of jam!

Wildflowers are blooming!

Lots still to do, but I’m feeling more in control of the space!

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Monday Miscellany: Post Easter

Happy Monday!

I took the week before Easter off work and so last week only worked three days. It was good to have a break and catch up on some life admin. I had a hospital appointment and an eye test (and there are new glasses ordered and my bank account is still crying about it. Being short sighted is not cheap. But there has been some change so it was unavoidable. As a side note, the guy in the opticians was trying to explain that my prescription (-6.25 and I know blinder people!) wasn’t really suitable for the current oversized glasses trend. I explained that I did that in the 80’s (incidentally before he was born!) and wasn’t planning on trying again. I think I’m officially at that age where policemen are all younger than me!

We went out for Easter lunch and I got an Easter egg from the nephews but actually from Ben and Laura!

Nephew 2 modelling his garlic bread

I did some work on the plot (there’s more to do but I’m feeling happier about it!

The wildflower bed

Other than a three day migraine at the end of the time off, it was a much needed break.

This week features more time off the day job, I’m off today for a funeral and on Wednesday afternoon for a medical appointment for mum, even if I can’t get them to take her wobbliness seriously, we can get them to sort out decent painkillers for her hand!

The rest of the week is all about work, watering because we’re due some hotter weather and sorting the rest of my life out so I can do the other things effectively!

Have a good week!

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Recommended: Maybelline Vinyl Ink Lipstick

Part of my ‘things that make me happy’ in 2025 is a revival of wearing lipstick. Since I’ve been a teenager I’ve loved lipstick. Because Sarah did and she always looked great and when you’re 16, you copy your hero’s!

Yes I’m frowning but this is ‘Lippy’ and it’s been on for about 6 hours and through lunch!

So I wore bright red lipstick for a long time and then I stopped because lipstick, good lipstick requires maintenance.

This is ‘Awestruck’ and again about five hours on and coffee. Also post a haircut and a Jane blow dry!

But 2025 is a trash fire and I’m going to find some joy from something and Maybelline seem to have actually created a longlasting lipstick that doesn’t need to be really matt (although matt options and teddy tint are available and long lasting too!)

I’m fond of the colours Witty, Lippy and Awestruck!

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Allotment Adventures: Spring Springing

After two weeks of no allotment, I finally got to the plot at the weekend.

I’m still very behind but the front of the plot looks pretty good. I spent 4 hours and I didn’t plant or sow anything, I weeded and woodchipped some more.

There are gooseberry bushes in there!

I started with watering! It’s really dry, so the strawberries, garlic, asparagus patch, blueberries and, blackcurrants got watered. I did a quick clear up of the front paths and really worked on the area around the gooseberry bushes. The idea is that there is a path from the front of the plot to the asparagus patch at the back not that you can see the path for the grass and the cornflowers!

Also check out the poorly elephant garlic!

I started by the asparagus patch and we now have a weeded and wood chipped path around the back of the blueberries to the asparagus patch. Again the idea is that this will link to the path by the gooseberries.

I also weeded what was the sweet potato bed last year. I’m having a year off from sweet potatoes and I’m going to grown sweetcorn in that bed this year.

After some work on the grass is the front bed, it’s rampant and will need constant weeding. This is the problem with no dig and perennial weeds, it’s not quite as effective as the evangelical no-diggers would have you believe. Then it was time for the gooseberries. I managed to free one of bushes and wood chip around it but the grass is rampant.

One gooseberry bush

I look like I’ve been fighting cats. Is there a thornless gooseberry bushes, with eating gooseberries? If not they should get on that!

Also there were red ants in the wildflower bed on the other side of that and I need some nematodes because those things bite and I have sugar blood, so I stopped.

The forget me not is mad at the moment.

I’m pretty happy with the front half of the plot but I have some serious work on the rest of it. I’m taking next week off so I can spent some serious days on it and there is lots to do but spring is here so I better get a move on

Blueberries happening

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Monday Miscellany: COVID Recovery

Happy Monday!

The a couple of weeks ago, I attended a team training day in Canary Wharf. It was interesting, the morning was run by Mark Hunter, an ex Olympic rower (they’re always rowers) it involved a new commute on the Elizabeth line. The journey was fantastic, 10 out of 10 for speed and efficiency however, it was full of germs and infectious people and I caught COVID, which I also gave to Ma!

A Beijing gold and and London silver

In fact the whole weekend after the training day was cursed with minor inconvenience, by the Sunday it was clear that I was sick and honestly I was not well. It was like a cross between a cold and the flu, with a hefty measure of being really, really tired. And bizarrely none of my technology could recognise my face!!

But I’ve only left the flat, four times in the last two weeks, I missed three days of work, seeing Josephine (the rate we’re going, presents will be exchanged next Christmas!), and anything fun. I did go to Mum’s for Mother’s Day, I took lunch to Mum’s, but we were obviously both still recovering from being sick because after washing up, we both had a nap and we didn’t finish the wine!

Sky

Last week I’ve begun to feel better, I’m still sleeping a lot but I have managed to accomplish things at work and home. Im also back to reading and drinking coffee (when I don’t want to read it’s a sure sign that I’m feeling poorly). A work colleague told me that she could see I was feeling better because I was getting things done this week before someone reminded me! Honestly it’s been like wading through treacle.

It’s been really lovely to feel better and the weather and sunshine has certainly helped. The weekend was a haircut weekend so Ma and I did that and then on Sunday I finally got back to the allotment!

This week, I’m on my last week of work before I have some time off. I’m hoping that the compost arrives this week or next week because it’s time to start actually gardening!

Have a good week!

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Monday Miscellany: Strong Start

Happy Monday!

It’s been the most glorious couple of days of weather, we’re still only in March so it’s not going to last and according to the Met Office, today is the last day. Those first lovely weather days every year are like taking drugs, suddenly I have energy and I’m not quite so grumpy..

This week has been busy at work and I’m still (lovely weather notwithstanding) feeling a little bit discombobulated, I’ll live but I didn’t get as much done as I hoped and I’m feeling short on time and energy, I’m still in some pain, mostly low level cramping and uncomfortable with occasional forays into bloody unbearable but I got into the office for two days so that’s good.

However, it was a busy week at work and by Saturday afternoon, with a very long journey home from Ma’s (Brentford playing at home for a 5:30pm kickoff, combined with the first lovely day of the year equalled the longest journey up the Kew Road and over Kew Bridge and us all being kicked off at Great West Road!), I came home and went to bed. Which meant I missed Grace. Yesterday, I spent about 5 hours on the plot which I needed more than I realised.

This week, I’m kicking off the week with a mental health day, I’m going to work from home in the morning and take the afternoon off, so I can go and play in the dirt for a bit (and get the gooseberries weeded!).

Other than that no exciting plans, some days in the office, farmers market with Ma on Saturday. No major plans for the rest of the month, except work!

Have a good week!

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Sunday Music: Brother Ali – D.R.U.M.

I was late going to Ma’s at some point this year, which always means listening to Huey on 6Music. He played this and I was smitten:

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Things that help

It’s a truth universally acknowledged that the world is currently a bin fire of epic proportions. If we ignore things that are actually on fire. There’s Palestine/Israel/Lebanon, in fact none of the Middle East feels stable, there’s Ukraine and Russia, there’s China and Trump blundering about with all the subtlety of a bullying diseased mentally impaired elephant (although that is almost certainly an insult to elephants!), there’s climate change, the cost of living, the state of services in the UK, the state of the Tory Party – well all political parties really but especially the Tories, the rise of the far right and in the UK that oik Farage.

It’s all horrible and it’s hard to feel optimistic personally when the world in general and the UK in particular is such a state.

I don’t have many friends who aren’t coping with caring for elderly parents, children with special needs or ill partners. I’m in pain (thank you continued peri menopausal issues), I’m tired and in my 50’s, I’m worried about my mum and the rest of the world. I feel like I’m on the verge of a mental health crisis and I know I’m not the only one feeling like this.

I’m no stranger to this feeling, I’ve experienced mild depression before and I have the tools to deal with it these are some of the things that are helping.

Gratitude for the ‘First World Problem’ nature of my woes

I’m taking some time to recognise that most of what ails me, can also be looked on as privilege. Care for the aged parent – it’s not actually that much care and I’m lucky to have her still alive, it’s not something either of my parents had in their 50’s. Work difficulties – again it’s 100% better than having no job. The work to keep the house tidy and feed myself? It is tiring but I have a place to rest, clothes to wear and food and the means to pay for it, they are privileges. Bottom line, some things in my life suck but I can guarantee I have it better than a lot of people. It’s important to remember that and be grounded in the good things in my life.

Therapy

Another thing I’m incredibly lucky for is the ability to have therapy on a regular basis, we’re working on a monthly check-in at the moment. People do therapy different ways and for different reasons, but mine helps me keep my ‘bad’ reactions in check and helps me to acknowledge what I’m feeling, why I’m feeling it, helps me decide what to do about it and then develop strategies for doing it. It’s not perfect but it does help.

Distraction

For me that’s generally books. Pick your poison, know it’s distraction and boundary it. In the last few weeks, it’s also been a comedy gig. (Jarlath Regan, who was very funny and it was a perfect middle aged gig, started at 7pm done by 9pm, I was home by 10pm!) This year I’ve already read over 50 books, it’s a wonder I’ve got anything else done!

Tidy up

When I feel out of control, controlling the things I can control really helps. For me that looks like food prep and housework. I’m writing this on Friday night, I’ve just done a bunch of food prep, the flat is really clean and the laundry basket is pretty empty. All this means is that over the weekend and next week, I’m not going to worry about what I’m wearing or what to eat and it’ll be better for me and I won’t be tripping over anything. There’s been loads of studies about mental health and cleaning, it really helps me make my life calmer. Knowing I can change the state of the flat, if not the world does help some.

Doesn’t have to be perfect!

Small things that make me happy

Flowers, the fairy lights on the bookshelves in the living room, a long bath with a book, a walk, an occasional perfect manhattan, regular clean sheets (seriously getting into a newly changed bed with fresh pyjamas is a really cheap gift to yourself bonus points if you do it before 9:30pm!). I’ve also brought lipstick back into my life because if I’m going to be miserable, it’s going to be with a fantastic bright lip!

People

I am probably more anti social than the average bear but make the effort to stay in touch with the people you love/like. If you’re thinking about someone, call them. If you make a plan to see a friend stick with it. Turn up for celebrations. Go to church if church is your thing. As an introvert, I need time by myself more than others but I also need my community, so be a person that’s interested in others. I’ve had a really good example in this from my friend, Sue. Her life would exhaust me (she’s so busy) but her interest in the world and in the people she cares about is inspiring!

Rest and exercise

Last week I didn’t want to go outside for a walk, so I did 30 minutes on a treadmill. I felt better for it. Try and get some gentle exercise into your life, for me that’s some yoga, some stretching, a walk. Doesn’t have to be punishing but it’s a good thing. The other side of that coin is sleep. Try and get a consistent amount of sleep, for me that looks like 7-8 hours and if I go to bed at the same time and get up at the same time every day, my body sorts the rest out. Honestly, everything is better if you’re rested!

Feb plot

The plot

This is niche but the allotment is a combination of all these things. A distraction, exercise, time outside and with community and you have to hope for things with a garden and it helps

So that’s my list. What’s yours?

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Allotment Adventures: Strawberries and more plants

I’m slowly starting to tidy up the plot (boy does it need tidying!) and while I haven’t sown one single solitary thing in Jan or February, I have bought some potatoes, strawberries and various other plants to help spur on the tidying efforts.

So the strawberries. Last year I planted asparagus plants, an initial 10 and then another which gave me about 15, that space is quite weedy and it’s going to produce anything I can eat for a couple of years and I read that strawberries are a good companion to asparagus and help to keep the weeds down. As I’m tidying up the strawberry towers, I’ve also noticed a couple of gaps. So I bought 20 bare root plants for the asparagus patch and six plants for the towers. Then my Kitchen Garden arrived and they had an offer of 20 plants for £7 and so I have lots of strawberry plants for this year.

I will plant them this weekend

One of the few things I have managed over the winter is the front of the plot.

I’ve been thinking a row of erigeon down the side, it’s the type of plant I like, hardy, self-seeding and a bit wayward. So I bought some from Thompson and Morgan, and then as it happens they flogged me 24 lavender plugs for £6 and a little star jasmine. Yes, I’m a sucker but I’m a sucker with lots of plants!

So the task for this weekend is more tidying up and potting up strawberries, I got the square beds cleared and weeded the paths around them. Sorted out another of the strawberry towers and planted some of the heath pearlwort in between the tiles

One tidy strawberry tower and one waiting for its glow up

It’s just going to be more weeding, until the compost arrives

This is weeded, yes I need some woodchip!
This requires work!

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Monday Miscellany: Signs of Spring

Happy Monday!

It’s March! I’m pretty sure that January was two days ago…

We’ve started to get 10 hours of ‘daylight’ every day. It’s still England, so it’s very grey daylight but it has made a difference as I’ve started to wake up a bit and become more human, less cave gollum!

Everything is pretty much as it was the last time I came onto this space, Ma is still wobbly, I’m still busy at work, the plot is still in need of tidying, the usual stuff.

The biggest thing so far this year has been going back to the hospital for the same thing I was at the hospital for last year. The treatment that they hoped would work, has not and in fact the problem is worse. The hope was that the coil would stop the bleeding and reduce the migraines, it hasn’t, I have had more cramping, the consultant misread the ultrasound and there was another hysteroscopy last week, which was no fun. As I predicated, there is nothing wrong, it seems that I need more progestogen. (The pattern of my life for all issues, achievements, problems etc are for them to be C+ to B-, I’m often slightly above average but no more than that. I’m the person that’s in the foyer of the cinema as it bursts into flames not watching the movie. Yes, that did actually happen which is why I use it as an example! I don’t do the intense highs and lows of anything and I know how glib it sounds but it is largely true and I am mostly grateful for it but is does mean that there are less clear and straightforward solutions to the issues that I do have!)

It was very, very ouch and I was not happy about it but grateful to know that it’s nothing serious. I’m also still bleeding and cramping and my back has decided to play up too! I’m feeling very 50-something!

It has been a couple of very social weeks for me. My weekends are pretty busy anyway, but I’m going into week four of weekends that involve being outside and social beyond my usual Ma/work/allotment trifecta. Haircut’s, Christelle and Mike’s, Jonny’s 60th birthday party, which means I missed out on Christina’s 40th. (who am I that I have competing social events? Actually, 10 years ago, I turned down Jonny’s 50th for Christina’s 30th and then was too ill to go to either, so this is a improvement, a decade later) but this weekend is just Grace.

Jonny’s amazing cake/present from Lynda.

No one will be surprised to learn that I have prepped for all of this socialising by cleaning the flat and food prep. If my social battery is completely drained then at least the kitchen is clean! We’re also going into Lent this week (hopping out of Ordinary Time) which means there will be pancakes in my life this week and ashing.

I’m trying to get my mojo back this week by spending the first three days of the week in the office. It just has to be done!

Have the best week you can!

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