The Weekend

The Weekend started for me on Thursday night. Which means I was only at work 2 days last week! I wish I could say that I had a restful, lazy weekend. That was not the case!

On Friday, I went to Putney to meet Jo and Ms T for lunch. Tabitha is getting so big!

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Here she is showing me her ‘mean’ face

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I guess this is what happens if a 3 year old feels she hasn’t had enough chips!

On Friday night, I needed to clear the living room in preparation for painting it on Saturday. Until I had to move all the furniture and all the books, I didn’t think there was much in that room. I was wrong, I do have quite a few books..

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I also had to deal with this. Mould on the external wall, I’m blaming the really damp year we’ve had, nothing, houses, walls, lungs has had a chance to dry out and this is the result. It’s an easy enough fix, wash with bleach, leave to dry, paint with damp seal but I wanted to get that done before I went to bed so that we didn’t have to hang around waiting for it to dry.

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Saturday dawned beautiful and sunny. Ma came over about 10:30 and after some coffee, we started painting.

Amazingly we were done by 2pm. We then needed to give it 4 hours before we could move anything back. So we ate some cheese, I had a shower, I was covered in paint took the curtains to the dry cleaners and then went the dump and did some food shopping.

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After helping me move the furniture back in, Ma went home and left me to put the books and other stuff back in. I did this with some help from my friends gin and tonic!

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I didn’t get to bed until about 2am and didn’t really sleep in on Sunday morning either which is ridiculous. During the week, the alarm goes off at 6am and I can go straight back to sleep but at the weekend, I can’t! Anyway at about 8.30am, I gave up the fight for more sleep and got on with food prep and washing.

Sunday afternoon, was spent at the National Theatre, to see This House and my next book buying will probably be the Dominic Sandbrook’s books on Britain in the 70’s, I was (just) alive when this happened and I know the major stuff, minority Parliament, Hesletine swinging the mace around his head, no pairing, the Winter of Discontent and the rise of Thatcher in the Tory Party and Militant in Labour, but I don’t really know it, nothing more distant than the near past, I guess.

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What was interesting was listening to the ladies in front of me during the break. To understand the play you need to know something about Parliment and get our sense of humour.  The poor ladies in front of me were American and a lot confused for much of the play. Which is better than the lady behind me who was convinced that the Queen’s Silver Jubilee was in 1974 and didn’t have the excuse of being from another country (it was 1977!). There’s an NT live of this play on 16 May and if you can’t get to London or get tickets, it’s well worth seeing if there’s a cinema near you showing it (even if you’re not in the UK, there are loads of places outside of UK signed up to do it!)

After the play, Ma and I had a glass of wine (or two) and headed home.

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After a journey home that took much longer than usual (engineering works on the Piccadily line and no trains going through West Ealing – I’m a Londoner, I don’t drive, I am therefore obsessed with London’s transport infrastructure or lack of it!), I spent some time sorting myself out for Monday, I did what I could but I just ran out of time before bed!

It’s been a weird weekend that way, I’ve achieved loads and been very productive but at the same time I’m still behind on stuff. I need to spend a couple of evenings this week doing boring houseworky stuff so that I have clothes to wear this week.

That’s what I got up to. What did you do with the weekend?

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Friday Links

Happy Friday, I shall be spending the day sorting out the living room so I can paint it tomorrow and having lunch with Jo and Ms T. This weeks links are very political. You have been warned.

1) Willie Nelson being cool and calling for equal rights.

I never thought of  marriage as something only for men and women. But I’d never marry a guy I didn’t like.

2) 10 lies about welfare.

Some call these myths. I call them lies. We are being told lies about who caused this crisis and lied to about the best way out of it. But I know one thing to be true: this government’s polices will make millions of people poorer and more afraid. To do that when you do not have to, when there are other options, is obscene.

3) Zoe Williams on Wednesday’s Daily Mail headline. Just when you think they can’t get any worse..

In part, this is just what hardship does. Generosity drops away and distrust is amplified and embellished, to use as a fig leaf over a spirit of meanness. But the roots go back further than the financial crash, to the widening inequality that has had as its inevitable side-effect a growing and real suspicion between social groups, whose lives and circumstances bisected one another less and less.

4) Martin Rowson on class.

5) MP for Durham on what it’s like to live on very little indeed. I fed myself on £15 a month 2 years ago for nine-ish months. It was tough and I had all the cooking things I needed and a freezer. I also had family and friends who weren’t in the same boat and took me to dinner now and again and bought me the odd bottle of wine. But two years ago Sainsburys basic flour was 48p a packet and now it’s 65p, the cost of food has gone massively and given the weather last summer and this winter it’s not going to get any cheaper..

Most shocking of all was the fact that come Sunday I ran out of food—there was literally nothing left to eat that night. If Ministers are happy with the notion that 660,000 of our fellow citizens are literally not going to have enough to eat by the end of the week, all I can say is that I pity them because they have no pity and no conception of what they are going to do to the people in our constituencies who will be faced with this bedroom tax.

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On my mind..

1) Why do people say blog when they mean post? A blog is a collection of posts. This is a post on a blog. I keep saying it but language matters, get it right for the sake of my sanity.

2) Having a fringe requires more maintenance than I remembered.

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3) I need to take everything out of the living room on Friday so I can paint the room on Saturday.

4) This is one of the weeks when I agree with the world that I have too many books.

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5) Actually I just have too many things.

6) Where am I going to put the living room.

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7) I’ve only had a two day working week, why am I so tired?

8) I must ring Jo

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9) This post about foreign supermarkets, made me think about Cote d’Ivoire and the packaging in the supermarkets there.

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10) I feel like we’re in some kind of Games of Thrones universe, not so much winter is coming, more winter will never end.

11) I love it when the clocks go forward, why is everyone complaining?

What random things have been going through your head this week?

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The Weekend

This is a very late post because last night and most of today I had a migraine, not fun! So this is what I did over the Bank Holiday weekend..

On Friday, I did very little. Some sleep, some reading, I meditated my way through the Stations of the Cross because it was good Friday!). The idea was to have a restful day and then go to Ma’s for dinner. It didn’t happen because I felt so tired and grumpy, I think it’s a hangover from the sick I had all through March, so rather than inflict that on Ma, I stayed at home.

I was determined to do Saturday differently and bounced out of bed at 8am and started to  do stuff. Ma and I went to Jane’s to have haircuts and I decided it was time to have my fringe back.

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It feels really strange to have a fringe again and it feels odd that it’s strange, before I grew it out about 2 and half years ago, I’d pretty much always had a fringe so I can’t get my head around having one again!

Then Ma, I went to Homebase and bought all the paint and a new toilet seat because if you’re not living on the edge, you’re taking up too much room!

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We followed this up with a trip to M&S so Ma could buy some wine and we also completely failed to buy any lamb and so bought some whisky and champagne instead, it was the day of middle class shopping!

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That done, I spent Saturday evening, tidying up, putting the new toilet seat on so that’s a new skill I’ve acquired, and putting all the clocks forward.

On Sunday, we were due up in Watford for lunch for Laura’s birthday. Ben came and picked Ma and I from my house. Lunch was fun. Oli is such a boy. Give a three year old a crutch and it’s going to be a gun..

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Then he was a pirate..

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He did help his mummy blow out her candles though..

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Ma stayed with me on Sunday night, Monday was a quiet sorting myself out day and enjoying the fact the sun was shining.

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Feels like it’s been ages since we’ve seen the sun, it’s still freezing but I can live with that for a little while longer if the sun is shining.

How was your weekend?

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April Goals

Time to think about goals for April.

For this month, I’ve decided to keep it simple, I don’t have much on this month and I’m aware that I’m running a 5km at the start of June, so I need to put some effort into training for that. At the end of this month, I’m on holiday for a week in Amble (yes again, we love it there and there are lots of ruined things for us to see!). So for this month I’m keeping it simple.

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1) Paint the living room.

2) Paint the shelves in my bedroom

Fitness

3) Gym 2 x 30 minutes walk/run sessions a week

4) At least 1 longer run outside a week

What about you? What are you doing for April?

 

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Birthdays

Two of my favourite people have birthdays today..

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Laura

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Both of them in very different ways are important in my life and both of them are family.

Happy Birthday guys!

 

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Sunday Music

It’s Easter Sunday and I wanted something that felt Easter-ish. A while back Grace did an Easter Vigil and this is what we went out to..

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March Goals Update and 2013 Quarterly Review.

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It’s almost the end of March and time for a monthly update and just to add to the fun, a quarterly update on my 2013 goals.  Because of all the update fun, I’m not going to set goals in this post, I’ll either post them later today or sometime over the weekend (it’s Easter weekend so that’s anywhere from now until Monday night!).

Let’s start with March. It’s been a horrible month, the third cold of the year (what the hell is wrong with my immune system?) turned into bronchitis, it feels like I’ve spent most of the month at work, travelling to work or in bed trying to get enough rest so I have the energy to go to work. It’s been emotional (and if you can tell me the movie that’s from, you win absolutely nothing at all!) and frustrating. Other stuff, like the tooth trauma, which I’m still processing if the amount of dreams I’m having about losing my teeth is any guide (and I’ve been shocked to find out how many people I know are missing teeth) and people being away at work didn’t help make the month anymore fun. I missed updating last week so I’m catching up for two weeks! The results are not great.

Food

1) Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

Coffee – 15/12. I had a week of drinking coffee almost every day and I really don’t regret it because I would not have got out of bed let alone into work but I got back on track last week and this, so while I could have forsaken coffee this week to meet the goal, I decided not to and let it stand.

Alcohol – 15/12. I was one over for the whiskey as a mouthwash and I will admit to one G&T last Wednesday and drinks with Christelle on Thursday night. I’m not too bothered about this either, I’m not drinking every day and I’m not drinking excessively at all. So for me this is not so good, don’t let it become a habit but not terrible in a really awful month.

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Self care

2) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs).

20/20 this has been easy, I’ve been keeping schoolnight rules on the weekend too because I’ve been so tired.

3) Paint my nails!

I slipped a bit mid-month, the combination of sickness and not looking after them for a week just destroyed my nails, so I bought some proper nail strengthener treatment stuff and am using that, my nails are painted but clear not coloured.

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4) Book an appointment with a dentist.

Done, see above note about the tooth trauma. I do have to go back next month other than the one tooth which is an issue the dentist says that they’re all fine.

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5) Sort out the DVD’s in the living room.

Done, still haven’t blogged about it but will take some photos this weekend and show you next week.

6) Sort out the pictures in the kitchen.

Sort of done, I need to print some photos and sort some frames, but it’s nearly there and I’ll blog about it soon.

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Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. 

Fail. Didn’t get to the gym at all in March but half of the month that was ’cause the doctor told me not to go! This will be a re-do for April.

8) 2 10k walks in March

Nope, another exercise fail. You see this picture below, this was taken last year and when it was warm. However, March has not been a month of spring like weather, whereas this time last year it was warm and sunny, this year it has been cold and sleety.  Not really walking weather.

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So it wasn’t a great month but there’s another coming up! Onto 2013 goals. How am I doing.

1.Run a 5km in under 30 minutes.

Not good.  I haven’t run properly this year at all. However, I have a 5km booked in June so am back on the bandwagon for April.

2. Run a 10km, no time target for this, but under 1h10m would be great.    

See above. No progress but plenty of time left in the year for me to achieve this.                          

3. Use the gym twice a week or give up the membership.

I’m not giving up the membership yet because in April, I’m back in the game!

4. Have a medical.  

I haven’t booked this yet mainly because I don’t think I can book the one that work gives us until later in the year.

5. Keep a record of my spending so I know what is or isn’t in my bank account.

I’m doing so well with this, I had a bit of a carefree March, but I knew where the money was and what money was coming in and going out of the bank account.

6. No credit card usage at all for 2013.                  

I cannot tell a lie, I have used one of my cards, twice. First to buy my yearly travelcard and then to book my flight to Washington in September. Most of it has already been paid off and although it’s not fantastic to use them, I’m happy with why and have a plan.

7. Set up a ‘Christmas’ account to pay for next Christmas, have at least £120 in that account. 

I’ve so done this.  I’m way over £120. This is mostly because I had a tax rebate but also because I’ve been putting all my change into the savings account and I just like seeing that total go up.

8. Volunteer.

I haven’t done anything about this yet. 

9. Buy no more than 12 books.

I’ve bought 1 book so far this year.  The Smitten Kitchen Cookbook, which I’ve had on order since last year. The rest I have borrowed off other people or have been in my house already.  I’ve found this both harder and easier than I thought. I can go ages without thinking I need a new book and it’s fine and then I wander by a second hand bookshop (cheap books) and have to remind myself that if a book is new to me, it counts! It’s tough and we’re going to be near Barter Books in a month’s time, help.

10. Painting.    

Living room painting is planned for April!

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Friday Links

Today is Good Friday so it’s nearly Easter and (in the UK at least) it’s a Bank Holiday. This week’s round up of stuff I thought was interesting.

1) Alan Rushbridger on Leveson and press reform. What’s really puzzled me about this is that a significant amount of the Press seem not to understand what has so outraged people. If you misuse your toys at some point someone will decide to take them away, the Press really needs to sit down and remember that with rights come responsibility, they can’t shout about press freedom and not take on the responsibility of reporting the truth without hacking into dead girls phones.

So, no one has the monopoly of principle. But this much is clear: the old system of regulation was feeble. Leveson uncovered much that was shameful about significant parts of the press – with more dismaying allegations doubtless soon to emerge in the courts. The most powerful newspaper group in the country was – on the kindest interpretation – out of control. The police and parliament were cowed.

We badly need reform. We also need a free press. Achieving both can’t be done at speed or in the dark.

2) Prayers and protests. I’m very pro-choice, which is not the same as pro-abortion and 40 Days for Life set up in Ealing this year, they drive me bananas because they lie and telling someone they’re a murderer is not helping..

A Marie Stopes spokesperson says that their main concern is targeting the “misleading information … given to [women] by protesters”. Flicking through a 40 Days leaflet, it’s clear that this is a problem. Saturated in emotive language about “your tiny baby”, its pseudo-medical statements imply that abortions often cause “serious physical complications” – a tactic that has earned them the moniker 40 Days for Lies among counter-protesters.

3) George Monbiot on the dividing line between public and private.

When the threshold is crossed, everything changes. Money spent in the private sector is deemed by politicians and the media to be a good thing. Money spent in the public sector is deemed a bad thing, even though (or perhaps because) it is more effective at distributing wealth. If you are on the right side of the line, the government will deregulate your business. If you are on the wrong side of the line (schools and hospitals, for example), it will subject you to ever more draconian regulation, with cruel and unusual punishments for the slightest resistance to its crazy targets and intrusive inspections.

4) A legal challenge about where Richard III’s remains should be buried. I thought York because that was where he wanted to be buried. However, for distant relatives (very distant) to claim that not being consulted on this is a breach of human rights is ridiculous, they didn’t know where he was buried at all until recently..

The licence stipulated that the king’s remains should be “deposited in [Leicester’s] Jewry Wall museum or else be re-interred at [the city’s] St Martin’s Cathedral or a burial ground in which interments may legally take place”.

That latitude of interpretation has stirred up a popular debate over the location of Richard III’s final resting place. Any site is likely to attract significant tourist business.

5) 100 rules of dinner. I like 87.

87. If you care about what other people thing about you and your parenting abilities, it is important that your kids only ask for their water “on the rocks” at home.

6) The problem with foodstamps/vouchers/payment cards. The only thing that kept me sane when I was unemployed was that I could control my household expenditure for the occasional treal, I could live on lentil soup for a week so I could afford a night out, not an expensive night out, just a couple of drinks with a friend.

I see those pragmatic arguments now as a Maginot line, and food stamps marched in over the undefended territory of human dignity. When you relegate people to a world outside money, you create a true underclass: a group of people whose privacy and autonomy are worth less than everyone else’s, who are stateless in a world made of shops.

7) The ultimate chocolate truffle.

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What I’ve Read – March 2013

How did we get to March already? I’ve struggled with reading this month, I started to re-read Paul Kendall Murray’s Richard the Third (it’s been about 20 years since I read it) but got too sick to concentrate so defaulted to easier books, but I still haven’t read much because I was in but trying to sleep at about 8.30pm each night!

10) The Sunne in Splendour – Sharon Penman

Because I couldn’t concentrate on the Paul Kendell Murray, I re-read this, I love this book and first read it when I was about 15, it fitted perfectly with my interest in medieval history. It was great to read it again having been to Middleham, which is my favourite castle, we’re going again in April on the way to Northumberland.

11) The Making of a Marchioness – Frances Hodgson Burnett

Tina gave me this to read as she thought that it was just the thing for a not very well person. It was. I didn’t realise that Frances Hodgson Burnett wrote adult stories. Emily Fox-Seton is a woman of a certain class who has no money and no family or friends to fall back on. Despite this she is a cheerful woman of about 34 and makes a living doing odd jobs for people, shopping, finding them servants and generally being useful and cheerful. She is an innocent and good things happen to her, then some bad things and then some good things. It’s a warm cuddle of a book.

12) The Clockwork Princess – Cassandra Clare

This is the second book, I’ve bought this year and I bought it on the Kindle. I read it in one day. It was fun and a nice ending to the series, I want to see how this will link into the   next Mortal Instruments book. Anyway, I enjoyed it and if YA is your thing, you probably will too.

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