The Weekend

My weekend officially started on Thursday night because I had Friday as leave. Unfortunately, I spent Friday indoors, feeling poorly and coughing!

I felt marginally better on Saturday, which was good because I had the family coming over for a Mother’s Day lunch. We had roast lamb and yorkshire puddings (not traditional but good anyway) followed by pavlova, which is Laura’s favourite pudding.

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Oli wasn’t too keen on eating but he was keen on exploring the flat and rescuing people..

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This is me waiting to be rescued. Oli decided that he needed some help from his Grandma

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He was also keen on colouring in and making paper aeroplanes!

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Ma stayed on Saturday night and on Sunday I cooked a full English breakfast.

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Full of food we went for a walk but by the afternoon, I was flagging and Ma decided to go home so I could have a sleep. Which I did.

That was the weekend, this week I shall be mostly working, sleeping and trying to shake this cold/cough/throat thing, I’m so over it and feeling this rough?

How was your weekend? Did you do Mother’s Day?

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Sunday Music: Puncture Repair – Elbow

Today is Mothers Day. There is so much music I can play that reminds me of my mother or that she loves.

I’m not even sure that she’s heard this one, however, it reminds me of her and what she has done for me and Ben (and would do for Laura and Oli if required!).

It’s such a simple, short song about the people we love. What I want to be to the people I love, what Ma is to me (not all the time, just when it matters).

Puncture Repair – Elbow

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March Goals Recap 1

 

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So week one of March over and done with. I caught a cold (another one for crying out loud!) at the beginning of the week and ended up spending yesterday at home with another very sore throat! As if to balance this cosmic unfairness, I got a letter from HMRC telling me that I’d overpaid tax and they were going to give me a rebate! Yay for tax rebates!!

Food

1) Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

3/3 on both.

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Self care

2) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs).

5/5 amazing how easy this is to do when you feel like rubbish!

3) Paint my nails!

They’re painted!

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4) Book an appointment with a dentist.

Booked I go to see them next week

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5) Sort out the DVD’s in the living room.

Done, I’ll show you next week!

6) Sort out the pictures in the kitchen.

Not done as I need a trip to Ikea first!

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Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. 

0/2, I had a cold and it wasn’t happening.

8) 2 10k walks in March

Not yet, I did a 5km on Monday night but I haven’t done this yet!

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How was your week?

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Friday Links

1) Is feminism still a useful term.

During her tenure at Google, she took pains to accommodate working mothers, only she did in a way that did not give them special status. (She allowed employees to identify their personal priorities, so a mom could leave early for a kid’s soccer game and a young man with no kids could leave early for a weekly potluck dinner with his old college roommates). She could have passed a special policy for working mothers. But Mayer’s way seems more viable in a world in which men and women compete equally for scholarships and jobs and are moving toward sharing domestic responsibilities, too.

2) While we’re on the subject of feminism. This week’s Start the Week is worth a listen, although I still want to strangle Catherine Hakim.

3) Spielberg to make a mini series on the life of Napoleon. My question is why, when you could make one about Wellington? Yes I know my bias is showing!

4) Whiskey for people that don’t like whiskey. Why would you do that?

you literally chose the coolest liquor in the world to insult. And guess what? Whiskey doesn’t care. That’s what makes it cool. The only other liquor that’s anywhere near as cool is Tequila. But Tequila’s always been too crazy to really be cool. Tequila will cut you for looking at its woman, then laugh while the cops drag it off to jail, and spit at you during the trial. And trust me you don’t want to pick on Vodka either. Dude doesn’t have much of a personality, but I swear he goes to the gym twice a day. You want the nerd of the liquor crew? Try Gin. You can give Gin an atomic wedgie and the worst it’ll do is scream that his daddy will have you banned from the yacht club.

5) Being poor is expensive and tough and why people who aren’t or haven’t been, don’t get it.

I find nothing more disingenuous than rich MPs or celebrities experimenting on television to see whether they can live on a weekly amount of X or Y and conclude “gosh it’s very hard, but doable”. Such meaningless exercises ignore the cumulative effect of poverty; they never start from a position of empty food cupboards, looming debt, threadbare clothes and shoes with holes in them. They ignore the devastating financial effect that a visit to the dentist or a child’s birthday or one late charge can have. They also ignore the fundamental psychological difference of “I know this will be over in a week” as opposed to “this may never end; this may just get worse”.

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Rich or poor, people matter (guest post)

As you may have guessed, I’m really close to my mum, she reads the blog and tells me what she thinks about it (and nags me about my inability to proof read properly.) I’ve been telling her she should write me a post, so I can have a day off and she has been agreeing but stalling because she said she didn’t have a topic, when she got involved in this, she didn’t have any excuses….

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Hi, I’m Jillian and Nic asked me to do a post for her. I was struggling with what to write about when fate intervened and the subject presented itself. I work for PwC (a financial services company) and they are currently running an initiative on NHS@75 – asking the public about their NHS experiences and how they think the NHS will look in 2023 – and they asked their staff if they would be interested in contributing to this.

I was born just after the NHS was founded, I received a lot of care from it when I was a child, I’ve worked in the NHS (as a nurse and in administration) and I’ve seen it in action caring for close relatives, so I was anxious to take part in the video that was being produced, giving a viewpoint to someone from every decade from the Forties to now.  Success! Here is the link to the video and yes, I am the person talking about the 1940s and the set up of the NHS (I think I was the only one born in the ’40’s that volunteered!)

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Doing this meant I had to think quite deeply about what the introduction  of the NHS had meant to people, particularly to me and my family, who were working class (Dad worked in a factory, Mum was a housewife after 1946, when my brother was born), so money was tight.  Before 1948, men who were employed were ‘on the panel’* and so were covered for seeing the doctor but there was nothing for wives and children.  So, very often, a visit to the doctor meant less (or no) money for food or rent or clothes.

Fortunately for me, I was born in December 1948, five months after the NHS came into being.  From the age of 4 until I was about 11, I had dodgy lungs**, so spent lots of time in hospital or having physiotherapy 3 times a week, being sent off to Broadstairs to convalesce and get really well (the NHS used to do things like that!). I was lucky, I got all this treatment free at the point of delivery, my parents didn’t have to make difficult decisions about what to spend their limited income on – had I been born a few years earlier, there was no way they could have afforded to pay, however much they went without to try and find the money, so who knows what the outcome would have been.

Thinking about this and what it meant to me has reinforced my belief that the founding of the NHS was one of the best and most civilised things that Britain has ever done; done at a time when the country was on it’s knees and deep in debt; done because people matter and lack of money shouldn’t stop them being healed; done because it was the right thing to do.

There have been some uncomfortable stories coming out from the NHS lately and the legislation (Health & Social Care Act) currently being implemented will fundamentally change the basis on which the NHS was founded. That basis was that people have intrinsic value, not related to their material worth, and that they matter. I recognise that there are demands on the NHS, far beyond anything anticipated when it was set up; as a country, we have to decide how much we value our NHS and how much we are prepared to give in tax, to defend it.  Once it’s gone, once the principle of universality is undermined, it won’t come back – no government will ever have the courage to bring it back.

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* The National Health Insurance, introduced in 1911, offered benefits to the contributor below a certain level of income but did not include dependants. Contributions were not graduated according to income but were paid at a flat rate – approximately half by the employee and half by the employer. In return for their contributions, individuals received cash benefits for sickness, accident and disability, paid at a fixed rate, regardless of severity that were distributed through insurance companies. Contributors also had the right to free but limited care from a doctor on a local list or panel. However, hospital treatment was only paid for if the contributor had tuberculosis. 

**not only dodgy lungs, she also had a hole in her cochlea in her ear that caused her to fall over and off things..

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Chicken and Goats Cheese Risotto

I used to cook risotto all the time, it’s a nice easy thing to cook. You can use the rice as a blank canvas and anything you like and it normally turns out really well. I’m not a risotto purist, I don’t have a pot of stock simmering on the hob while I make risotto, I do make stock occasionally, but mostly I use a stock cube (these ones in fact) and use one cube to a litre of water. You don’t have to stir this all the time but the more you stir, the creamier it will be.

There was a packet of arborio rice that needed using up lurking in the cupboard and some chicken left over from a roast. So it was time to make some risotto. Generally I think that risotto should be kept simple but it’s easy to get carried away and add loads of stuff to it. I started this one off with chicken, onion and mushrooms but decided that it looked a little beige, so threw in some peas at the last minute to add some colour. It’s not too overloaded and tasted really good.

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The ‘recipe’ below serve two greedy people. I ate it for dinner, had some for lunch the next day and used the rest to make a sort of arancini.

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What

2 tablespoons olive oil

1 medium onion, chopped

4oz/110g cooked chicken, chopped

2 large chesnut mushrooms, chopped

7oz/200g risotto rice

2fl oz/60ml vermouth

2 pints/1 litre hot chicken stock

A couple of handfuls of frozen peas

2oz/50g gevrik goats cheese  (anything with a rind will do!)

How

1) Heat the olive oil in a pan over a medium heat. Add the onion and cook until soft.

2) Add the chicken and mushrooms and cook for another minute or two.

3) Add the rice and combine everything together, making sure that rice is coated in the oil

4) Add the vermouth and stir until it has been absorbed into the rice.

5) Add about a cupful of the stock and stir in until absorbed. Continue to do this, a cupful at a time. When you’ve got about about 2 cupfuls of stock left add the peas.

6) When all the stock is used up and the rice is creamy, take off the each and add the cheese, stirring until the cheese has melted. Season to taste.

7) Eat with a green salad or by itself.

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Wash your make up brushes

Last week after the gym, I was saying that regular gym going and then having to put make up on myself while I was hot and a bit sweaty was at least making sure that I washed my make up brushes regularly. And so discovered that some people never wash their make up brushes at all.

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This lead to a discussion of why (like cutting your hair every six weeks and taking your make up off your face before you go to bed) washing your make up brushes is an important and sensible thing to do. The argument goes like this:

1) You are putting those things on your face, they accumulate make up, dirt, bits of skin, germs, sweat and are a breeding ground for dirt and then you rub them on your face. It’s like rubbing dirt onto your clean face. Why would you do that? All that money you spend on fancy make up and face cream, wasted because you’re brushing dirt onto your face.

2) Dirty brushes don’t work as well as clean brushes and you’re not getting the best out of your make up if you’re applying it with something that’s all clogged up.

3) You’re rubbing dirt and germs into your face. Got spots? Now you know why.

4) It lengthens the life of the brushes, I’ve had most of mine for nearly five years, you should look after your stuff!

As you can probably tell, this went on for a while, punctuated by me, shuddering when I thought about it and muttering about dirt and disgusting yucky things. This is quite funny because I am as a general rule, not overly concerned about germs. I like things to be tidy and I like things to be clean but I’m not a person to over use anti germ sprays etc. I think that healthy immune systems need germs to function and I can’t be doing with people who anti-septic everything in sight.

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However, I wear make up every day and so I wipe down my make up brushes every day (baby wipes are fabulous things) and I wash my make up brushes at least every other week. If you don’t and you think I’m mad, take a look at the picture below, this is the colour of the water after I’ve washed my brushes.

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You can buy fancy make up brush wash but I use baby shampoo. I wash them all once and then do it again and rinse them under running water. It takes about ten minutes.

Before anyone asks, I wash my hairbrushes once a month too!

So what do you think? Am I a mad and OCD? Do you wash your make up brushes?

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The Weekend

This weekend was very Oli-centric so if small children aren’t your thing, look away now.

On Friday, I left work at 4pm and Ma and I headed up to Watford to pick Oli up. Oli had (according to Kai and his parents) been looking forward to the weekend all day but when confronted with the reality of me and his Grandma, had a screaming tantrum. Sigh.

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He calmed down a bit, was presented with his choices, chose and then went mental again! After some time, in the street no less, I gave him two options, walk or be carried. More wailing and I picked  him up and carried him to the end of the street. It was like a reset. He was fine for the rest of the evening. We walked to the shops, cooked dinner, Oli ‘helped’

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put the boy to bed and then did the crossword and had a glass of wine.

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I didn’t have the easiest of nights. Kurt the cat normally sleeps with Ben and Laura, he’s an old cat and didn’t see why someone else sleeping in ‘his’ bed should make a difference. He was a hairy purring nuisance all night and not being at all acquainted with the habits of cats generally and Kurt in particular, I didn’t realise that glasses of water are in danger of becoming Kurt’s if you leave them on the side and was woken up in the early hours of Friday morning by him drinking it, quite loudly!

Oli slept in on Saturday morning until about 7.30am, yay for lie ins!

There was coffee, improvised with one of Oli’s drinking cups and the remains of the cafetiere (Ben goes through them at a ridiculous rate!)

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Then we all headed off to the Science Museum.

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We had a full morning, there was playing and the bubble show (I liked the bubbles filled with carbon dioxide best), Oli liked playing.

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Lunch and home for tea. Oli insisted on taking his umbrella (his Grandma is a soft touch!) and putting it up to keep warm.

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On Sunday, we did some painting and played.

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Then just after lunch, Ben and Laura came home, much to Oli’s delight! Ma and I went home and I had a very quiet afternoon and an early night!

That was pretty much it. This week, I’m out tonight with the LCS and then next weekend is Mothers Day so the family are here for lunch.

What are your plans for the week? How what your weekend?

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Sunday Music

Last week, on the radio, I heard this song. It’s best known as a Groucho Marx song and I know it from my favourite film, The Philadelphia Story*. Russell Davis recalled that Groucho was a great fan of Gilbert and Sullivan and this is apparently what the writer of the song latched onto, I think it’s glorious..

This is Groucho doing the whole thing…

This is the clip from The Philadelphia Story

 

*and you should go and find the film and watch it, Cary Grant, James Stewart and Katharine Hepburn all at the height of their powers…so good.

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February Goal Recap / March Goals

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Hello, we are now in March and it’s time to recap February and tell everyone what I’m planning for March.

After January’s success, February has been a bit of a disappointment, I failed at exercise and while I was ok with the other stuff, I wasn’t focussed and didn’t feel in control. For next month I need to kick myself into action and just get it done!

Here’s the round up.

Food

1) Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

15 out of 15 for the coffee. 13 out of 15 for the alcohol – Monday night drinking two weeks in a row! I’m still happy with this, it’s a good balance and I’m going to keep it on the list as it’s a good motivator.

2) Take my lunch to work

14 out of 15. Happy with that. One day due to not having any food in the house after being sick. Yay for organisation! It’s embedded now.

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3) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs).

17 out of 19. This is my top tip for getting better sleep.

4) Moisturiser and general maintenance.

28 out of 28. Only area of weakness is my nails, which I will focus on next month.

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5) Paint the living room.

This has been put back a month or two.

6) Dust under the bed, find out what’s underneath it.

Amazingly, this has made me feel more in control of floor cleaning (which I loathe!)

Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. Again this is one of my 2013 goals, so time to be dedicated about it. Tuesday and Thursday lunchtime, no messing about, no being a brat. Also I have a 5km booked in June so will need to start training properly in March, this is a good run up!

1 of 8. Fail, fail, fail.  I’m going to reset this for next month and make it happen.

8) Three times a week I will do the set of exercises below three times. I think that Monday, Wednesday and Saturday might work quite well! I won’t enjoy it but I am going to do it.

20 squats /12 sit ups/12 press ups/1 minute plank

8 of 12. Nope, need to sort my life out

March Goals

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So clearly for March I need to make exercise a priority, I feel better when I do it, I just need to overcome my laziness.

Food

1) Coffee and alcohol, no more than 3 times a week.

Same as last month, because it’s an easy way to keep on track.

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2) No computer after 9pm on a school night (Sun to Thurs).

It’s a good goal and I like the motivation of having to tell the blog about it if I muck up!

3) Paint my nails!

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I’ve been taking care of myself in the little ways really well. However, my nails have been breaking like mad, I think this is because I haven’t been painting them. Having them painted seemed to remind me to oil my cuticles and use hand cream more. I haven’t been doing that since Christmas and my nails are very unhappy and short and breakable. So I need to get back into the habit of painting them and because I hate having chipped fingernails, that will mean twice weekly!

4) Book an appointment with a dentist.

I really need to see a dentist. Since my lovely dentist stopped working I’ve basically ignored my need to see one not because I’m scared of them at all but because I don’t trust anyone who isn’t Shiona with my teeth. Then my tooth broke and it’s just got to happen.

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5) Sort out the DVD’s in the living room.

I’ll do a post about this but basically I need to sort them out and use those shelves for the book overflow because in my home the books have priority!

6) Sort out the pictures in the kitchen.

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I’ve been meaning to do this for months, I know what I want to do and I just need to get it done. I’ll do a post about this as well.

Exercise

7) Gym twice a week. 

I’m having  a do over for this one.

8) 2 10k walks in March

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The weather is getting better, Spring is nearly here, I need to get out in the fresh air. It’s also a bit of training for Northumberland in April!

How did you do with your goals in February? What do you have planned for March?

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