Friday Links

Happy Friday, this is another one of my 4 day weeks, I’m going to spend the day in Brighton tomorrow with Christelle and Mike and C’s brother and sister-in-law. Luckily the weather has taken a turn for the better, so the seaside should be a nice place to be. This weekend is busy-ish. Ma and I are at the theatre on Saturday afternoon (A View from the Bridge at the Young Vic) and then going straight up to Watford to babysit Oli for the night. I think the plan is pizza and Uno!

Ma is staying with me on Saturday night, so Sunday will probably be a lazy day with breakfast at Papillon and maybe a walk. Here is some reading for over the weekend!

1) Stop saying eating clean.

2) This probably comes under things that the NHS do not cover and I could never afford, but if I had the money, I’d do it and it’s not about not loving my body as it is, it’s about sometimes not wanting to wear undergarments, a small family could camp in!

3) So last Sunday was Mother’s Day in the US. (Another thing they’re wrong about!) This is both informative and slightly horrifying!

4) Grief and eating. I remember that when Grandad was dying, Ma was basically living on a small sherry and hula hoops for dinner. I lost a lot of weight when Stef died (when I’m really happy or really unhappy, I can’t eat) and I remember thinking at the time that my life had gone completely sideways but at least I was thin! We all do it differently but it’s a really strange time..

5)  A baboon troop had a change of culture when all the bullies died off. There is hope for us yet and also how cool is it that we call a group of baboons ‘a troop’..

6) Ok so after the wash out that was Chelsea’s season, I may be getting excited for the World Cup. I really don’t expect England to do that well but I am happy that Ashley Cole, who wasn’t selected for the England set up, reacted better than this. Also I love Didier Deschamps so no being nasty to him either.

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Food things I’m loving

Pact Coffee

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I love coffee and having coffee sent to you is amazing! The India Bibi is my drug of choice and I use it at the the office in the mornings. It has the thumbs up from Laura at work too!

Fruyo

I’m slightly obsessed with these yogurts, especially the lemon and cherry flavours.

Pork Ragu

I made this at the weekend and it’s very good and very easy. I changed it up a bit from the original recipe but I was so impressed with it, I rang Ma to tell her how good it was! Trust me, make this, soon!

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French Yoghurt Cake

This weekend, I made a version of this cake.

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The basic idea is that you use a pot of yoghurt and then use the yoghurt pot to measure the other ingredients. It’s a really simple cake and you can gussy it up any way you fancy. I’ve seen it made with flavoured yoghurt and greek yoghurt whatever you have. I have never seen this cake in France. Tess tells me it exists and she makes it. She says it’s like fairy cakes here, the first baking experience children have, she made it with her grandma, with her English mother she made fairy cakes! Christelle has never mentioned it but then her mother is Italian!

Tess doesn’t really bake but this cake makes a regular appearance in her house because it is easy and adaptable, my holy grail for cake recipe! I’ve seen it made it with strawberry yoghurt and strawberries which is surprisingly good and I like a version with lemon greek yoghurt and lemon icing too. This is a Sunday, sort of cake, something you whip up on Sunday morning for after lunch pudding or afternoon tea, you make it plain or add stuff to it and it’s always good.

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I didn’t have a small pot of yoghurt because I buy it in big pots so I used 150g as my yoghurt measure and scaled up and down from there.

What

150g plain yoghurt

300g caster sugar

450g plain flour

75g melted butter

1 teaspoon baking powder

3 eggs

1 teaspoon vanilla paste

150 grams blackberries

How

  1. Pre-heat oven to 200c (my oven runs very hot so I always go for 190C but it’s not going to make too much difference!)
  2. Grease a pan. I used mu usual round pan which is 8 inches I think
  3. Spread the blackberries in the bottom of the pan.
  4. Put all everything else in a mixing bowl and combine until you have a fairly stiff cake mix.
  5. Spread the cake mix into the pan and over the blackberries.
  6. Bake for about 35 to 40 minutes until a skewer inserted in the centre comes out clean.

 

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The Morning Smoothie

Last week, I changed up my breakfast routine and had smoothies for a couple of days.

I’ve not been feeling fantastic so the opportunity to cram some extra fruit and vegetables into my routine felt like a good idea. I really enjoy the ‘magic smoothie’, I call it the magic smoothie but it’s actually called the Apple Pie Spinach Smoothie and is from Back to Her Roots. I like them a lot, but my issue last week was that it contains applesauce and apple juice, which aren’t things I generally have on hand. I’m not going off on a rant but applesauce isn’t something you can buy in jars over here, unless it’s baby food which gets expensive.

So I made something up.  I really liked it, although it has spinach and kale in it, it has enough fruit in it to make it sweet and it tastes like a milkshake. I try not to to be obsessive about what I eat but if there’s one thing I think I might be deficient in it’s calcium. In an attempt to boost my intake, I’ve added a third of a cup of greek yoghurt and a cup of milk. I also add enough water to get it to blend but I don’t measure that I just add some and blend and add some more if it’s too thick.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAIn order to make my mornings easier, this weekend, I made up some smoothie packs for the freezer. Each pack contains a banana, an apple, a handful of frozen fruit (this was Waitrose’s Frozen Exotic Fruits mix – melon balls, pineapple, mango and papaya), a handful of shredded kale and a couple of handfuls of spinach.

 

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In the morning, I put a pack into the blender, go and have a shower. After I’ve dressed, I come back, add the milk and yoghurt to the slightly defrosted fruit and blend. Hey presto breakfast!

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Because I suck at making the right amount of anything, I generally make more of this than I’m able to fit in my cup or my belly, so the rest goes into an ice lolly mould and I have an after dinner dessert ready to go too!

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Sunday Music: Turnpike Troubadours – Gin, Smoke, Lies

Turnpike Troubadours – Gin, Smoke and Lies. Is it country? Technically it’s Red Dirt but country will do..

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Friday Links

It’s been another short work week and although I do like them, in fact I have another 2 coming up in May, they do discombobulate me somewhat.  It’s also been a very social time. Last Saturday at Ryan and Claire’s engagement party, Monday with the family, dinner with Jo on Tuesday, drinks tonight with Christelle, theatre on Saturday afternoon and Grace on Saturday night. My introvert brain is struggling to keep up and it’s PMT migraine hell week too! I will be mostly spending Sunday in silent contemplation…

1) Robin Lustig to UKIP voters…

2) Michael Fassbender, James McAvoy and Hugh Jackman dancing to Blurred Lines. It is as glorious as you think it is..

3) Phineas Gage and what his story ‘teaches’ us about neuroscience.

4) John Green and The Fault in Our Stars. I feel like an early adopter here. I had read all Green’s other books and I enjoy the videos when I remember to watch them. TFIOS made me cry like a girl (it’s the person dying of cancer thing – hits pretty close) and even Ma read it, not because I said she should but because R4 did! She said that TFIOS read like John Green sounded and it does.

5) It’s not the North/South divide we should be worrying about, it’s the rich/poor one.

6) Harry Baker at TED Exeter. It doesn’t surprise me that my friends Jen and Jonny have such talented children!

7) How to cook the perfect Malt Loaf. Malt loaf…yum..

 

 

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Silly

My family are pretty normal and straightforward. Ok, so Ben and I are closer to Mum than most adult children are to their parents but that’s cause she’s pretty awesome. Aside from that we don’t really stand out from the crowd, none of us are artists or musicians, we are not going to run the county or invent the next Google (although if one of us is, my money’s on Laura).

There is one area in which we excel. We are really, really good at being silly. It’s something that Ma and Dad were good at and has re-emerged since Oli was born, you can be sillier when you’re with a small child, but from the ‘teeny, tiny monks‘ on Holy Island to being the only adults on the merry-go-round. We are silly.

So on Monday when we went to the park, of course we all went on the swings and the zipwire.

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Ma declined to have a go and that meant that she was taunted with chicken noises for the rest of the afternoon.

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Later on there was a champion game of Uno. On Tuesday morning this was the text conversation between me and my brother.

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(for those that don’t get it, the fastest animal on land is a cheetah!)

This is my family, we are silly.

 

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What I’ve Read – March and April 2014

I didn’t post about my reading in March because I forgot, so you get two months reading in one and a discussion of book crack and not being ashamed of what you read.

So in April I read 9 books of one series, on the trot over about 12 days. Book crack, I blame R for introducing me to them and I’m not ashamed that I read them because I enjoyed them. However, I wasn’t going to talk about them in the ‘what i’ve read’ round up because they are romance books.

I thought about that for a bit. I am out and proud about my love of YA, am quite happy to admit to liking Sci-fi and Fantasy (and Georgette Heyer, which is romance BTW) but I’d somehow bought into the idea that reading romance was a ‘bad thing’ and marked me as a particular sort of person. The much mocked spinster that reads romances and adores her cat pops into my head about now. Which is weird because I’m all about liking the bits of culture that you like and not grading some as more worthy than others. We’ve all met those people, the people who say ‘I go the theatre, they watch films’,  ‘I read literary works of fiction, they read genre fiction’, ‘I don’t watch television or when I do it’s only the stuff that the Guardian reviews, not Mrs Brown’s Boys’.  As if somehow, what they like makes them better people.

I think I already covered this aspect of the culture wars when I wrote about why I don’t have a television, I like the things that I like, you like the things that you like, if we all liked the same things no-one would be able to get tickets to see Coriolanus at the Donmar….oh wait. Anyway my point still stands, I like theatre and Marvel films, classic novels and YA, The Wire, Buffy and Mrs Brown’s Boys. I’m complex like that, most people are.

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I read because I enjoy it. I read Austen and Neil Gaiman, Bronte (except for Wuthering Heights – I just can’t finish that book, I just end up throwing it at a wall because I cannot be doing with the stupid, stupid characters) and John Green. I’m not ashamed of who I am or what I like and I’m very clear that unless what you like harms others, I’m not going to judge you on it either. I don’t watch Big Brother but I adore The Vampire Diaries, both of those choices can be viewed as problematic but let’s just let people like what they like.

So this month I read 9 romance novels, when the next one is published, I’ll read that too, I may branch out and read other romance novels recommended by R and the ladies at Smart Bitches, Trashy Books (because the Bitchery is awesome) and I’ll just get on with it. If that means you think less of me and my intellect, then I’ll live.

My Life Next Door – Huntley Fitzpatrick

New adult light reading. Not taxing on the brain with happy ending but did feature parents, even the nice ones, behaving irresponsibly. I liked that even though the family next door were the ‘model’ they weren’t perfect and even their children had issues with the choices that they made and how that impacted on everyone in the family. I also really liked that some of the relationships in book just can’t be resolved and it’s ok, it’s sad but it’s ok.

The Hundred Thousand Kingdoms – N.K. Jemisin

I really liked this it’s fantasy, well written and completely engaging. It’s a trilogy (are there any fantasy stand alones anymore?) and I’m interested to see where the others go.

Re-reads

Flambards – K. M. Peyton

The Edge of the Cloud – K. M. Peyton

Flambards in Summer – K. M. Peyton

Flambards Divided – K. M. Peyton

I’m running out of time to share the books I loved as a teenage with H (and L), I loved the Flambards books (horses and flying!) but they aren’t exactly books for teenagers, I read them when I was about 13 and ‘suggested’ to H that she try them. She liked them, yay and we got L to read them, he liked the technical bits and it’s sent him off to find about about early aeroplanes (did that for me too so I’m not exactly surprised!)

White Boots – Noel Streatfeild

See above about reading with H, different than I remember and very post war..

Anna and the French Kiss – Stephanie Perkins

Easy reading for the plane to DC, I really enjoyed Anna when I first read it and it’s a lovely comforting re-read.

Slave to Sensation – Nalini Singh

This is the book crack. I’m going to talk about all of them at once. It’s set in an alternative earth made up of three races, humans, the Psy and the Changelings. The Psy are ‘Silent’ trained not to show or have emotions, the Changelings are shapeshifters and the books concentrate on leopards and wolves although there are others changlings. (one of the things I loved in the later books is the ongoing conversation about sea changelings and what they might be – jellyfish, octopi?). The world is fascinating and each book builds on the world and adds more depth to each race and the politics of the world. In fact, towards the end of the 9 books, and this could be because I read them all one after another, I was more interested in the politics of what was happening than the romances. The men, even when they are non-Changeling, are all the same type. Possessive, dangerous, macho etc, and I was pretty bored with the ‘I’m a predatory Changeling male, it’s to be expected’ lines throughout the books. There is a lot of talk about alpha males and dominant and submissive people but Singh shows and tells that healthy relationships and families and groups need a balance of both. Being submissive is not being weak and being dominant doesn’t mean always getting your own way. They are pretty crazysauce but consistent in the world Singh has built.

The books are a world and although you can read them stand alone they are all interlinked and I would start the beginning and watch the time you have to do anything but read just vanish. Seriously addictive reading

Visions of Heat – Nalini Singh

Caressed by Ice – Nalini Singh

Mine to Possess – Nalini Singh

Hostage to Pleasure – Nalini Singh 

Branded by Fire – Nalini Singh 

Blaze of Memory – Nalini Singh

Bonds of Justice – Nalini Singh

Play of Passion – Nalini Singh 

Kiss of Snow – Nalini Singh 

Tangle of Need – Nalini Singh 

Heart of Obsidian – Nalini Singh

The Boy in the Smoke – Maureen Johnson

This is a short story about Stephen in the Shades of London series. If you’ve read the first two books (The Name of the Star and The Madness Underneath), I’ve read both and this story made me sad, because I know Stephen’s future. It’s reminded me to go and re-read the first two books before the last one comes out this year. If you want a short story, this could stand alone but it’s deeper reading experience if you’ve read the Shades of London books and I had all ‘the feelings’  when I was reading it.

Boy Proof – Cecil Castellucci

I really enjoyed reading this although Egg, who is the narrator, annoyed me a bit. That’s down to me not being a teenager. I liked how Egg grew into herself and began to understand friendship and that being who you are doesn’t have to mean isolating yourself from people.

The Child Who – Simon Lelic

This is set in 2000 and about a child who has killed another. Except it’s not, it’s about what happens to the duty solicitor who gets the case and about public reaction and hate and fear. I remember the public reaction when James Bulger was murdered and I remember the mass hysteria when Princess Diana died and it’s clear that both fed into this book. I’m not sure that enjoyed is the term I would use about reading this book but I wanted to know what happened and it’s a good book.

Daughter of Smoke and Bone – Laini Taylor

Finally, I got around to reading this. It wasn’t what I expected and the ‘epic’ love story is not why I kept reading. It feels otherworldly and I do want to know what comes next so I’ll be reading the other two at some point!

 

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Sunday Music

We have tickets for Old Crow Medicine Show at the Roundhouse in October and there’s a new album in July.

Excited doesn’t even cover it…

If you don’t know the glory that is Old Crow then you must be new around here..but just in case…

Wagon Wheel

Alabama High Test – song starts at 1:10 and he starts with the wrong fiddle!!

Down Home Girl

And doing Whitney Houston’s I Wanna Dance With Somebody

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Friday Links

Happy Friday, this weekend is another 4 day weekend for me as I’m off work today (cooking for Ryan’s engagement party – how am I old enough that I have a godson who is 29 and engaged?) and Monday is a Bank Holiday. This weekend features cooking and a haircut and colour (hurrah I can hardly see through my fringe!), an engagement party and lunch with the family in Watford which reminds me that I really need to charge the iPad. I may even get to see Jo and Ms T as they are back for a week. So, it’s all good! Here are some things I read this week!

1) Simon Russell Beale in a Guardian webchat.

2) This is fascinating. My friends Matt and John are from Pittsburgh and now I understand so much more about how they speak.

3) This is just awful. I don’t believe in the death penalty and I’m so glad that we don’t have it here, although I am aware there are a whole bunch of people who think we should. If killing people is wrong, it cannot be right for the State to do it. Two wrongs, don’t make a right.

4) And, as ever, someone else says it better than me.

5) This is why I didn’t take antibiotics when I had bronchitis. In fact I’ve only resorted to them twice in the last 15 years or so (I also had a really bad reaction – colitis and hallucinations – fun!). I think it’s hilarious when one of the practice doctors tries to dissuade me from them before we’ve discussed what’s wrong with me, my actual doctor knows that I don’t ask for them, I ask him what I can do to get better without them.

6) For non-British people this won’t make any sense but tinned baked beans are like marmite, you either love them or hate them. For both marmite and baked beans I come down firmly on the side of ‘these things are the work of the devil’.  If you love them, then this how to cook is for you and if you don’t read the comments!

7) Why fitness apps will only get you so far.

8) Finally Labour propose something useful. Having said that this emphasis on ‘Generation Rent’ bugs me. My grandparents rented, my parents rented, I rent (although Ben and Lu don’t) it’s what the working classes do!

9) A short history of apples in the USA. It’s not really but I didn’t know half of this stuff, fascinating.

10) The gender bias in drinks. I’m one of the whiskey drinking woman because I like it. I tend to go for cocktails that don’t contain fruit. But I do try to to cater to my fruity drinks loving friends without judgement and liked drinking some of them. People should be allowed to like what they like. I like the taste of whiskey and gin and vermouth, so that’s what I drink, I’m certainly not trying to keep up with the boys but it always used to amuse me when the waiter gave me the fruity drink and the whiskey to the guy.

11) While we’re on the subject of drink, drunk monkeys! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSm7BcQHWXk

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