Friday Links

Happy Friday! I’ve had a week of feeling a bit down, so three links this week!

Mark Steele on bombing Syria. When I worked in Social Services, a social worker told me that the difference between parents of children in care and other people was simply that they would do exactly the same thing and expect a different result because they wanted it to be different. As if wanting something enough would change the entire action from something damaging to something good. And the West is doing that, doubling down on the stuff that didn’t do good the first time and won’t if we do it now…

A silent crisis.

You can’t win a war if you don’t know what peace looks like. Giles Fraser on bombing Syria.

 

 

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Date Bars

I was expecting that six weeks more or less off my feet and at home would lead me to put on weight, that hasn’t been the case. Partly because I haven’t had a lot of appetite and partly because there hasn’t been any snacky food in the house. I wanted to use the six weeks as an opportunity to ‘reset’ my eating habits, really get to grips with what food is in the house and use it up and (once my jelly baby dealer went on strike!) to wean myself off sugary snacks.

By week 4 I was craving something sweet and Deb at Smitten Kitchen posted about Date Breakfast Bars. As luck would have it, I had a packet of dates in my cupboard that needed to be used or thrown out. I didn’t have an orange (I added some orange bitters when cooking the dates) the right type of sugar (I just used caster sugar) or cloves (I added a bit more nutmeg), but why would I let that stop me?

So I made them. I think my attempt is more crumbly than Deb’s, that will be down to the sugar and thinking about it now a tablespoon or two of honey in place of some of the sugar would have helped with that, you live and learn.

However they walk that fine line between sweet enough and too sweet, I couldn’t eat more than one but they make a quick breakfast or mid-morning snack and pair really well with my morning coffee. I also got to use something up rather than throw it away so hurrah for reducing food waste!

 

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What I’ve Read – November 2015

I expected that in November, what with the being indoors on the sofa for the whole month, that I’d read loads and make a dent in the TBR pile. That didn’t happen. I read a bit but I also rediscovered my cross-stitch, it’s hard to read and sew at the same time. I also hit a bit of slump and returned to re-reading Georgette Heyer novels, this month I re-read, The Grand Sophy, A Civil Contract, Frederica, Venetia, The Spanish Bride and An Infamous Army. However, this is what I did read in November…

The Game Plan – Kristen Callihan (borrowed)

I know nothing about American football, I have doubts about this kind of New Adult being in love forever but I love these books, I read it in about 4 hours and I have no shame about it.

The Invasion of the Tearling – Erika Johansen 

This is the second book and in comparison to the first (Queen of the Tearling) this felt rushed. Clearly there’s a plan but this book raises more questions than it answers and it’s slow which given that the book takes place over a couple of weeks is odd. Bits of it is fascinating and you can sort of see the world building but just doesn’t hang together. Will I read the third, yes.

Half a War – Joe Abercrombie (library e-book)

This was the third of the books, I really loved all of them and this was a good ending. No-one gets everything they want and even if they do, it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.

Dust – Hugh Howey (library e-book)

This was also a satisfying end to trilogy, however, it and the second (Shift) didn’t live up the promise of the first (Dust).

The Sport of Baronets – Theresa Romain (borrowed)

This is a novella to kick off the start of a new series, historical and set around horse racing. The relationship between the hero and heroine has been described as “I hate you, I hate you but I can’t stop thinking about your hair”. So I had to read it, it was fun and I really enjoyed it. It’s nice to see a historical where the woman does something and wants something.

Season for Temptation – Theresa Romain (borrowed)

I read it and enjoyed it in a meh sort of a way, it’s really hard to believe that she wrote this after reading The Sport of Baronets. In fact, thinking about the book a couple of days after I finished it, I can’t really remember much about it

Not Quite a Wife – Mary Jo Putney (borrowed)

This is part of a series and I enjoyed it while I was reading it, how I’m thinking about it, all I can see are the problems. Like how patient the hero was being and how selfish the heroine was, all she really saw was her point of view and although that’s fine for an 18 year old it’s poor from a 28 year old, who runs an infirmary and home for battered woman and professed to have a deep Christian faith. Some of that stuff got addressed but I was all about her growing the hell up for a considerable portion of the book…

Angels Twice Descending – Cassandra Clare & Robin Wasserman (borrowed)

I love these, they are just long enough to enjoy but quick enough that you can read them in under an hour. This is the last one and H had feelings about the thing that happened, which I heard about at length. I know that supporting characters are there to highlight the feelings of the ‘hero’ and perhaps teach them something but I didn’t like this one, damn it, it was supposed to be escapism…

Christmas Ever After – Sarah Morgan (library e-book)

I like Sarah Morgan, it’s simple, engaging and it has a happy ending. I worked it out and this is my 6th of her books. If light and fluffy is your thing, this is one for you but I would read the Puffin Island books in order, start with First Time in Forever and go from there.

Fuzzy Nation – John Scalzi (library e-book)

Every time I read something by John Scalzi, I wonder I why I don’t read more of his stuff. This is a case in point and just what I needed to get me out of my slump. It was funny, interesting and had a nice ending. Just what I needed.

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Cooking, Food Budgets and Accountability – The Plan.

On Saturday, I’m going to chat about how 2015 went in terms of spending. One of the things I have a problem with is consistency, I can be really careful for two months and then blow all that saved money on a really good night out! While there is nothing necessarily wrong with that, in 2016, I need to get to grips with that habit.

Inspired by Beth at Budget Bytes, I’m going to set a food budget of £15 a week and post what I bought and ate each week. I’ve found that this space is really good for keeping me accountable and I’m love those posts on other blogs. I also think it might be useful, I’m not great at inventing recipes but I am interested in food and eating well, I also think that sometimes it’s difficult to translate being able to cook to being able to menu plan, shop to a budget, use up what you have and still enjoy what you cook and eat! If seeing how I do it helps, then that’s all to the good. DSCF2233I’ll post every Tuesday about the food and shopping the week before and weeks run Saturday to Friday because Saturday usually when I shop.

I work out my budget from payday to payday, so some months the budget will be £75, others £60, I do sometimes buy meat when it’s on offer, which means that I might spend £25 one week and £5 the next but it will all average out to £15 a week. Bear in mind that this budget is for food and probably will include stuff I buy at Sainsburys that isn’t food; washing liquid, toilet roll, paracetamol etc. It won’t include the things I buy elsewhere; toothpaste, cleanser etc. December is a test run so it may be that I change that rule for Jan and separate the budgets out, we’ll see. DSCF4938Any money I don’t spend from this budget will go into a money box and at the end of the year we can see if I managed any spare.

I’m excited, see you next Tuesday…

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Life Happened – People are terrible

This week I went outside three times and two of those times I was by myself. I know it sounds silly but it’s a big deal for me. I’m aware that I’m going to be back to work soon and I need to adjust to a new (much slower!) walking speed and to what exactly I can and can’t do!

So Ma and I did my food shopping on Friday. It was quite tiring even though we got the bus. It seems utterly ridiculous to be getting the bus to and from the shops instead of walking but I think this is how it’s going to be at least until the New Year!

On Saturday and Sunday, I went into Ealing to do a small bit of shopping and to go to the library. Which leads me to the ‘people are terrible’ portion of the week. I have a crutch and a special shoe but the number of people pushing, sitting in the seats assigned to those less able to walk and generally being terrible was a shock to me. When I’m fit, I always make for the back or top deck of the bus and offer my seat to people who need it more than I do. Not in Ealing over the weekend. People are terrible!

I’m getting back to normal, I haven’t yet resumed ironing (thanks Ma!) but I’m back to laundry duty, I changed my bed at the weekend with assistance and my foot and my balance is improved enough that I am back to showering every day. I even cleaned the bath this week. I never, ever thought that I’d be happy that I can do housework, but here I am!

This week also marked the return of Friday Night Pizza…
 And a nice relaxed Sunday breakfast with MaIMG_3529I hesitate to say it but the only bad thing about this week was the dawning realisation that very soon, I’m going to be well enough to go back to work….

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Sunday Music

Stealing Sheep – Apparition.

 

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Thankful 2015 – Week 5

This week I’m back to a straight list.

  1. The NHS
  2. Ma, who is always great but has gone above and beyond in the last 5 weeks
  3. Ben, for taking me to the hospital
  4. Oli, who took one look at me on Saturday and said “You’ve only got one hand”
  5. Food to eat
  6. All the people who’ve called and been in touch over the last five weeks
  7. Books
  8. BBC iplayer and the BBC in general
  9. The Library
  10. Radio 4 and especially In Our Time
  11. Public Transport because I’m going no-where in the next couple of weeks without using a bus!
  12. The ability of the body (mine in particular) to heal.
  13. Central heating, it’s gotten chilly recently
  14. A job that I can be away from for 6 weeks
  15. Which leads directly on to unions because without them no sick pay
  16. Georgette  Heyer novels
  17. The ability to shower by myself
  18. Chocolate
  19. Gin and Tonic

I try as a general rule to be grateful for my life, it’s not perfect or charmed but I am luckier than a lot of people just because of where I was born and it’s important to remember that. This week in particular I’ve been contemplating how quickly but foot seems to be healing, it’s amazing given what it’s been through!

The ability to heal physically and mentally, is something I’m really grateful for this week. There was a time in the not too distant past when I really felt as though my life was cursed by a bad fairy and it was really difficult to take any joy from any aspect of my life. I got better though. I didn’t do it all by myself (and I’m thankful to the people who stuck with me when I was depressed) but the biggest piece of it, accepting that life was not terrible and I was not doomed, I did do by myself. I’m proud of that, of moving forward and through before I really understood or felt that it would get better.

So what I’m grateful for this week, is that we get better. We heal and we move on.

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Friday Links

Happy Friday! This week I have been mostly doing cross-stitch, so not as many links…

Woman and ISIS. This is a long read but worth it.

The mid-life crisis is real. Apparently, I’m at that ‘most unhappy’ age. I think I must have done this early, I was pretty miserable about 10 years ago and although my life is not anything like I thought it would be, I’m not unhappy with it.

What is healthy eating? Worth reading for looking at how we view food.

Modern (non)communication and how it’s changing our experiences.

 

 

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Slow Cooker Chicken and Peppers

So I’ve started to think about cooking again, a sure sign of recovery (I’ve also started to do the laundry too although ironing will have to be done sitting down if Ma goes on strike!). One of my favourite websites for food inspiration is Budget Bytes, the recipes are interesting and as the title suggests good for those on a budget, although lots of the pricing isn’t relevant for me and you do sometimes have to do some basic US to UK translation for some of the food and measures, the food is good.DSCF5024

Beth’s Slow Cooker Italian Chicken and Peppers was the ideal meal for me to start proper cooking with, mostly because it all goes in the slow cooker. However, I’ve not been doing my shopping since surgery, poor Mum has been doing it for me, we both knew that this would be the case, so when I got paid this at the end of October, I just transferred my food shopping money over to her. Which means that I don’t have any money (seriously, there 97p in my purse right now) to pop to the shops and pick up extra stuff that I might want, even if I could just walk down to the shops…

Which means that I adapted this recipe quite a bit. Firstly, I didn’t have any marinara sauce because as a general rule I don’t buy jarred sauces, what I did have was garlic, a tin of tomatoes and some tomato puree and some basil leaves (you can see where this is going can’t you?), I also never eat green bell peppers, they are unripe peppers and they give me indigestion, I used red, orange and yellow ones, finally the chicken in the freezer was a packet of mixed thighs and drumsticks which weighed about 1.5lbs, they weren’t boneless so less meat but it would have to do.DSCF5020 DSCF5022As per instructions, I intended to leave this on low for 8 hours, however, at 6 hours, it looked a bit watery (probably because of my tomato ‘sauce’, so I added another squirt of tomato puree and turned it up to high for the next hour or so.

I took out the meat, removed the skin and bones, shredded it and added it back to the sauce and peppers. It was ready to eat at that point but I decided that I wanted to eat this with dumplings. Suet dumplings to be precise. So 2oz of suet, 4oz of self raising flour, a sprinkle of dried oregano and 5 tablespoons of water. Mixed together, then made into dumplings and thrown in the slow cooker, about 30 minutes later, I had the perfect dinner for a rainy November evening.DSCF5023

 

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Want – Cookbooks

I’m told that I have a cookbook problem, apparently I have too many. My answer to this is yes I do, my cookbook shelves are too small for all of my cookbooks! This year I haven’t bought any cook books, I was on a buy no more than 12 books for me and cookbooks counted!

These are cookbooks I have considered buying this year.

Budget Bytes: Over 100 Easy, Delicious Recipes to Slash Your Grocery Bill in Half – Beth Moncel

I like the blog and if I read and use the recipes on the blog a lot, I like to get new ideas from the them and support the blogger by buying the book!

Thug Kitchen: Eat Like You Give a F**k

My eating style has changed so much over the last 10 years and I eat far more vegetarian meals than I ever thought possible, I am aware that my diet is over-reliant on eggs and cheese and so affordable vegan food is something I’d like to try more of.

Chia, Quinoa, Kale, Oh My! – Recipes for 40+ Delicious, Super-Nutritious, Superfoods Paperback – Cassie Johnston

I liked her first book and I like her recipes and see above about buying the books of bloggers I like.

Everyday Super Food – Jamie Oliver

I bought this book for my brother for his birthday and I liked what I saw but didn’t copy any of it down.

Simply Nigella: Feel Good Food – Nigella Lawson

I’m not sure about this one. I mostly love Nigella but I’ve been watching the accompanying TV programme and lots of the recipes are just so expensive, however, like all things they are adaptable and I always get lots of good ideas from her books..

30 Minute Vegetarian – Rose Elliot

I have a couple of Rose Elliot’s books and I find them so useful for expanding my cooking..

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