Allotment Adventures: November visit

After a week’s absence, the allotment was the beginning of my very busy Saturday.It’s looking very autumnal at the moment and Saturday was a very quick visit.

We cleared up the Halloween stuff and cleared the nasturtiums that finally admitted defeat in the face of the frosts. We also picked the last lettuce and carrots, and the usual chard and kale. As well as some mustard and pak choi.

We knew it would be a short trip, next weekend Ma has booked a car so we can go and buy compost and make a start on filling beds and sow things to overwinter.

We are having a go at garlic again this year. I grew it the first winter I had the plot and it wasn’t terribly successful (it got rust), this year I decided that I’d buy some from somewhere other than Wilkinsons. I’ve heard great things about The Garlic Farm but there seems to be a problem with the website and although I tried and Ma tried over several different cards, it wouldn’t take our order. So I ordered from Suttons. The Lovers Autumn Planting Collection. Which claimed to have two bulbs each of Printanor, Germidour, Messidrome and Red Duke, I actually got three bulbs of the softnecks and two of the Red Duke which is a hardneck. We also need to sow the broad beans which we do every year. I know I could sow them in spring but there is something about having some things growing through winter that is hopeful and I like it. I’m also considering doing the same with some peas and I want to start some sweet peas too, which I’ll plant in pots and then cover up with fleece. I didn’t have a good year with the sweet peas this year so I’m going to see if this way works any better and if it does, it’s one less thing to have in the living room in spring!

That’s plenty to be doing and we’ll be covering up any beds that we aren’t using again until spring too. They’ll get a weed and maybe a top up and then covered to stop the foxes digging them up, they can and do have enough fun on all the paths!

If there is any light and/or time left over, there is a bonfire that needs to happen and a shed that could do with another coat of paint.Then we can start thinking about next season. We do have space constraints and I don’t think that we’ll be able to build anymore beds. So next year will be more of the same, we will have more flowers on the plot, and hopefully the spring bulbs we planted (tulips/snowdrops/snakes head fritillary) will join the grape hyacinth in the spring. The Californian poppies, aramanth, borage and nasturtium will (within limits) be allowed to do their thing and hopefully the lavenders in the ground and verbena bonariesus will survive the winter. Next year, I’ll like to grow more marigolds and have a go at calendula (which will probably self seed the year after and suits me fine!)For herbs, the hardy and half hardy perennials in the herb bed (rosemary, sage, oregano, lemon verbena, chives and tarragon should all be fine). The mint and summer savoury in the bathtub are dying back and I’m hoping that the mint will come back next year. I also have a lemon balm which seeded into one of this year’s tomato beds, that will need a new location and a chocolate mint and chamomile that I’m hoping to nurse through winter and plant out in pots.  I have two little lavenders that will go into terracotta pots as soon as we buy some compost! The annuals parsley, dill and basil, we’ll sow again in spring because we love them.For vegetables, I’m not sure that we’ll grow much new to us veg. We will increase potato production because we really enjoyed them. We’ll grow peas and beetroot and we may grow more beetroot than last year because Ma doesn’t believe in too much!  Salad crops as we did last year. We had the right amount of courgettes and crookneck this year and we really like what we grow. The success of last year was the winter squash and the three sisters bed. So we’ll grow more of all of that. The plan is put the corn, squash and borlotto beans in a bigger bed and with smaller squash, so probably the uchuri kiki in that bed and something else in the climbing squash boxes.  I also want to grow bigger butternuts next year. I also want to devote a bed to carrots and try some more autumn crops (swedes, more pak choi and have a think about other things we could grow maybe under cover for the winter!)However the chard, kale and leeks are winter staples and we’ll do them again. It seems strange that just as the current beds of these finish, I’ll be sowing leeks and kale again!

It was a good tomato year and we’ll grow plum, baby plum and black Russians again I do think that 3 beds might be enough next year, we can always use the buckets for extra. I also want a couple of more blueberries plants next year and next year will be the first year, we can pick from all three rhubarb plants. Which is good because the year after that, we’ll need to split the big one on the corner, but I’ll worry about that later.

This time of year is strange, we’ve just finished with summer and we are tired but there is still quite a bit to do before we can stop for a bit and some things to harvest and it really doesn’t take much for the planning for next year to start. There will be a point in January went the new seeds come into Wilko and I’ll be ramping up for spring again….

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Monday Miscellany: Introvert’s nightmare

Saturday seemed to be an experiment to see how many parties one introvert could go to in a day without going mad. Three is too many. Especially when one of them is for 6 year olds…

On Sunday I did nothing and hardly talked to anyone…

This week is going to be much like last week, work and sleep and a relatively quiet weekend. I’m going for minimal interaction with human beings…

 

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Sunday Music: Drink, Drink, Drink – Mario Lanza

Today is Remembrance Sunday and 100 years since the end of the First World War. So this is a very happy song for such a sad day.

But when I think of war and soldiers, I think of my Grandad. Grandad was shaped by both world wars, he was born at the beginning of the First and his father was in it for the whole four years and he fought in the Second. 

It was something he didn’t like to talk about but it shaped him profoundly. So I could talk about sacrifice and freedom and what they fought for but this is what I know, my family is still dealing with what war and military service did to it and I wish people would be more careful when they talk about ‘heroes and freedom’. We honour service men and women by making sure they don’t have to fight, we honour the war dead by looking after their families, we honour injured servicemen by making sure that they have what they need to thrive after war, we honour military service by making sure that veterans don’t end up on the street because they haven’t had the support to make sure that their service doesn’t haunt and damage them afterwards.

On Thursday, it’s 104 years since my Grandad was born and I will honour the entirety of his life of which military service was part, by playing music that we both like. Grandad liked Mario Lanza (we come by it honestly!) and I like this song. Drinking (not that my teetotal Grandad did), dancing and celebrating life is how I will honour him.

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Friday Links: On a Saturday….

I am late getting this up, it has been a week. Ma says I’m to apologise for my lateness, because she likes to read links on Friday! At least one person is reading it!

Run: Why the public marriage proposal at the New York City Marathon is the absolute worst of the trend

How to make Christmas cake. This is not how I do it see here for what I make but if you were thinking about it now’s the time..

Rigging the vote: how the American right is on the way to permanent minority rule. It doesn’t paint a pretty picture.

Britain has never looked so foolish in the world’s eyes. This isn’t pretty either but he’s so right…

Fellow evangelicals: stop falling for Trump’s anti-immigrant rhetoric. I’m not an evangelical but it is un-Christian. I find that people that spend a lot of time prattling on about being Christian can often be the ones who spend the least time showing Christianity in their actions..

‘The NHS is paying me buttons. I can’t cope’

They shall not pasty: why British soldiers are banned from Greggs

Outrageous! Did we defeat Hitler only to surrender our basic freedom to eat baked goods? Hitler was largely defeated by the Soviet Union, a totalitarian police state where baked goods were often hard to come by.

Democrats Are So, So Bad at This

‘Miserable staff don’t make money’: the firms that have switched to a four-day week

Winter blues? A practical guide to getting more light in your life

Why are we surprised that therapy has its downsides?. I didn’t expect that therapy would make me happy, I expected that it would help me cope with my unhappiness. My naturally stoic nature at work there.

David Cameron, get back in your hut. You’ve done enough damage

 

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Monday Miscellany: I feel terrible

It is not a happy Monday. I woke up this morning with a temperature. To go with it headache, shivering, nausea and throwing up.

I throw this type of fever fairly regularly, wake up in the middle of the night cold and shivering, throw on some more clothes and go back to sleep, wake up fine. In fact that’s what happened on Saturday night. No idea why and it’s not malaria or anything horrible just my body’s defence mechanism.

But today I feel pants, and ill but it is Monday, I’m still on probation until the end of December. So I’m writing this from the train. If I still feel awful by lunchtime then I’ll go home, but I need to show up.

The weekend was lovely, to be honest Ma and I were worried about the little one but he was lovely. Mad as a box of frogs but delightful. The big nephew was good too!

We went for a walk in the woods and although children are hard work, these two aren’t that much work. J pretty much puts himself to bed!

This week I’m going to work and sleep so I’m recovered enough to be at a 6th birthday party and the Grace 25th anniversary service.

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Friday Links: Budgets and Pumpkins

Happy Friday!

Jeremy Hunt says top diplomatic jobs open to non-civil servants Well if Boris Johnson and Jeremy Hunt can be Foreign Secretary, it stands to reason that any monkey could be a diplomat. It makes my very cross because I know that they don’t just arse about..

‘Remember you will die’ – and 11 other tips for a better death. I think this is a pretty good guide. I haven’t made a will but if I die tomorrow, I have life insurance through work that goes to Ma. She knows well enough what to do in terms of how to settle finances etc and arrange a funeral, (and as a funeral is for the living, she can play any music she wants!). The only thing I do probably need to do is set up a document for all the passwords of various things online so she can get them sorted. Also we’ve been talking about Power of Attorney for her and I should probably set one up in case! When she dies, all of that goes to Ben, Lu and the boys! I’m a simple creature!

A use for leftover pumpkins?

No more snooze button: a complete guide to waking up feeling fantastic

The Waldensians: What one small town’s celebration of immigration tells us about how white Americans think about history.Well yes…

Why struggling companies promote women: the glass cliff, explained

America Isn’t the ‘Only Country’ With Birthright Citizenship. No American exceptionalism on this one. It amuses me though that Trump and his ilk are keen to overturn the 14th Amendment but are still claiming that the 2nd Amendment must remain untouched.

Schools don’t need ‘little extras’, Philip Hammond. They need proper funding

I live among the neo-Nazis in eastern Germany. And it’s terrifying

Couples being denied IVF on NHS over man’s age or weight. Children are not a right, infertility is not a disease. The age and health of a potential parent should be taken into account when deciding whether to progress with treatment. I do understand the pain of not having children when you desperately want them, but it’s not a disease, it’s not a right. It is unfair that rich people can have children way past the age of their natural fertility – Janet Jackson, Elton John et al. And there is a conversation to be had about that but the NHS is overburdened and no-one is going to die if they don’t have children. Harsh but fair, I think you’ll find.

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What I’ve Read – October 2018

 

 

 

I’m getting to this on time this month!

Cherish Hard – Nalini Singh

I’ve had this for ages and just didn’t get around to reading it. It’s fairly typical Singh, lots of stuff that cannot change until of course it does. Lots of bad parenting redeemed by love and effort…

The Fifth Season – N.K. Jemsin

I loved this, I’m so going to read the next two. It was so clever the way the language hints at the state of the world and you assume things based on the world you know and then you realise it was a bad assumption. Jemsin managed to make her world both foreign and completely familiar…

The Very First Damned Thing: A Chronicle of St Mary’s Story – Jodi Taylor

When a Child is Born: A Chronicle of St Mary’s Story – Jodi Taylor

We covered my love of these books last month. Still love them.

Gather the Daughters – Jennie Melamed

This was horrible. You start of thinking this is one thing and realise that it’s something much, much worse. You could at the beginning make the case for a society warped by terrible things, but then realise that the terrible things are the community, that the community, mostly women and girls are suffering were designed, by men for their very twisted benefit. Worth reading but horrible and not for readers without a strong stomach..

To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before – Jenny Han

P.S. I Still Love You – Jenny Han

Always and Forever: Lara Jean – Jenny Han

I saw the Netflix movie and then read all the books, lovely, I love Lara Jean because she’s great but also completely self centred in a teenage way…

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Allotment Adventures: Pumpkin Walk

Not much gardening this week…

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TuesdayMonthly Goals – October/November 2018

September was great, my holiday was just what I needed, although as they often are, far too short but I feel better for the break and it was just in time to give me enough mental energy to gear up for autumn. It’s really hard to remember what else I did in September, it was a pretty quiet month. Here’s how I did with my specific goals.

Bedtime, Wake up time and Golden HourThe goal was to really knuckle down and into a sleep and wake up routine. Having a 10pm bedtime and getting up at 6am or within that time on the weekend. Honestly, apart from when I was on holiday, I’ve rocked this. I switched on the wake up lamp and have done really well. I don’t much enjoy it but there is a feeling of satisfaction when I do it because I don’t like it but I am prioritising this because it is important, it’s like taking a yucky medicine.

Walking

Walk to and from the station every work day. 30 min lunchtime walk when I’m in the office. The walk to and from the station has been easy, because I have to get to the station so I walk, but the lunchtime one was trickier to make myself do, I would say that I did it 50% of the month and I’ve done it every day I’ve been in the office since I came back from holiday.

Yoga

I’ll like to do something everyday while I’m on holiday (and maybe get Ma to do with me as she’s given up Pilates) and at least three times a week during the month. I failed to do any yoga while away and only managed this 3 times in the whole month.

Tone

Squats (20), sit ups (10), press ups (10). It’s pathetically little but I want to hit it every other day. I managed this every day before my holiday and not at all after.

Home

HouseworkA weekly clean of the kitchen, hall and bathroom (including hoovering and mopping). Ironing, nothing that needs ironing hanging around more than a day. It was going so well but then I came back from holiday and the house was overwhelmed with tomatoes and squash and I was overwhelmed. I got it back into shape last week but as a goal it works

ProjectsDefrost the freezer/clear out the fridge. Clean the oven. No I did not do these things, I really need to do them.

Book de-clutter

I’m going to Barter Books so time to get rid of my excess books, so I can trade them in for more books. Of course this is the one that I did, I got £18 for the old books and brought 4 ‘new’ ones back and paid for Ma’s ‘Life of Samuel Johnson’ with my profits.

Allotment

We didn’t do much with this list in September.

New things

  • Make a patio next to the shed
  • Buy sand,
  • Buy pavers
  • Level ground
  • Path next to shed
  • Woodchip
  • Borders
  • Pavers

Maintenance/planning

  • Paint the shed
  • Plant autumn bulbs
  • Sow
  • pak choi

Defrost the freezer/clear out the fridge. Clean the oven. No I did not do these things, I really need to do them.

Book de-clutter

I’m going to Barter Books so time to get rid of my excess books, so I can trade them in for more books. Of course this is the one that I did, I got £18 for the old books and brought 4 ‘new’ ones back and paid for Ma’s ‘Life of Samuel Johnson’ with my profits.

Allotment

We didn’t do much with this list in September.

New things

  • Make a patio next to the shed
  • Buy sand,
  • Buy pavers
  • Level ground
  • Path next to shed
  • Woodchip
  • Borders
  • Pavers

Maintenance/planning

  • Paint the shed
  • Plant autumn bulbs
  • Sow
  • pak choi
  • mustard
  • land cress
  • black radish
  • parsley
  • Get the lavender into the ground or bigger terracotta pots. Almost done, two more plants to rehome
  • Sort out the canes and get rid of the weak broken ones
  • Manure the rhubarb
  • Manure and cover the beds we aren’t going to use over winter

Other 

Meal Planning and Food budget & Birthday/Christmas prep

I just wanted to get myself a bit more organised. With both of these things, and I think I am. I need to plan a bit more to handle the birthday/Christmas onslaught but I’m getting there.

My plans for October month are all the things I didn’t get done it September. Keeping simple here…

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Monday Miscellany: Pumpkins and minor disasters

Happy Monday!

So last week was weird. I felt sniffly and like I was coming down with cold but I didn’t and on Thursday had a coffee and wardrobe disaster. My skirt split all the way up the back AND I got coffee spilled on me by a tripping commuter, she was mortified, I worked from home that day. On Friday, I went to see my friend Jane, who is also my hairdresser. As my hair was washed ready for cutting and the power went out all over the neighbourhood. Jane trimmed my fringe, by torch light because her firefighter husband won’t have candles in the house. We drank prosecco instead and went home.On Saturday, it was the pumpkin walk and I spent what felt like hours, pouring mulled wine. The people of Ealing are thirsty!On Sunday, I had a quiet day at home, doing the usual, some housework, some food prep and lots of lounging around with a book…

This week, the mornings will be easier, I won’t be leaving the house at ‘nighttime’ for a bit, but the evenings will be harder. It’s a pretty low key week and at the weekend, I’ll be at my brother’s looking after the nephews while Ben and Lu get some much deserved adult time. I’m really not sure that J is going to forgive us!

What are your plans for the week?

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