This weekend has been emotional…
This about sums it up..
This weekend has been emotional…
This about sums it up..
We’re on week five, I’m not perfect but I’m much less grumpy than I normally am this time of year. Well, I think I am, I feel more cheerful…
Spirit
I’ve signed up to Thankful in November with Krissie. The plan for December is to read Do Nothing Christmas is Coming.
Week One – The emails have been coming every day and I’ve spent 10 minutes or so thinking about them and so far it has been good for me and helped to get my head in the right place, in fact see the post this morning as an example.
Week Two – No real change here. I am practising being thankful and I think it makes me a happier person. The 10 minutes or so that I spend thinking about all the good things in my life are great for grounding me, so that when stuff does go wrong (this week it was mostly public transport related!) I can put it in the place it belongs, rather than get all ‘this is the end of the world and my life is rubbish’.
Week Three – This is really paying off, not the emails from Krissie so much as me reminding myself about my attitude. I’ve been taking some time before bed to think about the day and also just to spent some time in reflection and prayer and maybe that really what was missing for me before was that focus on God. I’m finding it easier to be cheerful (in fact I’ve been told a couple of times at work that I’m being far too cheerful). I still have my moments but they are fewer and shorter, much shorter.
Week Four – This week has been more of the same. Tomorrow I start the Do Nothing Christmas book.
Week Five – I’ve completely failed to start the book, however, the stuff I was doing in November has stuck, so it’s not too bad.
Mind
8.30pm cut of for laptop/ipad/iphone usage on school nights.
Week One – I’ve been doing this with bells on. Last week, I knew I was proper ill because I didn’t want to be anywhere near a screen, so it was accidental rather than deliberate. Yesterday, I found the 8.30pm cut off really useful, it was good to put the laptop down and go and do something else, yesterday that was tidying the kitchen, making today’s lunch and taking my makeup off. I would normally do those things before bed but at 10pm, when I should be in bed!
Week Two – I’m finding it easier to get to sleep on the nights that I enforce the cut off, so that’s a good reminder of why I need to do it but on Thursday night I failed and was watching something while knitting!
Week Three – I set an 8.30pm alarm to remind me that it’s time to switch off and that works. The cut off makes my internet time much more focused and it’s really good for me to be doing something else. Also, the less time I’m plonked on the sofa, the more I’m moving and the less cold I am!
Week Four – This has gone smoothly this week, I seem almost to naturally lose patience with screens around 8pm.
Week Five – I’ve still doing this and it’s still good!
Bed by 10pm on 30 of the 50 days. Getting up by 6.30am on workdays and 8.30am on weekends.
Week One – So I did this Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and then pretty much didn’t get out of bed until Saturday. So being in bed by 10pm not a problem, I was lights out at about 8.30pm but getting up times, that just didn’t happen at all! Sunday night I started again so I can’t tell you anything about it based on 2 mornings this week. What I have noticed is that I have the to have the wake up light set for 6am and the radio alarm set for 5.45am, to make 6.30am out of bed work. That’s ok, I’m quite keen on Farming Today.
Week Two – Now that I’m not sick, I’m finding that imposing the bedtime is harder than the forcing myself to get out of bed in the morning. I knew that Wednesday would be a late night because I was out. On Thursday, I just lost track of time, I was knitting and watching something and before I knew it, it was 10:30pm and I hadn’t taken my make-up off! However, I got up earlier than 6:30am on Thursday and Friday! We’ll see if that carries on but I’m making no promises…
Week Three – I’ve been going to bed about 9.30pm on schoolnights and I’m getting out of bed at 6am each morning. I don’t much like it, I would naturally prefer to stay up and get up later and I’m never going to be happy about getting out of a warm and cozy bed when it’s cold and dark outside but my sleeping patterns are settling down and I don’t feel so exhausted during the day. Sleep is pretty much my cure for most things (according to my mother it always was!) and I need a lot of it, so as long as I live in a world that requires me to be functional at 9am, I’m going to need to go to bed early to make sure I get enough.
Week Four – I’ve been sick with cold (yes again and yes I am mightily fed up with it) this week and as ever when I’m sick all I want to do is sleep and other than when I’m at work, funnily enough, they’re not keen on people being asleep at their desks!, I’ve been sleeping. Going to bed on time has been easy and I’ve been getting up by 6.30am every day, even though I don’t want to.
Week Five – This week has been a bit all over the place so I haven’t been as disciplined about it as I need to be. I’ve noticed that on the days I don’t do this I tend to have have a harder time getting anything done.
Body
Sit-ups/push-ups/squats 10 a day, adding one each day
Week One – Started fine, didn’t do anything Wed, Thurs, Fri, Sat, Sun or Mon. Started again today with 19 of each. Not pleasant but done.
Week Two – I’ve swapped my time for doing this, at the weekend it happens in the morning, during the week in the evening. As it takes more time to do as I add to the total, I just don’t have time on weekday mornings. I don’t really feel any stronger for doing it but I’m hoping that it will form a good base to push off from after Christmas!
Week Three – Fail, fail, big fat fail. I did Sunday but that’s all I did! Need to find the wagon that is far off into the distance and get back on it.
Week Four – Sick, let’s just skip this
Week Five – No, I’m rubbish at making this happen, i know it and honestly, I’m not going to fix it before Christmas..
Stretches
Week One – Missed Wed, Thurs, Fri completely but started again on Sat, needed to as 3 days pretty much lying down, does nothing for your mobility!
Week Two – I get one set in everyday, before I go to bed, I really need to work on being consistent with the second set. Not sure how to make that happen right how, may it’s something I’ll start to do after I do the squats etc.
Week Three – I’m still getting the one set in before I go to bed. However, the second set seems to have gone the way of the exercising. I need to work on this next week.
Week Four – Yes, I’ve started to get two sets in. I know it’s good for my knees and the cold has been a huge motivator because when it’s cold, I start to creak. Literally (in the old fashioned sense of the word!)
Week Five – Yes, as it gets colder, my knees are hurting more so it’s a great reminder!
Ok, I feel I have a lot to do this weekend. I was out with work last night and this morning, I need to make the house presentable for the family and cook lunch. Right now, I’m making carrot cake for that… I may not get to a lot of this but I’ll give it my best go…
Kitchen
Cooking
Christmas stuff
Bathroom
Bedroom
Living Room
Hall
General things
Well that’s another week done with. Nelson Mandela died yesterday. Everyone is sharing quotes and mourning him, but he put it best,
“Death is something inevitable. When a man has done what he considers to be his duty to his people and his country, he can rest in peace. I believe I have made that effort and that is, therefore, why I will sleep for the eternity”
I always say this when a public figure dies but I didn’t know Nelson Mandela, so I cannot mourn the person. I’m sad for the people that did know and love him and will miss him. I’m worried for what the loss of him will do to South Africa. So if I have prayers, that’s where they will go, because he doesn’t need them anymore, he’s gone home.
Right, that’s all I’m going to say about that, this week. On to this week’s links…
1) Are you a PANK? I probably am but £237 a year? Are you mad, I love my nephew (and my godchildren) but I don’t spend that much, seriously kids, I love you but that’s not gonna happen!
2) In which Jonathan Myerson is a self important idiot. Good childrens books do confront the shades of grey, they just don’t sacrifice the story to prove how clever the author is. A.S. Byatt, I’m looking at you.
3) And Tom Pollock says it better than me.
4) Fighting over Christmas dinner. Ma and I never fight over dinner, we have roast beef, I’m in charge of the yorkshires, Ma the veg and we’re both happy. This year will be slightly different because we have Ben and Lu and Oli with us but we won’t fight about dinner. We may spar a bit over who drinks all the wine (it’ll be Ben!).
Have a good weekend!
Today is Ma’s birthday, I won’t say how old but it’s not late middle age no matter how much she tells me it is!
She isn’t a perfect person or a perfect parent because no-one is. She is the perfect parent for Ben and me. She’s also a pretty great grandma, even when that involves helping Oli rescue people from the terror of the stairs at Aunty Nic’s!
My maternal grandmother died when Ma was 14 (just 14!) and I’ve always thought that part of the reason she was so different from other mothers (and this isn’t a humble brag, it’s a full on brag, my mother is fantastic!) is that when Ben and I were teenagers, she didn’t an example to follow, so just made it up as she went along. One of the reasons that we work as a family is Ma, she is the rock that Ben and I have pushed out from. She’s special and I know that we all are glad we have her.
Happy Birthday Ma!
I didn’t read much at all this month, actually that’s not entirely true, I did read, I just didn’t read much new stuff, I spent three days in bed at the beginning of the month and read loads when I wasn’t asleep, but it was all comfort reading so I re-read the Anne of Green Gables books (all eight of them!), several Chalet School books and a hefty wodge of Georgette Heyer, minus the ones that Jo has borrowed and seriously, Christmas and her being back in the country is going to be so much nicer because the books come back too! Other than that, not much reading going on. I do read but in the morning on the way to work and then life and my need for sleep gets in the way…
The Waking Dark – Robin Wasserman
I enjoyed this. It is horror, it’s well written and stays with you but it’s not for everyone, like most good and scary books, it’s about what happens when people don’t care about the consequences and what other people think.
Team Human – Sarah Rees Brennan and Justine Larbalestier
This has been on my TBR pile for an age. I finally got around to reading it and really enjoyed it. So much to like. I’m lending it to Helene, go read.
This has also been hanging around my TBR pile forever. I found it hard to get into but then I was hooked. Cassel is smart and I liked him, I wanted him to be good. Enjoyed it and went straight to the second.
See above!
Hello! I had a day off work yesterday which turned into a day off from the blog. So I’m playing catch up today. First, housework.
Not too bad, not perfect. On top of this, I also managed to start the mincemeat for mince pies. So it’s going ok!
Kitchen
Cooking
Bathroom
Bedroom
Living Room
Hall
General House things
Today is the first day of Advent and therefore we can start to talk Christmas. So from now until Christmas, I’m going to pick songs from this year’s Christmas CD!
This is not really a Christmas song but Neil Diamond singing the Chanukah Song is a brilliant and it’s Chanukah at the moment…
Spirit
I’ve signed up to Thankful in November with Krissie.
Week One – The emails have been coming every day and I’ve spent 10 minutes or so thinking about them and so far it has been good for me and helped to get my head in the right place, in fact see the post this morning as an example.
Week Two – No real change here. I am practising being thankful and I think it makes me a happier person. The 10 minutes or so that I spend thinking about all the good things in my life are great for grounding me, so that when stuff does go wrong (this week it was mostly public transport related!) I can put it in the place it belongs, rather than get all ‘this is the end of the world and my life is rubbish’.
Week Three – This is really paying off, not the emails from Krissie so much as me reminding myself about my attitude. I’ve been taking some time before bed to think about the day and also just to spent some time in reflection and prayer and maybe that really what was missing for me before was that focus on God. I’m finding it easier to be cheerful (in fact I’ve been told a couple of times at work that I’m being far too cheerful). I still have my moments but they are fewer and shorter, much shorter.
Week Four – This week has been more of the same. Tomorrow I start the Do Nothing Christmas book.
Mind
8.30pm cut of for laptop/ipad/iphone usage on school nights.
Week One – I’ve been doing this with bells on. Last week, I knew I was proper ill because I didn’t want to be anywhere near a screen, so it was accidental rather than deliberate. Yesterday, I found the 8.30pm cut off really useful, it was good to put the laptop down and go and do something else, yesterday that was tidying the kitchen, making today’s lunch and taking my makeup off. I would normally do those things before bed but at 10pm, when I should be in bed!
Week Two – I’m finding it easier to get to sleep on the nights that I enforce the cut off, so that’s a good reminder of why I need to do it but on Thursday night I failed and was watching something while knitting!
Week Three – I set an 8.30pm alarm to remind me that it’s time to switch off and that works. The cut off makes my internet time much more focused and it’s really good for me to be doing something else. Also, the less time I’m plonked on the sofa, the more I’m moving and the less cold I am!
Week Four – This has gone smoothly this week, I seem almost to naturally lose patience with screens around 8pm.
Bed by 10pm on 30 of the 50 days. Getting up by 6.30am on workdays and 8.30am on weekends.
Week One – So I did this Sunday, Monday and Tuesday and then pretty much didn’t get out of bed until Saturday. So being in bed by 10pm not a problem, I was lights out at about 8.30pm but getting up times, that just didn’t happen at all! Sunday night I started again so I can’t tell you anything about it based on 2 mornings this week. What I have noticed is that I have the to have the wake up light set for 6am and the radio alarm set for 5.45am, to make 6.30am out of bed work. That’s ok, I’m quite keen on Farming Today.
Week Two – Now that I’m not sick, I’m finding that imposing the bedtime is harder than the forcing myself to get out of bed in the morning. I knew that Wednesday would be a late night because I was out. On Thursday, I just lost track of time, I was knitting and watching something and before I knew it, it was 10:30pm and I hadn’t taken my make-up off! However, I got up earlier than 6:30am on Thursday and Friday! We’ll see if that carries on but I’m making no promises…
Week Three – I’ve been going to bed about 9.30pm on schoolnights and I’m getting out of bed at 6am each morning. I don’t much like it, I would naturally prefer to stay up and get up later and I’m never going to be happy about getting out of a warm and cozy bed when it’s cold and dark outside but my sleeping patterns are settling down and I don’t feel so exhausted during the day. Sleep is pretty much my cure for most things (according to my mother it always was!) and I need a lot of it, so as long as I live in a world that requires me to be functional at 9am, I’m going to need to go to bed early to make sure I get enough.
Week Four – I’ve been sick with cold (yes again and yes I am mightily fed up with it) this week and as ever when I’m sick all I want to do is sleep and other than when I’m at work, funnily enough, they’re not keen on people being asleep at their desks!, I’ve been sleeping. Going to bed on time has been easy and I’ve been getting up by 6.30am every day, even though I don’t want to.
Body
Sit-ups/push-ups/squats 10 a day, adding one each day
Week One – Started fine, didn’t do anything Wed, Thurs, Fri, Sat, Sun or Mon. Started again today with 19 of each. Not pleasant but done.
Week Two – I’ve swapped my time for doing this, at the weekend it happens in the morning, during the week in the evening. As it takes more time to do as I add to the total, I just don’t have time on weekday mornings. I don’t really feel any stronger for doing it but I’m hoping that it will form a good base to push off from after Christmas!
Week Three – Fail, fail, big fat fail. I did Sunday but that’s all I did! Need to find the wagon that is far off into the distance and get back on it.
Week Four – Sick, let’s just skip this
Stretches
Week One – Missed Wed, Thurs, Fri completely but started again on Sat, needed to as 3 days pretty much lying down, does nothing for your mobility!
Week Two – I get one set in everyday, before I go to bed, I really need to work on being consistent with the second set. Not sure how to make that happen right how, may it’s something I’ll start to do after I do the squats etc.
Week Three – I’m still getting the one set in before I go to bed. However, the second set seems to have gone the way of the exercising. I need to work on this next week.
Week Four – Yes, I’ve started to get two sets in. I know it’s good for my knees and the cold has been a huge motivator because when it’s cold, I start to creak. Literally (in the old fashioned sense of the word!)
Time for the general run down of stuff that needs to get done. Most of the house stuff needs to be done today because Ryan is coming for dinner tonight and I’m spending Sunday looking for new boots and something to wear for the office party. Fortunately, I have Monday off work so I can at catch up if I don’t get it all done.
Kitchen
Cooking
Bathroom
Bedroom
Living Room
Hall
General House things
I think that’s plenty to be going on with!