Chorizo, Bean and Barley Stew

Today, most people are going back to work after Christmas and New Year. The tubes are crowded again and everybody is slightly grumpy about being back at work and having to adjust to being up early again.

I worked over Christmas and New Year and have been slightly grumpy about that all the way through so today doesn’t mark the start of being back at work but it does mark the start of my getting back into a routine. Work will be busier today, there will be more people in the office and I’ll have to be in by 9am rather than the 9.30am I’ve been getting away with for the last couple of working days.

My eating habits need to get back on track too. I’ve loved Christmas and enjoyed the treats and chocolate, but I really need to eat food that’s good for me as well as tasting good!

Lots of blogs that I read are based in the US and I love the idea of eating black eyed peas for good fortune in the coming year. So I decided to do something similar. I soaked 205g black eyed turtle beans overnight and then rinsed them and bunged them in the slow cooker with a tin of chopped tomatoes and 250g of chorizo that I’d sliced up, I added a bit more water and left it on high for about 6 hours. Then I added a couple of handfuls of pearl barley and left it for about half an hour. Lastly, I dumped a bag of sliced up winter greens and left it for another half an hour.

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Not the prettiest dinner and the quick phone snap of it isn’t doing it any favours but it’s hearty, easy to make and tastes great. It would happily serve 4 greedy people, so I’ll be eating it for lunches for a little while!

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2014

A New Year.

I always thought that the New Year comes at the wrong time. I think the accountants have it right and a New Year should start in Spring, not in the depths of winter. It’s also hard to celebrate the end of the year and the beginning of a new one, in the middle of Christmas and I am still in Christmas, the tree doesn’t come down until the weekend when Christmas ends.

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Last year, I set goals. This year I’m not going to.

I did think about it, I thought of all the things I could push myself to do and then I decided that I really couldn’t be doing with it.

Yes, I am a naturally indolent person and no I’m not too bothered about it any more. I used to be and I’ve spent a lot of my life beating myself up over my ‘inability’ to motivate myself and be a grown up, responsible and active person. This year I’ve decided to stop doing that.

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2013 marked the year where I realised that I really like who I am and I really don’t care if anyone else does or not. It was the year when I stopped trying to be who I thought I should be and got happy about being who I was and at 40 years old it was way past time.

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So this year, I want more of that. I want to read more books, spend more time with my friends, drink more cocktails, laugh more, live the best life I can and be completely unapologetic about it.

So this year, there are no goals, no plans, no reflection on last year and no grand visions for this. There is a word. Enjoy.

This year, I’m just going to enjoy my life and do the very best I can with it.

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NYE plans

I’ve been asked a couple of times today, if I have plans for this evening. My answer to this is a horrified no. I am to old for the ‘It’s NYE, I must do something and not be alone, it’s the best time of the year’ madness that seizes people on 31st December.

However, it did occur to me that I do have plans. With myself.

This is the plan. See L & H and wish them happy birthday. Go home. Potter about a bit, change bed, eat steak, drink champagne, change into my new jammies (thanks Ma!) listen to the radio, maybe watch a movie, drink some more champagne, read a bit, wait until midnight to see if neighbours are going to set their garden on fire with a candle lantern thingamebob for the 3rd year in a row. Go to bed in the nice clean bed.

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There is nothing worse than sitting indoors, alone when you want to be out and with other people. However and without being melodramatic about it, there are about 10 people in the world that I could happily spend NYE with but I either see them on New Years Day (Ma!) or they all have partners and I’m allergic to being a gooseberry on NYE, that is depressing, I start missing Stef and generally being ‘why am I alone’ about my life and I refuse to spend the last hours of the old year and the first hours of the new being miserable about my life, because my life is good.

So I stay at home and spend quality time with myself and laugh at the neighbours setting fire to things. I feel that it’s a positive choice and it suits my introverted ways…

So folks, what are your plans? Allergic to the parties or spending NYE partying like you just don’t care?

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2013

On the last day of 2013, it’s probably time to think about how it went. I think it’s been a pretty good year.

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There was food and drink and time with people that I love

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Some stuff wasn’t great though, in July, Tina died and I know that I’ll never quite get used to a world that doesn’t have her in it, I’m grateful to have known her and the best tribute I can give her, is to get on with the job of living.

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What I’ve Read – December 2013

Black Heart – Holly Black

The last of the Curse Workers books. I really enjoyed them, I liked that there is no absolute good or bad and while I don’t think it’s a happy ending really, I like that it worked out. I also liked the way that what is normal for the world in the book would be off for real life. Always wearing gloves so that bare hands were shocking, it also meant that I spent a bit of time thinking how much that would suck and how smart phones would never have been invented!

Across a Star Swept Sea – Diana Peterfreund

Having loving For the Darkness Shows the Stars. Loved. I knew that a book set in the same world  but loosely based on The Scarlet Pimpernel instead of my beloved Persuasion, was going to be good but not as good as FTDSTS because it’s not FTDSTS! I really enjoyed it, there was a bit too much show not tell for me, but I liked it, I liked Justen and I liked Persis and I liked that as with FTDSTS there were left over things. The world wasn’t perfectly resolved because the main characters admitted they were attracted to each other.

The Bucolic Plague – Josh Kilmer-Purcell

This made me laugh out loud on the train in the morning. Easy and fun to read, I loved it, I loved that ultimately Kilmer-Purcell doesn’t take himself too seriously. In the book, he points out that the ‘story’ in a set of truths and I like that they made it work but also that he was honest about how manufactured ‘the perfect life’ is. It really made me want an allotment again!

This Boy – Alan Johnson

I’ve been meaning to read this for a while. Alan Johnson is a couple of years younger than my parents and grew up in West London. It’s not that far away from where my parents (and I) grew up, and know the areas that he’s talking about, that with some other stuff (he was born in the same hospital as my parents, his mother was cremated Kensal Green two years after my grandmother was, he’s a QPR fan) make it very ‘there but for the grace of God’ for me. He was 13 when his mother died, my mum was 14, so when he talks about his school not really being interested in the fact that his mother had died, I can believe it because of what I know of how my mother’s school responded when her mum died. Johnson is very straightforward about how awful his childhood was but he is rarely self pitying and he’s much nicer about his father than I would manage to be in similar circumstances. It’s not just about that though, Johnson is describing a world that’s gone a child growing up in those circumstances now, wouldn’t be able to end up as a cabinet minister. Worth reading.

The Bane Chronicles (6 to 9) – Cassandra Clare et al

I finally caught up on these. I like them, I like the backstory they give to Magnus and to the Shadowhunters world. This weekend when I was slightly brain dead, I liked that they were easy to read! They are probably only worth reading if you like the other books set in that world!

Hidden – Kelly Armstrong

Another short story and easy read. I gave up on the Otherworld series round about book 9 but it was nice to jump in for a short story!

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Weekend off..

This is usually the point of the week, where I post a list of housework-y tasks but it is Christmas and we’re in the part of the year that’s a bit floaty and not quite like normal life, so I’m giving myself a break.

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This weekend, the only things I have to do are make sure that I have clothes to wear and food to eat next week. Other than that, I’m going to spend some quiet time doing exactly what I want to do and not being too concerned about completing a to-do list.

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Have a good weekend, chaps and if you’d like, please tell me what your weekend plans are…

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Friday Links

Hello, it is Friday even though it feels like the weekend, I’m working today and I have a feeling I’m going to get a lot done because there won’t be any interruptions or emails to deal with!

I hope everyone had the Christmas that they wanted to have. I did! I got to spend two days with my families. My actual family on Christmas Day and the people that have become family on Boxing Day. It was lovely, I didn’t over eat or drink but even so, I feel like I could do with a rest from food and alcohol for at least a couple of days!

Links aren’t plentiful this week, I’ve hardly been near a computer since Tuesday..

1) Tom Watson is angry, so am I…

2) A cocktail a day is good for you! Told you so..

3) What do you eat on Christmas Eve? We have fish pie but because we like it, not because it’s a Catholic thing!

4) Perhaps atheism is an intellectual luxury for the wealthy. The last couple of paragraphs sum up my problem with Richard Dawkins, worth a read.

5) You are not a pet parent but a pet owner. Quite..

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Christmas

Ma and I are sitting in the sofa after a fairly hectic day and wondering how Laura manages to keep up with Oli. Highlight of the day was the wind up penguin races!

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The lovely thing about Christmas Day is that you can do whatever you like and call it tradition!

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The Night Before Christmas…

 

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Christmas decorations

On Friday I bought a Christmas tree and put up decorations.

The moral of the story is that I can’t be trusted to buy an appropriately sized Christmas tree for my living room, this is a big tree in my small living room, which had to be slightly re-organized.

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I was told by someone that shall remain nameless that I was very brave to go to the trouble of a Christmas tree when I didn’t have a family to decorate for. Yes, it was rude but I also found it kind of funny because having a tree is very important to me. I haven’t lived at home since I was 22 and I have always had a Christmas tree. The baubles on the tree were given to me or chosen by me.

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Sarah gave me this one.

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I bought this one but the tree that sits in the ‘fireplace’ every year came from Jo.

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Every year, I buy a tree and I hang the ornaments on it, ornaments that are meaningful to me because I picked them or was given them or I made them and every year it makes me happy.

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