Random

Hello and welcome to Friday..

1) The End of Pens. I really hope not but a lot of it is spot on. Also now I know that the remedial handwriting lessons I got at school were trying to teach me Vere Foster Civil Service Script.

2) Paper baubles. I’ve been planning on doing this, but not with old childrens books, every feeling rebels!

3) More on Israel’s strategy towards the Palestinians.

4) It’s a terrible thing when someone dies young and leaves children and partners behind. The one ray of light when Stef died was that we didn’t have to worry about money. Nic Hughes used to be involved in Grace and died of cancer last month. He had critical illness cover and insurance cover is refusing to pay out. The story is here. If you’d like to sign the petition, you can do so here.

 

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Apsley House

This week Ma and I have spent a lot of time in Apsley House. Home of the 1st Duke of Wellington, on Tuesday we did an English Heritage members tour and were allowed to take photos. Of course I only had the small camera with me! Today we’re going back for a carol concert..

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Gingerbread

Gingerbread is one of my favourite things to make. Which is a good thing because I make it quite a lot. It’s really simple, mostly make it in loaf form and it’s best if you leave it a couple of days after baking so the spice and the stickiness really develop. It also makes really great cupcakes either plain or iced, coffee flavour butter cream works well for some strange reason. It also freezes really well.

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The original recipe was in the Observer magazine about 15 years ago, if not longer and is from Sybil Kapoor, over time I’ve added to it, extra ground ginger and occasionally chopped glace ginger, which was an idea borrowed from Christelle’s aunt who makes a very different but equally good ginger cake. If you aren’t as much of a ginger fiend as I am, by all means dial back the ginger, the original recipe calls for 1 teaspoon of mixed spice and 3 teaspoons of ginger.  I’m also more flexible on the type of sugar, the original calls for demerara sugar but I’ve happily used brown caster sugar or just light brown sugar and it’s always worked it’s just maybe less sticky

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What (adapted from Sybil Kapoor)

225g plain flour

1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder

1/2 teaspoon bicarbonate of soda

1/2 teaspoon salt

7 heaped teaspoons ground ginger

2 heaped teaspoons mixed spice

200g glace ginger (optional)

285ml milk

1 egg

85g butter

85g golden syrup

85g treacle

115g brown sugar

How

1) Preheat the oven to Gas Mark 4/350F/180C. Line a 2lb loaf tin

2) Put the flour, spices and raising agents in a large bowl and mix together. If you’re using the glace ginger, put that in and make sure it’s covered in flour

3) Put the butter, sugar, treacle, syrup and butter in a small pan and melt together.

4) Add the egg to the milk and beat until sort of blended

5) Once the butter, sugar, treacle and have melted together, add to the flour and stir until combined.

6) Pour the milk and egg mixture into the flour and beat until it’s all combined.

7) Pour this runny mixture into the loaf tin and bake for an hour and half until the cake is firm and a toothpick comes out clean.

8) Once the loaf has cooled wrap the loaf and put it in a tin for a day or two to really let the flavour develop or eat it straight away if you absolutely must!

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Jillian

As you may have gathered from all the times I’ve mentioned it. Today is my mother’s birthday.

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I’ve mentioned it here before and to be honest there isn’t too much to add.

I am very close to Ma. Partly that’s because she’s awesome and we do like the same things.  Partly it’s circumstance, neither Ma and I have partners so often we do stuff together, including babysitting the boy!

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She’s a fantastic mother, I’ve always thought it was because her mother died when she was 14 and since then she’s pretty much been guessing how she should do it. Despite being a ‘baby boomer’ and having a gold plated pension (come on Ma, you know I was going to get that in!). She hasn’t had a very easy life, she didn’t have a mother at the time you really need it and she was married to my father for 20 years, which was not easy. I know that Ben and I while model citizens now have contributed hugely to her natural highlights!

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What I admire most about her, is that she never blames anyone else for the bad stuff, she always gets on and does what she has to do.

She’s worked full time for as long as I can remember and when it was difficult to do so. she says that you can have it all, you just have to sleep less! I’ve watched her nurse her father as he was dying and deliver a work project on time, to budget. She didn’t moan and if she felt put upon, she never said.

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This is not to say that she’s perfect, she is often convinced that she is right even on the rare occasions that she isn’t. However, she is never ashamed to say sorry and move forward. She doesn’t really cook but did win a baking contest when she was only 11 years old, something that she doesn’t like me to forget.

Ben, Laura, Oli and I are lucky to have her and are hopeful that she’ll make good on that threat to get to 100!

Happy Birthday Ma!

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The Weekend

This weekend started, as ever, with Friday Night pizza although this pizza was made with the help of Oli.

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Oli was a star and really good, we have him again next Friday, so here’s hoping that we have as much fun!

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Saturday was a day of doing stuff, washing, ironing, shopping, all the dull things that have to be done plus a trip to the opticians, where I was told not to wear my contacts for a week, to let the damage on the surface of my eye recover! Nice, I’m waiting for new contacts that should help and have some stuff to put in my eyes before bed.

I did get to see Kathy and Adam’s new house though! I also started the advent calendar!

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On Sunday, I had godchildren 2 to 5 for the afternoon, we made Christmas decorations and watched movies.

They’re very handy with a glue gun

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and making paper decorations..

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There may have been some fairy lights put up in the hall too..

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That’s pretty much it. Plans for this week are all about my mother’s birthday tomorrow. We’re off to the theatre tonight, to see Privates on Parade and tomorrow are off to Apsley House for a behind the scenes tour (Simon Russell Beale and the Duke of Wellington in the space of 48 hours, God help us!). I think that Wednesday night is the only night I’m home this week!

How was your weekend? What are you up to this week?

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Sunday Music

Passing Strangers – Billy Eckstine & Sarah Vaughan

This is one of my mother’s favourite songs and it’s her birthday this week.

It’s more than just one of Ma’s favourite songs though, it’s connected to her growing up and her cousin coming to stay and playing lots of Ella (ok, he was hiding having fled from national service – he may have spent more time in the ‘Glasshouse’ than actually completing his National Service). So I guess it’s about the things happen to you and your family and you pass on to your children, things that I don’t know enough about because my Grandma died too soon and my Grandad didn’t like to talk about it.

It’s about inheritance, which is a strange and changing thing, this song is one of the many things my Mum has given me.

Happy Birthday for Tuesday Ma xx

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Friday Night Cocktail

Each week, Class Magazine has a great list of what to drink based on what’s day it is! One of the suggestions was from The Savoy Cocktail Book, which I owe and it’s shamefully under used for FNC. Flicking through it, I came across the Morning Cocktail.

This feels like a 1930’s drink, one that should be drunk from tiny saucer type glasses preferably while bantering with the likes of Cary Grant!

I did make a couple of changes to the listed recipe, Pernod for absinthe because I don’t have any of the latter. I used Cointreau as that’s the form of curaçao/triple sec I have in the cupboard. I’m also lacking absinthe so subbed in Pernod. I’ve assumed that a dash is 2.5ml, except with the orange bitters where I used 2.5ml as two dashes, anymore seemed too much. The measuring for this is all over the place. One of the joys of a 70’s childhood is that float quite happily from Imperial to metric measurements!

Although I’m not sure that I could drink it or anything first thing in the morning, it deserves to be added to the list of ‘anti-fogmatics’ to offer to those that don’t drink Bloody Marys.

The Mid-Morning Cocktail (adapted from The Savoy Cocktail Book)

What

5ml Cointreau

2.5ml orange bitters

5ml maraschino

5ml Pernod

Half an oz brandy

Half an oz French vermouth

Cherry and lemon zest to garnish

How

1) Add ingredients to shaker filled with ice

2) Strain into a chilled cocktail glass

3) Garnish with cherry and zest

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Random

Welcome to Friday.

My day consists of company meeting this morning and family time with Oli and Ma this afternoon and evening.  We are going to make pizza and probably play with trains and trucks!

1) On creativity and content.

2) I have to confess I find the idea of missionary work strange.

3) Tony Conigliaro teaches James Bond how and what to drink!

4) The life of a mother and the life of a foetus are not the same thing

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Eight Years

No word today. It’s the 29th. Eight years.

Still miss him.

The godchildren and I are going to spend the afternoon together and then Michael and I are going to have a martini.

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Doing something useful

As I may have mentioned about a million times before, I am opposed to Christmas starting too early. However, I am thinking about Christmas, what presents I’m buying/making and for who, what food, what I need to do to make the house fit for Christmas.

In the midst of all this, I can’t but help of people who aren’t going to have a good Christmas, either because there isn’t any money for food and presents, or because they don’t have a home or for all of the other reasons that can make Christmas a nightmare.

So I’m going to make sure that as well as doing all the normal things I do to prepare for Christmas, I’m going to do something else. Three things in fact. Because I don’t live in fear of being hit, I have enough food to eat and I have somewhere to live. However bad my life seems, it could be so much worse and if there was a time to remember that and do something about it, it should be Christmas!  So, between now and Christmas, I will:

  • Buy a gift from the Refuge gift list. The gift list helps ensure that everyone in a Refuge home gets a Christmas present.
  • Donate food to the Trussell Trust foodbanks. There are collection points at Tesco’s next weekend.
  • Make a donation to Shelter.

It isn’t a lot but it is something.

 

 

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