Sunday Music

Delta Rae – Bottom of the River

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Friday Night Cocktail

I’ve written before about the sprit, triple sec, lemon juice combo and today’s drink is no exception. Only I decided to use gin, so that’s a white lady then. Except I’m not keen on putting egg white in things, mostly because shaking them becomes more tricky and seems like a waste of an egg.

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I did play about a bit with amounts and decided to add some Kamm and Sons to the mix. I liked it.

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What

10z gin

1oz lemon juice

1oz cointreau

1/2 oz Kamm and Sons

How

1) Add the ingredients into an ice filled shaker.

2) Shake and pour into a chilled coupe or cocktail glass.

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How

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Friday Links

Last week was mostly about the benefit cuts that the Govt are implementing. This Govt in a very real way are heirs to Thatcher and on Monday she died. She was the first female prime minster and her legacy is undeniable although we could argue about whether it was beneficial. That, paired with me spending two days out with another migraine, means that most of these links are about her…

1) This is what Hugo Young wrote about her in 1990, just after she resigned and I was surprised at how well it held up.

She was strong, but put excessive weight on strength. She accumulated more personal power than any peacetime prime minister in history and in that guise will interest the constitutional historians for many years. But she saw too little value in the art of compromise. Leadership, for her, was equated too often with the satisfaction of her will. How often, when challenged with being overmighty, did she deride the notion of a leader who gave precedence to other virtues than strength. She was a conviction politician, but too often scorned the reasoned statement of different convictions, sometimes by her closest colleagues. Argument she relished, as long as she won, but persuasion she neglected. Give-and-take and the other techniques of sweet reason were alien to her nature. This made for abrasive and often decisive government, but it was fatally disabling for any kind of collective leadership. For surprisingly many years, it wrought no lasting damage.

2) Margaret Thatcher and misapplied death etiquette.

But the key point is this: those who admire the deceased public figure (and their politics) aren’t silent at all. They are aggressively exploiting the emotions generated by the person’s death to create hagiography. Typifying these highly dubious claims about Thatcher was this (appropriately diplomatic) statement from President Obama: “The world has lost one of the great champions of freedom and liberty, and America has lost a true friend.” Those gushing depictions can be quite consequential, as it was for the week-long tidal wave of unbroken reverence that was heaped on Ronald Reagan upon his death, an episode that to this day shapes how Americans view him and the political ideas he symbolized. Demanding that no criticisms be voiced to counter that hagiography is to enable false history and a propagandistic whitewashing of bad acts, distortions that become quickly ossified and then endure by virtue of no opposition and the powerful emotions created by death. When a political leader dies, it is irresponsible in the extreme to demand that only praise be permitted but not criticisms.

3) Stan Collymore expresses my feelings about Mrs Thatcher perfectly

Do i believe she was a patriot? Yes.

Do i believe she was evil? No.

Do i believe that as Prime Minister she had the interests of all Britons at heart? No.

Her legacies ? She left Britain without equality. She left Britain a more selfish place. She killed off British Industry . She left Britain with an over reliance on financial markets. She killed the notion of camaraderie and community in Britain. She left many wealthier financially but many more poorer financially and morally

4) I find myself agreeing with Peter Oborne. Goodness what is the world coming to.

State occasions can only work if they bring the British people together as a nation. Most Conservatives will feel comfortable with Lady Thatcher’s funeral arrangements. But what about the many people who suffered terribly during the Thatcher years? Welsh miners or workers from the shattered manufacturing centres of northern England are every bit as British

5) Russell Brand as ever writes beautifully.

She would appear in public to drape a hankie over a model BA plane tailfin because she disliked the unpatriotic logo with which they’d replaced the union flag (maybe don’t privatise BA then), or to shuffle about some country pile arm in arm with a doddery Pinochet and tell us all what a fine fellow he was. It always irks when rightwing folk demonstrate in a familial or exclusive setting the values that they deny in a broader social context. They’re happy to share big windfall bonuses with their cronies, they’ll stick up for deposed dictator chums when they’re down on their luck, they’ll find opportunities in business for people they care about. I hope I’m not being reductive but it seems Thatcher’s time in power was solely spent diminishing the resources of those who had least for the advancement of those who had most. I know from my own indulgence in selfish behaviour that it’s much easier to get what you want if you remove from consideration the effect your actions will have on others. 

What have you read this week? Please leave any links in the comments!

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The Day in Food: Back on Track

Over the last couple of weeks, my eating has got a little bit less controlled and therefore a little bit less healthy.

I’m tired of saying it so I’m guessing that you’re tired of hearing it but it goes back to March being consumed by me being sick. One of the great things about health is that it’s a self sustaining loop. When I eat well and exercise a bit, then I’m less tired and more able to ensure that I’m planning to be healthy. Equally the hangover from feeling ill and tired for a month is that I just didn’t have the energy to sort out proper food prep or think about how I was going to feed myself. My goal was to make it through a day at work, go home, eat and go to bed. Although I’m better now, my planning has not been and it’s not been helped by the amazing amount of sweets, cake and chocolate that have been doing the rounds of the office since Easter.

Over this weekend, my eating was more restrained, I was busy enough that I only ate when I was hungry and I ate much less. This got me thinking about how much of my eating over March was about trying to stay awake and how much of my eating has beeb eating for the sake of it rather than because I’m hungry. I’m still pretty happy that it didn’t go totally mad but I can do better.

So my focus for this week has been to limit sugar, drink more liquid, eat less meat and get a bit more fruit and veg in my diet. This started on Monday.

Breakfast

tea/water with berroca/small glass apple juice/two egg cups/half a pepper/stick of celery

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Egg cups are so handy for workday breakfasts, I often pack them up and eat them at my desk in the morning (not the best way to eat breakfast but better than stopping for a pastry on the way to work!)

Lunch

pearl barley and chickpea salad/slice of banana bread/ Dr Pepper

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The salad is becoming one of my favourite, other that the chickpeas and pearl barley, there’s a courgette, some feta, roasted tomatoes, a mix of black and green olives and a lemony dressing. The additions stop it from being bland. The banana bread is the sugar I allow myself as is the Dr Pepper.

Snacks and drinks (eaten through the day)

lemon and ginger tea/water x 3

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plum/orange/a date bite

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applesauce/a date bite

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half a pepper/a carrot/5 cucumber slices/3 mushrooms

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Dinner

Leftover saute

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With sausage, black pudding, new potatoes, spinach and cabbage and leeks.

What are you eating this week?

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Thought for the Day

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If I knew where it was from I would tell you but I found in on my computer and thought it was apt.

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The Living Room

So now that it’s been painted, I thought that I’d show you how this room looks, though I feel I should apologise in advance for the photo quality.

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Because the flat is rented there are things that I can’t really change. The curtain pole and curtains (not pictured because they’re in the dry cleaners) came with the flat and while they aren’t hideous, they aren’t things I would have chosen.  At some point, I may get around to putting up new curtains but I can’t really do to much about the pole. In the same category are the lights, which aren’t really bright enough and are dated and ugly! I’m not someone who is good at ‘dressing’ spaces, I would like everything in my home to be both useful and beautiful and I’m happy to wait to find the right thing but I practically usually wins out for me.

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As far as I’m concerned walls can come in any colour provided that colour is white. Not beige, not magnolia (which fades really badly) but white. I understand that people think this is boring, but the living room has brown floors, a red brick fireplace, red chairs, pictures on the walls, lots of books on shelves and two pretty big plants. I think that’s enough colour.

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The Weekend

The Weekend started for me on Thursday night. Which means I was only at work 2 days last week! I wish I could say that I had a restful, lazy weekend. That was not the case!

On Friday, I went to Putney to meet Jo and Ms T for lunch. Tabitha is getting so big!

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Here she is showing me her ‘mean’ face

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I guess this is what happens if a 3 year old feels she hasn’t had enough chips!

On Friday night, I needed to clear the living room in preparation for painting it on Saturday. Until I had to move all the furniture and all the books, I didn’t think there was much in that room. I was wrong, I do have quite a few books..

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I also had to deal with this. Mould on the external wall, I’m blaming the really damp year we’ve had, nothing, houses, walls, lungs has had a chance to dry out and this is the result. It’s an easy enough fix, wash with bleach, leave to dry, paint with damp seal but I wanted to get that done before I went to bed so that we didn’t have to hang around waiting for it to dry.

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Saturday dawned beautiful and sunny. Ma came over about 10:30 and after some coffee, we started painting.

Amazingly we were done by 2pm. We then needed to give it 4 hours before we could move anything back. So we ate some cheese, I had a shower, I was covered in paint took the curtains to the dry cleaners and then went the dump and did some food shopping.

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After helping me move the furniture back in, Ma went home and left me to put the books and other stuff back in. I did this with some help from my friends gin and tonic!

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I didn’t get to bed until about 2am and didn’t really sleep in on Sunday morning either which is ridiculous. During the week, the alarm goes off at 6am and I can go straight back to sleep but at the weekend, I can’t! Anyway at about 8.30am, I gave up the fight for more sleep and got on with food prep and washing.

Sunday afternoon, was spent at the National Theatre, to see This House and my next book buying will probably be the Dominic Sandbrook’s books on Britain in the 70’s, I was (just) alive when this happened and I know the major stuff, minority Parliament, Hesletine swinging the mace around his head, no pairing, the Winter of Discontent and the rise of Thatcher in the Tory Party and Militant in Labour, but I don’t really know it, nothing more distant than the near past, I guess.

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What was interesting was listening to the ladies in front of me during the break. To understand the play you need to know something about Parliment and get our sense of humour.  The poor ladies in front of me were American and a lot confused for much of the play. Which is better than the lady behind me who was convinced that the Queen’s Silver Jubilee was in 1974 and didn’t have the excuse of being from another country (it was 1977!). There’s an NT live of this play on 16 May and if you can’t get to London or get tickets, it’s well worth seeing if there’s a cinema near you showing it (even if you’re not in the UK, there are loads of places outside of UK signed up to do it!)

After the play, Ma and I had a glass of wine (or two) and headed home.

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After a journey home that took much longer than usual (engineering works on the Piccadily line and no trains going through West Ealing – I’m a Londoner, I don’t drive, I am therefore obsessed with London’s transport infrastructure or lack of it!), I spent some time sorting myself out for Monday, I did what I could but I just ran out of time before bed!

It’s been a weird weekend that way, I’ve achieved loads and been very productive but at the same time I’m still behind on stuff. I need to spend a couple of evenings this week doing boring houseworky stuff so that I have clothes to wear this week.

That’s what I got up to. What did you do with the weekend?

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Friday Links

Happy Friday, I shall be spending the day sorting out the living room so I can paint it tomorrow and having lunch with Jo and Ms T. This weeks links are very political. You have been warned.

1) Willie Nelson being cool and calling for equal rights.

I never thought of  marriage as something only for men and women. But I’d never marry a guy I didn’t like.

2) 10 lies about welfare.

Some call these myths. I call them lies. We are being told lies about who caused this crisis and lied to about the best way out of it. But I know one thing to be true: this government’s polices will make millions of people poorer and more afraid. To do that when you do not have to, when there are other options, is obscene.

3) Zoe Williams on Wednesday’s Daily Mail headline. Just when you think they can’t get any worse..

In part, this is just what hardship does. Generosity drops away and distrust is amplified and embellished, to use as a fig leaf over a spirit of meanness. But the roots go back further than the financial crash, to the widening inequality that has had as its inevitable side-effect a growing and real suspicion between social groups, whose lives and circumstances bisected one another less and less.

4) Martin Rowson on class.

5) MP for Durham on what it’s like to live on very little indeed. I fed myself on £15 a month 2 years ago for nine-ish months. It was tough and I had all the cooking things I needed and a freezer. I also had family and friends who weren’t in the same boat and took me to dinner now and again and bought me the odd bottle of wine. But two years ago Sainsburys basic flour was 48p a packet and now it’s 65p, the cost of food has gone massively and given the weather last summer and this winter it’s not going to get any cheaper..

Most shocking of all was the fact that come Sunday I ran out of food—there was literally nothing left to eat that night. If Ministers are happy with the notion that 660,000 of our fellow citizens are literally not going to have enough to eat by the end of the week, all I can say is that I pity them because they have no pity and no conception of what they are going to do to the people in our constituencies who will be faced with this bedroom tax.

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On my mind..

1) Why do people say blog when they mean post? A blog is a collection of posts. This is a post on a blog. I keep saying it but language matters, get it right for the sake of my sanity.

2) Having a fringe requires more maintenance than I remembered.

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3) I need to take everything out of the living room on Friday so I can paint the room on Saturday.

4) This is one of the weeks when I agree with the world that I have too many books.

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5) Actually I just have too many things.

6) Where am I going to put the living room.

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7) I’ve only had a two day working week, why am I so tired?

8) I must ring Jo

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9) This post about foreign supermarkets, made me think about Cote d’Ivoire and the packaging in the supermarkets there.

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10) I feel like we’re in some kind of Games of Thrones universe, not so much winter is coming, more winter will never end.

11) I love it when the clocks go forward, why is everyone complaining?

What random things have been going through your head this week?

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The Weekend

This is a very late post because last night and most of today I had a migraine, not fun! So this is what I did over the Bank Holiday weekend..

On Friday, I did very little. Some sleep, some reading, I meditated my way through the Stations of the Cross because it was good Friday!). The idea was to have a restful day and then go to Ma’s for dinner. It didn’t happen because I felt so tired and grumpy, I think it’s a hangover from the sick I had all through March, so rather than inflict that on Ma, I stayed at home.

I was determined to do Saturday differently and bounced out of bed at 8am and started to  do stuff. Ma and I went to Jane’s to have haircuts and I decided it was time to have my fringe back.

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It feels really strange to have a fringe again and it feels odd that it’s strange, before I grew it out about 2 and half years ago, I’d pretty much always had a fringe so I can’t get my head around having one again!

Then Ma, I went to Homebase and bought all the paint and a new toilet seat because if you’re not living on the edge, you’re taking up too much room!

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We followed this up with a trip to M&S so Ma could buy some wine and we also completely failed to buy any lamb and so bought some whisky and champagne instead, it was the day of middle class shopping!

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That done, I spent Saturday evening, tidying up, putting the new toilet seat on so that’s a new skill I’ve acquired, and putting all the clocks forward.

On Sunday, we were due up in Watford for lunch for Laura’s birthday. Ben came and picked Ma and I from my house. Lunch was fun. Oli is such a boy. Give a three year old a crutch and it’s going to be a gun..

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Then he was a pirate..

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He did help his mummy blow out her candles though..

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Ma stayed with me on Sunday night, Monday was a quiet sorting myself out day and enjoying the fact the sun was shining.

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Feels like it’s been ages since we’ve seen the sun, it’s still freezing but I can live with that for a little while longer if the sun is shining.

How was your weekend?

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