Ordinary Beautiful Things

I love my flat. One of the reasons that I love my flat, is that it’s full of things I love. Things I’ve been given, that have meaning for lots of different reasons.  I’ve been thinking about those things recently and decided that when it occurs to me, I’m going to take a photo and put down why they are important to me…

First up

It’s a mug.  It’s lovely because my mum gave it to me on my 16th birthday and because it hasn’t been broken, chipped or otherwise damaged in the 20 plus years I’ve owned it (yep, I’m that old!).  I use it nearly every day.  There’s something about age and use that transforms objects from ordinary to precious and this mug which was nothing special to begin with, is now something I love.  I love this mug because it is familiar, I used this mug at home when I lived with my parents, when I moved out, when I moved back home, when I moved out again to live with Craig and when I moved to my own flat. It’s seen me through bad choices and hangovers, now I use it for herbal tea.  Stef used it (a measure of how much I trusted him, because no-one other than me uses it!).

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Oliver

As I’m sure everyone who knows me is aware, I love being an aunt. Oliver is a great kid and I am amazed that Ben and Laura trust me to watch him when they are doing stuff but always delighted to spend time with him. Last Saturday was one of those times, Lu was away at a hen day/night and Ben was in Shepherds Bush to watch his beloved Queens Park Rangers on the last game of the season and watch them celebrate winning the Championship (or Division 2 as I still like to call it!) and get promoted to the Premiership (which means I can guarantee at least 2 days next season where Ben and I can’t/won’t/shouldn’t talk to one another). Football is serious stuff.

Anyway Oliver.

He is absolutely the easiest child in the world to babysit.  He’s pretty cheerful and always on the go, so you do have to be able to keep up. He adores his mum and dad and will make a bit of a fuss when they go but it doesn’t last long and he is easily distracted by a banana! He is, to quote his thoroughly besotted Grandma, ‘a lovely boy’.

I completely agree….

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10K or die

Last year, I ran a 10k.  Other than the weekly personal training, I didn’t really train for it. I did it in 1hr 22mins. My mother ran it in 1hr 19mins (for those of you that don’t know the feeling of being beaten in a race by your mother, it’s a not good feeling…).

Due to not having a permanent job at the moment, I’m not doing the personal training and due to Easter and other celebrations, I’m out of shape.  Jem (the personal trainer) has been nagging Ma and me to sign up for another one and two weeks ago we did.

So on 17th July, I will be running 10k, hopefully in 1hr 10mins or less.  If I want to do that, I have to train.  So I’ve started using the Couch to 10k app, I love this as it tells me when to run, when to walk and when to stop and makes training outside and by myself that much easier. It almost gives me the willpower not to stop when I think it’s too hard.

I’ve also got to grips with my diet and have stopped drinking booze for a couple of weeks. This isn’t a permanent thing, I love manhattans far too much to give them up forever. However, I have noticed that my drinking has increased since Christmas. I rarely drink to excess, I’m never drunk, or hungover the next day but I have had a glass or two every day and what I notice about drinking, is that when I have a glass of wine, my food choices are poor and my motivation to exercise is lower, which doesn’t help with the healthy life style or fitting into my clothes.

What I really want is to be one of those runners, you know the ones, those guys in the park who run past you, looking comfortable and not wheezing from the effort.  Starting is the only way to get there, so 10k or die…

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Easter Morning..

Yes this is very late…For Easter morning we (the people in Grace still in London and well enough to get up at ridiculous o’clock in the morning) went to Hampstead Heath to watch the sunrise for Easter.

This wasn’t very novel as there were two other groups on the hill (one with a guitar). However, there was a mini service and this being Grace, cameras (remember folks if there isn’t a photo of a service it didn’t happen…)

It was good to do and worth being wiped out the next day for…

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God’s Not Fair

This month’s Grace happens on Saturday 14th May and I’m curating! Gulp.

The pictures are by a friend of Jonny’s who has drawn a set of beautiful illustrations based on Job called Rage and Despair.  Curating has been / is a huge leap out of my comfort zone and my mantra has been the worst it can be is a disaster!

If you’re around Ealing next Saturday, come along and see what we came up with!

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Rocket Pesto

My new favourite food, really easy to make and versatile…I found it in the Vicar’s Wife Cook Book by Elisa Beynon and of course have adapted it slightly

70g parmesan
50g pine nuts
100ml olive oil
2/3 cloves of garlic
140g rocket
juice of half a lemon

In a frying pan, toast the pine nuts lightly over a medium heat, tossing them around the pan for time to time. Tip out onto a plate and once cool put them in a food processor with the garlic. (use the small bowl.) Add grated parmesan, rocket (or as much as you can fit) and third of the olive oil. Add lemon juice. Blend until it’s all amalgamated, then gradually add more oil until it’s sloppy but not runny. Taste and add salt if you think it needs it!

Favourite uses for this pesto are:

1) Mixed with pasta and prawns as recommended by Elisa Benyon

2) On pizza dough for pesto flat bread or as an alternative to tomato sauce on pizza

3) On roast chicken like so:

4) Over boiled new potatoes

I’m sure I’ll think of other ways to use it and I’m sure you can too!

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Week in pictures

Monday

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Me

This year I realised that my mother has more photos of my sister-in-law than me in her house (competitive? not at all). My godchildren were also doing a project on the adults in their life and wanted a photo. I really don’t enjoy having my photo taken and avoid it if I can! Heather has a project this year to take 2 photos a day, one of herself and one random and she posts them at Then Heather Tumbld.  Although I’m no way near ready to commit to a project like that I have been trying to use my camera more and trying to take more photos of myself, so I can sneak some into Ma’s house!

This is how I’ve done so far..

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What I’ve Read – April 2011


25. Matched – Ally Condie
Lots of dystopia in YA fiction nowadays. This is set in a world where everything, what you eat, what you do, who you marry is decided by the Society. Being YA, you get told who you are going to marry when you turn 16. Cassia is told that it will be her best friend Xander, but is it or is it the other boy, Ky? I didn’t much care for the romance side of this book. I was fascinated by the world. A world where there are only 100 songs, paintings, books, poems. Where your food is delivered to you to give you exactly the nutrition you need. Where you are put to sleep when you turn 80. It’s a world designed for you so you don’t think and only do. There is a 2nd book planned so I’m guessing that this is where we’ll see the references to the fight and the sense that the Society is breaking down.

26. 13 Little Blue Envelopes – Maureen Johnson
Another Maureen Johnson! As always it was good. I was a little weirded when Ginny was in London. It’s odd to see your city described from an alien point of view. I liked this and ended up buying it (along with Anna and the French Kiss) for Taylor, who is 15. Bizarrely enough I bought Suite Scarlett for her 13 year old sister in Feb – Maureen Johnson for all the family!!

27. My Swordhand is Singing – Marcus Sedgwick
I loved this. As you probably have already worked out, I love YA but I have this gap of reading for boys, which I really need to get a grip on as I godchildren 3 and 5 are boys and I have a nephew. This was I don’t really have words. It had a real sense of menace and cold. It also doesn’t really explain anything, it just happens and you have to work it out along with Peter. Really loved it.

28. Linger – Maggie Shiefvater
I didn’t love this. This is a sequel to Shiver, which I liked enough to pick this up, I loved both Ballad and Lament but this just didn’t really do it for me. I didn’t really care what happened to the main characters. What I did like is the way that Grace’s parents who were just neglectful in Shiver, started with the heavy handed parenting and there was no resolution for that. Sometimes adults are just not nice, not villians, just selfish and blind and Stiefvater did a great conveying that!

29. City of Fallen Angels – Cassie Clare
It’s Cassandra Clare, she clearly doesn’t believe in happy endings and these characters aren’t gonna get them. Other than that and it’s going to be a while before the next book is released. It’s Cassandra Clare, it’s fast, funny, easy to read but will stand re-reading.

30. Out of the Silent Planet – CS Lewis
Time for a confession, I haven’t read the Narnia books. I know. It goes something like: Ma didn’t like them, she never bought them for us and like Star Wars, it just got overlooked. I had the Magicians Nephew read to me and the rest of my class when I was about 8 and I have a vague recollection of reading A Horse and his Boy when I was about 9 but it didn’t really stick. I haven’t read any of his theological works either. Which leads me to this. It reminds me of Brave New World. It’s so of it’s time, and he got that whole thing about space being hot really wrong!! It was interesting and I liked the idea but it felt like South Riding as science fiction to me although it was shorter and I could see what he was trying to do so not as painful.

31. Will Grayson, Will Grayson – John Green & David Levithan
Loved, loved, loved this book. I loved that being gay wasn’t the issue. There were people, they were gay, there was stuff that they had to deal with but there was nothing wrong with being gay. It was also love out loud funny, I have been quoting some it for a while now! In the acknowledgements is this: “We acknowledge that being the person God made you cannot separate you from God’s love”. Couldn’t have put it any better myself!

32. A Game of Thrones – George R. R. Martin
I really wasn’t sure about this, there has been some hype about it due to the TV series but as I don’t have a TV that shouldn’t have been a problem. However, a friend who does have a TV and has read the book, raves about it. So I started and after the first couple of chapters (which I couldn’t read with the radio on because it was too confusing!) I really got into and will be reading the others. Lots of showing, not much telling whoever says genre fiction can’t be compelling and twisty and well written needs to read this or slapping…

33. Divergent – Veronica Roth
I need to stop with the dystopia for a bit before I burn out. However, I did enjoy this one and I’m interested to see Veronica Roth is going to take it in the next one. There were moments when I had to suspend belief but it’s one I’ll be passing on to the teenagers..

There you have it. My April in book form…

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Not a health food…

This weekend was the weekend of carrot cake.

Adam had a birthday party on Saturday and I made him a birthday cake

On Sunday Jo and Tabitha came to lunch. Tabitha (all of 15 months) is fussy about most food. However, she will always eat cake! I’m not surprised, her mother is the queen of cake. Much of our friendship has been based on cake and cooking. I went all the way to Africa to see Jo and we made cake and a roast dinner (’cause that’s what you do in sub Saharan Africa, it was very English!). Anyway, back to Sunday afternoon. I needed to make cake and I had all the ingredients for carrot cake and some left over frosting, however, a big cake isn’t very Tabitha friendly so cupcakes were the answer.

At this point, I should confess that carrot cake and I have a very rocky history. I have made it in the past but it’s always been a bit meh. I came across a recipe from the US that looked about right but didn’t have enough carrot or cinnamon or any raisins. I changed that and this is now my go to carrot cake recipe and it’s really easy.

Carrot Cake
4 eggs
2 cups sugar
1 cup sunflower oil
2 cups flour
1 teaspoon bicarb
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
3 heaped teaspoons cinnamon
3 cups grated carrot
2/3 cup raisins

Beat the eggs, sugar and sunflower oil together.

Add flour, bicarb, baking powder, salt and cinnamon, mix together.

Add carrots and raisins, mix together. Then they are ready for the oven. At this point you can put the batter in whatever baking tin you want. I have used cupcakes, 2 8-inch pans to make a more traditional cake or a 12-inch square tin. All that varies is the cooking time, oven at 180°C/Gas Mark 4.  Cupcakes take about 15-20 minutes, 8-inch pans take about 25-30 minutes and the 12-inch pan takes about 40-45 minutes.  (Please note this is in my oven which runs hot)

The frosting is something, else entirely. You can make it in advance, but do not try and frost the cake until it is completely cool. Put the cake in the freezer or fridge if you need it in a hurry, but if you frost and the cake is cool, the frosting will melt. Learn from my experience..

Frosting

1 cup milk
5 tablespoons of milk
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
4oz butter
1 cup sugar

Put the milk and flour in a pan and heat through. Stir until it becomes a thick paste. Take off heat and leave to cool. Once it’s cool, add the vanilla and stir in.
Cream the butter and sugar together until it’s light and fluffy. (I don’t have a mixer dammit so I do this with my trusty electric whisk but if you have a Kitchen Aid or similar use it here!)
Add the flour mixture and beat together. If it doesn’t look right, keep mixing it.

Frost your cake, eat!

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